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7 Habits
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(3 +3 + 1) Habits
Habits 1-3 = Personal
Habits 4-6 = Interpersonal
Habits 7 = Lucky for some?
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(1-3) Values > Tactics
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(1) Be Proactive
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* Reacting
* Reacting
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Stop Reacting Automatically
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Repertoire of Response
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can't, have to
simplifying
defensive
reactive
I prefer, what if
open
honest
tentative
proactive
Proactive Language
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Act in Your Circle of Influence (TM)
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Capability Breeds Capability
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(2) Set Goals
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All Things are Created Twice (TM)
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Goals and Default Scripting
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Write Your Own Script
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Personal Mission Statements
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Goals Require Self Awareness
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Start Small
Before I die, I will finish preparing this damn presentation.
Gregory McIntyre
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A Habit of Winning
1. Finish preparing this presentation
2. ... some more wins ...
3. Become King of the galaxy
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Skills (I am good at presentations)
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Core Values (I value sharing knowledge)
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Eulogy (“His presentations were good.”)
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(3) Manage Yo’self
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Quadrant I (urgent, important)
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Quadrant II (not urgent, important)
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Quadrant III (urgent, not important)
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World of Quadrant IV
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Isn’t Rest (IV) Important (II)?
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Fun and R&R are important
But
Assess feelings of satisfaction and preparedness afterwards
Is it II or IV?
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P/PC Balance (TM)
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Words per day
Story points per day
Items bought per day
Trees felled per day
Productivity
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Productivity Capacity
Sleep, diet, exercise, energy
Education
Bank balance
Less technical debt ;-)
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P/PC BalanceNot writing 5000 words every day?
Create capacity to do that: time, energy
Then get producing!
That’s P/PC Balance (TM)!
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(4-6) Other People
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(4) Think Win-Win
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Win-Lose: Beating Your Friends
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Lose-Win: Self-Sacrifice
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Lose-Lose: If I Can’t Have It...
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Win: Incapable of Team Work
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Win-Win: Mutual Benefit
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Check existing and new relationships
Be prepared to walk away
Abundance principle
Plenty more symbiotic fish in the sea – Me, just then
Think Win-Win
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(5) First Understand
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Acting in Ignorance
Suggest “solutions” to your crying girlfriend instead of “listening”
Optimise your code up-front
Work on features nobody asked for
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Urgency, Anxiety and the Need to Act
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Give Up the ActSurrender your current plan of action
Gain understanding
Carefully pick the direction
Then go fast
i.e. First Understand (TM)
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(6) Synergize* We’ll circle back on
this...* We’ll circle back on
this...
**
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Each person wins only 50%
Psst, you can do better
Compromise is not synergy
Compromise Sucks
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If I make a mistake, I will look stoopid
If I succeed, people will steal it
So I will just do nothing
Guardedness is not synergy
Guardedness Sucks
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Nice SurprisesCompromise: a + b = 1
Guardedness: a + b = 2
Synergy: a + b = 2 or 4 or 8 or 600
You thought that a was 1, but really it was 2 (or was it really 300?)
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Self-Limiting Beliefs
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Third Alternatives
Two people want an orange...
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Finding Alternatives
Trust and creativity
Safe experimentation
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“If I ask to see her naked...”
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(7) Sharpen the Saw
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You Are Such a Tool
Personal capacity
Not specific to one goal
Be ready for literally anything
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Better Tools Can Be a Revelation
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The Usual Suspects
Sleep: Internet, children, computer games, preparing presentations
Exercise: Cars, sedentary careers
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Other Suspects
Education: Stopping once you leave school
Poor actual tools: QWERTY, MS Paint, etc.
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