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One foreign couple who chose Singapore for theirbig day is Ms Aigerim Yussubaliyeva, 28, and MrMaratbek Ospanov (both below), 31, from the cen-tral Asian country of Kazakhstan.
Kazakhstan may sound an exciting destinationto Singaporeans, but for Ms Yussubaliyeva, “exo-tic” is the word she uses to de-scribe Singapore.
She and her husband, an ITdevelopment manager, held theirwedding celebrations here inMarch two years ago. They spentmore than $50,000 on the event,which was held on a yacht offChangi Sailing Club.
The management consultantat accounting firm Pricewater-houseCoopers says: “We wantedan unusual wedding and since wehave travelled frequently toEurope, we decided to explore oth-er parts of Asia.”
They picked Singapore as theythought it would be easier to or-ganise a wedding in a developedcountry. The one-day ceremonyconsisted of an exchange of vowsceremony, which was translatedinto Russian, followed by asix-course international cuisine dinner on theyacht.
The couple settled the legal marriage paperworkin their home country one week after their celebra-tions here. Ms Yussubaliyeva says: “Dealing withthe marriage paperwork in another country is quitetroublesome, as it can take months and we may
need to get some documents translated.”Instead, the couple opted for a “10-day
fun-filled holiday celebration” here for their 10 fam-ily members. They also visited attractions such asthe Singapore Zoo and Underwater World as “itwas quite easy to navigate around Singapore by our-
selves”.They flew to Singapore five days
before their family membersarrived, to check on the weddingpreparations, including meetingtheir wedding consultant, Ms EstaGiam, 40, from wedding planningfirm Truly Harmony. It was the firsttime they had met during thetwo-month planning process.
The couple even bought theirwedding band from Lee Hwa Jewel-lery. “We were told that Marat’s fin-gers were European-size and toolarge to be fitted into most rings,”she says. “Thankfully, the only ringwe liked in the store came in hissize.”
With the Internet as their bestfriend, the resourceful couplefound a two-piece guitar group,Khairi And Partner, which playedacoustic hits on the yacht.
The challenge in planning a wedding fromabroad was not having sufficient information onthe local service providers.
Ms Yussubaliyeva says: “A lot of the planningwas based on trust, as we liaised with most peopleover the phone and most of the services were paidbeforehand.”
Kazakh bash on a yacht off Changi
Kenneth Goh
Dubai-based Ling Ling Huynh, 30, is no ordi-nary tourist to Singapore. She hand-carriedher 7kg wedding gown by Los Angelesdesigner Monique lhuillier in a zipped bagon a flight from Dubai to get married here
in February.The French-born underwriter who is of Cambodian-
Chinese parentage recalls: “The dress was not heavy toput on, but carrying it was certainly heavy.” She tiedthe knot with Sri Lankan-born Jehan Dias, 33, completewith a marriage solemnisation ceremony here.
The couple are part of a small but steady group offoreigners choosing to get hitched in Singapore. Someare also opting for the little red dot just for the weddingreception or dinner, or for their pre-wedding shots.
Wedding planners and photographers say the Inter-net has made it easier for overseas clients to make sucharrangements.
Singapore is a wedding hot spot because of its con-venient location for guests flying in from different conti-nents. And its shiny cityscape, quaint shophouses andtropical scenery make great wedding backdrops.
All this translates to increased takings for those inSingapore’s booming wedding industry, such as wed-ding planners, venue operators and photographers.
Couples usually engage a local wedding planner,online or through word of mouth recommendation,who will take care of the nitty gritty, from the bookingof banquet venues to the design of invitation cards.
Most wedding planners whom LifeStyle spoke to saythey usually receive up to five such clients a year, withthe number being stable for the past three years. Whilemost of these clients hail from Asian markets such asHong Kong, Indonesia and Japan, they also receive afair share of clients from Europe and the United States.
A typical wedding event can range from a dinner par-ty of 10 to a full-blown two-day wedding celebrationconsisting of a rehearsal dinner, pre-wedding party, theactual ceremony and even a post-wedding party, with300 friends and family in attendance.
A spokesman for Capella Hotel in Sentosa says thehotel hosted six couples from overseas last year andthree so far this year. Grand Copthrone Waterfronthotel in Havelock Road saw 15 such weddings last year.
