Shofar - December 2013 - Kislev/Tevet 5774

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December Service Schedule:Parshat VayigashDecember, 6 7:30 pm Shabbat Service Free Babysitting

December 7, 9:45 - 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service

Parshat VayechiDecember 13, 5:30 pm JFC’s Installation of Rabbi Marcus Burstein, D. Min. Family Service

8:00 pm JFC’s Installation of Rabbi Marcus Burstein, D. Min.

December 14, 9:45 – 10:30 am Shabbat Morning Service

Parshat ShemotDecember 20, 7:30 pm Shabbat Service Free Babysitting

Parshat Va’eraDecember 27, 7:30 pm Shabbat Service

ECC science with Jane.

Videograghers, Sam and Jeremy Fischer, for JFC History project.

Rabbi Burstein enjoying the fall season.


Mishkan HaNefesh – A Machzor for the Days of Awe As many of you already know, this past second day of Rosh HaShanah, JFC was privileged to use a pilot version of the Reform Movement’s new machzor, or High Holiday prayerbook. Many JFC members shared how much they enjoyed the format, transla-tions, and meaningful poetic additions, and Cantor Ben-David agrees wholeheartedly. With transliterated Hebrew prayers, it made our worship accessible to all, even to those who do not read Hebrew. The new machzor by the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR) represents many years of writing, planning, and editing, and will be used by a majority of congregations throughout the Reform Movement. It will be available to congregations for Rosh HaShanah 5776, or 2015. You can read about the Vision Statement for a New Reform Machzor writ-ten by the CCAR here: http://ccarnet.org/media/filer_public/2011/12/01/vi-sion_statement_for_new_ccar_machzor.pdf In order to help congregations budget for these two-volume sets (one each for Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur), the CCAR is offering congrega-tions a significant pre-publication discount for orders placed by April 1, 2014. I personally hope that JFC can find the means to acquire this new machzor for our congregation’s future use as it provides options for more creative use while maintaining all the traditional liturgy of the holidays. The translations and poetry add significantly to observance of Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur, and I know that you will enjoy these variations and additions. Our Board will be addressing the feasibility of acquiring Mishkan HaNefesh and I am sure they will

be open to any ideas you may have and wish to share. I encourage you to speak with me; Michael Salpeter, chair of the Ritual Committee; and/or our co-presi-dents Hal Wolkin and Glenn Kurlander. A new machzor will give us new ways to con-tinue to enrich our Jewish souls and inspire our sprits when we gather to celebrate our traditions together and, as I stated above, will provide the opportunity for a more creative and more enjoyable observance which should result in a more meaningful experienceLooking forward to hearing from you,Rabbi Marcus Burstein

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Richard Mishkin, Vice-PresidentPolly Schnell, Vice-President

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Josh Blum, TrusteeKaren Conti, Trustee

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From the Religious SchoolBy Leslie Gottlieb,

