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Thatcham ConnectionsThatcham ConnectionsThatcham Connections

BusinessBusinessBusiness DirectoryDirectoryDirectory

CommunityCommunityCommunity PagesPagesPages

lsquoSmall islsquoSmall islsquoSmall is BeautifulrsquoBeautifulrsquoBeautifulrsquo

CompetitionCompetitionCompetition

Locals WhoLocals WhoLocals Who Launch Launch Launch

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Day Day Day

Delivered free to 6000 Homes and Businesses

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Dear Readers

WELCOME

to our first issue in 2009

I do hope you had a lovely Christmas holiday and the

shock of being back to nor-mality isnrsquot now too great

It is most encouraging to know that many of the adver-

tisers in this magazine feel that you are actively support-

ing them - thank you I notice this particularly in this eco-nomic climate when I receive

positive comments about the magazine If we continue to

think positively and lsquokeep it localrsquo we will all ride out the

storm

An additional warm thank you to all those people who sent in their completed slip with

name and address to be en-tered into the Waitrose ham-

per draw We had over 60 entries and congratulations to

Mr Benham who was our lucky winner It was really

good to see such a great re-sponse

lsquoMy Homersquo (see page 37) have

very kindly supplied this monthrsquos lsquoprizersquo - a house clean worth pound75 To be included in

this draw please will you return the slip below by 1st

March to me (address oppo-site)

With all best wishes

e ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

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house Grazeley Reading RG71LG

Telephone 0118 9886070

Printer Newman Thomson

Copy deadline for next issue

6 March 2009

Editor

Ursula Aitken

DISCLAIMER

Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that data in

this publication is accurate neither the publisher nor itrsquos

editorial contributors can ac-cept any liability to any party

for loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting

from negligence accident or any other case

Thatcham Connections Maga-

zine does not officially en-dorse any advertising mate-

rial included within this publi-cation No part of this publi-

cation may be reproduced stored in any retrieval sys-

tems or transmitted in any form without prior permis-

sion of the publisher

Contents Page

Music Movies and More 20

Small is Beautiful 28

Book Reviews 33

St Valentinersquos Day 35

Gardening Pages 4445

Wordsearch 48

Challenge Page 50

Woolhampton Meet and Greet

Day 51

Community Pages 5253

Index 54

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Please note - next latest copy date Mid-day Friday 6 March 2009

The front cover photograph has kindly

been supplied by Maria Dobson a

member of the Thatcham

Photographic Club

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I WOULD LIKE MY NAME TO BE

INCLUDED IN THE DRAW FOR

THE lsquoMYHOMErsquo HOUSE CLEAN

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NAME

ADDRESS

PHONE

EMAIL ADDRESS

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

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wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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With people living longer

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on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

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Would you like

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

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Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

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HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

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For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

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Stay beautiful

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Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

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GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Dear Readers

WELCOME

to our first issue in 2009

I do hope you had a lovely Christmas holiday and the

shock of being back to nor-mality isnrsquot now too great

It is most encouraging to know that many of the adver-

tisers in this magazine feel that you are actively support-

ing them - thank you I notice this particularly in this eco-nomic climate when I receive

positive comments about the magazine If we continue to

think positively and lsquokeep it localrsquo we will all ride out the

storm

An additional warm thank you to all those people who sent in their completed slip with

name and address to be en-tered into the Waitrose ham-

per draw We had over 60 entries and congratulations to

Mr Benham who was our lucky winner It was really

good to see such a great re-sponse

lsquoMy Homersquo (see page 37) have

very kindly supplied this monthrsquos lsquoprizersquo - a house clean worth pound75 To be included in

this draw please will you return the slip below by 1st

March to me (address oppo-site)

With all best wishes

e ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

Stable 5 Gravelly Bridge Farm-

house Grazeley Reading RG71LG

Telephone 0118 9886070

Printer Newman Thomson

Copy deadline for next issue

6 March 2009

Editor

Ursula Aitken

DISCLAIMER

Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that data in

this publication is accurate neither the publisher nor itrsquos

editorial contributors can ac-cept any liability to any party

for loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting

from negligence accident or any other case

Thatcham Connections Maga-

zine does not officially en-dorse any advertising mate-

rial included within this publi-cation No part of this publi-

cation may be reproduced stored in any retrieval sys-

tems or transmitted in any form without prior permis-

sion of the publisher

Contents Page

Music Movies and More 20

Small is Beautiful 28

Book Reviews 33

St Valentinersquos Day 35

Gardening Pages 4445

Wordsearch 48

Challenge Page 50

Woolhampton Meet and Greet

Day 51

Community Pages 5253

Index 54

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Please note - next latest copy date Mid-day Friday 6 March 2009

The front cover photograph has kindly

been supplied by Maria Dobson a

member of the Thatcham

Photographic Club

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I WOULD LIKE MY NAME TO BE

INCLUDED IN THE DRAW FOR

THE lsquoMYHOMErsquo HOUSE CLEAN

(VALUE pound75)

NAME

ADDRESS

PHONE

EMAIL ADDRESS

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With our straight forward casting process we can save precious moments in your life to touch and hold forever

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simple plaster to suit your requirements

To find out more on how to keep a unique record of babyrsquos hands and feet or preserve the tender touch of a loved one forever please contact us for a free consultation in your

home or at our studio

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Please Call on

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

Want more Energy

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Nightingalersquos Swim School

Small friendly classes

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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With people living longer

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and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

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Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

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To check that your ex ist ing

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Having worked for 27 years within the

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

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713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

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Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

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Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

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HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

M 0777 5708431

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W wwwtheresamwrightcom

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Bernies

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For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

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Stay beautiful

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Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

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GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Dear Readers

WELCOME

to our first issue in 2009

I do hope you had a lovely Christmas holiday and the

shock of being back to nor-mality isnrsquot now too great

It is most encouraging to know that many of the adver-

tisers in this magazine feel that you are actively support-

ing them - thank you I notice this particularly in this eco-nomic climate when I receive

positive comments about the magazine If we continue to

think positively and lsquokeep it localrsquo we will all ride out the

storm

An additional warm thank you to all those people who sent in their completed slip with

name and address to be en-tered into the Waitrose ham-

per draw We had over 60 entries and congratulations to

Mr Benham who was our lucky winner It was really

good to see such a great re-sponse

lsquoMy Homersquo (see page 37) have

very kindly supplied this monthrsquos lsquoprizersquo - a house clean worth pound75 To be included in

this draw please will you return the slip below by 1st

March to me (address oppo-site)

With all best wishes

e ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

Stable 5 Gravelly Bridge Farm-

house Grazeley Reading RG71LG

Telephone 0118 9886070

Printer Newman Thomson

Copy deadline for next issue

6 March 2009

Editor

Ursula Aitken

DISCLAIMER

Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that data in

this publication is accurate neither the publisher nor itrsquos

editorial contributors can ac-cept any liability to any party

for loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting

from negligence accident or any other case

Thatcham Connections Maga-

zine does not officially en-dorse any advertising mate-

rial included within this publi-cation No part of this publi-

cation may be reproduced stored in any retrieval sys-

tems or transmitted in any form without prior permis-

sion of the publisher

Contents Page

Music Movies and More 20

Small is Beautiful 28

Book Reviews 33

St Valentinersquos Day 35

Gardening Pages 4445

Wordsearch 48

Challenge Page 50

Woolhampton Meet and Greet

Day 51

Community Pages 5253

Index 54

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Please note - next latest copy date Mid-day Friday 6 March 2009

The front cover photograph has kindly

been supplied by Maria Dobson a

member of the Thatcham

Photographic Club

wwwnorriesitecom

I WOULD LIKE MY NAME TO BE

INCLUDED IN THE DRAW FOR

THE lsquoMYHOMErsquo HOUSE CLEAN

(VALUE pound75)

NAME

ADDRESS

PHONE

EMAIL ADDRESS

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With our straight forward casting process we can save precious moments in your life to touch and hold forever

We can cast anything from a babyrsquos tiny finger to an adult torso or a dogrsquos paw

We can present your memory in a wide range of finishes including our popular choices of Bronze resin Aluminium Resin and Marble plaster We also cast in solid metal or

simple plaster to suit your requirements

To find out more on how to keep a unique record of babyrsquos hands and feet or preserve the tender touch of a loved one forever please contact us for a free consultation in your

home or at our studio

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

Want more Energy

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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First meeting is free to establish

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

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RG7 5NX

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HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

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W wwwtheresamwrightcom

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

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Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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The photographs below show their work

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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February and March 2009

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

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IF YOU NEED

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PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Dear Readers

