The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta - Spring 2010

of Alpha Xi Delta

Celebrating the First Anniversary of our Partnership with Autism Speaks

Iota Omicron Chapter Installed at San Jose State

Four Chapters Enjoy New Housing

Sisters Receive Founders’ Memorial Scholarship

Spring 2010

Creature ComfortsSisters make a

living and a life

out of caring

for animals

Creature Comforts

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Sisters,Alpha Xi Deltas improve the lives of others. We have focused this past year on the nature of our service to others, which our Ritual urges us to make a vital part of our lives. As we near the one-year anniversary of our national partnership

with Autism Speaks, I am so proud of how our Sisters have stepped up to the plate and embraced this initiative! In return, the folks at Au-tism Speaks have embraced Alpha Xi Delta and proven to be excellent partners as we work to fully understand the impact of autism spectrum disorders and to make a dif-ference in this struggle.

As we approach World Autism Awareness Day on April 2, both Alpha Xi Delta

and Autism Speaks remain enthusiastic and eager to see what the future holds. Alpha Xi Delta’s goal is that our members, both collegiate and alumnae, become increasingly involved in volunteering and fundraising for Autism Speaks, and work to improve the lives and futures of families struggling with au-tism spectrum disorders. In this way, we will prove an integral partner of Autism Speaks in helping it fulfill its mission, and we will honor both our Ritual and our Sisterhood.

This same sense of pride and honor will no doubt pervade our upcoming Founders’ Day celebrations, as Sisters across the country celebrate the 10 women who, recognizing that females in close relationships gain confidence, strength and courage from one another, gave breath to our beloved sorority and made possible the genuine, lifelong friendships we share. I encourage you to participate in a Founders’ Day event. I’ll be on the road

celebrating with our Sisters in Michigan! Have fun together, find inspiration in one another, cherish our bonds . . . and of course, begin planning that summer 2011 trip to Convention in Atlanta! And when Founders’ Day activities are over, please continue to celebrate our Sisterhood, and never miss a chance to share with others how Alpha Xi Delta has enriched your life.

We have, of course, also focused this school year on con-tinuing to attract the best and brightest women to Alpha Xi Delta, and we have so many fine new members as a result! This year’s formal recruitment efforts, including those this winter and spring, have thankfully remained relatively unaffected by the economic downturn as our college chapters have welcomed more than 1,900 new women into our Circle. The newest Sis-ters will be at Founders’ Day, proudly sporting their spiffy new Quill badges; be sure to let these women know how welcome they are!

If you’re seeking a more tangible way to help Alpha Xi Del-ta continue to inspire our members, whether young or more “seasoned,” please direct your attention to our “Be the Heart” alumnae dues program on page 38. This program is making a meaningful difference in helping us grow all our members into women who are confident and self-aware citizens, experienced in leadership roles and in meeting the need for social responsi-bility. Help us achieve Alpha Xi Delta’s vision and ensure that we continue for all time as an organization of women who im-prove the lives of others. Happy spring, Sisters!

Loyally,

Deanna DetchemendyNational President

Enriching Our Lives . . . And the Lives of Others

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5 CreatureComforts Sisters offer comfort and compassion to finned and furry friends.

13 FieldofDreamsSister Jennifer Parrott Gatley shares the joys and challenges of parenting a child with autism.

14 WalkNowforAutismSpeaksSisters walk to raise funds for children and families in need.

27 IotaOmicronChapterInstalledMeet our newest Sisters at San Jose State University in California.

28 ElevenMinutesCanSaveaLifeSister Heather Brady Gallegos shares the importance of CPR training.

32 APlacetoCallHomeAuburn, Cornell, Dartmouth and West Georgia Sisters settle in at their new digs.

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Contents

In Every Issue16 AutismSpeaksNews

18 MemberNews

24 Reunions

30 RealizeYourPotential

34 FoundationNews

36 ChapterEternal

39 LivingOurSymphony

On the CoverAnimal advocate Allie Phillips, Michigan State ’86, volunteers at King Street Cats inAlexandria,Virginia.Herfurryfriend,Jenna,isinneedofahomeafterJenna’sadoptivemombecameavictimofthefinancialdownturnandcouldnolongeraffordher.LearnmoreaboutAllie,KingStreetCatsandotherSisterswhocareforanimals,beginningonpage5.Photography by Michael Carpenter, Springfield, Virginia.

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National Executive DirectorElysia Balster Gallivan, South Dakota ’93

Editor Ruth Goodman, Northern Iowa ’80

National Council 2009-11National President

Deanna Wollam Detchemendy, Cal State Northridge ’83

National Vice PresidentsEvonne Carawan, North Carolina State ’83

Sandra Ellen Edwards, Kentucky ’75 Jennifer Emerick Kuntz, Northern Iowa ’92

Wendy Kurtz, Indiana ’90 Susan Eicher Mamber, Kent State ’77 Danica Vanasse Olson, Marquette ’90

The Mission of The Quill of Alpha Xi Delta:To inform, inspire and challenge.

To sustain and nurture membership loyalty and interest.

To recognize individual, group and Fraternity accomplishments.

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Letters

What Should I Send to The Quill?

I’m the new public relations vice presi-dent for Zeta Nu Chapter. I’m excited to share our chapter’s news and latest en-deavors with our alumnae. Are there cer-tain things I should write about?

Lauren Gardner

Miami Ohio ’09

Editor’s Note: Excellent question, Lau-ren. Many other Sisters want to know the same thing, especially when officers tran-sition. Consider the following topic areas: academic achievements/honors, alumnae outreach activities, chapter recognitions/honors, Autism Speaks fundraising and philanthropy service events, recruitment success, chapter anniversary celebrations or housing news. Provide as many details as possible, using the five W’s and one H: who, what, where, when, why and how.

Photos can really enhance your sub-mission. We were unable to use half of the photos submitted for this issue because the resolution was too low, so please keep these tips in mind.

DO• Set your camera for the largest image

size and highest resolution possible. You’ll get fewer photos on your cam-era’s memory card, but the image quality will be much, much better.

• Send photos as tif or jpg attachments that are at least 1 MB (megabyte) in size

• Use a digital camera that’s at least 3.2 megapixels

• Remove name tags• Avoid cluttered backgrounds (busy

draperies) and cluttered foregrounds (messy banquet tables)

• Get as close to your subject as possible

• Use a flash, if necessary, even out-doors

• Submit action/active/unusual shots instead of Sisters standing in lines

DON'T• Reduce the size or initial quality of

the image before emailing it • Send photos taken on a cell phone • Send photos taken from MySpace,

Facebook or any other website• Photocopy or print a digital photo on

your home printer and send it in the mail

• Send photos that show glasses or bottles that contain or look like they may contain alcoholic beverages

Almost Like Being There

Thank you for the terrific Convention cov-erage in the fall/winter Quill. I have missed very few Conventions during the past 30 years. Unfortunately, the 2009 Conven-tion in Denver was one I was unable to attend. However, thanks to the articles in The Quill, I feel as though I were there.

Kathy and Sam’s journal entries made each day come to life. All of the pictures captured the events they discussed. The broad-based, excellent coverage gave me the ability to experience our gathering of Sisters in a way that was almost as good as if I had been there. The only thing that was lacking was my ability to hug people!

Thanks for bringing what I missed to life in such a wonderful way.

Kim StarrKentucky ’79 Past National President

CorrectionThe “A ‘Big Loser’ Becomes a Big Winner” article in the fall/winter Quill should have listed Amy Hildreth Wolff as member of Zeta Nu Chapter, ’01, at Miami University in Ohio.

Letters

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Afterahardday,beinggreetedatthedoorwithabig,sloppykissfromafour-leggedfriendmakeseverythingbetter!Ourpetsloveusunconditionally,andtheymakeourhouseahome.

Someofusareluckyenoughtoworkwithfinned,featheredandfurrycritters.ComejoinusonouranimaladventureaswemeetSisterswhomakealiving–andalife–outofprovidingCreature Comforts.

StoriesbyRuthGoodman,Northern Iowa ’80, EditorofThe Quill

Creature Comforts

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Life had not been good to little Oscar. His mother had abandoned him

shortly after birth. And his father? He took off right after Oscar’s mom got pregnant. This precious little soul prob-ably had brothers and sisters, but how many? And where were they? Oscar, the black-and-white kitty, was all alone.

Allie Phillips was grieving. Her cat, Chyna, had died suddenly, leaving her with a broken heart and empty arms. Was it too soon to bring another kitty into her life? And could a new pet ever be as wonderful as Chyna? Allie, Michigan State ’86, was all alone.

“I originally wanted to adopt two little girls (cats), but then I saw Oscar,” says Allie. “When I met him he was alone . . . and he kept grabbing for me. I could not stop thinking about him.” The next day Allie adopted him.

Allie and Oscar’s story is a happy one. Yet for every animal that finds a forever home, thousands more are euthanized, abandoned or sold for research. Allie, vice president of pub-lic policy for the American Humane Association, devotes herself to saving pets from these situations.

A cum laude graduate of the University of Detroit School of Law, Allie uses her legal expertise to devel-op policies, legislation, curricula and training programs to protect animals and children from cruelty, abuse and neglect.

“I’ve always had an affinity for ani-mals,” admits Allie. “I grew up with a brown tabby cat named Michelle, and I remember sitting in my closet with her, reading Nancy Drew books. I also had several rabbits, all named Bugsey.”

When Allie was in her early 30s, she took that affinity one step further and began volunteering at an animal shelter. “I was becoming ‘jaded’ in my career as a prosecutor after witness-ing countless acts of inhumanity each day. Working with homeless animals seemed like a good fit to put me back in touch with myself. Little did I know it would completely change my life!”

One of Allie’s first life-changing acts was launching American Humane’s Pets and Women’s Shelters (PAWS)® Program. “I’ve seen too many abused women return home to save their pet. The PAWS Program prevents that from happening by removing the animal from the abusive home and housing the pet at the shelter with his family.” Since February 2008, 40 PAWS shelters have been launched nationwide.

With a coworker, Allie also started American Humane’s Therapy Animals Supporting Kids (TASK)™ Program, which encourages child welfare pro-fessionals to incorporate registered therapy animals to help heal children who have been mistreated or who have witnessed abuse.

“It can be difficult for children to talk about abuse and feel safe during the court process,” confides Allie. “If they’re given a therapy cat or a therapy rabbit, a child feels unconditional love and com-fort and discloses right to the animal.”

Allie’s commitment to animals doesn’t stop there. In the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina, she was part of a group of attorneys that helped draft legislation that includes family pets in disaster evacuation plans. She also trains animal shelter employees on the concept of “recession pets” – pets abandoned because of difficult economic times. And if that’s not enough, this compassionate Sister also serves as vice president of No Pets Left Behind, a national nonprofit that assists pets caught in foreclosure and financial crises.

Allie’s Cats

Allie adopted Oscar from the Ingham

County Animal Shelter in Mason,

Michigan, where she volunteered. Oscar

now has a forever home.

“Alpha Xi Delta instilled in me a strong sense of community

responsibility and compassion toward others. Helping both

humans and animals exemplifies to me what it means to be

an Alpha Xi.”— Allie Phillips

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Allie’s most intense work, however, involves King Street Cats, a free-roam-ing, no-kill orphanage in Alexandria, Virginia, that provides loving homes for the cats and kittens in its care. Allie is a past president and served as webmaster/photographer for six years. She’s also a “foster mom” for cats in need of a home environment. In 2009 she worked with the city to help the orphanage relocate to a new, larger facility.

Allie’s advocacy is far reaching. Literally. While speaking at the St. Croix Animal Welfare Conference last year in the U.S. Virgin Islands, Allie learned the local shelter receives about 4,000 cats and dogs each year. The euthanasia rate is a staggering 95 per-cent because of the limited number of adoption options on the island.

Allie immediately became involved in the shelter’s Pets From Paradise program, which arranges for travelers returning to the U.S. Mainland to bring an animal with them as carry-on bag-gage so the animals never ride in the cargo hold. Allie brought a cat named Whisper with her to King Street Cats, and the cat quickly found a home. To date, King Street Cats is the only U.S. Mainland cat rescue organization helping the St. Croix shelter — and she emphasizes that more are needed. “Every time I meet a traveler at the airport to receive the latest cat arrival, it impresses upon me that every life is precious and worth trying to save.”

✽ Nationally recognized expert/trainer on The Link,®

a program on the connection between human and animal violence ✽ Drafted Michigan Pound Seizure Bill that prohibits using shelter cats and dogs for experimentation✽ Drafted Michigan Humane Euthanasia Bill that prohibits shelters from euthanizing via gas chambers✽ Former chapter advisor and housing corporation president for Beta Theta Chapter, Michigan State✽ Amateur ballroom dancer

Later this year Allie will add “pub-lished author” to her list of accomplish-ments with the release of Pound Seizure, a book about how shelter cats and dogs are brokered for experimentation and research, a little-known practice in the United States. She’s currently working on another book on how to become an animal advocate.

“It’s the individual pets that I help get to safety that keep me going,” says Allie. “I’ve fostered more than 100 cats and kittens in my home over the years, most of which would not be alive today but for my ability to open my home to them.

“It breaks my heart to see people toss away their pets, or worse, abuse their pets,” she continues. “Yet for all the abused animals I’ve met, they are the most forgiving and loving pets. They don’t hold grudges. Humans could learn many lessons from ani-mals.”

There aren’t enough pages in The Quill to share all of Allie’s acts of com-passion and advocacy. Suffice it to say this bold, talented woman epitomizes what it means to live our vision and realize her potential. And if Oscar, the black-and-white kitty, could talk, we know he’d say she’s a “purr-fect” mom too!

After Hurricane Katrina, Allie traveled

to Jackson, Mississippi, to care for pets,

including Spike, at the state fairgrounds

while his family searched for new housing.

Allie looks forward to connecting with Sisters at

[email protected] 703.836.7387.

Learn more aboutAmerican Humane at

www.americanhumane.org.

