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Thriving in Our Profession: Mastering Resilience

MBA Bench Bar & Boardroom

May 2015

Linda Warren Seely JD

Kathy Story MA JD

Story Consulting and Coaching

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At Our Best

Recall a time when you were at your best in your work.

Share three words or phrases to describe that experience with your partner.

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We get more of

what we focus on

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Resilience

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SelfAwareness

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Resilience Skills

The Resilience Triangle

• Strengths• Energy Sources and Sappers

• Restorative Activities• Mindfulness• Learned Optimism• Feedback• Networking• Learning Journal• Gratitude Journal

Finding Meaning

Connecting

Positive Framing

Managing Energy

Enga

ging

Engaging

Engaging

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Meaning

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Signature Strength:Feels true to selfCan’t help but use itMotivation intrinsicFeel energized

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Job Crafting

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Don't ask yourself what the world needs;

ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go do that.

Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.

Dr. Howard Thurman

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Managing Energy

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Restorative Power of Nature

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FLOW

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When I am in New York,

I want to be in Europe, and when I

am in Europe, I want to be

in New York.Woody Allen

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Managing Energy

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Positive Framing

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Optimists

see life more realistically

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Pessimism &DownwardSpiral Thinking:

Rumination,WastesEnergy

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Learned Optimism

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Gratitude Journal

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Positive Framing

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Connecting

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Relationships: Trust

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Emotions are Contagious

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Connecting

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Engagement

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Burnout occurs when we lose

touch with our own personal and professional development

Robert Kegan, Ph.D.Harvard

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Engagement

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What has become

clearer to you about

resilience

since we began

our work together?