WELCOME

to our first issue in 2009

I do hope you had a lovely Christmas holiday and the

shock of being back to nor-mality isnrsquot now too great

It is most encouraging to know that many of the adver-

tisers in this magazine feel that you are actively support-

ing them - thank you I notice this particularly in this eco-nomic climate when I receive

positive comments about the magazine If we continue to

think positively and lsquokeep it localrsquo we will all ride out the

storm

An additional warm thank you to all those people who sent in their completed slip with

name and address to be en-tered into the Waitrose ham-

per draw We had over 60 entries and congratulations to

Mr Benham who was our lucky winner It was really

good to see such a great re-sponse

lsquoMy Homersquo (see page 37) have

very kindly supplied this monthrsquos lsquoprizersquo - a house clean worth pound75 To be included in

this draw please will you return the slip below by 1st

March to me (address oppo-site)

With all best wishes

e ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

Stable 5 Gravelly Bridge Farm-

house Grazeley Reading RG71LG

Telephone 0118 9886070

Printer Newman Thomson

Copy deadline for next issue

6 March 2009

Editor

Ursula Aitken

DISCLAIMER

Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that data in

this publication is accurate neither the publisher nor itrsquos

editorial contributors can ac-cept any liability to any party

for loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting

from negligence accident or any other case

Thatcham Connections Maga-

zine does not officially en-dorse any advertising mate-

rial included within this publi-cation No part of this publi-

cation may be reproduced stored in any retrieval sys-

tems or transmitted in any form without prior permis-

sion of the publisher

Contents Page

Music Movies and More 20

Small is Beautiful 28

Book Reviews 33

St Valentinersquos Day 35

Gardening Pages 4445

Wordsearch 48

Challenge Page 50

Woolhampton Meet and Greet

Day 51

Community Pages 5253

Index 54

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Please note - next latest copy date Mid-day Friday 6 March 2009

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been supplied by Maria Dobson a

member of the Thatcham

Photographic Club

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

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wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

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the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

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Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

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Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

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Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

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Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

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Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

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GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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With people living longer

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and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

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To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

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Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

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Nightingalersquos Swim School

Small friendly classes

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We have some spaces left

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

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need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

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ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

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tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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my clients - Health Therapist

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

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about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

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Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

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Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

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Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

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Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

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Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

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Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

Want more Energy

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For a personal and dignified service

at all times hellip

Personal Service - 24 Hours

Private Chapels of Rest

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Enquiries welcome

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TADLEY

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Lady Painter

Jackie Cleaver

07771 636990

Nightingalersquos Swim School

Small friendly classes

for all ages amp abilities

Sunday morning lessons at

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

Having trouble understanding your computer

Using e-mails

Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

invitationscards digital photos or just not the

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07979378408 or 01635 299429

L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

the FSA register (wwwfsagovuk) under reference 461598

With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

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To get a f irmer idea of where you

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PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

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Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

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Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

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Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

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Index

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I am often asked ldquoWhat should my ideal

weight berdquo This is such a difficult

question to answer I feel that too

much emphasis is put on weight and

not enough emphasis on being healthy

The first consideration is body shape

Unless you go under the knife there

are certain factors that wonrsquot change

If you were born a pear shape (small

waist and large thighs) no amount of

dieting is going to change that In fact

you could end up looking really ill And

as you get older there are body

changes that are going to happen -

come what may However a healthy

body of whatever age will make you

look great Well toned muscles give

good body shape and a clear skin

achieved by a healthy diet makes a

person look well at any age

How do you achieve this The answer

is surprisingly simple but difficult to

follow Eat a healthy diet drink water

take exercise What could be easier

Eating a healthy diet means avoiding

processed foods saturated fats re-

fined sugars and grains Processed

and refined foods are very addictive

There is an advert for a certain type of

crisp snack which says ldquoYou just canrsquot

pop onerdquo Too right you end up

munching the whole bowlful because

once those chemicals hit your digestive

system your body craves more Re-

fined grains (white flour products) are

quick to digest and are far less satisfy-

ing than unrefined grains (wholewheat

products oats and rye) which take

longer to digest and therefore stay in

the stomach longer keeping you feeling

full This is why you often feel really

hungry half way through the morning if

all you have had for breakfast is a slice

of white toast In fact if you have a

white bread sandwich at lunchtime too

you are going to

have a serious

blood sugar drop

in the afternoon

and that is when

all resolve goes

out of the window

as you grab the

nearest chocolate

biscuit to appease

those lowered

blood sugar crav-

ings

Drinking water is good for you It keeps

you hydrated and therefore keeps your

organs healthy and your brain working

A 2 drop in hydration causes difficulty

with simple maths problems and fuzzy

thinking A little alcohol goes a long

way ndash Irsquom afraid all the calories in alco-

hol are empty which means that they

just go to building fat Both tea and

coffee are dehydrating and can induce

stress as caffeine increases the heart

rate Try white green or fruit teas - all

of which are tasty light and will help

with digestion

Exercise is not so hard either We live

in one of the most beautiful parts of

Southern England Get out there and go

for a walk Join a local dancing class

even better go with your partner and

make it a fun night out We are well

served with local swimming pools riding

schools badminton tennis squash

rugby golf and football clubs There

really is no excuse The Catch 22 is that

you feel too tired to exercise however if

you made the effort to exercise you

would have so much more energy

Theresa Wright

Health Therapist

0118 9710255

e-mail Theresatheresamwrightcom

wwwtheresamwrightcom

Feature Our Health Therapist - Theresa Wright

See page 31

Want more Energy

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

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With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

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Would you like

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

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Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

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HEALTH THERAPIST

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

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Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

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Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

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Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

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Sunday morning lessons at

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Old Kiln House

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24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

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See p 47

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

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Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

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Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Geoffrey Church amp Co FUNERAL DIRECTORSFUNERAL DIRECTORSFUNERAL DIRECTORS

For a personal and dignified service

at all times hellip

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Private Chapels of Rest

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Pre-payment Funeral Plans available

Enquiries welcome

HUNGERFORD

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THATCHAM

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TADLEY

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Lady Painter

Jackie Cleaver

07771 636990

Nightingalersquos Swim School

Small friendly classes

for all ages amp abilities

Sunday morning lessons at

Downe House School

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We have some spaces left

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Call now for availability

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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With people living longer

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

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before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

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For more information

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Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

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PHONE

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Some of the Thatcham Team

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COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

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L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

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With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

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To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

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Member of the British Association for Counselling

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

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wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

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Bernies

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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Available during March

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Treat the ladies you love

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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February and March 2009

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

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Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

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Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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With people living longer

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

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Would you like

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To check that your ex ist ing

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or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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Using e-mails

Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

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L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

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With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

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To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

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To take control of your f inances

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PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Blinds Smart Blinds 38

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Book Reviews 33

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Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

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Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

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Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

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Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

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Swimming School s

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Index

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

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feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

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Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

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Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

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Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

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With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

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Having worked for 27 years within the

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that Pete is now launching his new

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selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

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ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

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For more information

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Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

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Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

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Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

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Index

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

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need

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Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

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the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

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pound500 monthly

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ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

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PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

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Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

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centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

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my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

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ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

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left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

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Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

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Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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Tel 07770 823283

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Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Since 1894 we have been subject to tax on the transfer of

wealth on death What was once known as Estate Duty has

evolved over the years to become Inheritance Tax (IHT) This

tax is now becoming more common and at a current rate of

40 is rather expensive So what can we do to save our hard

earned money which has already been taxed through our

lifetime being charged more tax when we die

Any assets left to a spouse or civil partner will be free of IHT

You will also be able to use the ldquonil-rate bandrdquo This is the

current tax free allowance and anyone can leave up to

pound312000 to the beneficiaries of their estate via their Will free of IHT This allow-

ance rises to pound325000 in the 20092010 tax year and to pound350000 by the

20102011 tax year

You can actually give away any surplus income free of IHT subject to a few basic

rules Children and grandchildren will welcome this in these tough economic times If

you really donrsquot want to give the income directly to the child then why not consider

paying into something longer term for them such as a pension

Have you thought of considering a ldquoPETrdquo ndash not a dog or cat but a ldquoPotentially

Exempt Transferrdquo At any time you can give away property cash or other invest-

ments Survive for seven years after you gave them away they and will be deemed

free of IHT Also beware If you make a gift with strings attached known as a ldquogift

with reservationrdquo it will still count as part of your estate no matter how long you

live after making it A common mistake is if you give your house to your children and

carry on living there without paying them a full commercial rent the value of your

house will still be liable for Inheritance Tax

Donrsquot forget to use your annual gift exemptions Therersquos a pound3000 Annual Ex-

emption plus you can also give away pound250 to as many people as you like each tax

year ndash this is called the Small Gifts Exemption Each parent can also give to any child

pound5000 each on marriage with Grandparents able make gifts of pound2500

Finally give to a charity - gifts to charities and political parties are completely

exempt from IHT

Inheritance Tax is only for the wealthy isnrsquot it

please see page 25 Simon Claxton can be contacted on 01635 202001

Feature Our Financial Expert Simon Claxton

New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

the FSA register (wwwfsagovuk) under reference 461598

With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

are heading f inancial ly

To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

Bruce Bamber Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Member of the British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (MBACP)