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Making a SplashFor a little girl living in Atlanta,

becoming a marine mammal train-er seemed pie in the sky. Her excite-ment about working with sea lions was met with heavy sighs, gentle head pats and dream-crushing words: That’s nice, dear. But you know, most people don’t grow up to be what they wanted to be when they were young. And besides, you live so far from the ocean. Where would you work?

“I was never encouraged to fol-low my dream, even by my parents,” says this determined little girl turned accomplished career woman. “Being an Alpha Xi at Auburn helped me get on the path to success. I realized no dream is too big, and with the right attitude, I can achieve anything I want.”

Meet Bevlynn Moser, Auburn ’99, a marine biologist at the Georgia Aquarium in Atlanta. “I’m living my dream!” she says with unbridled joy.

Every morning, Bevlynn and her colleagues make sure the aquarium’s 65 exhibits are shipshape for the thou-sands of guests who visit each day. They also prepare meals for the sea otters, penguins or beluga whales. The rest of the day includes feeding the ani-mals, keeping their habitats clean and something called “enrichment.”

“Enrichment activities keep the animals’ minds stimulated,” explains Bevlynn. The sea otters get containers with food hidden inside, and they have to work to find the food. The penguins receive small toys, such as rattles and balls with bells, to pick up, collect and interact with. And the larger “kids” in the bunch, the belugas, get bigger toys – inner tubes they can flip with their tail or balls attached to a rope so they can drag them around.

And what Bevlynn says may sound gross to some is one of her favorite activities. “We give the belugas tongue rubs. They come to the surface with their mouths open and we pat their tongues. They love it, as do we!”

Getting Schooled onthe Georgia AquariumBevlynn Moser was born and raised in Atlanta and is extremely proud to share it with Sisters. “I’m ecstatic that Alpha Xi Delta’s National Convention will be held here July 6-10, 2011. I hope you’ll come to Atlanta and also visit the aquarium when you’re in town.” Here are 10 reasons why: l The largest aquarium in the

world: 8 million+ gallons of aquarium space

l Within walking distance of our Convention hotel, the Sheraton in downtown Atlanta

l More than 500 species of fresh and saltwater animals from around the globe

l New dolphin exhibit that opens in November 2010

l A rare, behind-the-scenes tour that explains how the aquarium operates

l The largest living coral reef in the world

l The only aquarium outside of East Asia that houses a whale shark – the largest fish in the ocean (the aquarium has 4)

l The only place in the world to snorkel and SCUBA with 2 manta rays, 3 great hammerhead sharks, 4 whale sharks and 100,000+ fish

l Within walking distance of the Coca-Cola Museum, CNN Center, National Patriotism Museum, Children’s Museum and Centennial Olympic Park

l “Touch tanks” for interacting with stingrays, sharks, shrimp, sea stars, lobsters and more

“We hope our aquarium guests leave with a connection to all the animals we house and

will want to help conserve our world and the animals that live in it,” says Bevlynn Moser.

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in the National Marine Sanctuaries’ education department and taught coral reef ecology to middle school children.

After completing her internship in 2004, Bevlynn applied for jobs at aquariums and marine mammal parks across the southeastern United States, with the eventual goal of landing the big one: a job at the Georgia Aquarium, which was set to open at the end of 2005. After months of multiple appli-cations, phone calls and serious net-working, Bevlynn realized her child-hood dream and joined the aquarium staff. She was one of the first marine biologists hired and has been with the aquarium nearly five years.

And what do the Negative Neds and Nellies have to say to this bold, talented

“I’ve become very passionate about marine animals as my knowledge has grown. It’s an incredible world out there.The animal kingdom is amazing to study and learn from.”

— Bevlynn Moser

Bevlynn has always felt a connec-tion to marine mammals, particularly dolphins and sea lions. During a fam-ily vacation to Busch Gardens Tampa when she was 5 years old, Bevlynn was picked out of the crowd to feed and be kissed by a sea lion during one of the training shows. “After that, I knew I wanted to become a marine biologist,” she says with a smile. “I’ve become very passionate about marine animals as my knowledge has grown. It’s an incredible world out there. The animal kingdom is amazing to study and learn from.”

Bevlynn majored in marine biology in college and served as a research assistant for one of her professors, tak-ing part in his research on polychaete worms off the coast of Monterey Bay, California. She also conducted her own research in the Bahamas on the eating behavior of reef fish. These experienc-es, along with her rigorous coursework at Auburn, helped her land a post-graduation internship with a Florida Keys nonprofit, the Reef Environmental Education Foundation (REEF), to collect and archive data about the various fish populations in the Tropical Western Atlantic. Bevlynn became proficient at identifying reef and pelagic (open-water) fish and shared that knowledge with the locals; she also volunteered

animal lover with big dreams? “Right before the aquarium opened to the public, each employee was given four ‘sneak-peek’ tickets to give to friends and family. I invited my parents and two couples I grew up with — the ones who patted my head and said my dream was out of reach. Showing them what I’ve done and am still doing was a fan-tastic feeling!”

“It’s an amazing feeling to have a connection with an animal and be able to build

that trust every day,” says Bevlynn. When she’s not at work, Bevlynn builds

Sisterly connections while serving as an advisor for Iota Theta Chapter at Southern

Polytechnic State University in Marietta, Georgia.

Connect with Bevlynn at [email protected] more about theGeorgia Aquarium at

www.georgiaaquarium.org.

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Going to the DogsBy Patricia Cornwell Miller, Auburn ’95

For the past 13 years, I’ve worked at the Auburn University Canine

Detection Training Center, one of the premier facilities for canine officer training in the country. Located in McClellan, Alabama, 100 miles north of the university, we teach dogs to detect either 10 to 15 different explosives or five to 10 different drugs (one dog does not learn both). They learn these scents to protect our schools, the general pub-lic and our national infrastructure.

We breed our own dogs for the program and have found that Labrador retrievers have a strong desire to please, which makes them eager to learn. They’re also very intelligent. Overall, I’ve trained and handled about 100 dogs.

Inmates from three area prisons foster the dogs for the first 18 months of life. The prisoners feed the dogs, groom them and perform basic obedi-ence training. They also make sure the dogs play well with other dogs and behave correctly around people.

In the past, detection dogs have been fostered in peoples’ homes instead of with inmates. However, we found a clear distinction between dogs raised as “pets” and dogs raised as “working dogs.” In a prison, we can control how the dogs are treated. There’s absolutely no feeding of table scraps or lounging on a couch all day! And the dogs are crated at night instead of sleeping in bed with their owners. Prisons also maintain strict schedules, so the dogs learn much faster because their envi-ronment is predictable.

Dogs enter the detection training program when they’re between 12 and 18 months old. Training takes three to four months and consists of presenting the dog with an odor, which is usually placed in a box with holes in the top, and then telling the dog to “sit.” Once the dog smells the box and sits, we throw a ball or whatever its preferred

toy is. The dog eventually learns to sit whenever it smells the particular odor. The faster the dog sits, the faster it gets the ball! After the first two odors are trained, subsequent ones are learned pretty quickly.

Dogs are usually fully trained and graduate from the program before their second birthday. A dog can work until it’s 10 years old, but will often work until age 11 or 12.

At the end of the day, I leave the Labradors and go home to my Belgian Malinois, Bentley. She’s a great dog! In my free time I’m an advisor for Zeta Xi Chapter at Auburn – my initiating chapter. Through my involvement as an alumna and an advisor, I feel I’ve begun to “realize my potential.” The past three years have been years of tre-mendous growth for the chapter, and I’m honored to be part of it.

I also feel honored to work with animals. I’m truly fortunate to be able to use my degree in behavioral psychol-ogy while spending time with such fabulous dogs. Their loving nature and desire to please makes them wonderful co-workers!

Patricia Miller and Labrador retriever

Sadie worked together at the Auburn

University Canine Detection Training

Center. Sadie retired from duty in 2006

and now lives with her adopted family.

Connect with Patricia at [email protected].

Learn more aboutAuburn’s Canine Detection

Training Center atwww.vetmed.auburn.edu/cdri.


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A Peaceful KingdomHaving a tiger cub for a pet is so

cute! They’re soft and warm and so darn snuggly. Sometimes, they’ll even let you dress them up in adorable bonnets and frilly dresses, just like a human baby.

But a funny thing happens in about 18 months’ time. Those precious little furballs grow into 450-pound adults with razor-sharp claws, flesh-tearing

teeth and a craving for raw meat. Suddenly they’re not so cute anymore. Now what do you do?

If you’re like the person in Kansas who owned tigers Apache and Nitro, you put them in a too-small cage, drop them off at a junkyard with no food or water, and drive off as fast as you can, hoping no one witnessed your horrendous act. The tigers are out of your hair, so who cares what happens to them? Sara Waltz and the Carolina Tiger Rescue (CTR) do.

Since the 1970s, the CTR in Pittsboro, North Carolina, about 40 miles west of Raleigh, has provided a better life for wild cats of all sizes that would other-wise be euthanized or left in deplorable conditions. Its current residents, res-cued primarily from the exotic pet trade, include Apache, Nitro and more than 75 other wild cats from six species.

“These animals are our family, and even though we can’t pet them (they’re wild animals with wild-ani-mal instincts), we learn their quirks, their expressions and their moods,” says Sara, who began interning at the CTR in 2008 after graduating from the University of North Carolina Wilmington. “I’ve always been in awe

of tigers, so having the chance to work with them is unbelievable.”

As a CTR intern, Sara prepared food for the animals, cleaned their enclo-sures, mended fences and built homes for the smaller cats. She also took part in animal enrichment activities – using barrels, Christmas trees, pumpkins, bowling pins and other “toys” to men-tally stimulate CTR residents.

Another way the cats were stimu-lated was by rousing their sense of smell. “My favorite tiger used to love Calvin Klein’s Obsession, so I always had that perfume with me,” says Sara. “The smell of it would make him roll over, rub against the fence and chuffle (a low snuffling sound similar to the purring of a house cat), which is an expression of peace.”

Sara currently volunteers as a CTR tour guide and works as an inten-sive care unit nurse at a veterinary emergency hospital in Raleigh and as a veterinary nurse at a general practice 15 miles to the west in Apex, North Carolina. Her ultimate goal is to become a veterinarian; she’s waiting for acceptance letters from veterinary schools right now.

“I love cows,” Sara admits. “I want to pursue large-animal veterinary med-icine and work primarily with bovine and equine patients.

“Working with animals is my call-ing,” she continues. “They respond really well to me. When I’m working with animals, I’m at peace.”

“I feel honored to be part of the Carolina Tiger Rescue team,” says Sara Waltz. “We all

work together to provide the utmost care for our furry family members.”

Connect with Sara at [email protected].

Learn more about theCarolina Tiger Rescue at

www.carolinatigerrescue.org.

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Fostering Love and UnderstandingBy Melanie Campbell-Boatright, Alabama Birmingham ’97


On New Year’s Eve 2006, I was preparing to go out of town with

my husband. While waiting to hear the weather report on television so we’d know what to pack, a news story caught my attention: 200 Persian cats were seized from a local breeder. The cats were living in deplorable conditions and suffered from numer-ous ailments. Their fur was extremely matted, and some weren’t even able to walk or stand due to large, heavy mats.

After seeing pictures of the fright-ened cats, my holiday cheer fizzled. The reporter said The Emergency Animal Rescue Service (TEARS) in Tuskegee, Alabama, was asking for donations, volunteers, and foster and permanent homes for these cats.

I tried not to think about the story and instead focus on our trip. But all those scared little faces troubled me. As we counted down to the New Year, I resolved to help.

I contacted TEARS when we got home and was told they needed help verifying adoption applicants so the cats could be placed in foster homes. In their temporary homes, people would help socialize the cats and show them that life can be good. So I went to TEARS to pick up the paperwork . . . and came home with four cats, not to keep, but to foster until a permanent home could be found.

I spent as much time with Diego, Tortii, Cuda and Snotz as I could. I fed them sardines, tuna and other delica-cies that any cat would find hard to refuse. At first they were reluctant to come near me because of everything they’d been through. I took it slow. After about two weeks, they came to me without hesitation. I also bought some cat toys with long strings attached so I could manipulate the strings and invite the cats to come closer without being too obvious.

After a few months, Cuda and Diego were capable of being adopted. I knew mine was the forever home for Snotz because he’s “special.” His face is flat, so when he breathes, it sounds like he’s snoring. He also sniffles and snorts and can’t smell.

We were thinking about keeping Tortii too, because she was still shy

around people. She and Snotz seemed to have an attachment because they snuggled and groomed each other. But Tortii was frail and didn’t gain weight; I was worried. I came home one day to find her partially comatose. I rushed her to the vet, but there was nothing they could do for her. I was devastated. I worked hard to give Tortii a promising future, and now she would never know what it was like to be taken care of the way she deserved.

I continued to help TEARS by verify-ing applicants and spreading the word about the need for forever homes. Of the 200 Persians rescued from the breeder, only four remained unplaced the last time I checked. One of the great things about TEARS is that there is no euthanization, and the animals get to play, sleep and eat without the confines of cages.

I’ve been helping my local animal shelter by donating aluminum cans and adopting when I can. I recently adopted three outdoor cats, and I feel good knowing I saved them from eutha-nization. Still, it’s hard not being able to save them all.

“My cat, Snotz, is the most loving pet

I’ve ever had. I plan to adopt from now

on and encourage everyone to do the

same,” says Melanie Campbell-Boatright.

✽ Contact your local shelter if you’re interested in fostering a pet. ✽ Shelters are always in need of monetary and supply donations

and will gladly welcome yours. ✽ Help save an animal’s life by adopting instead of buying. Even

if you want a specific breed, many shelters have waiting lists and/or can refer you to a specific breed’s rescue group.

✽ Spay or neuter your pet to help control the pet population.

Message from Melanie

Connect with Melanie at [email protected] more information

about TEARS, visitwww.tearstown.com.

