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Shaming Language: How to beat it. « Thread Started on Jan 31, 2006, 2:29pm » [Quo

We all are familiar with the tactic of "Shaming Language."

Example:(GUY) I think Asian women make great wife material.(GIRL) You just want a docile wife who you can exploit for economicreasons and a visa.

Words have considerable power, more than we think. That's why I donot like the term "shaming language" to refer to when women try to pus on the defensive.

Shaming implies that what we say or do is somehow worthy of shame.would recommend NEVER calling a women out with "that's just shaminlanguage."

Instead try referring to these comments by women as "dishonestdistortions" or "dishonest perversions of my opinion." If we focus on thfact that they are being dishonest and perverted in their accusatorylanguage, it goes a long way to browbeating them into more honestlydiscussing relations between men and women.

If they insist on engaging in "dishonest distortions," simply invoke thatit is against your principles to associate or have discussions withinnately dishonest people. This plays upon their guilt and can eventualwin you the upper hand in dealing with manipulative feminists.

Thoughts?

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Re: Shaming Language: How tobeat it. « Reply #1 on Jan 31, 2006, 2:47pm » [Quo

Or you can do the only thing that has been successful between theIsraelis and the Palestinians.

Build a wall of division. Unilateral disengagement.

Suicide bombings have dropped precipitiously. Let the nut jobs wallowtheir own filth.

In other words, just ignore them. Who cares what they say, they arebaboons in the mind anyways. Just do what is best for yourself, do youthing.

I treat women just like men these days (unless its one of the fewwomen who are really ladies). Often women I know get mad at me, fo

instance, if I don't give them my seat.

"Oh, I was hoping you would be a gentleman and give me your seat buI guess I was wrong."

I turn to my friend and say "Joe, do you see any gentlemen aroundhere?"

"No Bill, no gentlemen here. Do you?"

"Nope, don't see any!"

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! We have a good laugh at the expense of thisAW, who then shuffles away, realizing them games just don't workanymore! And with no seat!


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Mes, that's priceless. I've got to remember something like that.

Let me add my little contribution to this potentially-hilarious thread: thother day, I was in line at the Post Office. Behind me was an AWdragging a brat whose nose looked like it was doing a re-enactment ofthe Mississippi after Katrina. He was sneezing on everything - people'spantlegs, the floor, the rope dividers, packages. The AW stuck her nos

up and made obvious attempt to ignore it.

When someone behind her asked her if her child was sick (who'd justhad their box sneezed on), she laughed and said it was, "just a littlecold, and I can't afford a babysitter." She added that last part likepeople would nod their heads and dismiss all the snot on them.

Not me. I mumbled (only half under my breath) that she obviouslycouldn't afford a babysitter, since she couldn't even afford some coughsyrup. She got indignant and tried to huff at me, saying, "Are you tellime how to raise MY child?"

I looked at her and smiled. "Someone has to, apparently."

At least three people in line (including a woman) stifled snickers. TheAW was trying desperately to look infuriated, but it came off as apathetic caricature with added jaw-hang. I was up next, and left herdoing her guppy-impression.

A minor cluebat, to be sure, but immensely satisfying.


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Sometimes, when some woman is bitching about something a man hashas not done, I'll go: "Hey, you want equality or you want chivalry? Yocan't have both".

When you talk about dating/marrying a foreign woman, and they spew

the shit they do, I'll look them right in the eye and say "That is the moracist thing I've ever heard."






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Jan 31, 2006, 2:47pm, Mes wrote:

"Oh, I was hoping you would be a gentleman and give me your seat but I guess I was wrong."

My preferred response: "Show me a lady and I may considergentlemanly behavior to be warranted."


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Jan 31, 2006, 9:56pm, sirchancealot wrote:

When you talk about dating/marrying a foreign woman, and they spew the shit they do, I'll look

them right in the eye and say "That is the most racist thing I've ever heard."

That is of critical importance, I think. I can't believe I honestly didn'tthink of it until I read this forum. Why is it perfectly acceptable for AWto stereotype all foreign women? Answer: It's not, and we need to starcalling them on it!


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Jan 31, 2006, 2:44pm, acepoindexter wrote:

I don't consider it shaming language....as it is simply air passing by someone else's lips....its

takes 2 to tango..

the media has raised us to be sensitive to shaming..This is a new invention....You have to be

taught to even feel shame...