These wedding banquets usually range from $15,000to $90,000, with most couples opting for a solemnisa-tion ceremony followed by a sit-down dinner or
buffet-style banquet.Ms Huynh and Mr Dias followed that pattern for
their vintage-themed nuptials. They declined to revealhow much they spent. The couple, who work in thereinsurance industry, held a Catholic wedding ceremo-ny at Church of St Teresa in Kampong Bahru Road, fol-lowed by a Chinese tea ceremony and a five-course,fusion-style wedding banquet at Capella Hotel.
More than 70 per cent of their 120 wedding guestsflew in from countries including Switzerland, Franceand Sri Lanka to attend the one-day celebration.
It was not just Singapore’s convenient location thatappealed to the happy couple, it is where they first metthree years ago as colleagues in a reinsurance firm, be-fore they relocated to Dubai.
To organise their wedding celebrations,they hired Ms Kim Tay, 34, founder of wed-ding planning firm Wedding Concierge,which sees around four such clients a year.
Although most wedding materials, suchas keepsakes for guests and the ceremonialtea set were already in Singapore, packingwas a hectic process, Mr Dias recalls. “Wewere quite anxious as we had to make surewe did not miss out any details.”
With couples and wedding plannersseparated by oceans, trust is important.The planning stage can last two months toa year, with most details discussed overe-mail messages and phone calls.
Ms Huynh and Mr Dias jetted herethree times prior to their nuptials. Besidesmeeting Ms Tay, they also checked outtheir rented wedding car – a 1950 whiteVolkswagen Beetle – and attendedfood-tasting sessions to customise theirhotel banquet menu.
Just like local couples, they needed toapply for a marriage licence from the Registry of Mar-riages and had to have the solemnisation ceremonypresided over by a licensed solemniser, who can in-clude grassroots leaders and Justices of Peace. Accord-ing to the registry, either one of the marrying partyneeds to be physically present in Singapore for at least15 continuous days to file a notice of marriage.
Mr Dias stayed at a friend’s home on the east coastfor more than two weeks last October without hisfiancee to observe this ruling. The couple receivedtheir marriage licence at the registry during the weekthat they arrived here to get married.
However, some couples choose to settle the legalmarriage paperwork in their home countries, as it istoo much of a hassle in a foreign country.
Besides Singapore being a venue for weddings,some couples fly in just for their pre-wedding photoshoots. Unlike those who hold their weddings here,most of these couples do not fly in specially for theseshoots. They usually tie in these sessions with shortholiday trips, or for work purposes.
Tourist sites, such as the Marina Bay Sands and theMerlion, are popular backdrops.
Mr Seah Yu Hsin, 40, a partner at Tinydot Photogra-phy, says: “They take up to three days out from theirschedules here to take pre-wedding photographs,which can last up to five hours a day.” These shootsrange from $1,000 to $5,000, which does not include
services such as make-up and costume changes.Some couples are drawn to heritage sites. Mr Sher-
win Lee, 33, executive director of Dowed who co-ordinates such shoots, says: “Some are interested intaking photos in front of old shophouses in Little In-dia, as they can showcase Singapore’s unique cultureto their friends back home.”
One such couple are Filipinos Bryan and MarichuSabroso, both 31, who took their pre-wedding photo-graphs two years ago.
The couple took a whirlwind 10-day holiday trip toCambodia, Singapore, Thailand and Malaysia. In Sin-gapore, Mr Sabroso, who is based in Bangkok andworks with the United Nations, decided to spring a sur-prise. He hired photographer Melvin Lau from Multi-folds Photography for a day.
The couple had their photos taken at the Padangand Merlion Park. Mrs Sabroso, a network engineer,says: “My friends fell in love with the photographsand wanted to visit those places which were featuredin the photographs.
“It made my first trip to Singapore even more mem-orable. We had so much fun jumping with the Mer-lion in the background. Some tourists even copied ourmoves.”
PHOTO: LIVESTUDIOS
PHOTOS: COURTESY OF JEHAN DIAS AND LING LING HUYNH/LIGHTEDPIXELS PHOTOGRAPHY, COURTESY OF BRYAN AND MARICHU SABROSO/MULTIFOLDS PHOTOGRAPHY
Dubai-based couple Jehan Dias and Ling Ling Huynh (above) held their church wedding, tea ceremony and banquet in Singapore, while Filipinos Bryan and Marichu Sabroso (below)picked the Republic as the location for their pre-wedding photo shoot.
Foreigners are choosing Singaporefor their wedding celebrationor photo shoot, drawn to thecentral location and great scenery
My big day in the little red dot
4 hotthesundaytimes April 1, 2012