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Austism Speaks

Field of DreamsBy JenniferParrottGatley,Cal State Fresno ’94

I briefly studied autism during my un-dergraduate days as a child develop-ment major. Autism wasn’t talked about a lot in the mid-1990s; we covered it one, maybe two days in class. But I re-membered enough that in 2000 when I saw my third child, Ethan, having a tantrum and arching his back when he was 6 months old, I began to panic. That

night I went online to research the warning signs of autism in infants, but there was no research; all the information I found was for children 3 years and older.

In 2003 my worst fears were confirmed. A psychologist evalu-ated Ethan and diagnosed him to be borderline autistic/pervasive developmental disorder (PDD). A month later, the M.I.N.D. Insti-tute at U.C. Davis in Sacramento confirmed that Ethan is autistic.

Ethan attended occupational therapy once a week and speech therapy twice a week; an Early Start teacher also visited our house twice a week. When he was 7, behavioral tutors came to the house 15 hours a week to help with Ethan’s head banging, tantrums and functional-living skills.

The rigorous schedule of having a child with autism while trying to maintain a normal life for my other three children sent me into a deep depression, although I wouldn’t admit it at the time. I spent years building an emotional barrier around me so no one and nothing could hurt me. Just over two years ago that wall came crashing down as the stress of having a child with au-tism nearly destroyed my marriage, which commonly happens to parents of autistic children. Seeing a marriage counselor, setting weekly coffee dates and reopening the paths of communication helped my husband and I save our marriage, and we are bet-ter parents to all of our children. We use our coffee dates to go over the week’s schedule and to discuss any issues regarding our marriage, children, work lives or ourselves.

I have stopped crying over what Ethan isn’t and have started to appreciate him for what he is. I realize I held him back by underestimating his abilities; I still saw Ethan as a toddler and

treated him as such with the toys I gave him and movies he saw. With the help of tutors, I’ve be-gun to see Ethan’s capabilities. Ethan can now tie his own shoes, read books, spell and do multi-plication. Ethan has grown during the last two years, and so have my husband and I.

In 2007, I had the opportunity to pitch an autism-awareness idea to an employee of the Fresno Grizzlies, the San Francisco Giants’ Triple-A Baseball team. The idea was to have an Autism Awareness Night at the ballpark and involve Will Clark, former first baseman for the Giants and the father of an autistic child. In April 2008 I was in the stands as my vision came true. Through ticket sales and a jersey auction, the Grizzlies raised more than $20,000 for the Central California Autism Center and for Ath-letes Against Autism.

I purchased one of the special Autism jerseys – number 22, which had been Will Clark’s number. And I even got to meet him and have him sign my jersey. I was overcome with emotion when he thanked me for what I had done to help raise awareness and funds for autism. Here was my childhood baseball hero, facing the same daily struggles I face, thanking me! That’s a moment I’ll always remember. And to think that moment was inspired by our wonderful son, Ethan.

Connect with Jennifer at [email protected]. Share “Your Sister & Autism” stories at www.alphaxidelta.org/yoursisterandautism.

Jennifer and Ethan Gatley

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Austism Speaks News

Sisters made great strides in raising awareness and thousands of dollars during Walk Now for Autism Speaks events across the country!

Delta Alpha, Wisconsin LaCrosse; Epsilon Alpha,

Wisconsin Eau Claire; Minneapolis St. Paul Alumnae

Association: $1,800+

Walkin’ for a Cure



Sisters made great strides in raising awareness and thousands of dollars during Walk Now for Autism Speaks events across the country!



Greater Kansas City Alumnae Association: $1,000

Theta Nu, Elon: $2,000+

Theta Lambda, Southwestern: $1,300

Psi, Ohio State: $2,150

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By DebKeyes,Illinois ’77 President,ChicagoNorthwestSuburbanAlumnaeAssociation

As Sisters from the six Chicago-area alumnae associations par-ticipated in last year’s Chicago Walk Now for Autism Speaks event, we talked and walked and wondered what else we could do to help Alpha Xi Delta’s new philanthropic partner. Several of us had attended a session at last year’s National Convention that demonstrated an Autism Speaks recruitment party idea that chapters would be implementing in the fall.

During the party, Sisters and poten-tial new members would make sensory stimulation kits for children with autism. The rationale behind the kits is that the various colors, shapes, sizes and textures of the objects will help children improve

their ability to appropriately use incoming sensory information and encourage the tolerance of various sensory inputs.

We thought making sensory stimula-tion kits would be great for our asso-ciation as well. In November we made 50 kits during our Chicagoland philanthropy event at the home of Kiyoko Farrington Czech, Iowa ’89. Sisters brought items to

add to the kits; those who could not attend but wanted to contribute sent checks to purchase supplies. We’re happy to report that the kits have been well received by area schools.

One of the highlights of the meet-ing is that Autism Speaks’ Chicago executive director, Liz Klug, came to our event. She shared a video about her organization, statistics about autism, ideas on how we can contin-ue to help and her gratitude for the work we’re doing as an association and a Fraternity.

Creating sensory stimulation kits was fun, rewarding and a great way to meet area Sisters. Feel free to contact me at [email protected] for tips on planning your own kit party. And if you want to join or make a donation to this year’s Chicago walk team, visit www.walknowforautismspeaks.org/chicago/alphaxidelta.

Sisters put together sensory stimulation kits at a Chicagoland alumnae meeting.

On last year’s World Autism Awareness

Day, April 2, 2009, Alpha Xi Delta proudly

announced our new philanthropic part-

nership with Autism Speaks. We har-

nessed our collective womanpower, and

as of December 31, 2009, Alpha Xi Delta

had raised more than $120,000 nation-

ally for autism research. In addition to

funds raised, Sisters volunteered count-

less hours in support of Autism Speaks.

“It was apparent from the start that

Autism Speaks would be a dynamic phil-

anthropic partner for Alpha Xi Delta,” said

National President Deanna Detchemendy.

“Autism Speaks staff members under-

stand what we’re about and appreci-

ate what Sisters contribute. In addition,

Autism Speaks’ cause is deeply meaning-

ful for Sisters, with many impacted across

the country. Alpha Xi Delta is proud of

having raised over $120,000 so far, but we

consider it just the beginning.”

Rebecca Fehlig, executive director of

Autism Speaks’ St. Louis chapter, is also

quick to point out the power – and posi-

tives – of our partnership. “The women of

Alpha Xi Delta understand the importance

of raising funds to support research so we

can better understand, diagnose and treat

autism,” she said. “But you also express a

true desire and amazing initiative to learn

how you can each make an impact in your

community by raising awareness, edu-

cating others and ultimately, generating

greater compassion among your fellow

students.”

Watch for further updates in The Quill and on the Sister Shout Out page,

both of which can be found at www.

alphaxidelta.org.

What a Year It’s Been!Sistersraisemorethan$120,000forAutismSpeaksinjustninemonths.

Looking for a Fun, Creative Way to Help Autism Speaks? Use This One!

Upcoming WalksApril17 Allentown,PA FortLauderdale-Davie,FL SanAngelo,TX Sonoma,CAApril24 Pasadena,CAMay1 Milwaukee,WI SaltLakeCity,UT St.Petersburg,FLMay8 Abilene,TXMay15 Chicago,ILMay22 Cincinnati,OH MountLaurel,NY Wheeling,WVMay23 Atlanta,GA Paramus,NJJune5 OklahomaCity,OK SanJose,CAJune6 Purchase,NYJune12 BlairCounty,PA Honolulu,HIJune13 NewYorkCity,NYJune19 WestDesMoines,IAJune26 Pittsburgh,PAOctober2 LittleRock,AR

For additional walk dates, visit www.walknowforautism.org.

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Missouri St. Louis | AttheSt.LouisWalkNowforAutismSpeaks,EpsilonXiSisterssoldT-shirtstoincreasetheir donation to our philanthropic partner.—MichelleChambers,[email protected]

George Mason |IotaAlphaSisters,includingLizParish,’09,right,raised$5,000forAutismSpeaksduringtheirXiRockbenefitconcert.Theconcertfeaturedfivelocalbands and 11-year-old musician Will Gilbertson, whohas autism. SistersmetWillwhenhe sangandplayedhisguitarattheOctober2009NationalAutismWalk.—MichelleRenaud,[email protected]

Wright State, Dayton Alumnae Association |SistersinvitedfriendsandfamilytojointhematTGIFriday’s,where15percentofeachdiner’scheckwasdonatedtoAutismSpeaks–$170inall.“Eachdollarhastobethoughtofasthedollarthatcouldfindthecure,”saidJanDorroughAustin, Wright State ’78, pictured with her nephew, Hunter, who hasautism,andherdaughter,JessicaAustin,Wright State ’03.

Alpha Xi Delta and Autism SpeaksLooking for more ways to raise funds and awareness? Check out what these Sisters did.

Mount Union |DuringPhilanthropyNight,Sistersmadesockpuppetswith their recruitment guests for donation to the Hattie Larlhamorganization in Mantua, Ohio. The puppets can help children withautismexpresstheirfeelingstoothers.—KateHlavin,[email protected]

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Defiance (OH) | Christina-Marie Drake, ’08, was featuredin the October 2009 issue of Seventeen magazine for herphilanthropic efforts. Christina-Marie started putting on rockconcerts at age 15 and has raised $15,000 for diabetesresearch, cancer research, music education and a varietyof other causes. Last year she expanded those causes tobegin Rock For Autism, an organization that raises fundsand awareness through concerts, mentoring, educationalpresentations,musicfestivalsandextremesportingcompetitions. Inadditiontoherstudies,chapterinvolvement,cheerleadingandmusic(sheplays14instruments),Christina-MarieservesasRockForAutism’sassistantdirectorandtourmanager.LookforourrockerSisterasshetoursthecountrythissummeraspartoftheVansWarpedTour.Connectwithhernowatharley.tst08@yahoo.com.

Worcester (MA) Alumnae Association | Sisters joinedin the sport of geocaching, a worldwide game of hiding andseeking treasure using a global positioning system (GPS). Thegoalofgeocachingistolocateacache(container)thatincludes,at a minimum, a logbook for geocachers to sign and coins orinexpensivetrinkets.Thegeneralprocedureistoopenthecache,recorditscoordinates,tradeatrinketandhidethecacheinitsspotagain.Theassociationsponsoredatravelbug,whichisatrackabletagattachedtoanitem(inthiscase,anAlphaXiDeltakeyring)sothebugcanbemonitoredasitjourneysfromcachetocache. AssociationmemberStefaniMagninoHolmes,Bethany ’92,releasedtheassociation’sbuginSeptember2009atanAutismSpeaks event in Westfield, Massachusetts. Finders are askedtokeep thebugmovingandhelp it reach itsgoals,whichareto visit Autism Speaks events, Alpha Xi Delta chapters andeventuallyFraternityHeadquarters.Thebughasalreadytraveledmore than 700 miles in five months. Use tracking numberTB2RBZ3tofollowthebug’sprogressatwww.geocaching.com/tracking/.—StefaniHolmes,[email protected]

Cal State Stanislaus | Nearly50 Iota Beta collegians and areaalumnae participated in the CentralValley (CA) Walk Now for AutismSpeaks event in October and raisedmore than $8,500. Sisters arrivedearlytoassistwitheventsetup,takephotos, raise awareness of autism-related legislative bills, and staffthe face-painting, registration andrefreshment booths. At a February6, 2010, luncheon, the collegiate/alumnae team received the SilverAward from Autism Speaks for itsoutstanding fundraising efforts.—MarianneRusso

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ALABAMA

Epsilon Pi, Jacksonville State University

Membersof thechapter’snewParentsAssociationmetfor the

first time inOctober togetacquainted.Theassociation,which

isopentoallparentsofEpsilonPiSisters,willhelpwithvarious

tasks,suchashousingdécorandrecruitment.—ElizabethDavis,

[email protected]

Zeta Xi, Auburn University

After another successful formal recruitment, Zeta Xi initiated

agroupofwomen that has shown its unity at such events as

SisterhoodRetreat,socialsandpeprallies.Thechapter’sstrong

sisterhoodwasevidentduringtheAlumnaeTailgate,whichwas

heldhomecomingweekendinthebeautifulnewchapterroom

(see related story on page 33). The tailgate drew enthusiastic

alumnae back to campus to show their support for their

chapter and alma mater.—Jaclyn Wilson, jaw0027@auburn.

edu.Editor’s Note: The fall/winter Quill incorrectly listed Zeta Xi

Chapter as being in the state of Georgia. Sisters also raised more

than $13,000 for the Partnership for Children. The Quill staff

apologizes for these errors.

Huntsville-Madison County Alumnae Association

Alumnae began their year with a potential new member

recommendation-writingpartyat the lakehouseof JanDavis.

Members also enjoyed boating, good food and fellowship.

In late summer, Nita Price Farquahar recruited association

members to volunteer at her place of employment. Alumnae

woreAlphaXiDelta T-shirts as they volunteeredat the“Early

Works”BirthdayParty for theCommunity. Sisters served cake

and ice cream and assisted with make-and-take craft projects

and other important tasks during their time at the children’s

historymuseum.

CALIFORNIA

Diablo Valley Alumnae Association

SistersgatheredtoinductCarlynnRankinOtis,U of Washington

’59, into the Order of the Rose and Doris Darnall Hamel, San

Diego State ’49, into the Order of the Pearl for 50 and 60

yearsofAlphaXiDeltamembership, respectively.ManySisters

Cuyahoga West Shore (OH) Alumnae Association |Charter member Lee Chilton Brookins, left, Jody Dettmer Halley and the rest of the association’s members celebrated 50 years of sisterhood and service at the association’s Golden Anniversary Luncheon.

Texas - El Paso | Marissa A. Martinez was named UTEP’s 2009 homecoming queen.

