THE ATTRACTIVE MAN

T O P T E N O P E N E R S

D A Y G A M E & N I G H T G A M E

Written by: Artisan

D A Y G A M E

Ok, we’ve all been there….you’re out on your lunch break or just running some errands at the mall and suddenly you see this stunning brunette who could probably pass as a Jessica Alba look a like. And then suddenly it happens, your mind goes completely blank. You freeze up and can’t think of anything to say.

It’s OK there is a solution.

In fact, meeting women during the day is SUPER EASY…that is, if you have a simple system, the right body language, voice tonality, and aren’t afraid to “open”. That is what we will show you at The Attractive Man.

So without further ado, here are my Top Ten Day Game Openers:

WARM UP DAY GAME PUA OPENERS:

1. “Excuse me, do you know where Starbucks is?” (she answers) “Actually, I just thought you were cute I’m not even looking for Starbucks…”

2. “Hey cool X, (X=item of clothing, hairstyle, etc.), quick questions” (then ask a double ended questions).

Example: “Hey cool hair style, quick question…was that something you picked or did your hair stylist come up with it?”

INDIRECT DAY GAME OPENERS:

3. “What’s your take on meeting people (at the mall, in LA, in an elevator, etc), because my friend Artisan said people are way too stuck up for that, but you seem cool” (Credit: PUA Vince Kelvin)

4. Cologne Opener (good for Victoria Secrets). Enter Victoria Secrets and ask for the men’s cologne. Then spray one brand on one wrist and side of your neck and the other brand on the other wrist and other side of your neck. Approach a woman shopping (or a worker) and say, “Excuse me, do you consider yourself a woman of good taste?” (she answers) “Well I’m trying to decide on which cologne to get, what do you think of this one (hold out your wrist). OK and this one? (other wrist)” (she answers). “Interesting, now I heard that smell is also determined by where it is on your body. Does it smell different on my neck?” (let her lean in and smell it)

5. “You look like you need a glass of wine. Long day?” (Credit: James Marshall)

DIRECT DAY GAME OPENERS:

6. “Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this (describe yourself) and your talking to this (describe her) what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?”

She may respond with, “I don’t know”. Just say, “come on your a girl you’re supposed to be good at this whole flirting thing. I’ve got nothing” (Credit: Robbie Krammer)

Example: “Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this pretty confident rocker looking guy wearing a hat, and your talking to this cute blond about 5’3″ wearing a blue shirt, what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?”

7. “Hey this is totally random, and maybe even a little cheesy, but you are too cute I had to at least say ‘hi’.”

8. “I noticed you all the way from over there and new I’d kick myself if I didn’t come say ‘hi’”

GIRLS THAT ARE SHOPPING: 9. In a retail store grab two woman’s articles of clothing and say, “Excuse me, I need your opinion, this one (hold up one piece of clothing) or this one (hold up the other one)”? (she answers). “Really?? Because I thought this one brought out my eyes more “ 10. “Definitely….hot. I like. But, I just don’t think my mom will approve. You’re not thinking about wearing them tonight…”

***BONUS DAY GAME OPENERS:

11. MOTHER AND DAUGHTER

(Say to the mother) “Listen, I don’t mean to be rude but you’re sister is super cute and I wanted to totally inappropriately come say hi”

12. YOU’RE IN A HURRY OR SHE’S IN A HURRY

“Listen, I’m in a huge hurry but you are too damn cute….let’s take a chance and exchange numbers and if you’re totally cool on the phone, maybe we’ll hang out”

Now, of course there’s so much more to daygame than just opening; you want to bait the woman to chase you, demonstrate highly attractive attributes without bragging, give tons of value, close, set up a date, etc… make sure you check out our training at http://www.pickupartistacademy.com/enroll-now/

N I G H T G A M E Picking up girls at a bar, club, party or lounge (aka night game) is all about having fun and having balls. So it's great to have a few night game openers that also are fun and/or show that you have balls. Keep in mind you don't need to memorize all of these openers, in fact, you don't even need to use any canned night game opener. Believe it or not, you can just walk up to a girl and say, “Hi my name is.....”. Guys that are naturally good with women don’t use canned openers. With our advanced training, you too can build attraction with the hottest girl in the bar, no matter what you say. Seriously. That being said, these night game openers will help you convey characteristics like confidence, playfulness, humor, etc. and can help add some fun and variety to your night game. 1. “You're cute, you should talk to me.” Explanation: It’s short, to the point, direct and dominant. 2. “You can't just look at me like that (pause) and not say 'hi'”. Explanation: Use this one if you see a girl look at you 3. “We're the best looking people in here, so I guess we should talk to each other.” Explanation: It's a combination of cock-funny and direct 4. “Why are you not hitting on any guys? [she responds] Ok, what would u say to a guy you really want (self-point)?” Explanation: Women love talking about social situations. What a better topic than to talk about girls hitting on guys. It's accusatory and uses an NLP self-point.

5. “That's cute how you're acting all sexy just so I will talk to you. OK I'll play along. [she responds] How often does that work where you just pick on the guy you want (self-point) and try to seduce him? [she responds] Well I better get going before you try to seduce me (time-constraint).” (Credit: Vince Kelvin) Explanation: This is a great V.K. opener that is direct and sets a reverse frame that she is seducing you. 6. “I sense a rather pleasant sexy vibe from you. Have you had sex on the mind lately? You should hide it better it totally shows. [she responds] Do u believe its possible to tell who is thinking about sex and who is not? Look around can you tell?” (Credit: Vince Kelvin) Explanation: Sets a sexual frame right from the beginning so you an screen for sexual girls. 7. “Are you girls shy? [they respond] Because I've been in her for like 20 minutes and you haven't said 'hi', or bought be a drink, or anything. You girls must be shy” Explanation: Reverses the frame that the girls need to hit on you and buy you drinks. 8. “You guys seem fun (pause) are you friendly?” Explanation: It's short and simple. Plus, girls at a bar usually want to be seen as fun. And, it presupposes that they are friendly, which will make them want to act friendly. A variation of this would be, “You seem fun, wha’ts the catch?”

9. “Hi, my friend over there says pretty girls never have anything interesting about them. I wanted to prove him wrong. I'm Artisan. So what's something interesting about you besides you're looks?” Explanation: It's going straight into qualification right away. Beautiful women are rarely challenged so be the guy who stands out by challenging her from the start.

10. “Hi, my name's Artisan. Who are you?” OR “Who the fuck are you?” Explanation: It doesn't get any simpler than this. With a confident delivery this opener conveys that you don't need a line or excuse to come talk to her. IMPORTANT: 93% of communication is nonverbal. So even if you master these openers it's not as important as having proper body language, voice tonality, eye contact etc. What is going to spark attraction or not is HOW you deliver the above night game openers. We will show you exactly how to talk to girls so you build deep attraction and even “turn them on” without saying a word. Make sure you check out our training at: http://www.pickupartistacademy.com/enroll-now/