Teaching Our Children History: Shaping the Truth

Back in the day when I was a high school teacher in New Jersey, the focus then was Teaching Across the Curriculum. It was a great idea like so many other initiatives. Then came the No Child Left Behind legislation with the catchy name and questionable benefits to children and society. Now all we hear is The Com-mon Core Curriculum; open any newspaper or politically-minded magazine and you can read about teachers and parents ready to bolt to another country with so many complaints coming from all directions. Also out there in the land of educa-tional theories being tested, with excellent early results, is the idea of Flipping—a concept that has students watching lectures online at home then doing guided homework projects in class with all the supervision and support needed to under-stand the material.At the Religious School at JFC, we have recently updated the curriculum guide, but not the true essence of the program by any means. Last year we did a subtle testing of sorts as many middle schools do with single sex sections for math and language instruction. We divided students into two single sex groups… at first in response to friend requests being made, but then with an eye toward seeing whether or not girls would excel without the intimidation of boys’ aptitude to contend with during Hebrew lessons. We found no discernible difference in the grouping experiment, and so we moved on without so much as mentioning it. If there were noticeable differences, we would have considered another trial with another grade… probably grade 7, since the Hebrew gets much more intense then at JFC.Part of the curriculum includes weekly services, as you know. At these services, we always try to end with a prayer for peace for all people of the world. We like to say that we can each do something to bring peace to the world. That’s just what we do, and we all seem to collectively feel a sense of purpose at these special moments—teachers and students alike. But what about a learning environ-ment that intentionally tries to influence its subjects to less hospitable motives? This is especially prevalent when discussing lessons of history for almost any culture. Open any U.S. history textbook and read about the Trail of Tears and the Indian Removal Act of 1830 and the attempt to relocate Native Americans from their homelands and you will, depending on the writer, be given a subjective per-spective on this history. We know how that story ended for the Native Americans, sadly, but perhaps we cannot ever have an impartial view of history if we are personally involved in any way. History can rarely be reported without the writer of it or teacher somehow mak-ing suggestions or implications as to the meritocracy of the event or initiative. Everything becomes politicized and there seems to be no way around that. The facts become charged—for those not half asleep at their desks! Our son is a Ph.D. student in the history department of a well-respected university in, New Jersey. He studies modern urban history, and we have lively, heated debates about what really happens to cities using a historical lens verses and general perceptions held. What are we really teaching our children—whether it is at home, the Religious School or their secular school? What is our responsibility in teaching social and cultural history of an event without prejudice? Is it even possible? This affects us at the Religious School in many ways.

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Continued from previous page...In the Gaza Strip, 465,000 students are schooled. There are 400 schools governed by Hamas-- and in the Gaza Strip and the West Bank, the Palestinian Authority’s curriculum is used. Hamas has now added its own programs and modified texts. This is most interesting. According to an article written by Fares Akram and Jodi Rudoren last month entitled, “To Shape Young Palestinians, Hamas Creates Its Own Textbooks,” we learn that these new books written by a Hamas com-mittee features sites in Israel as Muslim sites only and disregards the fact that Israel exists entirely. No surprise, really. The idea is being taught that all of the land between the Mediterranean and the Jordan River including Haifa, Beersheba and Acre are Muslim lands. The 1948 borders created—and the newer borders that followed -- have not changed the per-ception of many Palestinians that this land is truly occupied by a people who feel exiled --- and the textbooks and reality these children are being taught are viewed through this filter. The maps in these books show Israel’s name in no place at all and back up all the textbook facts. So doesn’t this now become the truth for these children? When they are asked to pray for Israel’s destruction as a Jewish state, aren’t they just following the truth as it is being presented to them? The use of different textbooks even among the two Palestinian factions is an enormous challenge and now this people’s vision is no longer unified. Jews can’t agree on many things either, of course. Israel is very divided right now more than ever. Not only do different groups of people seek to destroy each other… those within a single group cannot get along. This histori-cal truth cannot be argued.Can we blame young children for praying for war and destruction if that is what they are being taught? I am sure it is not so different if we go to certain Orthodox neighborhoods in this country and overhear parents talking to their children about the Palestinian people’s plight. If we are too far to any extreme no matter who we are, we cannot find the middle and—the divisions among all the world’s people starts to widen – and the center cannot hold.An Israeli senior official expressed his feelings this way. “Palestinians have developed a system of deception—to Eng-lish-speaking people they sell one story, and to themselves they have a different story. Textbooks are one of the tools with which they tell their children what is the truth. If you want peace, it has to be based on a real change in the culture of hatred.” Again, this point of view that seems to espouse peace, if taught to children, can engender more hate because of the way it is expressed. So how do we teach who is the hateful and who is the hated? Remember to ask-- who is the teacher? Sadly for the world, Hitler was once a teacher of evil. A teacher can be a very powerful instrument for good or bad. And who will say what is good and what is bad? So at the Religious School, we will continue to look carefully at our obligation to teach what is fair and true—but according to whose rules? If we pray for peace for all people and work to help all humans no matter what separates us, perhaps then we can come together and truly know peace. We’ll try our best to continue to teach our stu-dents that they can be agents of change to bring about peace. Being good listeners is a start.