Member News

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participated in the local Panhellenic brunch in

October; in November, they helped the Bay Area

Crisis Nursery assemble its fall newsletter. During

the holiday season, Sisters met for coffee before

headingoff to shop. LindaHarmeson, Illinois ’73,

returned to her alma mater to receive an award

from the McKinley Foundation for her work in

adultdaycareanddayservices.—LindaHarmeson,

[email protected]

DELAWARE

Theta Gamma, University of Delaware

Sistersembracedournewphilanthropicpartnership

by participating in the Walk Now for Autism

Speaks event in Philadelphia. Their efforts paid

offas they raisedmore than$1,300asachapter.

ThetaGammacontinued its annualXiManFitness

Competition as part of its AmaXIng Challenge

and raised nearly $4,000 for Autism Speaks. This

eventbrings theGreek community together for a

charitable night of talent and creativity.—Alyssa

Kopelman,[email protected]

FLORIDA

Theta Omicron, Embry-Riddle Aeronautical Univ.

Sisterswelcomed13newmembersintothechapter

during fall recruitment. Later in the semester,

ThetaOmicronhelditsannualcampus-widePenny

Wars fundraiser, which raised nearly $800 for

child-related charities. At the end of the week,

the organization with the most points, which

this year was Delta Upsilon Fraternity, received a

dinner cooked by the ladies of Theta Omicron.

In November, Sisters participated in an area Walk

NowforAutismSpeakseventandraisedmorethan

$1,300forautismresearch.

Theta Sigma, University of Central Florida

Caitlyn McManus was named UCF’s 2009

homecoming queen, and Elizabeth Rossi was

crowned UCF Miss Greek, a new pageant and

fundraising competition sponsored by Delta Tau

DeltaFraternity.InsupportofAutismSpeaks,the

chapterheldasuccessful,inaugural“Dodgebrawl”

dodgeballtournamentfortheGreekcommunity.—

NicholeMillikan,[email protected]

Monmouth (IL) | Beta Epsilon’s executive board prior to their “Classic Hollywood” recruitment event. Front row: Kristen Wyse, Melissa Lindsay, Mary Schuch, Mollie Doubet. Back row, Kim Dwyer, Ashley May, Morgan Koss, Sara Fitch.—Melissa Lindsay, [email protected]

Huntsville-Madison County (AL) Alumnae Association | Sisters put their talents to work and created original paintings at a local art gallery, aided by an artist.

Bowling Green State | Stan Bortel, husband of Chapter Advisor Jill Foster Bortel, was invited to the chapter house, but he wasn’t told why. When he got there, Sisters surprised him by asking if he would be their 2009-2010 Dream Boy. Stan said yes and will have his picture on this year’s composite.—Jill Bortel, [email protected]

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IOWA

Sigma, University of Iowa/Iowa City Alumnae Association

Alumnaemetat theSigmachapterhouse forahandbagparty

to raise money for Autism Speaks. Fifteen percent of the total

sales of these spunky handbags and accessories, $120, was

contributed.—JaniceBaumback,[email protected]

Cedar Rapids Alumnae Association

Alumnaeheldajewelrypartyandraisedmorethan$150,which

was given to a family in need with a child with autism. The

association began a new tradition at the November meeting –

playing Bunco and watching Dancing with the Stars. Alumnae

haveagreattimeattheirmonthlymeetingsandwelcomenew

Sisters to join the association!—Amy Gaffney-Ingalls, amygi@

msn.com

LOUISIANA

Delta Epsilon, University of New Orleans

ThechapterwasrecognizedduringGreekWeekforreceivingthe

ChapterProgressaward.DuringUNO’sRelayforLifeevent,Delta

EpsilonwasnamedHighest StudentOrganization Fundraiser.—

ClaireCummings,[email protected]

GEORGIA

Zeta Omega, State University of West Georgia

Sisters moved into their beautiful new 20-bed chapter house

in theuniversity’sGreekVillage (see related storyonpage32.)

Thanks to Sisters, alumnae, parents and friends, the chapter

had a decorator come in and make the house a home. Zeta

Omegahadgreatsuccessduringrecruitmentandwelcomed25

wonderfulnewSistersintothechapter.Theannualflagfootball

tournament,whichattracted10men’steamsandtwowomen’s

teams,helpedZetaOmega raise$1,200 forAutismSpeaks.—

AshleyWaters,[email protected]

Eastern Washington | The chapter’s recruitment theme, Alphaxiville, played off the whimsical “Betseyville” fashion line, created by Sister Betsey Johnson, Syracuse’62. Recruitment was a success as Epsilon Zeta welcomed 24 wonderful women into our Sisterhood.—Alexis Welch, [email protected]

Miami Ohio | Sophomore Sisters warmly welcomed potential new members to their Autism Speaks recruitment party.

Portland Alumnae Association | Sisters enjoyed lunch at a local restaurant and celebrated a wonderful example of sisterhood – Blanche Gustavson Crook, ’38,and Barbara Stallcup Miller, ’38, Alpha Lambda pledge Sisters at the University of Oregon. Both have devoted many years of service to Alpha Xi Delta at the national and local levels. Seated: Blanche, Barbara and Barbara Evonchuck Cyrus. Standing: Angela Callahan Hoefer, Bonnie Baker Blish, Lynne Woodlief Winkler, Sarah Tripp, Jeniene Zumbo Frisco and daughter Emily, and Lisa Baker.—Bonnie Blish, [email protected]

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MARYLAND

Chesapeake Alumnae Association

Morethan20SistersmetatthehomeofNancyThomasCarmanin

St.Michaelsforacovereddishluncheonandpoolparty.President

Janet Gleason White reported on National Convention, and

SisterswhoattendedwithhersharedtalesfromtheirConvention

RoadTrip. Their trip included fourdays spent afterConvention

exploring the Redstone, Colorado, area where Linda Zerfing

arranged for them to stay in a mountain cabin. In September,

severalalumnaeassistedwithnewmemberrecruitmentatTheta

DeltaChapteratTowsonUniversity. InOctober,alumnae joined

areacollegiateandalumnaeSistersattheWalkNowforAutism

SpeakseventsinTowsonandWashington,D.C.

Nearly40SistersandguestsgatheredatthehomeofDawn

HainesThomasinWestminsterforamemorialceremonyforAnn

RobinsonBaird.Theceremonywasfollowedbyaluncheonand

aholidayauction,whichraisedalmost$900fortheassociation’s

CollegiateFund.—SusanRobinson,[email protected]

MASSACHUSETTS

Iota Xi, Worcester Polytechnic Institute

Sisters welcomed into the chapter a new member class of 44

incrediblewomen.—StephaniePost,[email protected]

MICHIGAN

Phi, Albion College/Gamma Zeta, Eastern Michigan University/Theta Eta, Western Michigan University

Phi Chapter held its inaugural AmaXIng Challenge, which

included a 5K run/walk, bowling event and canoe race, and

raisedmorethan$6,100forAutismSpeaks.PhiSisters teamed

upwithSistersfromEasternandWesternMichigantorepresent

Alpha Xi Delta at the 2009 Southeast Michigan Walk Now for

AutismSpeaksevent.—JulieJackson,[email protected]

Zeta Upsilon, Alma College

Sisters recently began sponsoring play days for local children

with autism. During their time together, children build their

social skills while parents socialize with other parents who

havechildrenwithautism.Playdayactivities includepainting,

coloring,andplayingboardgamesandwithbouncyballs.On

average,10childrenattendeachplayday.Sistersalsohavefun

making items, like maracas and water bottles with sparkles,

duringphilanthropyserviceeventsandgivingthemtotheirplay

daychildren.—CourtneyMartin,[email protected]

NEBRASKA

Gamma Delta, University of Nebraska at Omaha

The chapter held an Aunt Reveal and celebration at Big Fred’s

Pizza to unveil their new Alumnae Aunts program. Each new

member,or“niece,” ispairedwithanalumnasoshecan learn

more about the chapter and Fraternity. The evening was filled

withSistersbearinggifts,reunionswitholdfriendsandwomen

excited by the promise of a new-found Sister.—Kenzi Meyer,

[email protected]

NEVADA

Iota Epsilon, University of Nevada – Las Vegas/Las Vegas Alumnae Association

CollegiansandalumnaegottogetherfortheirannualChristmas

gift-wrappingsessionandbrunch.EachSisterbroughtagiftto

be wrapped, and all gifts were donated to the Candlelighters

Childhood Cancer Foundation of Nevada.—Ame Williams,

[email protected]

OHIO

Psi, Ohio State University

SistershostedtheirFootballFrenXIflagfootballtournamentand

raisedmorethan$2,100forAutismSpeaks.AfterenjoyingDads

Weekend,members’fathersservedastournamentrefereeswhile

Sisters coached the 39 participating teams.—Allison McKinney,

[email protected]

Beta Mu, Bowling Green State University

Sisters raised nearly $900 for Autism Speaks through their

inaugural 5K around the BGSU campus and their annual flag

football tournament.DuringMomsWeekend,mothers came to

campus toseewhatbeinganAlphaXiDeltaSister isallabout.

Theweekendincludedabrunchaswellasaraffle,whichraised

$1,650forAutismSpeaks.—LindseyWhitacker,[email protected]

Beta Tau, Kent State

Thechapterheldajam-packedweekofactivitiestoraisemoney

and awareness for Autism Speaks. Sisters asked for donations,

invitedspeakerstocampustospeakaboutautism,invitedother

studentstohelpthemputtogetheragiantpuzzlepiece,helda

penny wars fundraiser and ended the week with their Xi Man

competition.Alltold,Sistersraised$6,600forourphilanthropic

partner.—BrittanyLucido,[email protected]

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Zeta Nu, Miami University

Thechapter’s second roundof recruitment focusedonAlphaXi

Delta’snewphilanthropicpartnership.Sistersandpotentialnew

memberswatchedavideoaboutAutismSpeaksandthenmade

stimulationkitsthatincludedkazoos,pipecleaners,colorfulballs

andothertoys.Thekitswillbegiventolocalclassroomsthathave

childrenwithautism.—LaurenGardner,[email protected]

Theta Upsilon, Youngstown State

SistersheldtheirannualJail’N‘Bailfundraiserandraisedmore

than$1,800fortheRichCenterforAutismontheYSUcampus.

InOctober, Sistersparticipated in theClevelandWalkNow for

Autism Speaks event and proudly raised more than $1,300.—

CarolanneSemancik,[email protected]

Cuyahoga West Shore Alumnae Association

Sisters held a Golden Anniversary Luncheon in September to

celebrate50yearsofalumnaesisterhoodandservice.Asunny,

autumn day welcomed past and current members, including

threeoftheassociation’schartermembers:NancyHaffnerWirth,

LeeChiltonBrookinsandBettyGerusKavander.

More than 20 chapters are represented in the association,

includingthreemother-daughterpairs.Thesuccessofthismulti-

generationalchapteristheresultofanactivemembershipdrive

and interesting, flexible monthly programming. Their Interest

Groups(RecentGraduates,TGIFersandPensioners)shareaddi-

tionalspecialsisterhoodactivities.OneofthePensioners’favor-

ite activities is their annual craftworkshopwhere Sistersmeet

to create a table favor for the December holiday dinner while

enjoyingthecompanionshipofotherretiredSisters,alongwith

coffeeandlunch.

PhilanthropychairJodyDettmerHalleyhasgottentheasso-

ciationactively involvedwithAutismSpeaks.Associationmem-

bers, family and friends participated in the Cleveland autism

walk, raising more than $1,000. In addition, the local autism

centerbenefittedfromdonationsbroughttotheDecemberholi-

daydinner.—LindaDettmer,[email protected]

OKLAHOMA

Iota Delta, University of Central Oklahoma/Oklahoma City Alumnae Association/Tulsa Alumnae Association

SisterscelebratedtheholidayseasontogetherwithaThanksgiving

meal and the exchange of Christmas presents. Laughter, food

andfunweresharedbyall.—JenniferBurris,[email protected]

TEXAS

Arlington Alumnae Association

Alumnae had a busy end to 2009. Sisters gathered for dinner

at a local restaurant, took a tour of historic Thistle Hill in Ft.

Worth and celebrated the holidays with collegiate Sisters at

the home of association president Sherry Villanueva-Scott.

In November, alumnae raised more than $2,400 as they

walked and volunteered with members of the Dallas Alumnae

Association and Zeta Lambda Chapter at Texas Wesleyan for

theDallas/Ft.WorthWalkNowforAutismSpeaksevent.—Joie

Furlong,[email protected]

Dallas Alumnae Association

Sisters are proud of Dolores English for heading up the Walk

Now forAutismSpeakseventat theballpark inArlingtonand

theLoopforLupusmotorcycleride.Alumnaealsogavebackto

thecommunitybywrappingChristmasgiftsforat-riskyouthat

theStewpotaspartofthemissionofFirstPresbyterianChurch

ofDallas.—LisaA.Lanier,[email protected]

Houston Area Alumnae Association

Alumnae continue to see an increase in attendance at their

monthlysocialhourandencourageSisterstojointhemforfun

andfriendship.Learnmoreabouttheassociationandupcoming

eventsatwww.axidhouston.orgorbycontactingMarySlaterat

[email protected].

VIRGINIA

Delta Mu, Old Dominion University

Duringfallrecruitment,Sisterswelcomed18newmembersinto

the chapter. The chapter helped register participants during

theWalkNowforAutismSpeakseventsinRichmond,Virginia,

andWashington,D.C. The chapter alsopartneredwitha local

business,AmericanIndoorKarting,inVirginiaBeachandraised

morethan$600forAutismSpeaksbyhostinggo-kart,jousting

andsumowrestlingevents,aswellassellingpizza.Sisterswere

also involved in other philanthropic events, including walking

intheSusanG.KomenandFoodandAllergywalks,bothheld

in Virginia Beach. Sisters continue their visits to the Ronald

McDonald House in Norfolk each month to prepare meals for

thefamiliesthatstaythere.—JillKempie,[email protected]

WASHINGTON

Nu, University of Washington/Seattle Area Alumnae Association

InNovember,thelivingroomatthechapterhousewasstanding

roomonlywithmorethan80collegiateandalumnaemembers

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present to bid on live and silent auction items during the

chapter’s Pickle Mix. A 100-year-old tradition, Pickle Mix

began when collegians asked their mothers for canned

itemstosupplement theirmealsat thechapterhouse.The

motherscontributedavarietyofitems,suchasrelishes,jams,

vegetablesand fruits.Thename“PickleMix”derived from

thefactthatmostoftheitemscontributedwerepickles!The

eventraisedmorethan$1,200forthechapter’sscholarship

fund.—MichelleRutherford,[email protected]

WEST VIRGINIA

Iota, West Virginia University

The chapter had an amazing fall recruitment and proudly

welcomed24newmemberstoourSisterhoodinNovember.In

support of our new philanthropic partnership with Autism

Speaks, Iota held a Football FrenXI tournament and raised

nearly $800. Sisters also prepared sensory stimulation kits

for children with autism in the Morgantown area and

volunteeredinclassroomstoassistchildrenwithautism.