Who said life was easy

Whether as a last resort to get things back to how they used

to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

relationship difficulties - anxiety - self esteem - guilt - sexual issues - confidence - anger - self-harm -

coping - life choices - abuse

t 07769 783424 Based in Newbury

Confidential Counselling ServiceConfidential Counselling Service

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Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

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Pete can do most things around the

house and garden (See below for a

selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

wwwberkshirehandymanservicescouk

PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

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Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

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Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

lunches

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

Try one of Chrisrsquo Famous Home-made

pies

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THERESA WRIGHT

HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

M 0777 5708431

E theresatheresamwrightcom

W wwwtheresamwrightcom

TREATMENTS

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- so you can be assured

of total privacy

Bernies

Hair amp Beauty Barn

Kennet Holme Farm Buildings Bath Road Midgham RG7 5UX Telephone 01189 713 562

Kim Jones

With 8 years beauty experience Kim delivers a high quality service in all of her treatments This is supported by extensive product knowledge including Dermalogica Bio sculpture Jessica manicures and pedicures Fake bake tanning Crystal clear microdermabrasion and Hot stone massage

For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

Martin has over fifteen years of international experience as a professional hair stylist He has worked extensively throughout Europe including West End London

Martin brings special flair and passion for hairdressing Maybe he can inspire you to have a great hair cut or hair up

For a free consultation please call me

Stay beautiful

07766765109

Martin-Roman Karlsson

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Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

Motherrsquos Day Package

Available during March

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Special price of pound95

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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New releases are a little thin on the

ground at this time of year but there

are some fine things around Save your

pennies for an 11-CD set of Led

Zeppelinrsquos albums in a mini-LP style

box metal band Saxon return with a

new studio release Into The

Labyrinth ndash complete with DVD too

London songstress Lily Allenrsquos latest

album is Itrsquos Not Me Itrsquos You

Crosby Stills amp Nash issue a

compilation of anti-war material

Allies

Meanwhile Steven Stillrsquos solo

album Mannassa receives a smart

new re-mastered release fresh from

his big 2008 hit Kid Rockrsquos latest

album is Southern Rock Tribute

Scots rockers Franz Ferdinand

return with their third album ndash the

excitingly titled Tonight Franz

Ferdinand and finally if you love the

Eurythmics all their albums receive a

new release in re-mastered and

expanded formats ndash all at budget

prices

On the movie front there are some

interesting new releases The Spirit is

a fine film based on Will Eisnerrsquos iconic

comic-book ndash this is a live-action

version directed by Frank Miller

starring Samuel L Jackson as a dead

detective who returns from beyond the

grave The Soloist is a true-life tale of

a homeless musical prodigy who

befriends a local journalist ndash it features

Jamie Foxx and Robert Downey

Junior

Kate Winslet and Leonardo

Dicaprio star in a story of the ups and

downs of married life in 1950s

Connecticut ndash Revolutionary Road

The famous David Frost interviews with

former US president Richard Nixon are

reprised with FrostNixon starring

Michael Sheen as Frost and a highly

believable Frank Langella as Nixon

and Valkyrie the movie about the plot

to kill Hitler during WWII arrives ndash

directed by Bryan Singer and starring

Tom Cruise Kenneth Brannagh and

Bill Nighy

On the DVD front some cult TV

shows appear at long last ndash try

Tripods the BBC science fiction serial

based on the John Christopher novels

Sutherlandrsquos Law ndash a Scotland set

crime series starring Iain

Cuthbertson as the eponymous

Sutherland catch the complete set of

Auf Wiedersehen Pet in an Ultimate

Box Set the recent BBC hit Little

Dorrit receives a DVD release as does

the excellent HBO series about one of

the first US presidents John Adams

Alan Dorey wwwthemusicalbuscom

Essential Selections

Leonard Dicaprio appears in new film Revolutionary Road

Feature Music Movies amp More - News amp Views with Alan Dorey

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

Having trouble understanding your computer

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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To take control of your f inances

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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What some of our local business men and women say

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left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

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us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

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about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

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Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

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With people living longer

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and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

are heading f inancial ly

To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

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Member of the British Association for Counselling

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Who said life was easy

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to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

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Having worked for 27 years within the

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

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Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

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and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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We are a local family business

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

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Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

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Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

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Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

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01635 2000 00

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See p 47

01635 202300

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Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Hermitage based

Thatcham based

Concrete Pumping Services

278A Benham Hill Thatcham

Berkshire RG18 3AJ

Mobile Concrete Service

For many jobs including beautiful patios

For style

For inaccessible places

Trade and DIY

Mobile 07515 154722

Telephone 01635 865069

Email alan24_7btopenworldcom

Est over 20 years

wwwjmsoftenerscouk

Service amp Repairs of most makes

Free site survey without obligation

Professional advice given

Visit our showroom

Unit 1 The Old Mill Reading Road

Pangbourne Berkshire RG8 7HY

Supply and fit hardwood flooring Restore and repair original floors

Free Quotes Personal and Professional Service

Competitive prices Fully Insured

Tel 01488 684078

Mob 07931330310 wwwoaktree-floorscouk

Hungerford

Locally based

Tel Mike Charlton

on (M) 07895088910 (H) 01189 714034

LMC

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

Having trouble understanding your computer

Using e-mails

Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

invitationscards digital photos or just not the

faintest idea where

to start Need to set up a wireless

network converting

to broadband or any other hardware

needs

Irsquom here to help Contact Sarah Sladen

07979378408 or 01635 299429

L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

the FSA register (wwwfsagovuk) under reference 461598

With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

are heading f inancial ly

To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

Bruce Bamber Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Member of the British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (MBACP)

Who said life was easy

Whether as a last resort to get things back to how they used

to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

relationship difficulties - anxiety - self esteem - guilt - sexual issues - confidence - anger - self-harm -

coping - life choices - abuse

t 07769 783424 Based in Newbury

Confidential Counselling ServiceConfidential Counselling Service

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12 Lamb Close Thatcham

Berkshire RG18 3UE

01635 872285 07849078204

middot Woodworkdecorating

middot Install laminate flooring

middot Flat pack assembly

middot Shelving

middot Garden Tidying shed building

middot Any jobs that need doing around the

house or garden

ldquoI am reliable and honestrdquo

Reasonable costs

References available

Fully insured

Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

business as a Handyman

Pete can do most things around the

house and garden (See below for a

selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

wwwberkshirehandymanservicescouk

PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

CAMRA Pub of the Year West Berkshire Branch

Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

and lunch-times

Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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Some of the Thatcham Team

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

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Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

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Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

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First meeting is free to establish

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

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ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

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left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

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my clients - Health Therapist

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

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Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Locally based

Tel Mike Charlton

on (M) 07895088910 (H) 01189 714034

LMC

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

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Using e-mails

Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

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to start Need to set up a wireless

network converting

to broadband or any other hardware

needs

Irsquom here to help Contact Sarah Sladen

07979378408 or 01635 299429

L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

the FSA register (wwwfsagovuk) under reference 461598

With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

are heading f inancial ly

To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

Bruce Bamber Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Member of the British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (MBACP)

Who said life was easy

Whether as a last resort to get things back to how they used

to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

relationship difficulties - anxiety - self esteem - guilt - sexual issues - confidence - anger - self-harm -

coping - life choices - abuse

t 07769 783424 Based in Newbury

Confidential Counselling ServiceConfidential Counselling Service

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12 Lamb Close Thatcham

Berkshire RG18 3UE

01635 872285 07849078204

middot Woodworkdecorating

middot Install laminate flooring

middot Flat pack assembly

middot Shelving

middot Garden Tidying shed building

middot Any jobs that need doing around the

house or garden

ldquoI am reliable and honestrdquo

Reasonable costs

References available

Fully insured

Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

business as a Handyman

Pete can do most things around the

house and garden (See below for a

selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

wwwberkshirehandymanservicescouk

PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

CAMRA Pub of the Year West Berkshire Branch

Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

and lunch-times

Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

lunches

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

Try one of Chrisrsquo Famous Home-made

pies

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

THERESA WRIGHT

HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

M 0777 5708431

E theresatheresamwrightcom

W wwwtheresamwrightcom

TREATMENTS

middot REMEDIAL MASSSAGE THERAPY

middot AROMATHERAPY MASSAGE

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middot ONE ON ONE FITNESS COACHING

middot SIX WEEK HEALTHY EATING PROGRAMME

Theresa

has her own

exclusive private gym and clinic

- so you can be assured

of total privacy

Bernies

Hair amp Beauty Barn

Kennet Holme Farm Buildings Bath Road Midgham RG7 5UX Telephone 01189 713 562

Kim Jones

With 8 years beauty experience Kim delivers a high quality service in all of her treatments This is supported by extensive product knowledge including Dermalogica Bio sculpture Jessica manicures and pedicures Fake bake tanning Crystal clear microdermabrasion and Hot stone massage

