Time Management: Advice from the Quran and Pop Culture

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DANIEL NEHEMIAH OLIVER Time Management Life is like a treadmill: [people] runnin’ in place, gettin’ nowhere fast; a whole year done passed… -Jay-Z

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What is the value of time? How can I get more from it. The answers are everywhere. This presentation will take you from Wu-Tang to the Quran to the Rolling Stones to find the answers.

Transcript of Time Management: Advice from the Quran and Pop Culture

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DANIEL NEHEMIAH OLIVER

Time Management

Life is like a treadmill: [people] runnin’ in place,gettin’ nowhere fast; a whole year done passed…-Jay-Z

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Dedication

Dedicated to the memories of

William Lamont Lemon, my uncle

Benjamin Gardner, my friend

and Jeremy Rees, my colleague

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An Interesting Note about Time

1. By the (oath of) time:

2. Verily mankind is in loss,

3. Except those who affirm (the truth), and do good deeds, and advise one another to truth, and advise one another to patience.

-Qur-an 103

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Why swear by time that there is loss?

Why not family, for example? You never really lose your family… And do not consider those killed in Allah’s path to be

dead; No, they are alive… Qur-an 3.169

And We gave him (Job/Ayyoob) his family and it’s equal beside it… Qur-an 38.43

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Why swear by time that there is loss?

Why not money? You can always make more money

Just ask Donald Trump

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Why swear by time that there is loss?

What is the connection between time and loss?

Time is what we lose by With each passing moment we lose another

chance……to get ahead…

• …to achieve…… to live…

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How do we lose by time?

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Procrastination

Time is on my side, yes it is… The Rolling Stones

Was it really?

Keith Richards,Rolling Stones

Keith Richards,Rolling Stones

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Procrastination

Tomorrow’s just an excuse…-Smashing Pumpkins

Can’t live for tomorrow: I might not have that long…

-Smashing Pumpkins

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Television

If you watch 3 hours a day, you watch:• 21 hours weekly = 1 day/week

91 hours monthly = 4 days/month 1095 hours annually = 1.5 months/year

75,555 hours in a 69-year lifespan = 8.5 years/lifetime!!

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Internet, Video Games, Mobile Phones

Think about it…

How much time do you spend?

What else could you be doing?

What else SHOULD you be doing?

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Music

And as for the poets, only the deluded follow them. Don’t you all see how they stray bewildered through

every valley, and that they say that which they do not do?

-Qur-an 26.224-226

Aren’t singers, rappers and songwriters the poets of our generation?

Look at the lost lives they lead, and the fantasies they fill you with…

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Bob MarleySinger/Songwriter (POET)Claimed Haile Selassie was God(Haile Selassie claimed Jesus was God)Fathered 6-8 children through extra- marital affairs

South Park MexicanChristian-turned-gangsta rapper (POET)In prison for sexual assault……of a 9 year old…

Kurt Cobain (Nirvana)Singer/Songwriter (POET) Committed suicide after years of heroin addiction

Amy WinehouseSinger/Songwriter (POET) Said no to rehab

Pimp C (UGK)Rapper/Songwriter (POET)Died from overdose……of cough syrup

Some of our generation’s poets…

TupacGangsta (?) Rapper/Songwriter (POET)Name was MC New Yorkbefore starting beef with East CoastMurdered at age 25

Janis JoplinSinger/Songwriter (POET)Died of heroin overdose

Eazy ERapper/Songwriter (POET)Fathered 7 children by 6 womenDied of AIDS

Dr. DreGangsta (?) rapper/producer/songwriter (POET)‘nuff said…

Fat PatRapper/Songwriter (POET)Murdered at age 27

DJ ScrewProducer/Rapper (POET)Died of drug overdose at 29

Sid Vicious (Sex Pistols)Bassist/Songwriter (POET)Died of heroin overdose at 21

Notorious B.I.G.Rapper/Songwriter (POET)Murdered at 24

Ozzy OsbourneSinger/Songwriter (POET)Look closely...He’s biting a bat’s head off…

Will their words lead you anywhere worthwhile?

George ClintonSinger/Songwriter (POET)Lifetime drug user

Ol’ Dirty BastardRapper/Songwriter (POET)Father of 13Arrested and imprisoned several times, including for failure to pay child supportDied of drug overdose

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But don’t take my word for it…

…see what modern poets say about themselves…

I’m an idiot, a loser…-Limp Bizkit

When I die… I wanna go to hell,‘cuz I’m a piece of ____ and it aint hard to tell…

- The Notorious B.I.G.

I’m a liar and I’m a thief…

I think I’m dumb…

I hate myself and I want to die… -Kurt Cobain (Nirvana)

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The believers have surely succeeded:

…those who turn away from useless, evil speech…

- Qur-an 23.1,3

Music = Poetry = A waste of time

It is better for one of you to fill his body with pus

than to fill it with poetry…

- Muhammad (May Allah bless him and grant him peace)

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“Love” (Romance & Dating)

What is “love”? It’s deception.

"Hey, baby, you're the only one I'm on"

They kick a few lines from a slow song

Havin’ you thinkin’ you got it goin’ on so strong

and can't nothin’ in this world go wrong

They say, "Baby, I'm yours

So go and close the bedroom door”

Make sure the blinds are closed

to keep you comin' up out your clothes

The next day they don't know you no more-Tré of Mo Thugs

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“Love” (Romance & Dating)

What is “love”? It’s self-deception.

