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Self Help - Secrets To Having A Happy, Successful Life
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Self help is a billion dollar industry with readers from both sex, different ages
and various countries. Many of the readers have a library of self help
information at home.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
It’s human nature that people want
success and improvement. They want to stand out
from their peers and get recognition.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Nearly everything one does is related to winning and
becoming a better person. Think back to when you
were kids. You would try to do things better and
quicker than the other kid to get praise from your
parents or teachers.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
With everything we do, deep down in our
hearts, we want to do it better than
other people. Even with things we buy
and own.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Have you ever wanted to buy a new cell phone, a better car or want a better job
because someone you know has one? We all want to be better than the rest. The only exception is probably our kids. Who we all
want our children to be better than ourselves.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
This is what feeds the self help industry. It is why there are so many topics on personal
development from making money to having lots of friends.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
What we truly want is to have a happy and successful life.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Let’s talk about how we can achieve this goal. Imagine that you’re on your
death bed and are looking back on your life. What will make you think that you have no regrets with your
life?
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Will it be because you have lots of money in
the bank?
Having a highly-paid job in a respectable
company?
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Had great times with your friends drinking and sharing stories?
Being envied by your relatives and friends
for living in a luxurious house with
a cool car?
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Take some time and really think about this. Write down what you
think is most important to you so that before you shut your eyes
forever, you’ll be glad what you have done and achieved in life.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
This exercise will be an eye-opener. You may
find that money is not the answer to your
happiness. All the big houses, fancy sports
car, latest gadgets and social status may not
matter at all.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
What matters is that you were happy for most of your life and you have made the
people that are close to you happy as well. You have shared your joys and sorrows with
them and have protected them when needed.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Once you’ve written down what matters to
you the most, your focus in life should be
to realize it immediately, taking any
actions that will give you that satisfaction.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Life is about achieving your goals that you’ve
set and enjoy the process as well. Your
aim is to be happy and make those close to you happy as well.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
If your goal is to live in a 2 million dollar mansion, drive a
Mercedes, provide the best education for your kids and becoming the
director of the company you’re
working for, by all means go for it.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Read as many self help books as you can. Take time out to study and work twice as
hard to achieve what you want. Persist and laugh at any thoughts of giving up.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
However, the key to having a happy and successful life does not depend on
achieving these goals, but to enjoy the process and your life.
While you want to work towards being promoted by your company and get a
salary increase, you should not neglect your family, relatives or friends.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
If you have kids, make sure you spend time with
them. Coming home from work, spend time with your spouse and have a laugh together sharing stories. Give
them a surprise now and then and go out together
more.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Before going to bed, you need to say to yourself that you
enjoyed the day and are happy with what you have done within
the last 16 hours.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Now imagine that you’re on your death bed again and are looking back on your life. If
you’ve achieved the goals which you have set, then hurray. Get the champagne out before
you rest for good.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
But if you haven’t managed to achieve your goals, you should still be happy and consider yourself a success. This is because you have
not neglected what matters to you most while you were working on your life’s ambition.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
You still enjoyed your life every day and have made those you care about, happy as well. You can safely say that you have lived your life and your success is by no means inferior to the person who has achieved
more than you. At the end of the day, being happy is what matters most.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Rich and famous people are not necessarily happy. Some are sad and have even ended
their own lives. You can decide on what type of life you want to live. You can either
decide to be happy every day for the rest of your life or think that happiness will come only when you have reached your goals.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Reading self help books will work wonders on
improving your life. One of the common themes of all self improvement advice is that you need to think positive and be
happy.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
This is the essence of ‘The Law of Attraction’ and this is so true. The
only thing that is stopping you is to
acknowledge this and start taking action.
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Law of Attraction Works For Relationships As Well As
Material Things
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com
Tip Download the book "How To Implement The Law Of Attraction” at
http://www.eliteselfhelp.com/loa
For more self help information download a free report on how to get wealth and
success within 14 days at http://www.selfhelpkingdom.com
Alan Cheng, CEO
http://www.SelfHelpKingdom.com