For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

Martin has over fifteen years of international experience as a professional hair stylist He has worked extensively throughout Europe including West End London

Martin brings special flair and passion for hairdressing Maybe he can inspire you to have a great hair cut or hair up

For a free consultation please call me

Stay beautiful

07766765109

Martin-Roman Karlsson

Jill Wolstenholme

Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

benefit all Whether its ability to combat stress ease aches and pains or just for relaxation purposes she is keen to promote it as part of our everyday lives

Her range of treatments include Swedish and Indian Head Massage Remedial Pregnancy and Hot Stone Massage - or a luxurious Ayurvedic Facial For more information please call Jill 07786 415177

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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Available during March

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Back Massage

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Special price of pound95

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Treat the ladies you love

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Hate Housework We Love It

Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Thatcham

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See p 47

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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HOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLEHOME COMPUTER TROUBLE---SHOOTERSHOOTERSHOOTER

Having trouble understanding your computer

Using e-mails

Internet browsing creating address bookslabels or

invitationscards digital photos or just not the

faintest idea where

to start Need to set up a wireless

network converting

to broadband or any other hardware

needs

Irsquom here to help Contact Sarah Sladen

07979378408 or 01635 299429

L E T rsquo S F A C E F A C T S

Fusion Financial Management is a trading name of 2plan Ltd 2plan Ltd is authorised and regulated by the Financial Services Authority It is entered on

the FSA register (wwwfsagovuk) under reference 461598

With people living longer

the strain on State benefits growing

and 1 in 9 baby Boomers forecast

to live to 100

Call Simon Claxton at Fusion Financial Management

on 01635 202001

First meeting is free to establish

whether I can help

Would you like

The Truth about what you should and shouldnt do with your money

To get a f irmer idea of where you

are heading f inancial ly

To check that your ex ist ing

prov isions such as l ife assurance

or pensions are rea lly right for you

To take control of your f inances

without necessar ily be ing sold anything - and see your l ifesty le

improve

Bruce Bamber Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Member of the British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (MBACP)

Who said life was easy

Whether as a last resort to get things back to how they used

to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

relationship difficulties - anxiety - self esteem - guilt - sexual issues - confidence - anger - self-harm -

coping - life choices - abuse

t 07769 783424 Based in Newbury

Confidential Counselling ServiceConfidential Counselling Service

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12 Lamb Close Thatcham

Berkshire RG18 3UE

01635 872285 07849078204

middot Woodworkdecorating

middot Install laminate flooring

middot Flat pack assembly

middot Shelving

middot Garden Tidying shed building

middot Any jobs that need doing around the

house or garden

ldquoI am reliable and honestrdquo

Reasonable costs

References available

Fully insured

Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

business as a Handyman

Pete can do most things around the

house and garden (See below for a

selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

wwwberkshirehandymanservicescouk

PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

CAMRA Pub of the Year West Berkshire Branch

Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

and lunch-times

Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

lunches

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

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Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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Some of the Thatcham Team

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Bruce Bamber Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Member of the British Association for Counselling

and Psychotherapy (MBACP)

Who said life was easy

Whether as a last resort to get things back to how they used

to be or to make things better than they ever have been counselling may be able to help depression - stress - bereavement

relationship difficulties - anxiety - self esteem - guilt - sexual issues - confidence - anger - self-harm -

coping - life choices - abuse

t 07769 783424 Based in Newbury

Confidential Counselling ServiceConfidential Counselling Service

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References available

Fully insured

Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

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YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

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a professional

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pound500 monthly

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ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

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What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

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Rare breed organic pork

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As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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12 Lamb Close Thatcham

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Reasonable costs

References available

Fully insured

Having worked for 27 years within the

construction industry and with a love of outdoor work it is not surprising

that Pete is now launching his new

business as a Handyman

Pete can do most things around the

house and garden (See below for a

selection of tasks) He is equally happy to tackle both the small and

the not so small

wwwberkshirehandymanservicescouk

PETER KIRKHAM

YOUR LOCAL HANDYMAN

The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

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Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

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Campaign for Real Ale

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HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

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Bernies

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Kennet Holme Farm Buildings Bath Road Midgham RG7 5UX Telephone 01189 713 562

Kim Jones

With 8 years beauty experience Kim delivers a high quality service in all of her treatments This is supported by extensive product knowledge including Dermalogica Bio sculpture Jessica manicures and pedicures Fake bake tanning Crystal clear microdermabrasion and Hot stone massage

For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

Martin has over fifteen years of international experience as a professional hair stylist He has worked extensively throughout Europe including West End London

Martin brings special flair and passion for hairdressing Maybe he can inspire you to have a great hair cut or hair up

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Stay beautiful

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Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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01635 201854

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See p 47

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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Free Estimates

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07786 846 367

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February and March 2009

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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The key to success is to take care of your customers give them excellent service whilst being efficient and cutting out unnecessary costs

The gloom and doom of financial markets and the media of

late suggests that much of the world appears to be heading for recession at the moment Some may be over-reacting to

the current situation

You might want to think about the following

Loyalty Customers are only interested in being able to get

from you a product or service with the minimum of fuss and the maximum of convenience - their convenience Any or-

ganisation that can consistently deliver good service will win

both gratitude and loyalty - and thatrsquos surely what we all

want

Costs Customers donrsquot give a monkey about your firmrsquos

costs so remember that that if you are only giving them what they need they are not paying for what they donrsquot

need

Be waste conscious - What can you avoid Itrsquos the little things that soon add up

Size doesnrsquot matter Big and remote is the mantra of the

past the driving principle of General Motors and other beached whales of the industrial world SMALL AND LOCAL is

the most efficient way to deliver most services and plenty of products too

What do you do well Stop worrying a about the scale of your business and think more about the flow Concentrate

on what you can do well with your current customers An organisation that acts efficiently from receipt of order to

delivery will have lower overall costs and faster throughput

Finally worry less about competition and build co-operation The parts of a system - which includes customers and sup-

pliers - have to work together A system can only be opti-mised as a whole to a recognised aim and purpose Of

course it competes with others in the marketplace but the aim must be for everyone to gain - owners employees and

society - over the long term And satisfied customers are the most important part of your system

Taking care of customers you serve the companyrsquos financial goals while the reverse is not the case

Local businesses - now is the time to get out there and be

seen

ldquo Itrsquos no go my honey love itrsquos

no go my poppet

Work your hands from day to

day the winds will blow the

profit

The glass is falling hour by

hour the glass will fall for

ever

But if you break the bloody

glass you wonrsquot hold up the

weatherrdquo

Louis MacNeice in

ldquoBagpipe Musicrdquo

Feature Small is Beautifulhellip

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

CAMRA Pub of the Year West Berkshire Branch

Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

and lunch-times

Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

lunches

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

Try one of Chrisrsquo Famous Home-made

pies

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

THERESA WRIGHT

HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

M 0777 5708431

E theresatheresamwrightcom

W wwwtheresamwrightcom

TREATMENTS

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middot SIX WEEK HEALTHY EATING PROGRAMME

Theresa

has her own

exclusive private gym and clinic

- so you can be assured

of total privacy

Bernies

Hair amp Beauty Barn

Kennet Holme Farm Buildings Bath Road Midgham RG7 5UX Telephone 01189 713 562

Kim Jones

With 8 years beauty experience Kim delivers a high quality service in all of her treatments This is supported by extensive product knowledge including Dermalogica Bio sculpture Jessica manicures and pedicures Fake bake tanning Crystal clear microdermabrasion and Hot stone massage

For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

Martin has over fifteen years of international experience as a professional hair stylist He has worked extensively throughout Europe including West End London

Martin brings special flair and passion for hairdressing Maybe he can inspire you to have a great hair cut or hair up

For a free consultation please call me

Stay beautiful

07766765109

Martin-Roman Karlsson

Jill Wolstenholme

Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

benefit all Whether its ability to combat stress ease aches and pains or just for relaxation purposes she is keen to promote it as part of our everyday lives

