The Journey of Recovery: Staying On the Right Road
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The Journey of Recovery: Staying On
the Right RoadChip Abernathy
The 12 Steps of AA and NA and the Developmental Model of
Recovery
The model of recovery presented here is an abstinence-based, developmental model of recovery that is based in 12 Step philosophy, application and practice.
Step WorkMany AA and NA members would agree
that all 12 Steps should be worked with the help of a sponsor, in order, and to best of one’s ability, during early recovery.
During each stage of recovery, along with other tasks that need to be accomplished, there is step work that needs to be done. Not doing that work prevents progress from one recovery stage to the next.
Structure
People recovering from addictive disease do well with structure. Although it seems somewhat paradoxical, there is freedom with structure.
AA/NA Perspectives On The Journey Of Recovery
“Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path.” AA Big Book, p. 58
“We have learned from our group experience that those who keep coming to our meetings regularly stay clean.” NA Basic Text, p. 9
AA/NA Perspectives On The Journey Of Recovery
“Although we are not responsible for our disease, we are responsible for our recovery.” NA Basic Text, p.15
“What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition.” AA Big Book, p. 85
Beliefs Upon Which Gorski’s Developmental Model of Recovery are
Based1. Recovery is a long-term process that is not
easy.2. Recovery requires total abstinence from
alcohol and other drugs, plus active efforts towards personal growth.
3. There are underlying principles that govern the recovery process.
4. The better we understand these principles, the easier it will be for us to recover.
Beliefs Upon Which Gorski’s DMR are Based ( Continued)
5. Understanding alone will not promote recovery; the understanding must be put into action.
6. The actions that are necessary to produce full recovery can be clearly and accurately described as recovery tasks.
7. It is normal and natural to periodically get stuck on the road to recovery. It is not whether you get stuck that determines success or failure, but it is how you cope with the stuck point that counts.
Transition Transition Stage
Develop Motivating ProblemsAttempt to Solve Problems
Fail at Attempts to Control UseAccept Need For Abstinence
and Need for Help1st Step
Surrender
Step Work Focus During Transition Stage: 1st Step
StabilizationStabilization Stage
Recognize Need for HelpStabilize Thinking, Feeling and Acting
Manage Post Acute Withdrawal and Addictive Preoccupation
Find Your Place in AA/NADevelop Hope and Motivation
Step Work Focus During Stabilization Stage: Steps 2 & 3
EarlyEarly Recovery
Internalize Addictionand Recovery - Work All 12 Steps
Change Associates, Attitude,and Lifestyle
Develop Identity As Recovering PersonDevelop Recovery-Centered
Value System
Step Work Focus During Early Recovery: Steps 1 - 12
MiddleMiddle Recovery
Resolve Demoralization Crisis(Maintain Hope Through Surrender)
PerseveranceAttend To Unfinished Amends
Establish Lifestyle BalanceFind Your Happiness
Step Work Focus During Middle Recovery: Any Unfinished Work With Steps 8, 9
LateLate Recovery
Integrate Recovery From Childhood IssuesWith Recovery From Addiction
Be Willing To Change Beliefs and BehaviorsFind New Beliefs and Behaviors That Fit
Change Lifestyle As Needed
Step Work Focus During Late Recovery: Steps 10, 11 & 12
MaintenanceRecovery Maintenance
Maintain A Recovery ProgramThrough Life Changes and Challenges
Stick With the BasicsPractice Effective Day to Day Coping
Maintain Commitment to GrowthEnjoy Life
Step Work Focus During Maintenance:Steps 10, 11 & 12 (Especially)
Repeat 12 Steps Regularly, and Practice Principles Daily
The Relapse Process:Veering Off the Road In the Journey Of
Recovery
Relapse Is A Process, Not An Event
It Isn’t Whether or Not We Have Problems In Recovery That Counts; What Counts Is
How We Deal With Those Problems
Factors That Contribute To The Relapse Process
High Risk Factors High Risk LifestyleInadequate Recovery
ProgramSocial Conflict or
ChangeIllnessIsolation
Trigger EventsStressful ThoughtsStressful SituationsPainful MemoriesPainful EmotionsStressful Interactions
With Other People
Relapse Warning Sign ProgressionGood Recovery Not Using Alcohol/Other Drugs Regular AA/NA
Sponsor Contact Flexible Honest, Open-Minded, Willing Gratitude Recovering Friends Happiness Step Work Mgt. COD
Having FunPrayer Asking for Help Stress Management Accountable ----------------------------------------------- Change --------------------------------------------------------Early Warning Restless, Irritable & Discontent
Signs Evading/Denying ← Stress Core Issues Triggered (Internal) Problems (Ex:: Inadequacy, Trust, Abandonment) P. A. W. (P.A.W.: Difficulty Thinking Clearly, Managing Emotions, Sleeping, Remembering)-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Middle Warning Easily Angered Negative Comments Signs Defensiveness Avoiding Others Character Defects Increasing(External) Compulsive Behaviors/Process Addictions
Recovery Structure Decreasing Isolation Increasing Decreased QOL------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Late Warning Conscious Lying Stop AA/NA Altogether Extreme IsolationSigns Depression Obsession, Compulsion, Craving(Loss of Control) Self-pity Suicidal Thoughts
Poor Judgment Planning Substance Use-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Initial Use of Alcohol/Other DrugsProgressive Life Deterioration
High Potential for Death
Relapse-Prone Styleof Coping
Evade/DenyStressCompulsive Behaviors/Process Addictions Avoid OthersProblems EscalateEvade/Deny New Problems
Relapse-Prone Coping Style:
ESCAPEEvade/Deny
Problem
Stress
Compulsive
Behaviors/Process
AddictionsAvoid Others
Problems Escalate
Evade/Deny New
Problems
Stopping the Relapse Process
We Get Out Of The Relapse Process By Getting Into the Recovery Process
Recovery-Prone Styleof Coping
Recognize Problem ExistsAccept It’s OK to Have ProblemsDetach (Do Your Best, and Then Let Go)Ask for HelpRespond With Action
Recovery-Prone Coping Style: RADAR
Recognize Problem
Accept It’s OK To
Have Problems
Detach – Do Your Best, and Then Let Go
Ask For Help
Respond With
Action When
Prepared
ReferencesAlcoholics Anonymous. Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd ed., New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, 1976.Gorski, T.T. Passages through recovery: An action plan for preventing
relapse. Center City, MN: Hazelden, 1989.Gorski, T.T. Staying sober: A guide for relapse prevention. Independence, Missouri: Independence Press: 1986.Narcotics Anonymous. Narcotics Anonymous, 5th ed.. Van Nuys, CA: Narcotics Anonymous World Service Office, Inc., 1988.Abbreviations Used In Presentation:AA – Alcoholics AnonymousNA – Narcotics AnonymousPAW – Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome: see Gorski, Passages through
recovery: An action plan for preventing relapse, Gorski, Staying sober: A guide for relapse prevention
COD- Co-Occurring DisordersQOL – Quality of Life