The River Rushes On
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The River Rushes On. The Power of the River Making Connections and Change Tom Cody, Willow Sweeney and Paul Bernabei. Top 20 Training’s Mission: To enable people to discover their inner power to reach their potential and make a positive difference in their lives and the lives of others. - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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The River Rushes On
The Power of the RiverMaking Connections and Change
Tom Cody, Willow Sweeney and Paul Bernabei
Top 20 Training’s Mission:
To enable people to discover their inner power to reach their potential and make a positive difference in their lives and the lives of others.
Why Are We Here?
1.To enhance the lives of children by ourunique power to make connections and
see new possibilities.2.To provide a practical tool that can be applied
in situations where change is necessary.
A Drop in the BucketMitch Barrett and Carla Gover
It’s a crazy world we live in, bad news all around.Brothers and sisters, if we’re gonna make a differenceWe’re gonna have to stand our ground.
It’s a drop in the bucket, and a bucket in the pond,And the pond fills the river, and the river rushes on.Every river swells a river, until the power can’t be stoppedAnd what becomes a mighty ocean, started as a drop.
The Frame
What We See Is What We Get
The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
Making Connections
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
WHAT’S BEHIND THE FRAME?
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
BELIEFS
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
MESSAGES
BELIEFS
Core MessagesIdentity
Worth
Purpose
Potential: a power within us
Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits
Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated
Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference
Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences
Potential: a power within us…that waits…waits…waits…to get activated so it can come through us to make a positive difference in the quality of our lives, relationships and experiences and, in doing so, make a difference in the livesof others.
Potential
TIME
POTENTIAL
Bottom 80’s
Top 20’s T
L
C
= Think
= Learn
= Communicate
Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
OPAs (Agendas)
Circumference Messages in the Land of OP
Core Messages
OPOs (Opinions)
OPEs (Expectations)
OPAs (Agendas)
POP (Please Other People)
Our Life Tree
I Matter I am Good Enough
I don’t Matter I am Not Good Enough
GE Messages NGE Messages
Making Change
Lanesboro Family Reunion
The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
Black Hills Family Reunion
The Frame
SeeSee FeelFeel
DoDoGetGet
When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’3. Blame -Give away power -Become a victim -Stuck in yuck
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When not getting what’s important
1. Change Nothing2. Change ‘Do’3. Blame -Give away power -Become a victim -Stuck in yuck
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Change See: Get Curious -Ask: How can I see this differently?
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RIGHT VS. CURIOUS
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RE-
SULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIF-
IC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS.
Are you sure you are seeing what you think you are seeing?
Three kinds of Right
Right = Right80
20 Right = Wrong
Right = Right +(Correct but incomplete)
4. Practice the Lesson of the Crack:Say “Maybe”
How can we see more?
1. Create a crisis2. Ask someone
else3. Change roles
• We are blind• We don’t know it• We think we’re right• We blame• We lose power• We stay stuck in yuck
• We are blind• We know it• We stay curious• We take responsibility• We maintain power• We make a difference
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The River Rushes On