IotatookhomefirstplaceduringMountaineerWeekand

second place during homecoming. The chapter hosted an

alumnae weekend in October and welcomed 30 Sisters to

the pregame tailgate. A Sunday brunch was also prepared

soalumnaecouldmeetcollegiateSistersandseethe latest

updates to the chapter house. Special congratulations to

SistersservinginthefollowingofficesonWVU’sPanhellenic

Council:presidentClaireBarth,vicepresidentofpublicrela-

tionsKristinMitchellandvicepresidentofriskmanagement

MalloryMiles.—DanaZelder,[email protected]

WISCONSIN

Delta Alpha, University of Wisconsin La Crosse

Sistersareexcitedtohavefivenewadvisorsforthechapter,

thanks to the hard work of Delta Alpha’s Area Facilitator/

InterimChapterAdvisor.Asthechaptercontinuestogrow,

Sisters look forward to working with and getting to know

these dedicated alumnae.—Becky Putzer, putzer.rebe@

students.uwlax.edu

Delta Tau, University of Wisconsin Osh Kosh

At theFraternity/SororityExcellenceAwards,DeltaTauwas

namedChapteroftheYearandtheChancellor’sChapterof

Merit.ErinZimmerman,’98,wasnamedChapterAdvisorof

theYear.—AllisonPopple,[email protected]

Bay Area Houston-Galveston Alumnae Association | Sisters got in the holiday spirit during their December gathering at the home of president Jennie Bryan Hampton (far right). Front row: Rachel Barnes Smith, Diane Brofazi Overman, Bonnie Barnes Keith, Jennie. Back row: Susan Garrott Raschke, Darla Schneider McKitrick.—Jennie Hampton, [email protected]

Denver Alumnae Association | Each year, family and friends of alumnae look forward to the association’s Sweet Charity Brunch, Bake Sale, Boutique and Auction, which helps raise funds to support association activities and projects. Ready to welcome guests are alumnae Barbara Quinn Hoover, Debbie Boos-Neff and Amy Halvorson-Bayer.—Barb Stover, [email protected]

Eastern Michigan |Rosemarie Alcini Konczal and Marita Fisher Koch attended a Detroit Tigers game and met Placido Polanco.

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ReunionsSisters celebrate their genuine, lifelong friendships in Alpha Xi Delta.

Bowling Green State | Pledge Sisters from 1956 met at theBetaMuchapterhouseforanOctoberreunion.EvenhouseboyArchieDeancamebacktoreminiscewiththeladies.Manyofthecurrent collegiate Sisters and Chapter Advisor Jill Foster Bortelwereat thechapterhouse.Alumnaehadagreat timemeetingthemandcomparingstoriesoflifeattheXihouseinthelate50scomparedtotoday.—LindaGeeLamb,[email protected]

Rochester Institute of Technology | Alumnae gathered inOctober for a magical weekend reunion. More than 60 alumnaefromthe1970s,‘80s,90sand2000sjoinedcurrentcollegiateSistersfor a beautiful breakfast and ceremony. In the evening, alumnaerented a cabin at nearby Mendon Ponds Park, complete with acateredmeal,oldphotos,T-shirtsandotherAlphaXimemorabilia.

DeltaLambdawillcelebrateits50thyearatRITin2013withahugecelebration.BepartofitbycontactingDebraL.Rothenbergat [email protected], Deborah Crescenzo Martz atkartmom18@yahoo.comorGretchenRobbinsMittelstaedtatmit-telstaedt@yahoo.com.CheckouttheDeltaLambdaalumnaeblogathttp://ritazd.blogspot.com/.

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Virginia | Zeta Psi Sisters gottogether in June during theuniversity’s 20-year Class of ’89reunion celebration. In attendancewere Beth Wright Redford, SusieBruce, Martha Dickens Taylor,DebbieSchiffgensFales,JennyElderLeeds, Cathleen DeRonja Phelpsand daughter Lyra, Barbara AdamsHall, Leslie Beth Lazarus Kornreichand Gretchen Tibbits. Ten of theSisters foundedZetaPsiChapter in1987;LeslieBeth initiated in1990.Gretchen is holding the Tiffanyloving cup, awarded by the UVAalumniassociationtothegraduatingclass with the highest number inattendance.—Susie Bruce, [email protected]

Indiana | Beta Pi Sisters whowere students at IU in the early1960s gathered for a mini reunionin Bloomington in September.Front row: Kay Welch Kelly, LindaRethmeyer,NancyGrossSeitz.Backrow:VeraStillabowerMurphy,JudyMyersCotterman,BarbaraKeunekeParks, Wanda Wallace, RieszDuchnowski, Judy Martin Pingel.—BarbaraParks,[email protected]

Henderson State (AR) | AlphaXi Delta sisterhood continues longafter pledging in 1969 and 1970!Gathered for a homecoming-weekend reunion are GlennaAveryBennett,DebbieBrockJames,Leesa Haney Renshaw and KathyNicklaus Owrey.—Kathy Owrey,[email protected]

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Purdue | Sisters from the 1959pledge class were honored withanOrderof theRoseCeremonyatthe chapter house in October. ThegroupstayedatthePurdueStudentUnion, toured campus, and hadlunchwithseveralcollegiateSistersand housemother Mary Guckien.Their next reunion will be in 2011in Camas, Washington. Front row:Wilma Knoop Shackleton, RuthBishop Phelan, Marilyn MathesBaumann, Ann Martin Durkos.Back row: Marie Kaleta Bailey, LeShafer Eliason, Sue Collins Shaw,Jean Noe Clark, Sally BridgewaterSpencer,VirginiaMitchellPettigrew,Nancy Hahn Morgan.—Jean Clark,[email protected]

Oklahoma State | EpsilonOmicron alumnae traveled back toStillwater for a football tailgate.Front row: Jill Schrontz Tenzythoff,DebbieRoebuck Leland.Back row:Ann Lowrance, Judy White, LynneBranch McElroy, Lynne StanleyCaroon, Kay Hunt. These alumnaeagree: It’s always fun to returnto “where it all began” and seeSisters!—Jill Tenzythoff, [email protected]

Share your Reunion News and Photos!

Renew your friendships and Sisterly ties by holding a chapter

reunion. Fraternity Headquarters can help you assemble your

guest list by providing an Excel file with the names and addresses

of alumnae from your chapter and/or in specified ZIP codes. You

can also request mailing labels, which are available for a nominal

fee. Learn more in The Blue Room of www.alphaxidelta.org or

by calling 317.872.3500. There’s even a helpful Sisterhood Event

Planning Guide in The Blue Room too!

Southern Maine |Morethan100alumnaeinitiatedbetween1971and2005reunitedinOctoberatVerrillo’sConvention Center in Portland.Sisters enjoyed a brunch, an AlphaXi Delta trivia game, an AutismSpeaks presentation and an EpsilonRho“through theyears” slideshow.Evening festivities includeda formaldinner and dance, reminiscing withfriends,andaraffle,whoseproceedsweregiventoAutismSpeaks.—SarahFarwell,[email protected]

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Installation

San Jose, California, is known for its technology-based economy, its mild, Mediterranean climate and its glitter-ing downtown cityscape. Now it also boasts the newest chapter of Alpha Xi Delta. On January 24, 2010, Iota Omicron Chapter at San Jose State University was installed with 45 colle-giate Sisters and two alumnae initiates.

The Pre-Initiation Ceremony was held Saturday night at the Downtown Crown Plaza Hotel. The highly antici-pated Installation Ceremony took place Sunday morning at the Crown Plaza as well and was followed by a celebra-tory luncheon with family, friends and supporters of the chapter. The new initiates were thrilled at the pres-ence of National President Deanna

Detchemendy, Fraternity staff, volun-teers and many encouraging alumnae from local associations. Also in atten-dance at the luncheon were members of the university’s Student Involvement staff and the Panhellenic president.

During their semester as a colony, our newest Sisters wasted no time in making an impression. With the guid-ance and support of their Educational Leadership Consultants and many oth-ers, colony members established a lasting sisterhood, formed strong and active relationships within the Greek community, and earned the highest grade point average of all Greek orga-nizations at San Jose State.

Iota Omicron is made up of confi-dent, poised leaders who are extremely

active on campus. Our newest Sisters are resident advisors, Programming Board members, orientation advisors and members of Alpha Phi Omega Service Fraternity, just to name a few of their activities. They also participate in club volleyball, theatre, speech and debate, and serve on the executive committee for Up ’til Dawn.

SJSU is located in downtown San Jose, midway between San Francisco and the Monterey/Carmel area at the southern end of the San Francisco Bay. More than 31,000 students are enrolled at the university. Alpha Xi Delta joins five other NPC sororities on campus: Alpha Omicron Pi, Alpha Phi, Delta Gamma, Delta Zeta and Kappa Delta.

Iota Omicron Chapter Installed at San Jose StateBy TobiRichards,Iota Omicron ’10, ChapterPresident

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ByHeatherBradyGallegos,Cal State Fresno ’91

When I went running early one Wednesday morning, I didn’t think it would change me forever. And I certainly didn’t think I would save the life of a stranger.

Who am I? I’m a not-so-avid runner with a bum leg, a 37-year-old wife and mother of three girls, a corporate writer and a Sister. I can now also be called a “hero,” but prior to that morning I would have never thought that possible. The following experience has shown me that everything happens for a reason, and that each of us has extraordinary potential.

On a pre-dawn Wednesday in 2009, I arrived at our local high school track and began walking to warm up. A nearby runner suddenly collapsed, and within seconds his breathing slowed to a stop. In a moment of alarm and crystal clarity, I began chest compressions and urged another person to do mouth-to-mouth until the runner’s breathing returned. We did CPR for several minutes before the paramedics arrived. The EMTs used an AED to defibrillate the runner’s heart, twice, before his heart restarted. He was immediately taken to the hospital. I went home because I no longer felt like running.

For days following, the events of that morning kept replaying in my head like a movie, and I wrote it down to simply stop the re-runs. What follows is an excerpt from that story.

The house is quiet when I get home. I can hear my husband in the shower. I am definitely shaken and consider having a glass of wine to settle my nerves. Since it’s 6:20 a.m. and I need to drive the kids to school, wine is not really a good option right now. Tempting, though.

I check my voicemail and listen to a message from Marisa that she wasn’t coming today. I realize how close I came to not being there to help today . . . if I had checked my voicemail, or if I had gone back to sleep . . . I would have stayed home. While I know that if I wasn’t there today someone would have surely stepped up, I can’t be sure they would have been so close or had a cell phone with them.

I am again reminded that everything indeed does happen for a reason. I was there today for a reason. To help save a life. To learn my own inner strength and grace under pressure. To be reminded again that there is a higher source I can trust to give me opportunities to live my purpose.

I walk back to my bedroom, in a bit of a daze. “There is a reason I woke up today,” I tell my husband.

“Hold on, Babe. I can’t hear you. I’m almost out,” he calls out from the shower.

Sister to Sister

Heather Gallegos was in the right place at the right time to save the life of fellow runner, Jim.

Eleven Minutes is Enough Time to Save a Life

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I wait in the doorway to the steamy bathroom, absorbing the warmth of the room. I take off my sweatshirt and start to put my phone on the dresser. I pause before I set it down and check my last call, curious how long I was on the phone with 911.

Eleven minutes.Eleven minutes for my life to briefly intersect with his. Enough time for me to be his

heartbeat until help arrived. Enough time to save his life. Enough time to change mine. While in the midst of writing everything down, I realized the story would serve a

more important purpose. First, to serve as a memory for the runner who will never remember those 11 minutes. And second, to share with others the lessons I learned that day:

1. Everyone can and should learn CPR. Maybe it will be a stranger or maybe it will be a loved one, but you can save a life. The Red Cross holds CPR and First Aid classes regularly in your area. Although I hadn’t taken a class in more than 15 years, some of it came back to me and I instinctually knew what to do. Since those 11 minutes, I spent a Saturday at the Red Cross and am now recertified in CPR.

2. Always carry ID, especially when exercising alone. Bring a card with your ICE (In Case of Emergency) contacts, or wear a tag from RoadID.com if you run/bike/walk alone. The runner did not have identification with him. For close to 36 hours after his cardiac arrest he was unidentified in the hospital, heavily sedated and unable to talk to hospital staff. His girlfriend broke into his house and found only his wallet and car keys. She then called the local hospitals to find him.

3. From your mobile phone, call your local 911 dispatcher to save time. Calls to 911 from a mobile phone are routed to a regional dispatcher who must transfer the call to your city. Look up and save your local 911 dis-patch number on your mobile phone to shave a minute or more off the emer-gency response time by avoiding this transfer. Find yours by searching online for “<your city> 911 dispatch.”

4. Everything happens for a reason. Even the little things in life, like get-ting up early in the morning, matter and shape your life. Be open and look for the opportunities presented to you to learn, live your purpose and realize your potential. You can find a reason, a lesson, a purpose for just about everything if you look in the right place.

5. Eleven minutes is enough time. Many of us, myself included, go through life thinking there’s not enough time to do everything. Whether it’s spending a few minutes reading with your child or stopping to help a stranded motorist, there’s always enough time to make a difference.