If my girlfriend think I’m loyal

then that _____ is a fool.

-Big L

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“Love” (Romance & Dating)

What is “love”? It’s delusion.

subsequent to beautyin between our lies and our illusions lies realitythe eyes that cry once seemed so high but now they see: the game we all were playing ends in shame and blame and pain comes pouring down like rain

- Daniel Nehemiah Oliver

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“Love” (Romance & Dating)

What is love? It’s an investment with no return.

Eleven years I sacrificed And you just leave me at the drop of a dime…

- Mary J. Blige

Be careful where you invest your time…

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Sleep Habits

And (have we not) made the night as a covering, and the day as livelihood?

Qur-an 78.10-11

Driving sleepy is like driving drunk…

…inability to focus……forgetfulness……irritability……lack of coordination…

What about doing other things sleepy, like working or studying?

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Hurrying

Mistakes make you waste more time than you hope to save…

Slow but steady wins the race…

I need to slow down movin’ through life at a high speed and watchin’ all these slow runners pass by me… - Mobb Deep

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Hurrying

Have patience, have patience: don’t be in such a hurryWhen you get impatient you only start to worryRemember, remember: Allah is Patient, tooSo think of all the times that others have to wait on you

- Children’s song

Thoughtfulness is from Allah

and haste is from satan…

- Prophet Muhammad (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him)

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How can we gain by time?

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Set and Check Goals

Daily Every night, before you sleep, ask:

What do I want to accomplish tomorrow? Did I achieve my goals from yesterday?

Why not?

Long-term What’s your 20-year plan?

It’s a point you must walk towards……not a world you’ll wake up from a dream to…

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Make a Schedule

Buy a daily planner Keep in mind all that you need to be doing

You don’t have time to waste time…

Keep a calendar Don’t lose sight of long-term goals

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Role Models

Noah/Nooh

In his lifetime, he built a ship that could hold 2 of every species

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Role Models

Ibn ul-Qayyim

Wrote Zad ul-Ma’ad in a few weeks’ time

Zad ul-Ma’ad is an important ancient book that is thousands of pages

What have you accomplished with the last few weeks?

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Role Models

Bill Gates

Started Microsoft at 20

He started another company at 45 to help give his money away…

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Role Models

Eleanor Oliver

Mastered a 2nd language at 9 Graduated from high school at 16 Graduated from college at 19 4.0 Masters GPA

How old are you?What have you accomplished?

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Expect More of Yourself

Life is what you make it...,

I’ma make it,

No matter what it takes…,

we gonna take it…

-Nas & DMX

You can't party your life away

drink your life away

smoke your life away

f___ your life away

dream your life away

scheme your life away:

‘cause your seeds grow up the same way

- The Wu-Tang Clan

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Settle for Excellence, not Excuses

Spectate or make a movehesitate or regulateit’s on you… -Mobb Deep

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Check your Level of Sincerity

You can have it all

but how much do you want it? -Oasis

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Establish the 5 Daily Prayers

Give everyday a regular schedule of fixed unitsSchedule and time your tasks between regular

breaks

Verily the prayer is written and scheduled for the believers … Qur-an 4.103

O ye who believe! When the call is proclaimed to prayer on the Day of Assembly, hurry to the Remembrance of Allah, and leave off business….

And when the prayer is ended, then disperse throughout the land and seek of Allah's bounty… Quran 62.9-10

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Establish the 5 Daily Prayers

Use the prayers to start a healthy, productive sleep schedule:

Sleep after ‘Isha (Night Prayer), NOT after Fajr (Morning prayer)

The prayer is better than sleep!-Call to Morning Prayer

After all…

Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.-Benjamin Franklin

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Carpe Diem

Take advantage of five before five :

your youth, before you get old;

and your health, before you get sick;

and your wealth, before you are poor;

and your free time, before you are busy;

and your life, before your death.

-Prophet Muhammad (May Allah bless him and grant him peace)

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Yesterday’s Tomorrow

When did the sunset close above me?Was it as two lips pour’d the poison of the day?How did the moonlit morning flow through me?This was yesterday’s

tomorroweveryday

I listen to the spring verve in silenceI watch raindrops fall and trickle towards the bayI hear the summer’s song- so soothingThis was yesterday’s Tomorrow everyday

Message: Today was tomorrow when you thought about it yesterday. Everyday is another day’s tomorrow, so when you start to wait for tomorrow, remember that it’s already here…

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Al-Fajr

I know when you wake up each morning you say,“It’s just another day.”You yawn and you stretch, you blink and you scratch,“Another day, another dollar- a dollar before tax.”Your eyes and ears focus on the clock as it’s tickingAs each moment passes, do you feel your life slipping?

WAKE UP

You’ve lost time, which isn’t money: it’s LIFE and what’s funny is whether you grasped

it or threw it awayit’s gone; so benefit before you decay

GET UP

Do you know where you’re going or if you’ll get there?The truth of the matter is: you should be scaredBut what’s out of your sightAnd off of your mindIs the same thing keeping you

blind

FACE UP

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The End

It’s a trip you’re here todaybut the next day you’re gone… -UGK

*Note: The author doesn’t listen to music anymore All lyrics are quoted from memory

The signs are everywhere…

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