From the Religious SchoolBy Leslie Gottlieb


They don’t call us the People of the Book for nothing. But one book that has long frustrated many of us is the Conserva-tive Machzor we use in our services every Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Lacking transliteration, containing versions of prayers inconsistent with the ones we actually use and reflecting gender and other language choices inconsistent with our culture and practices, the Conservative Machzor we have used for years strikes many of us as clumsy and others of us as an impediment to worship. We don’t know anyone who is a fan. This year, on the second day of Rosh Hashanah, we used for the first time the draft version of the Reform movement’s new Machzor—“Mishkan HaNefesh: A Machzor for the Days of Awe.” The guiding vision for the new Machzor is to create a 21st century prayerbook that, while rooted in tradition and continuity, incorporates the outlook of today’s Reform Jewish community—one that provides accessible guidance and entry to a meaningful liturgical experience, irrespective of whether one prays regularly, is completely new to the expression of Jewish spirituality or, like most of us, falls somewhere in between. The draft Machzor cures the features in our current Machzor that strike many of us as impediments, while providing thoughtful commentaries and poetic reflections that inspire, challenge and move us to reflect. The feedback we’ve received from congregants who had the chance to pilot the new draft has been overwhelmingly posi-tive. Rabbi Burstein and Cantor Kerry have urged us to retire our old Machzorim and acquire the new ones. For a short time, we have the opportunity to acquire the new Machzorim on a very favorable basis. In order to buy a suf-ficient number of copies of the new Machzorim, the purchase price is approximately $12,500, but we can secure a 40% discount if we order the books and fund a portion of the purchase price by April 1, 2014. The new prayerbooks will be ready for use for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, 2015. The Board is considering whether to acquire the new Machzorim and, if so, how best to fund the acquisition. We welcome your thoughts on this matter as we consider how to proceed. We’re confident, however, that the new Machzorim would make a substantial enhancement to our High Holy Day services and would make our worship ceremony much more acces-sible to all.

Glenn Kurlander and Hal Wolkin

President’s Message


From The Early Childhood Centerby Jane Weil Emmer

TOT SHABBAT It was great to see old and new friends for our first Pizza Shabbat of the year on November 8. Rabbi Burstein and Cantor Kerry led us in song with great ruach. We learned many new songs and sang some old favorites. We joined together after the service to enjoy a pizza dinner. Our next early Friday night service will be a very special one. On December 13, we will officially welcome our new rabbi, Rabbi Marcus Burstein. During the service, the children and I will gather upstairs to prepare a special welcome for Rabbi Burstein. Please join us at 6:30 pm for this special service. SCIENCE: Every Monday is science day at JFC ECC. During November we focused on change. We predicted and observed. We created pretend snow. We watched how a light sensitive bead changes in the sunlight. We mixed colors to create new col-ors and of course we watched a volcano erupt. MYSTERY READERS: Each Tuesday morning a mystery reader arrives to surprise our ECC students with special storytime. Usually the mystery reader is a parent or grandparent. In November we had our first sibling mystery reader of the year. Jake and Jordan Kauftheil surprised their little sister and read to our Blue room students. If you would like to be a mystery reader please call Jane Emmer at 914-763-3028 ext. 15, and we will find a time for you to share your favorite children’s books with our ECC kids. THANKSGIVING: We had a wonderful Thanksgiving feast with our families. Our talented kids prepared the invitations food and decorations. We had fun, sang songs and enjoyed our all school celebration. “Growers Program:”Farmer Dale continued our “Growers Program” by getting our garden ready for the winter. The kids en-joyed covering the garden with straw and tucked it in for the cold winter ahead. We planted bulbs inside first and then trans-planted them outside. We can’t wait to see them bloom. We cut back our beautiful Indian Sunflowers and saved the seeds for the spring. JFC HISTORY EVENT: Many of our JFC Alumni (and future alumni) left their handprints on our ECC Banner – 18 years of Early Childhood at JFC. The banner will be displayed in the Yellow Room for all to see. A special thank you to Jodi Waxman - Jodi volunteered her time as a substitute teacher in the Blue Room …. She also left her handprint as “Alumni Staff” Jodi was one of our first teachers. Jodi brings a beautiful warmth and energy to our classroom as a frequent guest reader. We really apreciate her generosity! DECEMBER EVENTSTHROUGH December 5TOY DRIVE: Please drop your new unwrapped toys in our “Toy Drive” box in the Oneg room. Toys will be donated to Neigh-bor’s Link. December 5 – 4:30 pm - 6:00 pmCHANUKAH CELEBRATION WITH THE RELIGIOUS SCHOOL December 10 - 7:30 pm - 10:00 pmCLOTHING SWAP AND RAFFLE December 13 - 6:30 pmRABBI BURSTEIN INSTALLATION


