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with Mark Robert Waldman

Self Sabotage: Tame the Critic in Your

Frontal Lobe

Executive MBA Faculty, Loyola Marymount University

Mastering Your Mindset

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INNER SPEECH

A Neural Phenomenon

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Positive and Negative Emotions are processed by different parts of the brain

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Positive and Negative

DIALOGS are also

processed in different parts

of the brain

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How to Take Control of Your “Executive” Board

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Listen MINDFULLY to Your Inner Voices

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TALK TO YOUR SABOTAGE BEHAVIOR

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DIALOG WITH IT

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But Count Your Words!

It reduces anxiety, procrastination, and communication disorders

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ARGUE WITH IT

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LET IT ADVISE YOU

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WRITE DOWN A SABOTAGE BEHAVIOR:

LIST POTENTIAL COUNTER-STRATEGIES:1.2.3.

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ASK YOUR INTUITION

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Don’t Ruminate:Meditate!

Then Write It Down

And Sleep on It

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The Brain’s Default Network

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Resting State Activity:

Diffusion Tensor Imaging and the Human Connectome Project

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Sara WhiteUniversity of California:

• Keep a written “thought record” of your inner speech

• Confront your inner critic with a positive voice and rewrite self-limiting scripts

• Look for the opportunity in every obstacle

• Focus on your accomplishments, not your setbacks

• Practice and reinforce your new self-talk

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Mindfully study your sabotage behaviors

AWARENESS . . .

OF THIS MOMENT . . .

WITHOUT JUDGMENT

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Practice Irrational Optimism

and Increase Your Positivity Ratio

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