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SPOUSAL AGE
GENERATION GAP RELATIONSHIP
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MAIN ISSUE
PERSONAL FREEDOM
vsCULTURAL RESTRAINS
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THE RELATION
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CONTRASTP AL A E AP
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OLD GENERATIONS
o SIMILAR AGE UNIONS -COEDUCATION
o ZERO TO FOUR DIFFERENCE OF AGE
o ARRANGED AT YOUNG AGE -AFFIRMATION
o WOMEN ARE PROTECTED ( LESSMOBILE ) - CONCERN
o A LEGAL COMMITMENT MUTUAL
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OLD GENERATIONS
ADVANTAGES
Marriage contract is a commitment
made in thepresence of a legalauthority, and isvalid until the
contract is broken Maintain family
tradition and
DISADVANTAGES
Sometimes noapproval by the
sons or daughters Stuck with an age
perspectives
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NEW GENERATIONS
o WIDE RANGE OF AGE UNIONS -INTERACTION
o FIVE TO FIFTEEN DIFFERENCE OF AGE
o WOMAN DECIDE ON THEIR CHOICEOF HUSBAND - FREEDOM
o WOMEN ARE OPEN TO OLDER MAN -MOBILE
o A MORALE COMMITMENT MUTUAL
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NEW GENERATIONS
ADVANTAGES
Marriage covenant is
a commitment made
in the presence of
God, and is valid
until death
DISADVANTAGES
Wrong choice
100% individual
responsibilty
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SIMILE of MARRIAGE
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FREEDOM TO CHOOSE
o Spiritually, emotionally and physically unite a man and a women together
o Consider a lasting marriage
o Have an objective (family)o Not derive from a temporal passiono Reflect on the commitment that you
have already made to your spouse
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FREEDOM TO CHOOSE
DESPITE THATour culture
o Accepts frequent divorce and remarriageand denies that this is hurting the childrenand the holiness of marriage.
o Culture places embarrasment and shame onwider age differences than four years inyoung couples.
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Accepts a greater age difference for oldercouples on second marriages.
o People don't want to admit that their painfulexperiences say anything about broad
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CHOOSECAREFULLY