Her range of treatments include Swedish and Indian Head Massage Remedial Pregnancy and Hot Stone Massage - or a luxurious Ayurvedic Facial For more information please call Jill 07786 415177

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

Motherrsquos Day Package

Available during March

Aromatic Facial

including

Back Massage

Pedicure

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Special price of pound95

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Treat the ladies you love

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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LLLOCALOCALOCAL RRRESIDENTIALESIDENTIALESIDENTIAL CCCLEANINGLEANINGLEANING SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

Hate Housework We Love It

Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

are due or after the builders have been inrsquo

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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24 Hour Emergency Service

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Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

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See p 47

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Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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For all domestic electrical work

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Part P Registered Electrician

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Free Estimates

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Meeting on a monthly basis in groups of 10 - 25 at

The Regency Park Hotel Thatcham RG18 3RP

Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee Connectionsrsquo Coffee offers all business people

a professional

(though very friendly) opportunity to network together

pound500 monthly

For more details of dates amp times

ring Ursula Aitken 0118 9886070

email ursulathatchamconnectionscouk

wwwthatchamconnectionscouk

What some of our local business men and women say

We recycle as many pc parts as we

can and try to keep even the older

machines working so avoiding cus-

tomers buying new if there is still life

left in their old machines - Thatcham

PC Doctors

We have grown our business slowly

over the past years which has allowed

us to keep control and guide the busi-

ness towards success - GR Swimming

Schools

Outsourcing IT compliance and re-

port writing has enabled me to con-

centrate my time more efficiently on

what I do best - advising clients-

Fusion Financial Management

Providing a personal and flexible ap-

proach - an individual service for

each one of our customers- My Home

I have used networking successfully

since I started The camaraderie in

these difficult times keeps the spirits

up A smile goes a long way with all

my clients - Health Therapist

Theresa Wright

Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

vegetable box schemes and meat boxes are a very economical

and convenient way to buy organic produce We aim to provide

you with a very high quality frozen meat at an affordable price

Eling Farm Hermitage Newbury Berkshire RG18 9XR

Tel 01635 200021

Emailelingfarmclaracouk

Eling Farm is located between Hermitage and Yattendon or between Hermitage and Hampstead Norreys just off the B4009

Opening Times

Wednesday Friday and Saturday 9am - 1 pm

PANG VALLEY ORGANICS Organic Produce at an affordable price

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THE SIX

BELLS

The Green

Beenham

RG7 5NX

01189 01189 01189

713368713368713368

Four Star Inn

AA rating

Proprietors Glynis amp Chris

CAMRA Pub of the Year West Berkshire Branch

Campaign for Real Ale

Meals served

every evening

and lunch-times

Wed-Sun

Traditional Sunday Roast

lunches

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

Try one of Chrisrsquo Famous Home-made

pies

Real Fires Cosy Atmosphere

THERESA WRIGHT

HEALTH THERAPIST

T 0118 9710255

M 0777 5708431

E theresatheresamwrightcom

W wwwtheresamwrightcom

TREATMENTS

middot REMEDIAL MASSSAGE THERAPY

middot AROMATHERAPY MASSAGE

middot FITNESS amp HEALTH CONSULTATION

middot ONE ON ONE FITNESS COACHING

middot SIX WEEK HEALTHY EATING PROGRAMME

Theresa

has her own

exclusive private gym and clinic

- so you can be assured

of total privacy

Bernies

Hair amp Beauty Barn

Kennet Holme Farm Buildings Bath Road Midgham RG7 5UX Telephone 01189 713 562

Kim Jones

With 8 years beauty experience Kim delivers a high quality service in all of her treatments This is supported by extensive product knowledge including Dermalogica Bio sculpture Jessica manicures and pedicures Fake bake tanning Crystal clear microdermabrasion and Hot stone massage

For more information and bookings please call 07717507839

Martin has over fifteen years of international experience as a professional hair stylist He has worked extensively throughout Europe including West End London

Martin brings special flair and passion for hairdressing Maybe he can inspire you to have a great hair cut or hair up

For a free consultation please call me

Stay beautiful

07766765109

Martin-Roman Karlsson

Jill Wolstenholme

Whilst many see a massage as a luxury item Jill believes it can

benefit all Whether its ability to combat stress ease aches and pains or just for relaxation purposes she is keen to promote it as part of our everyday lives

Her range of treatments include Swedish and Indian Head Massage Remedial Pregnancy and Hot Stone Massage - or a luxurious Ayurvedic Facial For more information please call Jill 07786 415177

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

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Locksmith Cap Security 38

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Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

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Organic beef lamb and chicken home produced

on our own farm which has been certified

organic since 2000

Rare breed organic pork

organic vegetables

As a family we are increasingly aware of how important it is to

know exactly where our food is sourced and what it has been

subject to before it ends up on our plates The use of fruit and

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

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Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

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For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

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PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

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Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

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Index

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

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Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

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For more information

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Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

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to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

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Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

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Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

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IF YOU NEED

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Some of the Thatcham Team

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COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

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Index

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With Valentinersquos Day creeping up on us

love is in the air and what better way to

get in the mood than with a good romance

novel Here is the best of the bunch both old and new

Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronteuml P e r h a p s n o t a conventional romance

this is a dark gothic

tale set on the

Yorkshire Moors where wersquore told of our hero

the mean and moody Heathcliff (no not Cliff

Richard) who shares a love with the spoilt

a t t e n t i o n - s e e k i n g Catherine The games

they play and the feelings they have for one another are so

strong they form a cloud of destruction which looms over two generations

Supernatural beautifully written and raw ndash itrsquos the finest Bronteuml work and one that will

appeal to both sexes

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Another of the same era but this one is a

clean and tidy tale of high-society romance and a love thatrsquos warped by arrogant looks

and crossed-wires Austenrsquos work is a timeless and beautiful story that gives

hope to single ladies everywhere - however theyrsquoll have to use their

imaginations when it comes to Mr Darcy strolling out of the lake in a wet shirt

A Walk to Remember by Nicholas

Sparks There isnrsquot a romance

section in the country without one of Nicholas

Sparksrsquo novels on display This story tells

the tale of Landon

Carter the cool kid who ends up roped into

playing the lead in his school play opposite

g o o d y - t w o - s h o e s Jamie Sullivan Despite

the bulliesrsquo taunts the unlikely pairing fall in love and Landon

learns some vital lessons in life

The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough This epic shows what happens when a

handsome clergyman who is destined for

the Vatican falls in love with a young

girl This book is now regarded as a classic

due to its powerful portrayal of love

d e n i e d a n d

McCulloughrsquos brilliant

descriptive writing of Australia

A p h r o d i t e rsquo s

W o r k s h o p b y Marika Cobbold NEW RELEASE D u e o u t o n

Valentinersquos Day this is not so much a soppy classic but rather a look at love in

an age of cynicism and lsquotoo many

optionsrsquo The plot revolves around

Rebecca Finch a bestselling romantic

novelist who finds herself disillusioned

by the r-word Meanwhile up on

Mount Olympus Aphrodite is in

turmoil divorce rates are soaring and

nobody takes her seriously any more Even Cupid isnrsquot

bothering to look at who hersquos hitting with his arrows A clever sharp story which

unfortunately wersquore all able to relate to

Random Acts of Heroic Love by Danny Scheinmann If yoursquore after something with a bit more woe than woo this book entwines two

stories of love and loss with one taking

place in the modern day and another in revolutionary Russia Beautifully written

both tales are told with a focus on the male lover in the romance which makes a

change

Feature Book review - Top Romances by Vicotria Poolman

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

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Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

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IF YOU NEED

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OUT OF HOURS

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Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

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work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

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Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

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Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

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Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

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Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

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Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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LLLOCALOCALOCAL RRRESIDENTIALESIDENTIALESIDENTIAL CCCLEANINGLEANINGLEANING SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

Hate Housework We Love It

Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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newburycleanmyhomecom

As Spring is nearly here why not make

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Thatcham

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RG18 4LG

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See p 47

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

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Free Estimates

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

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Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

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Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

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Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

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Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

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St Valentinersquos Day 14th February has become one of the most commercialised dates in the calendar We all know it is designed for people to declare their love for one another and usually involves sending of cards flowers chocolates or other gifts

But its origins are shrouded in

mystery The day itself is named after at least three martyrs called Valentine yet no romantic elements are associated with any of them however hard anyone tries to rewrite history to fit our modern beliefs The first suggestion of this day becoming affiliated with lovers is a mention in Geoffrey Chaucerrsquos poem lsquoParlement of Foulesrsquo a poem written in 1382 to celebrate the loving marriage between King Richard II and Anne of Bohemia Even so it is unlikely that the Valentinersquos Day Chaucer referred to in his poem was even in February