New Members

From the SAC

Please join us in welcoming new members:

Heath and Danielle Bender along with children Evan (9) and Lily (2) of Ridgefield.Melina Nan Hinton of Goldens Bridge.

Shaun and Marnie Levine along with children Spencer (7) and Jonah (4) of North Salem.Warren and Karen Lustig along with children Rebecca (22), Alison (8) and Marlee (8) of Cross River.

Michael Rogen and Marcy Silverman along with child, Zeke (15) of South Salem.Michael and Traci Silva, along with children Molly (12) and Jacob (10) of South Salem.

An Evening of “Manly” Knowledge Want to learn more about what other men know? Enjoy an evening at Restaurant 123 (with a special menu) and in addition to good food and great company, you’ll have the opportunity to learn something new from members of JFC’s Men’s Group! Some in the group will present for 10-15 minutes each about a hobby, part of their profession (no sales pitch), a review of sports, a book or current events. A way to share information and learn about each other. Of course, we are also seeking speakers. If you would like to share something you’re an expert or deeply passion-ate about, please let us know; simply email [email protected] with a few details. We are planning 3 presentations of no more than 10-15 minutes each – designed to educate and share knowledge. Let us know if you’d like to speak (we are open to any subjects). Nothing formal, just a way to share your knowledge with the group. Dinner at Restaurant 123 on December 17, 6:30 pm - $29 for a 3 course meal, drinks extra. Please RSVP to [email protected] by December 11 (earlier reply is preferred) to let us know if you’re coming and what you’d like to talk about.

From the Mens Groupby David Fischer

The Blood Drive on November 11 was a success. We had approximately 30 people who donated blood. Thank you to Andrea Shulman, Bat Mitzvah student, who helped as part of her mitzvah project, together with her sister, Sammantha and mom, Tammi. Also thanks to Polly and Rayn Schnell who also helped. All these folks also used our time at the drive well by helping to sort and label clothes for the Midnight Run-- two mitz-vahs in one! And of course, thank you to Ted Bloch and Debbie Lavin for coordinating the Blood Drive. The date of the next Midnight Run is Saturday, February 22, 2014. We will need volunteers to go on the run, sort and label clothing, make bag dinners and a big pot of hearty soup! We ask for the following donations, in MEN'S large sizes only: Pants/jeans, hoodie, and belts, shoes/sneakers. We are also looking for toothpaste, dis-posable razors, washcloths, and deodorants

Volunteers send email to [email protected]


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Happy Birthday, Get Well, Thanks,

or I Remember Sanctuary Chair Plaque $150

Leaf on Simcha Tree $180

Memorial Board Plaque $450

General Fund

Caring Committee Fund

Social Action Fund

Ground Beautification Fund

JFC—URJ Camp Fund

Molly and Gregory RS Scholarship Fund

Rabbi Discretionary Fund

Music and Choir Fund

Religious School Director Fund

Early Childhood Center Fund

Vsiting JFC? Please stop by the office to say hello!

Long-time JFC member and teacher

Rona Salpeteris available to help with:

babysitting, before-and-after school driving responsibilities, animal care—

& all jobs requiring a loving caring individual! References are available upon request.

Contact Rona at # 914-643-8176.


Don’t Miss the Purim Carnival This Year!