.If someone is not paying my bills I don't care what they think...I do what is in my best intrests...

cause nobody else gives a shit about you except you....

Many women are on a sterile course to destruction..on their way down the pipe they many yell

sabotage to those who are smater...she sees that you have not bought into the medias sterile

religion & is trying to convert you.

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Women will always pick the ace of spades over the king of hearts.

Amen!One of most important things I learned from Tendai Buddhism is howmuch control people give to complete strangers... because people areseeking acceptance.

If they are angry, I become angry.

If they are displeased with me, I doubt myself.

Things of that nature.

Awareness of this fact, and awareness of my physical and mentalreactions to "shaming language" are awesome for my personal practic


szernameuest


Waste of time.Talk is cheap.Silence is argument be other means.


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Quote:

My preferred response: "Show me a lady and I may consider gentlemanly behavior to be

warranted."

It's priceless for "the look" and retort when their "shaming mojo" haszero effect. I do offer courtesy to a pregnant woman, for the sake of thchild's well-being only of course and not any unmarried fetal-vessel.






hloridianuest

Re: Shaming Language: How tobeat it. « Reply #9 on Feb 1, 2006, 3:50pm » [Quo

Jan 31, 2006, 2:47pm, Mes wrote:

Or you can do the only thing that has been successful between the Israelis and the

Palestinians.

Build a wall of division. Unilateral disengagement.

I hear you. Unfortunately, myself and some others do enjoy interactingwith women for our own purposes including the occasional conquest.While your approach would work in nullifying their nonsensicalcomments, it does not work for those of us who like to get ours andmake them look stupid.


mPuest


I think the best answer would be, "You're absolutely right, but at leasthave options other than you; I can have my pick of millions of beautifusmart and as you say docile foreign women that I can "exploit", you onthe other hand are pretty much stuck with American manginas becausno other men will have you, certainly no foreign man that is used to as

you say "docile" women will put up with your shit, and the manginas agetting fewer and far between. Which one of us do you think is betteroff?"


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If you are happy about yourself and the place you're at, you wont evenNOTICE shaming tactics.

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Feb 1, 2006, 7:21pm, Admin wrote:

If you are happy about yourself and the place you're at, you wont even NOTICE shaming

tactics.

I can't agree with this. If you don't notice shaming tactics then chanceare that they are working and that you are feeling very, very ashamedThis is how I used to feel. Much strength comes from recognizing theshaming.


uestRe: Shaming Language: How tobeat it. « Reply #13 on Feb 1, 2006, 11:11pm » [Quo

Jan 31, 2006, 10:11pm, morpheus wrote:

Jan 31, 2006, 9:56pm, sirchancealot wrote:

When you talk about dating/marrying a foreign woman, and they spew the shit they

do, I'll look them right in the eye and say "That is the most racist thing I've ever

heard."

That is of critical importance, I think. I can't believe I honestly didn't think of it until I read this

forum. Why is it perfectly acceptable for AW to stereotype all foreign women? Answer: It's not,and we need to start calling them on it!

And its also perfectly acceptable to stereotype American Women. ::)






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uestRe: Shaming Language: How tobeat it. « Reply #15 on Feb 1, 2006, 11:56pm » [Quo

Feb 1, 2006, 11:31pm, logic101 wrote:

Feb 1, 2006, 11:11pm, T wrote:

And its also perfectly acceptable to stereotype American Women. ::)

Is that what you believe everyone has done here on this site T?

Everyone, no.

Majority, yes.

...also, I don't think stereotyping is wrong.

What can I say? I'm in the insurance business and stereotyping isnecessary to make it in that industry. ;D



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Feb 1, 2006, 11:56pm, T wrote:

Feb 1, 2006, 11:31pm, logic101 wrote:

Is that what you believe everyone has done here on this site T?

Everyone, no.

Majority, yes.

...also, I don't think stereotyping is wrong.

What can I say? I'm in the insurance business and stereotyping is necessary to make it in that

industry. ;D

Not even close to the majority. Honestly, if you want real hate alongwith stereotypes gone crazy head on over to any hardcore feminist siteMany would rather see men dead. I think the truth just hurts whenpeople stop by here. More men are becoming enlightened.

Keep up the good work however in the insurance industry.

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