More likely is the suggestion that

a festival celebrating love was a much older event dating from Roman times In those days February was a month dedicated to rather rowdy festivals honouring various gods and goddesses many of whom signified love and fertility

Regardless of the historical

origins of Valentinersquos Day the date has long been the subject of n u m e r o u s t r a d i t i o n s a n d s upers t i t i ons pert ain in g t o discovering whom you are likely to

marry It is said that the first bird a girl sees on Valentinersquos Day will predict her future husbandrsquos personality For example if she sees a sparrow she will marry a poor man but will be very happy an owl would mean she wouldnrsquot marry at all a goldfinch would foretell marriage to a rich man while a flock of doves symbolise a happy peaceful marriage

In Wales wooden spoons were

lovingly hand-carved and presented as gifts on February 14th a tradition that is still marketed The symbols on the spoons are generally hearts keys and keyholes signifying ldquoyou have the key to my heartrdquo The beautiful Celtic love knot is also a popular design as this unbroken and continuous knot symbolises a love with the same attributes

Somewhat more modern is the

idea that the first male name you hear on the radio or TV will be the same name as the man you will marry

Among these superstitions there is one in particular that is accurate and charming to be woken up with a kiss on Valentinersquos morning is considered lucky This makes a lot of sense as if this happens to you you are most definitely lucky to be with a partner that loves you

H o w e v e r c o m m e r c i a l i s e d

Valentinersquos Day has become the underlying sentiment remains the same expressing your love for someone in whichever way suits you best But if you do send Valentinersquos cards it is still considered unlucky to sign them

Feature St Valentinersquos Day

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Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

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Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

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Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

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Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

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Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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LLLOCALOCALOCAL RRRESIDENTIALESIDENTIALESIDENTIAL CCCLEANINGLEANINGLEANING SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

Hate Housework We Love It

Local Resident Phil Ryder has recently taken on a

myhome franchise covering the Thatcham area

Phil recognises that rsquotimersquo is precious and that everyone needs to spend valuable time at home - sometimes without having to do the cleaning Phil heads up a team of highly-

trained fully insured cleaning professionals who have undergone a strict vetting process including police checks

myhomersquos cleaning service is tailored to

meet the individual needs of each client so

before Phil can prepare a personalised quota-tion he will visit the client at their property to assess their requirements and discuss any special requests

Phil explains lsquoMost customers opt for a fort-nightly clean as the service is so thorough But our service is flexible and our one-off cleaning services are also great for people in

a variety of situations - moving into a new home vacating rental accommodation and undergoing the dreaded inventory check - or in emergency situations such as after parties before family

are due or after the builders have been inrsquo

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wwwmyhomeplccom

newburycleanmyhomecom

As Spring is nearly here why not make

a head start and let us make Your Home Sparkle

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Free Security Advice amp Estimates

01635 868 318 101A Park Lane Thatcham Berkshire

To ALL Types of Doors

Windows and Garages

UPVc Door and

Window Maintenance Specialists

All makes of Locks

OpenedFittedReplacedRepaired

CAP SECURITY

LOCAL

LOCKSMITHS

Professional Family Run Business

NEED AN MOT Cars Mini Buses Light

Commercial Classes 4 5L and 7

01635 876777

Free CollectionDeliverymdashFree Courtesy Car on all servicing and repairs Subject to availability

AIR CONDITIONING SPECIALISTSRECOVERY SERVICE

BIG VALUE FIXED PRICE SERVICE WITH FREE MOT Price includes service parts labour amp

VAT Offer only available on 4 cyl cars up to 2000cc

WE CAN HELP

ONLY

pound119 INCLUDING FREE MOT

HALFWAY GARAGE Unit 7 Pipers Court Berkshire Drive Thatcham

FREE

FIT

TING FREE

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middot Wood Venetian

middot Pleated

middot Vertical Blinds

middot Rollers

middot Plantation Shutters

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Keenest Prices - Best Service

We are a local family business

Call PAUL or SUE 01635 866600

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Business Accounts

Self Assessment Returns

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Meetings at HomeBusiness

Fees fixed in advance

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Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 41

THATCHAM SURGERY

10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

TADLEY SURGERY

Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

01635 39039 (Equine)

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

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Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

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Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

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Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

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SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

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photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

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A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Free Security Advice amp Estimates

01635 868 318 101A Park Lane Thatcham Berkshire

To ALL Types of Doors

Windows and Garages

UPVc Door and

Window Maintenance Specialists

All makes of Locks

OpenedFittedReplacedRepaired

CAP SECURITY

LOCAL

LOCKSMITHS

Professional Family Run Business

NEED AN MOT Cars Mini Buses Light

Commercial Classes 4 5L and 7

01635 876777

Free CollectionDeliverymdashFree Courtesy Car on all servicing and repairs Subject to availability

AIR CONDITIONING SPECIALISTSRECOVERY SERVICE

BIG VALUE FIXED PRICE SERVICE WITH FREE MOT Price includes service parts labour amp

VAT Offer only available on 4 cyl cars up to 2000cc

WE CAN HELP

ONLY

pound119 INCLUDING FREE MOT

HALFWAY GARAGE Unit 7 Pipers Court Berkshire Drive Thatcham

FREE

FIT

TING FREE

MEASURING

SHOWROOM HIGH ST THATCHAM

middot Romans

middot Wood Venetian

middot Pleated

middot Vertical Blinds

middot Rollers

middot Plantation Shutters

middot Conservatory Blinds

Keenest Prices - Best Service

We are a local family business

Call PAUL or SUE 01635 866600

wwwsmart_blindsnet

SSSMARTMARTMART BBBLINDSLINDSLINDS amp Samp Samp SHUTTERSHUTTERSHUTTERS

ACCOUNTANCY AND TAX SERVICES FOR

SMALL BUSINESSES AND THE SELF-EMPLOYED

Business Accounts

Self Assessment Returns

VAT Buy-to-Let

CIS Payroll

Meetings at HomeBusiness

Fees fixed in advance

(01635) 582829

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 39

Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 41

THATCHAM SURGERY

10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

TADLEY SURGERY

Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

01635 39039 (Equine)

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 39

Promises promiseshellip

The time of New Yearrsquos resolutions has come and

gone and so I am going to talk about diets A diet is

a way to lose a few pounds right Or is it a pro-

gramme of self-enforced deprivation prompted by

feelings of dissatisfaction and guilt usually leading to

failure disappointment and more guilt thus creating

a vicious circle leading to dashed hopes and battered

self-esteem In some cases yes The diet industry

is massive and grows fatter on the perpetuation of

feelings of personal inadequacy

I canrsquot afford the legal fees if I get sued for slandering the diet industry so Irsquoll move

swiftly on to counselling I donrsquot promise to make you thinner or more attractive or

more successful or younger-looking or to fill you with vitality or to make your skin glow

If you want someone who makes you these sorts of promises yoursquoll have to look else-

where Yoursquoll find there is no shortage of promises waiting to be made

But maybe you are you sick of these promises Perhaps you have invested time en-

ergy money or even love in promises or those who offered them A chocolate truffle

looks very attractive to someone on the lettuce and bean sprout diet Perhaps you

have a suspicion that there is a way of living that does not rely on a constant unre-

lenting quest for an idealised perfection ndash the kind of deceitful perfection that taunts

you that yoursquoll never be good enough

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Every person has his or her own promise and by this I mean that you have your own

potential and do not need to be someone elsersquos idea of what is good or desirable

Counselling seeks to realise more of this promise in the here and now Find your own

and live it

Bruce Bamber can be contacted on 07769 783424 Please see page 26

Feature Our Counsellor - Bruce Bamber

Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 41

THATCHAM SURGERY

10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

TADLEY SURGERY

Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

01635 39039 (Equine)