Save the Date: Sunday, March 16, 12-2 PM


From the Ritual CommitteeBy Michael Salpeter, Chairman

About two years ago, the rabbi and the Ritual Committee began the practice of the congregants’ drash (explanation of the torah portion), whereby a member of the congregation presents a drash during Shabbat evening services in place of the rabbi’s sermon. We have had an interesting array of topics presented – we learned about the difference between Ashkenazic and Sephardic Jews, about the pitfall of lashon hara (the evil tongue), about the origin of Jewish surnames, about the negative aspects of technology on our lives, and lastly that it is okay to be wrong. In addition, one of our presenters gave us a detailed d’var torah of his bar mitzvah torah portion nearly 40 years later.

Last week the rabbi and I spoke about encouraging more congregants to step forward to present a drash. I thought that in this article I would present a d’var torah on my bar mitzvah portion, Vayechi, which occurs this year in December as an example of what my next drash might sound like…

Since Simchat Torah, we have been reading from the book of Genesis. Perhaps the stories contained in this first book are some of those with which we are most familiar – creation, Noah and the flood, being introduced to Abraham and Sarah, and the continuation of their family line. Vayechi is the final portion of Genesis. In these verses we read about Jacob blessing his sons and Joseph’s two sons. This is the beginning of the formation of the tribes of Israel. Jacob also asks Joseph to take his remains after his death and bury them in Hebron. At the very end of the parsha, Joseph also directs his family to take his bones from Egypt, although this does not occur until many years after his death.

As with all stories from the torah, there are many ways in which to interpret them. In thinking about our community at JFC, there is a parallel between the events of Vayechi and our congregation. As Rabbi Burstein stated in his Rosh Hashanah sermon, there is a period of transition that we as a congregation have been experiencing. This is not altogether too different from the transition that we are presented with in Vayechi. In Genesis we are exposed to a family lineage from Abraham to Isaac to Jacob to his sons and their children. Starting with the Book of Exodus, we see the transition to the Israelites as a true community, rather than a collection of family members. As the Book of Exodus begins, we meet Moses, who then goes on to become the first great leader of the Israelites. In this book, the Jewish people are about to depart from Egypt to take their place in the land that God has given them.

When we complete reading one of the books of the torah, we say out loud the words, “chazak chazak vinitzchazek” – be strong, be strong and may we be strengthened. These words should serve as a theme for JFC as well. I think about my torah portion much differently than I did 46 years ago when I wrote my bar mitzvah d’var torah. I encourage you to volunteer to deliver a drash during one of our Shabbat services, either on a Friday evening or a Saturday morning. Perhaps you may want to revisit your bar or bat mitzvah portion or maybe present a short talk on some contemporary topic that interests you. In any event, if you feel the urge to step forward, please feel free to contact me at [email protected] or Rabbi Burstein at [email protected] . Thank you for considering this opportunity.

This past month the JFC Youth Group had the opportunity to hear from two speakers from the Westchester Jewish Council about special Israel programs. They have also helped out with the JFC History Project. In addition to helping with set up and clean up, they manned some of the activity stations and helped our students engage in the various activities. Jeremy and Sam Fischer, along with some assistance from Youth Group members, have been hard at work inter-viewing JFC members-- kids and adults, teachers and families, new and veteran members-- and preparing what promises to be an amazing movie.

From theYouth Groupby Isaiah Blum

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Cantor Ben-David is available to our congregants for all life-cycle needs

Call/Text: 917-400-4068Email: [email protected]


Jewish Family Congregation

Babysitting will now be available for children 8 and under on the first and third Friday of the month from 7:30 - 8:30 pm

Please contact the office with any

questions or to sign up

[email protected]

914-763-3028

Babysitting 1st and 3rd Friday of the Month


12/6/2013Edward and Martha Gordon 914-669-9662Allan and Alice Gottlieb 914-763-3872Board Host - Elisa Zuckerberg 914-763-9616

12/13/2013Jeffrey and Elizabeth Klotz 914-764-9115Dayna Kaplan 914-533-1132Board Host - Elisa Zuckerberg 914-763-9616

12/20/2013Lowell and Nicole Haims 914-764-1434Richard and Lydia Hellinger 914-232-0187Board Host - Bonnie Wattles 914-763-6585

12/27/2013Doris Hettmansberger 914-763-8911Graeme and Catherine Lipper 203-563-9799Board Host - Suzanne Sunday 914-234-6810