The runner who collapsed is Jim, a 47 year old whom I had never met before. He recovered and a few days later celebrated his 48th birthday. I had the pleasure of

meeting him again one month later, and I visited with him, his girlfriend and his sister for several hours. I expect they will continue to be part of my life, as we’ve run into each other at the grocery and have mutual friends in the neighborhood.

I’ve always felt a deep, personal connection to Alpha Xi Delta’s vision of “Inspiring women to realize their potential,” yet never before that day had I felt so intensely that I had actu-ally realized my extraordinary poten-tial. It is my hope, my fervent wish, that you also realize that it’s in each one of us to be extraordinary, even if it’s for 11 minutes.

Connect with Heather at heather. [email protected]. Read the full story Eleven Minutes at http://eleven-minutes.wordpress.com.

Do you have a message you’d like to share, “From Sister to Sister”? Send your story and photos to the Editor for future consideration.

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Suzanne Davis Courtney, Eastern Michigan ’64, wrote and illustrated her first chil-dren’s book, Ride to the Stars, to help children understand the cycle of life and death. Suzanne wrote the book after the death of her 25-year-old son, Daniel. “The loss of a loved one is tragic,” she said, “but with hope, healing and love comes an understanding of how a life is truly infinite as well.”

Suzanne teaches elemen-tary school and lives with her family in Monroe, Michigan. Her book can be ordered from www.eloquentbooks .com/RideToTheStars.html and Amazon.com. Part of the book’s proceeds are given to the Daniel R. Sayre Memorial Foundation to purchase rescue equipment to help firefighters and rescue teams save lives on the Big Island of Hawaii, where Daniel died. Suzanne is currently working on a nonfiction book on bereavement for parents.

Connect with Suzanne at [email protected].

Shannon K. Stevens, Syracuse ’94, joined Jaffe Associates, a public relations agency dedicated to law firms and the legal indus-try, as an account supervisor. Shannon began her career in corporate and financial PR and has represented The New York Bar Association and several prominent law firms. Most recently, she worked with PR firm M Booth & Associates in New York, where she was an integral part of the Vaseline, JCPenney and Tropicana teams. Her work on the Vaseline “Skin is Amazing” and “Skinvoice” campaigns helped yield several PR industry awards.

Connect with Shannon at [email protected].

Suzanne Davis Courtney and her daughter, Laura Sayre Dunworth,EasternMichigan’88.“ Laura and her brother were very close, and her input toward the book was immense,” said Suzanne.

Karen Casey Elliott, Purdue ’58, reveals everyday ways to open our hearts and minds to the power of hope in her new book, Cultivating Hope. Karen is the author of numerous books devoted to the enhance-ment of one’s personal and spiritual journey. Her first book, Each Day a New Beginning: Daily Meditations for Women, has sold more than three million copies.

Shelli Sanderson Miller, Bowling Green State ’89, was named principal at Hoffman Trails Elementary in Hilliard, Ohio. Shelli started teaching English in 1992 at what was then Hilliard Middle School; she accepted her new post in May 2009. Fun fact: As an undergrad, Shelli was BGSU’s mascot, Frieda Falcon!

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Gloria Horton, Alabama ’62, (left) was named Outstanding Faculty Member of the Year by the Jacksonville State (AL) National Alumni Association. JSU English pro-fessor Pamela D. Young, Jacksonville State ’74, was also honored during the university’s homecoming game as Outstanding Alumna of the Year.

Carol Cooper, Florida State ’71, was recently recognized for her career accomplishments by the FSU chapter of Omicron Delta Kappa National Leadership Honor Society. Carol has held numerous stateside and overseas positions during her 27-year career with the U.S. Navy’s Judge Advocate General Corps. During that time she received two Navy Achievement Medals, two Navy Commendation Medals, two Meritorious Service Medals and three Legion of Merit Medals – the second-highest noncombat award that can be earned.

Carol was the first female Navy judge advocate to be appointed to the Appellate Court of the Navy-Marine Corps Court of Criminal Appeals. She is also the first female director of Appellate Defense for the Navy, a position in which she supervised 13 other active-duty appellate attorneys and 20 reserve attorneys. To cap her military career, Carol became the senior counsel for the surgeon general of the Navy.

Carol retired from military service in 2005 and is now the deputy general counsel for TRICARE Management Activity, the organization that develops the policy and imple-ments the programs for the nation’s military healthcare system.

Connect with Carol at [email protected].

Lisa Cao, Cornell ’06, spent a year volunteering with City Year, an AmeriCorps organization that unites young people to serve as full-time tutors, mentors and role models. Lisa served at MS 302 in the South Bronx, the middle school alma mater of former secretary of state Colin Powell.

Lisa and fellow corps members Anthony Apollon and Matthew Thomas had the honor of meeting privately with Gen. Powell and introducing him as a keynote speaker at the annual Forum for Institutional Investors conference last fall in New York City. Gen. Powell thanked the trio for giving a year of their lives to serve the nation’s children and, to Lisa’s surprise, said, “Lisa will always have a special place in my heart because she served in my alma mater, MS 302!”

Connect with Lisa at [email protected]. Learn more about City Year at www.cityyear.org.

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Alpha Xi Delta occupies more than 750,000 square feet of housing space on college campuses nationwide. These living spaces range from large homes to lodges and from dorm floors to suites.

In 2009, the Fraternity added three more chapter houses and one chapter room to this growing list. See who got new digs!

Zeta Omega Chapter, University of West Georgia (above)

After 20 years of moving from dorm hall to dorm hall, Zeta Omega Sisters finally have a chapter house! Plans began in 2005 when the university’s Panhellenic Council started discussing the benefits of building houses in a Greek Village. As with many construction projects, the timeline was extended and delays occurred. Finally, in fall 2009, the Alpha Xi Delta chapter house was complete.

Twenty of Zeta Omega’s 73 Sisters excitedly packed up their belongings

and moved into their new home. Fourteen sororities and fraternities live in Greek Village, the new hub of West Georgia’s Greek life.

Professionally decorated, the chap-ter house resembles a home found in an upscale neighborhood while offer-ing all the comforts of a college apart-ment. Sisters look forward to hosting chapter events, as well as homecoming and Family Day, at their new home.—Merrie Griffith Martin, ’91

Alpha Beta Chapter, Cornell University (opposite page, top)

In fall 2009, Sisters moved into their new home at 40 Ridgewood Road in Ithaca, New York. The new chapter house is a magnificent white structure, complete with columns and balconies. Inside is a chapter room, formal room, library, gym, TV room, laundry facili-ties and an enormous dining room. The 18 bedrooms double the chapter’s

live-in capacity to 38 Sisters. Many of the bedrooms have private bathrooms; three connect to private balconies.

A prominent Cornell horticulture professor originally owned the chapter house. Several fraternities and sorori-ties also occupied the house through the years.

In September, Alpha Beta hosted a housewarming barbecue for the other sororities at Cornell and the Fraternity and Sorority Affairs staff. As Sisters gave house tours, their excitement for their new house was obvious.—Tracey Zhou, ’08

Zeta Xi Chapter, Auburn University (right, middle)

After months of planning, building and designing, Zeta Xi was delighted to welcome potential new members into their new chapter room during fall 2009 recruitment.

While it’s a huge endeavor for a

Housing

A Place to Call Home

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housing corporation to conduct a capi-tal campaign to garner funds for a new chapter room/house, these efforts are beneficial beyond the obvious delight of a brand new space. When alumnae give monetary gifts for a new chapter room/house, they’re contributing not only to the new space, but also to the chapter’s recruitment efforts for years to come.

Project manager Gina Willis Hawkins, Jacksonville State ’86, interior designer Ginny Aday, Florida State ’65, and local project coordinator Grace Byrd Morris, Auburn ’91, crafted the new chapter room to meet a variety of needs: a meeting room, a living room and a welcoming space for alumnae and guests. To Sisters, the chapter room is also a physical representation of their respect for Alpha Xi Delta.

Zeta Xi’s chapter room features creamy yellow walls, a rich hardwood floor accent-ed with beautiful rugs, several lovely occasional tables, and sofas and chairs with beautiful light blue, dark blue and gold coverings. Each item was handpicked to reflect Southern charm and sorority pride.—Michelle LeNoir Collier, Zeta Xi ’94

Theta Psi Chapter, Dartmouth College (right, bottom)

Theta Psi Sisters are proud to call home their residence at 17 East Wheelock in Hanover, New Hampshire. The chapter house was renovated last summer and sleeps 15 seniors and seven juniors.

Paint colors and furniture are brand new and tailored to Sisters’ specifications. The first floor displays our colors – light blue, dark blue and yellow; the beautiful entranceway welcomes Sisters and guests with our Greek letters inlaid in marble. This stunning entrance leads to a great hall, painted a warm shade of yellow, that sits adjacent to the kitchen and study room.

The chapter house is situated near the East Wheelock residential cluster, across the street from Alumni Gym. It’s also close to several Greek houses, including Kappa Kappa Gamma and Chi Heorot.—Michelle Chan, ’08

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“I will be back in the hospital next year and unable to work since I’m often in the hospital from 5:30 a.m. until 8 p.m. This scholarship will allow me to focus on my studies.”

Sima Yazdani, Texas ’03, Duke University School of Medicine, a recipient of the presti-gious Howard Hughes Medical Fellowship during which she con-ducted research on identifying mechanisms of epilepsy. Her goal is to be accepted into a neurosur-gery residency program with a strong emphasis on research.

Alpha Xi Delta’s Founders left us a great legacy. They taught us the value of edu-cation because it frees us to achieve our goals and gives us the power to be what-ever we choose. They taught us to sup-port one another through shared experi-

ences and understanding. They taught us to serve others and reach out to better the lives of those less fortunate.

To honor their legacy, the Founders’ Memorial Scholarship was announced at Alpha Xi Delta’s 75th Anniversary

Diamond Jubilee Convention in 1968. Through the years it has been awarded to 47 Sisters. We look forward to follow-ing the journey of our 2009 Founders’ Memorial Scholarship Recipients and the difference they will make in our world.

Foundation News

Inspiring Knowledge and Inspiring Sisters

“Alpha Xi Delta has always been there for me throughout my college career. My involvement in Greek life has taught me skills that are important for medical school and beyond: persistence, orga-nization and loyalty. I am hopeful that someday my daughter will see how much my sorority and Sisters have meant to me and become a Sister in Alpha Xi Delta.”

“Time and time again, I see the reasons why Alpha Xi Delta is the perfect women’s fraternity for me. Our vision, ‘Inspiring women to realize their potential,’ is my career objective! I blossomed and grew into who I always wanted to be because of my experience in Alpha Xi Delta, which led me to my current career path in student affairs.”

Shayna Royal, Nebraska Omaha ’04, a student in the college student personnel master’s degree program at Bowling Green State University.

“Alpha Xi Delta has changed my life. The Fraternity put me where I am today, and I will be forever grateful for the woman she has taught me to be.”

Amanda Benson Hicks, Southern Polytechnic State ’04, Finance Territory Director for Alpha Xi Delta chapters in the southeast, pursuing an MBA in finance online at Grand Canyon University.

Diamond Jubilee Convention in 1968.

“Time and time again, I see the reasons why Alpha Xi Delta is the perfect women’s fraternity for me. Our vision,

Through the years it has been awarded to 47 Sisters. We look forward to following the journey of our 2009 Founders’ Memorial Scholarship Recipients and the difference they will make in our world.

to 47 Sisters. We look forward to following the journey of our 2009 Founders’ Memorial Scholarship Recipients and the difference they will make in our world.

“Time and time again, I see the reasons why Alpha Xi Delta is the perfect women’s fraternity for me. Our vision, ‘Inspiring women to realize their potential,’ is my career

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Isn’t it a good feeling to invest in young women’s lives? Your current and future gifts to the Alpha Xi Delta Foundation will inspire young women to realize their potential through the leadership opportunities we offer, the lifelong learning we inspire and the service we give to improve the lives of children. This was the dream of our Founders and is more important in our lives today than ever before.

What is your dream for Alpha Xi Delta and our young Sisters? Whatever your passion — women’s leadership, personal growth, lifelong learning, scholarship, com-munity service — we can help you realize your dreams through a planned gift to the Alpha Xi Delta Foundation. Have you already named the Foundation in your will, trust, IRA, retirement plan or life insurance policy? Please let us know so that:

• You receive appropriate thanks and appreciation.• You are enrolled in our Society of 1893 planned

giving society.• You receive invitations to special gatherings at

national meetings.• You can verify that the Foundation is able to

comply with your wishes within IRS guidelines, if you have included special terms with your gift.

• You can make new friendships based on your commitment to Alpha Xi Delta’s future.

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taking care of children clinically and helping per-form research to advance the treatment of chronic childhood diseases.

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EternalChapter

The spring Chapter Eter-nal includes Sisters whose passing was reported to Fraternity Headquarters be-tween September 1 and De-cember 31, 2009. To notify us of a Sister’s passing, please send an obituary notice, me-morial service pamphlet or other written confirmation to Fraternity Headquarters.