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Seona Myerscough is a family lawyer and

in this article she examines the options

available for those experiencing a break-down in family relationships

Sadly for some a relationship breakdown

can lead to bitter disputes irreconcilable differences and breakdowns of communi-

cation that the way forward must be de-cided by a judge Some would argue that

the divorce process itself is responsible for creating such discontent and couples

who begin with a mutual and amicable decision to split will emerge bitter ene-

mies by the time a settlement is reached

However not all relationship breakdowns have to involve lengthy court battles

These days there are other options that are far less stressful much more digni-

fied and which allow you and your part-ner far greater control over the eventual

outcome

One such option is Mediation Remaining impartial throughout a mediator can

help you and your partner to work things

out together by identifying the issues of conflict They will then help you both to

resolve them Once you have a proposal

you both find acceptable a lawyer will

convert it into a legally binding document and carry out any necessary

implementation

Collaborative Law is another option This a relatively new way of dealing with fam-

ily disputes whereby each person ap-points their own lawyer and negotiations

are conducted at four way meetings The aim is to resolve family disputes without

going to court Each of you will have

your lawyer by your side throughout the

entire process so you will benefit from legal advice as you go One of the bene-

fits of the process is that it is not driven by a timetable imposed by the court As

such the process can be built around your familyrsquos individual timetable and

priorities

At Gardner Leader we have a team which has a vast experience in Family

Law When you phone to make an ap-pointment you will be put in touch with

the person who can best meet your needs You can ask to talk to the person

before you make the appointment if you think that will help You can find out more

about each team member on our website All options including mediation and col-

laborative law will be explained at your initial meeting which we call a fixed fee

interview The cost of the fixed fee interview is pound120 inc VAT and provides a

full hour of advice ndash leaving you knowing exactly where you stand We offer legal

aid which is means tested If you think you might be eligible then please ask

when you make the appointmentrsquo

Further details

Seona Myerscough Gardner Leader LLP Tel 01635 508080 (for both Newbury and Thatcham offices) E-mail smyerscoughgardner-leadercouk

Gardner Leader Divorce options where no-one loses

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 41

THATCHAM SURGERY

10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

TADLEY SURGERY

Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

01635 39039 (Equine)

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

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EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

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photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 39: Thatcham Connections 19

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 41

THATCHAM SURGERY

10 London Road

Thatcham

Berkshire

RG18 4LG

Tel 01635 868382

TADLEY SURGERY

Old Kiln House

Silchester Road

Tadley Hampshire

RG26 3PX

Tel 0118 981 5500

24 Hour Emergency Service

Clinical expertise

Full facilities including hospitalisation

Friendly and helpful staff

NEWBURY

Donnington Grove Surgery Oxford Road

01635 47170 (Small Animals Farm and 24 Hour)

01635 39039 (Equine)

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 40: Thatcham Connections 19

Berkshire AquaticsBerkshire Aquatics

middot Wide range of Koi and pond fish

middot Equipment

middot Pond Design amp Build

Paramount Pools LtdParamount Pools LtdParamount Pools Ltd

01635 201854

01635 201623

Newbury Garden BuildingsNewbury Garden Buildings

01635 2000 00

01635 202232

See p 47

01635 202300

The Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse LtdThe Energy Warehouse Ltd

Renewable Energy Showroom amp Consultancy

01635 203344

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 55

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Page 41: Thatcham Connections 19

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 43

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 42: Thatcham Connections 19

Weather permitting now is the time for

you to venture outside to do some real gardening after the winter downtime Use

February to finish off any winter work and prepare as much as possible for the rest of

the gardening year by pruning digging and tidying

First signs of spring will be making their

appearance with bulbs waking up and peeking through the soil buds starting to

form on trees and shrubs and catkins waving in the breeze

Beware however of frosts and snow February is still very much winter in most

parts of the country so donrsquot plant out

anything new just yet Instead prepare as

much as possible for the coming growing season

Finish off any winter digging to allow the

weather and probable frosts to help break down large clods of soil If possible avoid

walking on the lawn as the sodden ground

will quickly compact turning it into a kind

of concrete and you will ruin the grass for the rest of the year Why make extra work

for yourself

If you intend to create a new flower bed now is the ideal time to prepare the

ground Mark out the shape of the new bed using string a hosepipe or a trail of

sand as itrsquos very easy to get carried away with your digging so you end up with a

much larger bed than you intended If your new bed is located in existing lawn

resist the temptation to just turn over the turf Grass grows best where you donrsquot

want it and yoursquoll end up with a grassy flower bed for years to come Remove the

turf and either reuse it elsewhere or compost it Dig over the soil as deeply as

you can incorporating plenty of well-rotted manure as you go

Snowdrops will be coming to the end of their flowering period so to get even more

Getting Ready for Spring

Feature Gardening Pages

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 45

of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 55

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Page 43: Thatcham Connections 19

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of these gorgeous blooms divide the plants

after the flowers have faded but while the leaves are still green This is known as lsquoin

the greenrsquo and snowdrops will only propagate if you transplant them like this

You may have bought many snowdrop bulbs in the past yet have none of these

beautiful flowers to show for your money This is because snowdrops really only grow

well when planted lsquoin the greenrsquo

Trim any excess old foliage on hellebores

These low-growing plants are susceptible to a leaf disease called hellebore leaf spot so

keep them tidy which helps encourage healthy plants

Cut back ornamental grasses to about

12cm above the crown Theyrsquoll grow quickly

and be even healthier than before Pruning

stimulates vigorous new growth and many plants require this to flourish Dogwood is

another that will benefit from a good cut-back Now that yoursquove had the pleasure of

the stunning colour they provide through the winter prune the stems down to

ground level ready to shoot again The

brightest colours next winter will come from

the new growth

Summer and autumn flowering clematis

should also be pruned back hard The speed of growth during spring is incredible

and will mean you will have a spectacular floral display later in the year Winter-

flowering jasmine should also be cut back once the flowers have faded Other plants

to prune now are ornamental vines such as

Virginia creeper and ivy Itrsquos a good idea to

feed any plants that have been pruned as they will use a lot of energy producing new

growth

Towards the end of the month you can start feeding your entire garden with an all-

purpose fertiliser to boost the spring growth

spurt Mulching is something that should

really wait until the soil is a little warmer so Irsquoll talk about that in detail next month

copy 2008 Rose Henfrey

Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Office 01635 866546

Ian Douglas 07725 819 652

Mark Lissenden 07742 078 026

gardenthymeserviceshotmailcouk

Garden Thyme Garden Maintenance and Landscape Services

Garden Thyme is run by

Ian Douglas and Mark Lissenden

Ian and Mark have over 30 years of combined experience and knowledge in the gardening sector maintaining and developing private and commercial gardens to a high standard They have won 2 National BALI awards They pride themselves in offering a reliable and professional service

Their services include patio laying pressure washing and lawn treatments (with selective weed killers) garden clearances hedge cutting tree pruning fencing winter digging vegetable planting and af-tercare They offer one-offs weekly fortnightly or monthly visits No job is either too small or too big

Please ring for a very competitive quote

The photographs below show their work

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 55

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Page 45: Thatcham Connections 19

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 47

Tracey Mobile Hairdressing

07770 823283

I offer quality personal affordable hair-dressing in the comfort of your own home at a time to suit you

Based on Dunstan Park I can travel to you in Thatcham and the surrounding villages

Please call if you would like to make an appointment

Tel 07770 823283

Email Traceyblicktiscalicouk

Discounts available for double and group adult bookings

01635 202232 Hillier Garden Centre

Priors Court Road - Hermitage

WWWEEE ALSOALSOALSO OFFEROFFEROFFER AAA LOCALLOCALLOCAL DELIVERYDELIVERYDELIVERY SERVICESERVICESERVICE

EEELECTRICALLECTRICALLECTRICAL amp Pamp Pamp PROPERTYROPERTYROPERTY SSSERVICESERVICESERVICES

For all domestic electrical work

Property Maintenance

Part P Registered Electrician

Emergency call out

Free Estimates

01635 860126

07786 846 367

infoabc-electrical-propertycouk

Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Card Game Word search for

February and March 2009

NEED ANNEED ANNEED AN

AMUSINGAMUSINGAMUSING

SPEAKER SPEAKER SPEAKER

Versatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist BoardVersatile London Tourist Board Registered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide givesRegistered Blue Badge Guide gives entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be entertaining Talks to gatherings be they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-they Art Societies AGMs or Lunch-eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from eons Varied subjects range from w o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m aw o r k i n g f o r J o h n B e t j e m a nnn t ot ot o lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why lsquoHysterical Historyrsquo eg why Charles 11 Charles 11 Charles 11 keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his keeps popping out of his

coffincoffincoffin

photo

For more informationFor more informationFor more information please contactplease contactplease contact

SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE SUSAN HOWE Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923Tel 07761 102923

Email edwinaEmail edwinaEmail edwina___ukukuk___99yahoocom99yahoocom99yahoocom

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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February and March 2009

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ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 47: Thatcham Connections 19

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 49

A local charity

for local people

providing support care

and information

The Trust offers support to cancer

patients residing in West Berkshire

We provide an equipment loan ser-

vice small financial grants volun-

teer drivers who escort patients to

hospital for treatment and we also

fund the following services

Aromatherapy Physiotherapy

Hydrotherapy Overnight Nursing

Care Bereavement Counselling and

the 1421 Time to Talk Youth Coun-

selling Service

For more information

please contact

01635 31542

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 48: Thatcham Connections 19