Oneg Schedule


December Calendar

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-5 Tevet 5774-NFTY-JiFTY Social Justice Day

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-20 Tevet 5774-NO RS-NO ECC-OFFICE CLOSED

-27 Tevet 5774-NO RS-OFFICE CLOSED


-7 Tevet 5774-7:30 PM Clothing Swap-7:45 PM Ritual Committee Meeting

-14 Tevet 5774-6:30 PM Men’s Group Dinner at Restaurant 123


-28 Tevet 5774-NO RS-OFFICE CLOSED

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-3 Tevet 5774-7:30pm Shabbat Service

-10 Tevet 5774-Installation:6:30 PM Family Service8:00 PM Evening Service

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-24 Tevet 5774-7:30pm Shabbat Service-NO RS-NO ECC-OFFICE CLOSED

-4 Tevet 5774-9:45 AM Service-10:45 AM Searching for Hashkiveinu

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Jewish Family Congregation Invites you to join us in celebrating

the installation of

Rabbi Marcus L. Burstein, D. Min.to Be Led By Rabbi Amy Schwartzman

Senior Rabbi, temple Rodef Shalom, Falls Church, Virginia

Presentations by Co-PresidentsGlenn Kurlander and Hal Wolkin

Friday, December 13, 2013

6:30 pm Family Shabbat ServiceFor Families with Children 10 and Under

8:00 pm Shabbat Evening ServiceCelebratory Oneg Shabbat to Follow

Jewish Family Congregation 111 Smith Ridge Road, South Salem, NY 10590

914-763-3028 www.jewishfamilycongregation.org


Don't forget: Each time you shop at DeCicicco's, tell the cashier you are a JFC member before ringing up your order. JFC gets a rebate from your purchase.


DonationsGeneral Fund

Larry and Sandy Wein in honor of Michael and Emily Wein

Mrs. Wendy S. Blum in honor of Josh, Michelle, Sam, Isaiah, and Ella Blum

Michael Gitlitz and Rita Landman in honor of Sheila Ravitch Gitlitz

Religious School Director’s Fund

Harold and Ruth Ossher


AnniversariesRichard & Sandi Auerbach

Kenneth & Cindy Carson

Jonathan & Iris Glass

Steve & Shari Goldberg

Mark & Debra Lavin

Michael Rogen & Marcy Silverman


BirthdaysDanielle Bender

Karen Blum

Neal Blum

Cheryl Chess

Jo Drawec

Jonathan Gabor

Ariel Goodstein

Tammi Jacobs Shulman

Erica Levens

Kenneth Levinsohn

Arel Meister-Aldama

Zachary Ozols

Zoe Ozols

Richard Perlman

Ari Rackear-Sturm

Emily Sanders

Lisa Sheptin

Jacob Silva

Richard Sklarin

Peri Stevelman

Ellen Strauss

Margot Weisberg

Bryan Wolkin

Ella Zaslow

David Zuckerberg

Elisa Zuckerberg

Morton Bedrick

Aaron Blumenthal

Ethel Feinleib

David Sol Friedman

Theodore Garfiel

Miriam Goldberg

Jack Himoff

Arthur F. Karsch

Frances Kempler

Jeff Lederman

Isadore Lichtbach

Belle Marcus Stern

Michael Mishkin

Marvin Olarsch

Jacob Puteska

Bernard Raider

Arlene Richner

Grayce Romeo

Ruth Rosenthal

Yale Rubin

Jack Sher

Melvin Waxman

Yahrzeits


One Year Later...The Newtown & South Salem Communities

Join to Share, Remember and Heal

Monday, January 13 from 7-8:30 pm(snow date: Monday, January 27)

Please join us on this special evening at Jewish Family Congregation, 111 Smith Ridge Road, South Salem, NY

Program Hosts: Leslie Gottlieb, JFC Religious School & Carol Wakeman, JFC staff and Newtown resident

In light of the two year anniversary of our own tragic experience in the JFC/South Salem community and the one year an-niversary of the Newtown tragedy, we are coming together to listen and learn from each other about healing. The program is designed for those in grade 7-adults. Event details to follow.

