Successful Life

ContentsBuddhist teaching for successful familyFace to problem positivelyLearning by mistakesOur family life

Buddhist teaching for successful family

QUOTES ON POSITIVE ATTITUDEThe most significant change in a persons life is a change of attitude. Right attitudes produce right actions.A positive attitude is not a destination. It is a way of life.A positive attitude is like a magnet for positive results.Our life is a reflection of our attitudes.So What is Attitude? What is Positive Attitude? What Sort of a role it plays in our Life? Why it is so Important?For Understanding Attitude & its Importance lets look at this Example:

HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE OF AN ICEBERG?ONLY 10% OF ANY ICEBERG IS VISIBLE. THE REMAINING 90% IS BELOW SEA LEVEL.VISIBLE ABOVE SEA LEVELINVISIBLEBELOW SEA LEVEL10 %90 %The Iceberg phenomena is also applicable on human beings

SEA LEVELBEHAVIORVALUES STANDARDS JUDGMENTSATTITUDEMOTIVES ETHICS - BELIEFSKNOWLEDGE &SKILLSKNOWN TO OTHERSUNKNOWN TO OTHERS10 %90 %

WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?====829698100Arrange all the alphabets by given them numbers according to their position :IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDEIT IS OUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS LIFE & WORK THAT MAKES OUR LIFE 100%

ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ1234567891011121314151617181920212223242526

ATTITUDE120209202145

KNOWLEDGE11141523125475

HARDWORK8118423151811

SKILLS19119121219

The difference is notthe age of the country.India & Egypt, that are more than 2000 years old and are poor.On the other hand, Canada, Australia & New Zealand, that 150 years ago were inexpressive, today are developed countries and are rich.This is not because of availibility of natural resourcesi.e. Japan has a limited territory, 80% mountainous, inadequate for agriculture & cattle raising, but it is the second world economy.Race or skin color are also not important:IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDEWHY RICH COUNTRIES ARE RICH? WHY POOR COUNTRIES ARE POOR?What is the difference then?The difference is the attitude of the people, framed along the years by the education & the culture.

On analyzing the behavior of the people in rich & developed countries, we find that the great majority follow the following principles in their lives:Ethics, as a basic principle.Integrity.Responsibility.Respect to the laws & rules.Respect to the rights of other citizensWork loving.Strive for saving & investmentWill of super action.Punctuality.In poor countries, only a minority follow these basic principles in their daily life.We are not poor because we lack natural resources or because nature was cruel to us.We are poor because we lack attitude.SIGN OF +VE ATTITUDE

Face to problem positively

Think positively to do

Happy family

The recipes of love

Kindness Taking care of each other Responsibility

Love to loveDo the act not looking re-act for your familyBe an exampleDo not make alcohol problems in the homeOur parents are our Gods

Happy human relationshipIt is the people in our lives who bring us the most happiness. Family, friends and co-workers, who are part of our inner circle, share our experiences, hopes and dreams, successes and frustrations, joys and pains. The key to happiness is a harmonious relationship with the people in our lives.

A successful marriage (I)More and more studies are revealing the importance of a happy, healthy relationship. Happily married people are healthier, better adjusted, more successful and more wealthy than their unhappily married or single counterparts.Every marriage deserves a fair chance, no matter where it is now, and no matter what you or your spouse have done (or not done). You may have tried to change things with little success. You may be wondering if there is any hope for the relationship. Many marriages are in a similar place.

A Successful Marriage (II)Accurate Perception Clear Communication Right Action

A successful marriage (III)Don't break up; wake up and make up! Married couples can learn how to stay together and reap the harvest of real and lasting love. Singles can learn how to keep a relationship growing, instead of stopping it before it starts. The truth is that men and women are actually very much alike even though the ways we behave and express ourselves can make it seem like "men are from Mars and women are from Venus." Both men and women are from Earth and we can all learn to change and enjoy the ride!

A happy family (I)Parents always try to prove the benefits of being honest when you are a little child. A good story in this regard is .One day the child Washington chop down his farther s favorite cherry tree; although knowing he would deserve to be punished, he told his father the truth. Unexpected, his farther apprised him rather than executing a punishment; moreover, he was encouraged to maintain the good manner all the time. As known to all, the honest boy eventually became one of the greatest presidents in American history. love

A happy family (II)More people disregard their passion and interests and choose careers based on job security, pay and professional promotion. As a result, they find themselves isolated and without friends. Loneliness is a common tragedy that destroys lives.Actually we were old enough to remember the old saying "Money doesnt buy happiness", yet we strive for the material objects and pay a high price. The essence of happiness is the unconditionally love we have for the people in our lives and their unconditionally love for us.

Alcohol and family

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