Beta ChapterIowa Wesleyan CollegeMildred Marcilliat Byerly ’38Rosemary Davis Logsdon ’40Susan Long Mueller ’77Karen Boruff Pease ’59

Gamma ChapterMount Union CollegeJean Madison Krahling ’42Ruth Newell Newman ’38

Delta ChapterBethany CollegeLouise Gettys Dutt ’39Ann Harman Gray ’40Alice Cree Hamilton ’52Helen Aull Meess ’45

Epsilon ChapterUniversity of South DakotaDoris Wright Hill ’40

Zeta ChapterWittenberg UniversityAlice Wiegel Hill ’41Merle Asplin Wearstler ’36

Theta ChapterUniversity of Wisconsin-MadisonElizabeth Brown Stiller ’47Kathryn Kaeser Taplick ’31

Iota ChapterWest Virginia UniversitySelby Parsons Greer ’52Barbara Cather Weltman ’30

Kappa ChapterUniversity of IllinoisPriscilla Lavin Kuhn ’41Lera Margaret Spencer ’23

Mu ChapterUniversity of MinnesotaDorothy Sandberg Hegdol ’38Helen Stephens Pohl ’23

Nu ChapterUniversity of WashingtonJeannette Uddenberg Vander Woude ’41

Omicron ChapterUniversity of California, BerkeleyCarol Lowe Arne ’52Shirley Haueter Dodge ’56Ruth Nisson Sawyer ’32

Pi ChapterOhio UniversityBetty Jane Otstot Brown ’36Margaret Sheldon Hadden ’42Joanne Hammerstrand Kunath ’43

Tau ChapterUniversity of New HampshireEthel Steigmann Garcia ’41Jeannine Kieft-Schnipper ’88

Phi ChapterAlbion CollegeNancy McSween Dunne ’51

Psi ChapterOhio State UniversityAnna Eggleston Klotz ’39Mary Reeder Lawless ’35Marlena Richards ’73Mildred Geren Seybold ’33

Omega ChapterStetson UniversityLuanna Krause Carswell ’58Frances Chandler Futch ’41Martha Howe McConnell Hall ’35

Irma Chappell Sprinkle ’34Mina Kingston Tinsley ’51

Alpha Beta ChapterCornell UniversityJoyce White Cima ’49Grace O’Dare Kimball ’38Louise Laverty Matejka ’50

Alpha Gamma ChapterCoe CollegeMary Northey Knapp ’28Sydney Jayne Lawrence Ortman ’70

Patricia Wilson Ruigh ’40

Alpha Delta ChapterOregon State UniversityMina Hessler Carr ’30Jean McKinney Griffith ’41Marylou McAllister Lacey ’41

Alpha Epsilon ChapterUniversity of MichiganBeatrice Brown Nobles ’47Ann Dixon Thomas ’40

Alpha Eta ChapterPurdue UniversityRuth Brown Heaton ’35Nelda Wood Kramer ’39Maxine Brossart Paonessa ’36Jane Switzer Vaux ’44

Alpha Theta ChapterNorthwestern UniversityShirley Barnes Asquith ’51Elizabeth Rainford Berkemeyer ’60

Peggy Lee Baugher Garrett ’54Edith Maudain Barnard Wood ’42

Alpha Iota ChapterDrake UniversityMartha Lou Fischer Denton ’74Dorothy Beswick Wiechmann ’38

Alpha Kappa ChapterKansas State UniversityNorva Jeanne Wolfe Henrichs ’48

Alpha Mu ChapterOhio Wesleyan UniversityMary Gibson Gardner ’54Bettie Lowther Riggs ’45Geraldine Phelps Stalnaker ’43

Alpha Xi ChapterUniversity of California at Los AngelesAudrey Leeman Lincoln ’35

Alpha Rho ChapterAllegheny CollegeDorothy Devlin Poleno ’42

Alpha Sigma ChapterWashington State UniversityHelen Frost Austin ’67

Beta Alpha ChapterUniversity of TexasFrances Brunner Herzik ’36

Beta Beta ChapterWashington UniversityMargaret McLean Harkness Glahn ’48

Karleen Redle ’57

Beta Gamma ChapterCentenary CollegeHazel Kendrick Bice ’41

Beta Epsilon ChapterMonmouth CollegeAgnes Kilpatrick Anderson ’46Mary Beal DeYoung ’36Eva Ketzle Gobble ’41Minna Fricke Work ’32

Beta Zeta ChapterLake Forest CollegeMary Dusenberry ’45

Beta Eta ChapterUniversity of MarylandShirley Pfeiffer Herbert ’39Harriet Littell Kitsz ’45

Beta Theta ChapterMichigan State UniversityHelene Olmstead Staercke ’45

Beta Kappa ChapterBaldwin-Wallace CollegeJane Wilkerson Koppenhafer ’50Marian Lundi Scheutzow ’57

Beta Lambda ChapterPennsylvania State UniversityCarmela Marino Harvey ’55

Beta Mu ChapterBowling Green State UniversityPatricia Fillner Berry ’43Nancy Claspy Swenson ’56

Beta Nu ChapterCulver-Stockton CollegePatricia Swank Pickering ’49

Beta Xi ChapterMarietta CollegeAnne Anderson Davidson ’45Loretta Morrissey Gelbach ’45

Beta Omicron ChapterMissouri Valley CollegePatricia Johnson Davies ’50

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Beta Pi ChapterIndiana UniversityPatricia Prince Hasselfeldt ’58

Beta Sigma ChapterWest Virginia Wesleyan CollegeImogene Randolph Hymes ’47

Beta Upsilon ChapterUniversity of Rhode IslandPatricia Huettel Gilbert ’54

Beta Phi ChapterUniversity of ConnecticutMary Castenholz Stack-Dunne ’49

Beta Omega ChapterMemphis State UniversityAnne Coda Drake ’49

Gamma Epsilon ChapterFresno StateBernadine Silva Cotta ’52Nancy Dadian ’76Winifred Berg Jewell ’52

Gamma Eta ChapterGeorgia Institute of TechnologySylvia Bassett ’55

Gamma Kappa ChapterSusquehanna UniversityGayle Troxell Yingling ’57

Gamma Nu ChapterSoutheast Missouri State UniversityJudith Wood Despres ’58

Gamma Sigma ChapterThiel CollegeFrances Tinley Rosselot ’63Cynthia Guyer Vanetta ’61

Gamma Upsilon ChapterUniversity of GeorgiaLinda Sutton Fletcher ’60

Delta Iota ChapterChadron State CollegeRoxane Andersen ’80

Delta Mu ChapterOld Dominion UniversityKathryn Edwards Benner ’99

Delta Pi ChapterDefiance CollegeBonnie Warren Tomlinson ’65

Delta Upsilon ChapterUniversity of Wisconsin-SuperiorJane Webster Wallace ’66

Delta Phi ChapterUniversity of CharlestonJulie Ann Hamlin ’80Marcia Jones ’65

Delta Psi ChapterTexas State University-San MarcosMary Margaret Mayfield ’68Cherryl Towns Sigwing ’72

Epsilon Pi ChapterJacksonville State UniversityMiriam Cockrell Higginbotham ’68

Zeta Lambda ChapterTexas Wesleyan UniversityMary Martin Pinkerton ’87

Zeta Sigma ChapterHillsdale CollegeJoyce Roberts Howell ’85

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Enhance technological capabilities to open new doors for Sisters to connect

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By BriAltier,ChiOmegaFraternity,TulaneUniversityDaughterofSarahBookerAltier,Stetson ’79

When writing this article and reflecting on The Sym-phony, I only had to read the first line to see that my mom is truly living this creed. My university does not have an Alpha Xi Delta chapter, yet my mom sup-ported me in joining the Greek community as a Chi Omega, which allowed me to develop a further under-standing of her connection to Alpha Xi Delta.

As a dedicated teacher for 19 years, my mom has been honored with numer-ous awards, most notably the 2008 DeLand, Florida, High School Teacher of the Year and as a top five finalist for 2009 Volusia County, Flor-ida, Teacher of the Year.

My mom also has a passion for exploration, which led her to jobs all around the world, including two years working as a model in Australia and a summer in Namibia teaching reading strategies and AIDS awareness.

When she’s not winning awards and touring the world, Mom is busy pursuing her love of knowledge. In 2006 she completed her master’s degree at Stetson University and is currently working toward her doctorate at the University of Florida. Her GPA is a 4.0. Can you believe this woman is my mom and your Sister?

I must also mention a detail that never fails to impress my friends: Mom was a con-testant on Who Wants to be a Millionaire? and Jeopardy! As a smart yet humble woman, she always gets a little modest when I start bragging about her game show history. (Are you rolling your eyes yet, Mom? I’m sorry, but you know I just couldn’t leave this out.)

Finally, and most importantly, I respect my mom for the things you would never find on a resume. Twenty-seven years ago she married the best man in the entire world, the man I’m proud to call my dad. Of those years, 23 were completely dedicated to raising my two brothers and me. I will always respect my parents for giving me such a strong foundation.

With my Mom’s clear vision of life, she sets new goals every day and lives them out. She is an amazing teacher, student, community member, person and, most importantly, mother.

Living Our SymphonyA Clear Vision of Life

The Symphony of Alpha Xi Delta

These things do we

earnestly desire:

A clear vision of life,

that with gracious

and kindly hearts we

may share both joy

and sorrow and bring

into living reality the

sisterhood of women.

An appreciation of

real merit and worth,

steadfastness of soul,

that without bitterness

or defeat we may

encounter misfortune

and with humility meet

success.

These things, O Lord,

help us to instill within

our hearts, that we may

grow in courage and

graciousness and peace.

Send your Living our Symphony stories and photos to Fraternity Headquarters,

or email them to [email protected].

Sarah Booker Altier and her daughter, Bri.

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Honor GiftsTheFoundationrecognizesHonorGiftsgivenfromSeptember1,2009,throughDecember31,2009.

Alpha Eta Chapter, Purdueby KendraBeckerLewis,Purdue

Alpha Xi Delta by ShannonDutton,Georgia Tech

RachelHenry,Georgia Tech

Alpha Xi Delta staff by JackieLyerly,Alpha Deuteron

Rachel Amato, Sonoma State, October 2009 FVP of the Monthby OmegaFinancial,Inc

Martin & Carol Anderson, parents of Laura Anderson by LauraAnderson,South Dakota State

Autism Speaks by KathrynCollinsFilar,Alma

Jillian Auxter, Toledoby CharleneDangler,Toledo

Bianca Bareswill, Old Dominionby GladysHerrera,Old Dominion

Ellen Barrett, mother of Kelly Barrett by KellyBarrett,Toledo

Jan Colton Belka, Slippery Rockby KimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Beta Alpha Chapter’s 80th anniver-sary, Texasby DevonMcGoldrick,Rochester Institute of Technology

Beta Epsilon Chapter, Monmouth by SonjaZedigianLowry,Monmouth

Christina Betcher by AngelaSchneider,St. Norbert

Cathy & Paul Breslin, parents of Abigail Breslin by AbigailBreslin,Stetson

Catherine Winckler Brown, Alpha Deuteronby ShirleyAlbrechtWinckler,Iowa

Denise Brown, Northern Iowaby KimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Samantha Carlson, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JenniferNewport, Wisconsin Oshkosh

Erica Contreras, Wisconsin Oshkoshby AllisonPopple,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Corporation boards supporting Delta Xi Chapter, Georgia State bySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Corporation boards supporting Gamma Eta Chapter, Georgia TechbySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Corporation boards supporting Theta Phi Chapter, Alabama BirminghambySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Corporation boards supporting Zeta Omega Chapter, West GeorgiabySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Corporation boards supporting Zeta Xi Chapter, AuburnbySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Katie Costa by JenniferHodor,West Virginia

Casey Cowhey, Missouri St. Louisby LindseyHeminghaus,Missouri St. Louis

Mary Crafton, Miami Ohio, December 2009 FVP of the Monthby OmegaFinancial,Inc

Blanche Gustavson Crook, OregonbyBarbaraStallcupMiller,Oregon

Delta Chi fall pledge class of 2006, Northern Iowaby AshleyPatton,Northern Iowa

Delta Chi members, Northern Iowaby DeniseBrown,Northern Iowa

Alice Frampton Dittman, Nebraska LincolnbyMarjorieStapletonOlney,Nebraska Lincoln

Pamela Donaldson, West VirginiabyCarolineWilson,West Virginia

Christina-Marie Drake, DefiancebyKateLambertHayfield,Defiance

Rikki Ealy-Hill, Western Michigan, September 2009 FVP of the MonthbyOmegaFinancial,Inc

Epsilon Phi colony members & 1969 initiates, Iowa State, for 40 years of membershipby JudyErickson,Iowa State

Michele Herbst Evink, South Dakota Stateby anonymousdonor

Julie Ferguson, Old Dominionby BiancaBareswill,Old Dominion

Brittany Fischer, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JadaLettenberger,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Foundation Board by MyraWigginsGrant,Western Carolina

Elizabeth Shetler Frank, Ohio State by SusanCooperKirschner,Ohio State

Melinda Frank, Ohio StatebySusanCooperKirschner,Ohio State

Lauren Fuller, Albion byLindsayCarniak,Albion

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Gamma Delta members, Nebraska Omahaby KaroleeBunnieWybengaOlsen,Nebraska Omaha

Gamma Xi Chapter, Valdosta State by SueHiltonKenneally,Valdosta State

Avery Garcia, St. Norbert by CassandraBaker,St. Norbert

Donna Gerofsky, mother of Karen Gerofskyby KarenGerofsky,Lycoming

Jennifer Gianino, Southeast Missouri Stateby SaraKonopka,Purdue

David Goodliff, father of Michelle Goodliffby MichelleGoodliff,West Virginia

Emilee Goralski, Albion by MaryShellenbergerBrown,Central Michigan

Craig & Janet Gordon, parents of Jennifer Gordonby JenniferGordon,Nebraska Omaha

Jennifer Gordon, West Virginiaby RebeccaCampbell,West Virginia

Barbara Renick Graves, Frostburg Stateby SandraPriebeDay,Frostburg State

Mary Hartzell Greenman, Southeast Missouri Stateby KarenOgorzalek,Monmouth (IL)

Meghan Griffith, Florida State Class of 2012, daughter of Margaret Miesiaszek Griffith by MargaretMiesiaszekGriffith,Western Carolina

Sandra & Richard Harrington, parents of Jennifer Harrington by JenniferHarrington,West Virginia

Sondra Stonebraker Harrison, Washington St. Louisby AnnaLouiseLarsonFisher,Kansas State

Lindsey Heminghaus, Missouri St. Louisby CaseyCowhey,Missouri St. Louis

Jennifer Bauer Henson, Wittenbergby GammaPhiBetaSorority

KimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Katy Hicock, Old Dominionby GladysHerrera,Old Dominion