There is limited seating and all attendees must have a ticket to enter. There is no fee. To reserve seats and print tickets visit: southsalemnewtown.eventbrite.com


Do you have 1-2 hours to spare each month? JFC could use your help!

On a regular basis, we would love to have your input and help with several projects. We can arrange some activities to fit your schedule, depending on when you are available. Please see below for ways that you might be able to contribute to making our congregation flourish:

Editing – An extra pair of eyes are always appreciated when looking at our weekly e-blast and monthly Shofar. You can use your editing skills to help make these publications better and error-free.Location: At JFC or at home. Expected time commitment needed: 30-90 minutes.

Back Up Oneg Shabbat Hosts – Unexpected events come up in everyone’s life, and sometimes that includes our Oneg Shabbat hosts. If you sign up, we may call you from time to time to see about filling in for a family who cannot host the Oneg Shabbat.Location: At JFC on a Friday night.Expected time commitment needed: 60 minutes on a Friday during the day, 90 minutes Friday night.

Graphic Designing – In order to reach our members and the greater community, we like to create in-formative and attractive flyers. Help us design publicity for recurring and one-time events. Location: At JFC or at home.Expected time commitment needed: 60 minutes.

Back Up Babysitting for Friday Shabbat Services – We intend to provide babysitting for children up to 7 years old on Friday evening during Shabbat services twice each month. Although we have child-care ready, you might be needed to help in a pinch.Location: At JFC.Expected time commitment needed: 60 minutes on Friday evening, 7:30-8:30 pm

Don't forget to stop in and check out the JFC Gift Shop! If you are interested in purchasing anything, please let the

JFC office now.


Todah Rabah

Iris Glass for organizing the JFC Book Fair and for helpers Robyn Bellinson, Linda Lederman and Emily Rauch and their children for set up/pack up and working the desk. Iris has offered to run the fair going forward, and for this we are very grateful. Thanks also to all others (JFC Staff) who pitched in to make this event a success.

Thanks to Sebastian Wallach, Allie Glass and Juliette Bellinson for volunteering during Thursday Religious School. Your efforts have helped a lot of teachers and students.

Thanks to Ellen Elias for coming twice to the Religious School to bake challah with our 4th and K/1 Graders. Thanks to Karen Blum for organizing this effort.

Thank you to Michelle Blum, Mindy Hoffman and the wonderful JFC History Project Committee for bringing such a special program to our synagogue.

Thanks to Cantor Ben David, Ruth Ossher and Rona Salpeter who helped with programs and classes while the Rabbi was unavailable. Your support is greatly appreciated.

Thank you to all the Class & and Kids Knesset Parents who helped to organize items/donations for the Religious School Chanu-giving event. Thanks to Cantor Ben David for leading services for these programs.

Thanks to the Rabbi for working with each age group (last month, Grade 6) to prepare songs and blessings with students for our newly-styled Grade Service Presentations.

Thanks to Laurence Furic for always being here to help with all of our many web, broadcast, calendar and technology needs.

Thank you to Debbie Lavin and Ted Bloch for chairing the Blood Drive.

Thank you to Michelle Blum for the donation to the Religious School library.

Torah Chanters Wanted Would you like to chant torah on a Friday night or Saturday morning? Maybe it is the anniversary of your bar or bat mitzvah ceremony, or maybe you would like to learn from a new section of the torah. Either way, we will help provide you with the tools to succeed! You can chant as few as three verses – maybe you will get together with a family member or friend to make it a special Shabbat for all of you? We look forward to celebrating with you… To volunteer and/or to see which dates are available, please be in touch with Rabbi Burstein: [email protected]


December 13, 2013 Installation family Shabbat

Help us welcome our new Rabbi:

Rabbi Marcus Burstein D. Min.

Family Service & Oneg Shabbat

6:30 pm—7:30 pm For families with children 10 and under


Non Profit Organization

Postage PAID

White Plains, NY Permit No. 9022

Current Resident Or

Shofar - December 2013 - Kislev/Tevet 5774

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