Success by habit habit of success
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What is a habit?As part of existence whatever we do repeatedly is a habit Either you acquire a habit or a habit acquires you If you acquire a habit, it is in your control If a habit acquires you, it controls you When you choose a habit, you also choose the end result of that habit Good habits are difficult to acquire, but easy to live with Bad habits are easy to acquire, but difficult to live with Almost without exception, bad habits come slowly and pleasantly and, in most instances, the habit has you before you are
aware you have it Is it fair to become slave of habits instead of becoming their master e. g., a monkey does not leave nuts
For that right mental attitude is needed
It is up to you To become helpless or to choose habits smartly
1. intelligence or understanding2. will – choice, stimulus and response 3. action – verbal and non-verbal
Would you like to… - make more money?- enjoy life more?- reduce fatigue?- increase effectiveness?- contribute more to society?- enjoy better health?- improve your relationships?
Discipline is also a habitWhat is discipline?What is an acceptable behavior?What is an unacceptable behavior?How would you develop acceptable behavior?Can you list some acceptable behaviors that
you would like to acquire?What would be rewards of acceptable
behaviors?
You can do it In your hands you hold the seed of failure
– or the potential for successe.g., a little bird in hands of a boy
You are somewhere on the way because you want to be there.
e.g., a balloon vendor and a boy What you want to be – inferior or
successful?e.g., a banyan tree and a bonsai
Acquire habit to use your competence Nobody is a successful doctor, engineer,
player, industrialist, artist, businessman… by born
No mother gives birth of successful person, she only gives birth of a baby boy or a baby girl
Successful person does not born, of course, successful person certainly dies
So between the birth and death, there is something to choose – acquiring habits that lead you to success
Use of competence gives you successWinner is the person who does not leave the battle
field and there is no bar for any cast, color or creed for this
12th March, 2006 at Johannesburg there was a one-day cricket match between Australia and South Africa
Australia won the toss and batted first, made a huge score of 434 runs by 4 wickets
South Africa got win and made a history by making 438 run by 9 wicket in 49.5 over
The power of purposeThe power of purpose gives you the power of
acquiring the habit of getting successWhatever have not done till now that is done today
and for that we have many evidences, but whatever have not yet done, that will not be done that we cannot say – we do not find any proof of that
The direct relationship of confidence is the purpose If you have any purpose in your life, if makes your
life significance – otherwise it would be a wood floating here and there in the flowing water
If you have not any movement, you cannot make any progress
Flowing water has its own directione.g., Terry Fox’s story
Three steps to complete your purpose1. Do not satisfied with whatever with
you today2. Desire for the destination where you
want to reach3. Positive estimate of what you will get
when you reach there
Answer these questionsWhat one of your behaviors is you feel
not acceptable?How would you change this behavior
that turn it as acceptable?What one purpose that you feel is very
important in your life?How would you achieve it?What one memorable thing that you
wish to gift your parents?
THANKYOUALL