KimberlyNichols,Old Dominion

Marijo Hocevar, mother of Renee Hocevar by ReneeHocevar,Toledo

Phil & Teresa Hood, parents of Katherine Hood by KatherineHood,Northern Iowa

Housing committees supporting Epsilon Pi Chapter, Jacksonville State by SaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Housing committees supporting Iota Theta Chapter, Southern Polytechnic Stateby SaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Liz Jackson by JulieJackson,Albion

Carol Sutliff Jordan, Bowling Green StatebyLindaLutzDettmer,Baldwin-Wallace

Kappa Chapter, Illinoisby BethHenningPolizzotto,Illinois

Lorene Graver Kelley, Nebraska Lincolnby BethCohen,Penn State

Jessica Kelly-Paul, Wisconsin Oshkoshby AllisonPopple,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Erika Kiley, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JessiSeymour,Wisconsin Oshkosh

June Grebe Kilo, Washington St. Louisby AnnaLouiseLarsonFisher,Kansas State

Bobbie-Jo King, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JadaLettenberger,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Karen Knudson, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JadaLettenberger,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Jessica Koenen, Wisconsin Oshkoshby JenniferNewport,Wisconsin Oshkosh

Mary Koester, mother of Alysia Jensen by AlysiaJensen,Northern Iowa

Jennifer Emerick Kuntz, Northern Iowaby KimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Emily Spuhl LaBarge, Washington St. LouisbyAnnaLouiseLarsonFisher,Kansas State

Patricia Neffler Lafferty, UCLAbyElleenHallDenahy,UCLA

Julie Lambert, Oregon StatebyKimberlyStarr,Kentucky

June Ann Fursey Lee, Mount UnionbyJaneFurseyRalston,Mount Union

Kristin Maas, Lyon byLaurenNash,Embry-Riddle (AZ)

Katherine Listwan Martin, FloridabyJenniferBellasLee,Old Dominion

NealyPattyWheat,West Georgia

Deb & Dave McCarrison, parents of Katie McCarrison byKatieMcCarrison,West Virginia

Rebecca McMurray, Albion byChelseaGray,Albion

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Caryn Miller, Albion by EmileeGoralski,Albion

Jennie Windsor Mills, Marshallby MarthaGerberGuinn,Marshall

Kristen Mitchell, Toledoby ElizabethHeffern,Toledo

Claressa Moreland, Friend of Alpha Xi Deltaby KendraBeckerLewis,Purdue

Rachel Mullen, Christian Brothersby HildaChaseMullen,Memphis State

Aline Lacey Neumann, Culver-Stocktonby AnnaLouiseLarsonFisher,Kansas State

Allison Ortlip, Miami Ohioby DianeOrtlip,Ohio State

Kelsey Partipilo, Cal State Northridge, November 2009 FVP of the Monthby OmegaFinancial,Inc

Lon & Linda Pickart, parents of Laura Pickart by LauraPickart,St. Norbert

Tammy Tuley Purves, Georgia Techby KyleHanofee,Georgia Tech

Betty Puskar by MaryKathryneCaussinWiedebusch,West Virginia

Melissa Krueger Ramsey, Kent Stateby SaraKonopka,Purdue

CherylEbyMiller,Nebraska Omaha

The Roosevelts by SaraAnderson,Texas

Marilyn Schmoeller Sandefur, Washington St. Louisby AnnaLouiseLarsonFisher,Kansas State

Dan & Diane Scanlon, parents of Alanna Scanlon by AlannaScanlon,West Virginia

Jan Schefstad, mother of Lauren Schefstadby LaurenSchefstad,Georgia Tech

Lauren Schefstad, Georgia Techby KatiePhillips,Georgia Tech

AmandaRigg,Georgia Tech

Evelyn Schreier, mother of Kimberley Schreier by KimberlySchreier,Toledo

Cynthia Smith, Michiganby ShannonPatrick,Rochester Institute of Technology

Leigh Smitley, West Viriginiaby ClaireBarth,West Virginia

Kelly Stetser, Albion by StevieCollini,Albion

Courtney Styres, Alabama Birminghamby BryndenStyres,Alabama Birmingham

Jennifer Tanner, Georgia Techby LauraKitashima,Georgia Tech

Dawn Haines Thomas, Frostburg Stateby JanetGleasonWhite,Frostburg State

Marty & Terri Trepp, parents of Meghan Trepp by MeghanTrepp,Northern Iowa

Toni Marie Villines, Hartfordby LynneMcNamee,Virginia

Kelli Vomacka, Nebraska Omahaby CherylEbyMiller,Nebraska Omaha

Chelsea Wecker, South Dakota Stateby TaraTschetter,South Dakota State

Nealy Patty Wheat, West Georgiaby JenniferL.BellasLee,Old Dominion

DawnVictor-Herring,FriendofAlphaXiDelta

Connie Bartel White, Toledoby CharleneDangler,Toledo

Judy White, Oklahoma Stateby KimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Susan C. Winckler, Iowaby ShirleyAlbrechtWinckler,Iowa

Bill & Ellen Wolfrum, parents of Carrie Wolfrum by CarrieWolfrum, Toledo

Kathy Goforth Wooten, Western Carolinaby CathyStuttsPortaro,Western Carolina

Wendy Wray, mother of Alexa Wray by AlexaWray,West Virginia

Erin Zimmerman, Wisconsin Oshkoshby ErikaKiley,Wisconsin Oshkosh

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Ann Robinson Baird, Frostburg StatebyJayBaird,husbandofAnnRobinsonBaird

SheilaKlaseBenac,Frostburg State

AnneHudsonBrinsmade,Frostburg State

NancyThomasCarman,Frostburg State

Chesapeake,MDAlumnaeAssociation

SandraPriebeDay,Frostburg State

EllenGibsonGoodwin,West Virginia

RebeccaNeilson,Frostburg State

LindaZerfing,Frostburg State

Gretchen Kelly Barrett, IowabySusanBarrettBoelke,Monmouth

Sarah Emblen Beneke, Wittenberg byLisaBenekeBurris,Marshall

Patricia Ann Wyatt Berry, Florida State byJoanClark,Florida

LuanneShaferCollins,Florida State

Dr.BonnieClarkJefferis,Defiance

PinellasCounty,FLAlumnaeAssociation

Joan Updegraff Bleyle, Bethany byAlleneCushingKnibloe,Cornell

Margaret Borst Taggart Braumiller, WittenbergbyNormaJeanJonesMozier,Wittenberg

Ruth Fowler Brown, Ohio byGeorgeBrownJr.,FriendofAlphaXiDelta

TheCharlesH.GilesandFannieM.GilesMemorialFoundation

Carmen Bohrer Bryant, Iowa Wesleyan byJaneStone,Ohio Wesleyan

Michelle Lively Clinton, Ohio StatebyKimberlyStarr,Kentucky

Beverly Van Buskirk Cook, IowabyAnneMorganRogers,Iowa

Marion Cosenza, Rider byJudithDispenzaStabile,Rider

Vicki Crane, mother of Kathryn Crane, TexasbyBetaAlphaChapter,Texas

Evelyn Gibbs Buntain Dice, NorthwesternbySuzanneMittonPetru,Northwestern

Nancy McSween Dunne, Albion byNancyFehrmannGainer,Iowa State

Esther Fitton Foster, Ohio byAnnaFoster,Stetson

Elinor Shilts Fursey, Mount Union byJaneFurseyRalston,Mount Union

E. Virginia Curtis Cronkhite, mother of Diane Curtis Gregory, WittenbergbySaraPullisMolnar,Ferris State

Mervin Huebner, husband of Dorothea Moser Huebner, CoebytheCedarRapids,IAAlumnaeAssociation

Jessica Hughes, Nebraska LincolnbyJacquelineRockwellEldal,Nebraska Lincoln

Elizabeth Kavooras bySaraRossGouzenne,Cal State Stanislaus

Robert J. Kelly, father of Peggy Kelly Anderson, New OrleansbytheNewOrleans,LAAlumnaeAssociation

Shirley King Kreimeyer, MarylandbyCarolynKingScudder,Maryland

Stan Kuryla byBeverlyGoughKurylaSmith,Michigan

Shirley Sikora Lapeer, MarshallbySuzanneSikoraSimpson,Marshall

Marnie Laudadio byJeanSauerDeFrances,Florida State

Nancy Lindell Leslie, Nebraska OmahabyMarilynHorner,Nebraska Omaha

Irene Hughes Braun Loweth, Ohio WesleyanbyAlleneCushingKnibloe,Cornell

Shan Mahaffey, daughter of Marcia Hixson Mahaffey byMarciaHixsonMahaffey, U of Washington

Nancy Helton McConnell, KentuckybyKarenCookRudd,Kentucky

Phyllis Oetjen Moller, Coe byDennyMoller,husbandofPhyllisOetjenMoller

Julia Warthen Armel Morgan byJaneStone,Ohio Wesleyan

Mildred Marshall Morgan, South DakotabyAnneMorganRogers,Iowa

Mary Patricia Nearman, grand-mother of Elysia Balster Gallivan, South DakotabyDeannaWollamDetchemendy,Cal State Northridge

Beatrice Brown Nobles, MichiganbytheFlint,MIAlumnaeAssociation

TheFoundationrecognizesMemorialGiftsgivenfromSeptember1,2009,throughDecember31,2009.

Memorial Gifts


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Lucille Ogle by BeverlyGoughKurylaSmith,Michigan

Sally Old, Albion by AllisonJamesGreen,Albion

Rose Mary Smith Pattison, West Virginiaby JaneStone,Ohio Wesleyan

Karen Boruff Pease, Iowa Wesleyanby LouAnnLaRochedeRoode,Penn State

Chuck Pierson, husband of Mary Lewis Pierson, Northwestern by DonnaFieldHannibal,Northwestern

Patricia Hass Pilger, Culver-Stocktonby JodeyMaxwell-Swee,Culver-Stockton

Mary Martin Pinkerton, Texas Wesleyanby LeslieStorey,Texas Wesleyan

Jean Harkless Pond, Alleghenyby AlverisBonnellVanFleetCorson,Michigan

Robert Posthumus, father of Sandra Posthumus Holcomb, Cal State Northridgeby SusanLeeds-Horwitz,Cal State Northridge

Helen Banda Ralsten, Marshallby NancyMillerLince,Marshall

Karleen G. Redle, Washingtonby DianeHarrison,Missouri St. Louis

SondraStonebrakerHarrison,Washington

Lynn Ledwitch Reid, Georgia Techby KimbroughPaceNoonan,Georgia Tech

Elizabeth “Betty” Reid Shawn, Marylandby BettyAxtMcCurry,Maryland

Cherryl Towns Sigwing, Texas Stateby Mr.RichardSigwing,husbandofCherrylTownsSigwing

Jane Brisco Skinner, Purdue by JaneBlindGlover,Purdue

Carl Robert Smith, grandson of Kathy Orebaugh Reinke by KathyOrebaughReinke,U of Washington

Josephine Smith Southworth, Oregon Stateby MargaretRiggsArndt,Oregon State

Martha Davies Stone, Randolph-Maconby JaneStone,Ohio Wesleyan

Lulu Coberly Stout, Stetsonby VirginiaGerretsonBrooks, Florida State

Nancy Claspy Swenson, Bowling Green Stateby GinnyBolasPhilp,Arizona

Barbara Lee Tatar, Alpha Deuteronby SueRileyFackler,Ohio State

AmyDawsonKraenzlein,Iowa State

MaryMackieMroz,Northern Michigan

BettyCroninWebb,Ohio State

MaryWhitman,Central Michigan

DellaAkehurstWilder,Central Michigan

BettyTatarWiseman,Central Michigan

Janet Kendall Tower, Purdue by Dr.&Mrs.RobertS.Main,FriendsofAlphaXiDelta

DonnaGettleWorthley,Indiana State

Mary Jane Switzer Vaux, Purdue by MarjorieBlaksleeBoyle,Purdue

Abigail Verhelst, Kent Stateby MarandaMarieMangino,Kent State

Betty Robertson Wert, Wittenberg by MaryShatzerJaeger,Wittenberg

NancyBaldwinKinzie,Michigan State

Diane Zukow by BeverlyKeisterMorlok-Finger,Coe


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Alpha Xi Delta Fraternity 8702 Founders RoadIndianapolis, IN 46268

NONPROFITORGANIZATIONU.S.POSTAGE

PAID

HUNTINGTON, INPERMITNO.832

Are you a recent graduate looking to stay connected to Alpha Xi? A mom needing a little break to socialize with other ΑΞΔs? Or, an empty nester wanting to share your talent and skills with the Fraternity? Become a volunteer and start sharing your time and talent today.

Learn more at www.alphaxidelta.org.

Why I Volunteer:I volunteer for Alpha Xi Delta because I love it! The networking and friendships are so important. And it’s rewarding to see the chapters I work with succeed. I also enjoy helping collegiate Sisters become better leaders.

I joined Alpha Xi Delta because it’s an organization I can be part of for a lifetime. I wanted to be an active alumna after I graduated, and I’ve been able to do so by serving as a Chapter Advisor and Area Facilitator. Every day I’m so thankful for the wonderful experiences Alpha Xi Delta brings me.

I share my time and talent with Alpha Xi Delta.

Missie Rogers SteigerwaltInitiating Chapter: Zeta Eta, West Chester ’97

Current Volunteer Position: Area Facilitator for Theta Delta (Towson) and Theta Gamma (Delaware)

Other info: Former Chapter Advisor for Zeta Eta Chapter (West Chester)

Profession: Stay-at-home mother for two wonderful girls: 4-year-old Joanna and 10-month-old Emily

Hobbies: Spending time with family and friends, meeting new people, Pilates, yoga

Other activities: President of the Walter Reed Auxiliary - the Officers’ Wives Club at Walter Reed Army Medical Center; chair of the Treehouse Playgroup for the Oakleaf Club of Greater Washington, D.C.; member of the Navy Wives Club; member of Army Community Service

Be Inspired.

Be an ΑΞΔ Volunte

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