Feature Thatcham Connectionsrsquo Challenge Page

Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Woolhampton

WELCOME TO THE AREA

Meet and Greet Day

At the village hall

March 7th 2009

1230 - 1500

Representatives from the School

Churches and various groups who

use the Village Hall extend a warm

welcome to all visitors and in

particular to all NEWCOMERS Photographs old and new courtesy of Jenny Campbell and Sarah Ward Thank you also to Terry and Cathy Vallis for the information

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

ursulathatchamconnectionscouk 0118 9886070 wwwthatchamconnectionscouk 55

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Page 50: Thatcham Connections 19

Useful local phone numbers Emergency

Thames Valley Police 0845 8505 505 British Gas Emergency 080 111 999 Thames Water Emergency 0845 9200 888

Southern Electric Emergency 0845 770 8090

Travel Rail Enquiries 08457 484950 Newbury Buses 01635 567500

Council West Berks District Council 01635 42 00 Thatcham Town Council 01635 863592

Police Station 0845 8505505

West Berks Street Care 01635 519080

Post Office Broadway Thatcham 01635 8623223 Woolhampton 0118 9713729

RSPCA 08705 555999

DVLA Swansea 0172 782341 Victim Support 0845 30 30 900

Health Thatcham Medical Practice 01635 867171 Doctorsrsquo appointments 01635 871117 Appointment cancellations 01635 295445

All other appointmentscalls 01635 295445 Burdwood Surgery 01635 868006 Newbury Hospital 01635 273300

Vet OrsquoGormon Slater amp Main 01635 868382 GKG Veterinary Surgeons 01635 868047

Library 01635 866049

Mon 930-500

Tues 930-700 Wed - not open

Thurs 930 - 500

Fri 930 - 700 Sat 930 - 1230

West Call

IF YOU NEED

A DOCTOR

OUT OF HOURS

PHONE

0118 9787811

Some of the Thatcham Team

Thatchamrsquos

COMMUNITY RESPONDERS 0800 587 02070800 587 02070800 587 0207

lsquoWe are waiting to hear from yourdquo

wwwsoutherncentralambulancecouk

Feature Community pages

A group for Lone Parent Families meets monthly on the 1st Sunday of the month between 2-4 at Thatcham Childrenrsquos Centre

Lower Way Thatcham

Gingerbread Mel Wilder 01635 826650

Photographed by Maria

Dobson this is a Lanner Falcon named lsquoHughiersquo

He belongs to Ray Prior who gave a display of

Birds of Prey on 21 Feb 08 at the Thatcham Discovery

Centre

Photographed by

Norman Jones this photo shows

Madam Mayor Jenny Weaving with

one of the reindeer before Christmas

when she visited Newbury Christmas

Tree Farm

See wwwnorriesitecom for many more interesting local photographs

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 51: Thatcham Connections 19

The project works to support adults with

learning disabilities to build on WorkSocial skills and Education with an aim to

possible future employment in their own communities

Volunteers are needed for exciting pro-

jects at Link-Up The project works to support adults with learning disabilities

to build on WorkSocial skills and Educa-tion with an aim to possible future em-

ployment in their own communities We need volunteers to help in our sheltered

work skills unit at The Slater Centre

New Greenham Park

There would be opportunities after train-ing to join our Job Coaching team sup-

porting some of our service users 11 in the local community at work placements

encouraging employment and independ-ence

We are also keen to recruit volunteers to

help with our exciting and varied on-going therapeutic gardening project

Growing4all at Cottismore CRB check We can offer youAn opportunity to work

on these unique projects Gain work experience in this field

Relevant training

Great references for future employmentuniversity etc

ContactHelen Anderson (01635) 500852 Jobcoachlink-up-projectorguk

Volunteers needed Make a difference

ldquoNot many people can say they started their

career playing Judi Denchrsquos son went on to be a Munchkin for the Royal Shakespeare Company and travelled the globe as an Irish dancer all before the age of 21 Jamie Read has a voice which is just as at home singing jazz standards in a cabaret as it is singing big tenor roles at the Theatre Royal Now Director of Theatre at Read Dance amp Theatre Company Jamie is delighted to be returning to the stage for one night only to help raise money for the Thatcham Mayorrsquos charityrdquo

Saturday 28th March 2009 at 730 pm St Maryrsquos Parish Church Thatcham

Tickets (pound5) available from The Family Bookshop

The Broadway Tel 01635 871777

in aid of Home-Start West Berkshire Thatcham Town Mayorrsquos Charity 20082009

Forthcoming Concerts hellip

An evening with West End Vocalist

Jamie Read

on Saturday 28th March

Jazz and the Musicals

and

Cocircr Meibion Morlais Traditional Welsh Male

Choir performing in aid of MacMillan Cancer Support on Saturday 25 April 7pm at Arlington Arts Centre

A 40 strong choir from the Rhondda Valley performing songs of all kinds from all cultures Made up from all age groups and featuring choristers from all walks of life Cocircr Meibion Morlais uphold everything about the rich history of choral Music in Wales - from its very ethos to its incredible reputation Tickets pound10 - on sale now 01635 244246 wwwarlingtonartscouk

on Morlais Traditional

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

Swimming School s

GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

Index

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Page 52: Thatcham Connections 19

Baby Massage Just the 2 of us 2

Baby Products Bambambaby 2

Bathroom Installations Corsair 26

Blinds Smart Blinds 38

Boarding Kennels Foxhold 18

Book Reviews 33

Building Society Newbury Building Society 10

Burial Ground Acorn Ridge 17 Car Maintenance Halfway Garage 38

Charity The Newbury amp District Cancer Care Trust 49

Childrenrsquos Challenge 50 Chimney Sweep Wilkins 2

Cleaning My Home 37

Community Pages 5253

Computers GIGTEK Ltd 24 Sarah Sladen 25 Thatcham PC Doctors 2

Concrete 24-7 Concrete 23 CounsellingCoach Bruce Bamber 2639

Craft Shop Kreate amp Make 21

Curtain amp Soft Furnishings Indigo Designs 2 Dancing amp Drama Schools One Step Ahead 2 Read Dance 14 Stagecoach 14 Tiny Theatre School 11

Decorator Lady Painter 10 LMC Decorator 24 Tony Fegan 6 Dog Grooming Services Helenrsquos Hairy Hounds 2 Electrical amp Property ABC Electrical 47 Thatcham amp Newbury 18 Maintenance Services

Electrician Mace Solutions 17

Financial - IFA Simon Claxton 1925

Flooring Oaktree Floors 23 Stone Partnership 22

Florist Buttercups amp Daisies 47 Funeral Directors Geoffrey Church amp Co 10 Garden Centre Hilliers Garden Centre 42 Gardening Feature 4445

Gardening Services Garden Thyme 46 Green Thumb 43 Newbury Garden Buildings 41 NPT Paving Specialists 43 Tree Surgeon 47 Golf Club Sandford Springs 55 Golf Club Open Day Bradfield College 9 Handyman Peter Kirkham 27

Hair amp Beauty Bernies 33 Kaven 35 Tracey Mobile Hairdressing 47

Health amp Fitness Club Bradfield College 3 Health Therapist Theresa Wright 831

Home Cinema Vivid Research 21

Homes for Overseas Students OISE 15

Locksmith Cap Security 38

Marketing Consultant Marketing Genie 29 Music amp Dance for Children Monkey Music Stagecoach 12

Nursery School Jubilee Day Nursery 1314

Organic Foods Pang Valley Organics 30

Paving Specialists NPT Building Services 43

Personalised Gifts Nordikotacom 24

Photographer Henwood-Fox Photography 49

Piano Ben Wheeler 48 Picture Framer Inner Piece 49 Plasterer BampM Property Solutions 6 Plumber Anthony Bosley 16 Thatcham amp Newbury Maintenance Services 18

Printer Thames Print Room 3 Restaurants The Coach and Horses 18 The Lamb 7 The Six Bells 31

Sculpture Casting a Memory 5

Snowdrop Park Welford Park 45

Solicitor CLM Law 36 Gardner Leader 4056 Speaker Susan Howe 48 St Valentinersquos Day 35

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GR Swimming School 12 Nightingalersquos Swim School 10 Tax Advice Tax Assist 38 TWD 18

Telephone Extensions Webb Telecom 2

Tiling Cedar Ceramics 6 Vet OrsquoGorman Slater Main 41

Water Softener JM Softeners 23 Woolhampton Meet amp Greet day 51 Wordsearch 48

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