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Seal the Deal by
Negotiating a Win
Bruce Hardie
Bruce Hardie
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Northwest Region
Regional Director
Seal the Deal by Negotiating a Win
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Main Ideas
• Power Negotiations
• Critical Elements of Negotiating
• Negotiating and Personality Type Styles
• Tactics and Countertactics of Negotiating
Win-Win Negotiations
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• Underlying Facts About Negotiating
• You are negotiating all of the time
Power Negotiations – An Art Form
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• Underlying Facts About Negotiating
• Anything you want is owned or controlled by
someone else
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• Underlying Facts About Negotiating
• Predictable responses to strategic maneuvers and
gambits
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• Underlying Facts About Negotiating
• Three critical factors to every negotiation
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• Underlying Facts About Negotiating
• Different personality styles must be accounted for in
negotiating
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• Simple Rules of Win-Win Negotiating
• Include all of the issues
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• Simple Rules of Win-Win Negotiating
• Get to know the other person
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• Simple Rules of Win-Win Negotiating
• Never assume that money is the bottom line
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Power Negotiations – An Art FormThree Stages of Every Negotiation:
1. Establish negotiation criteria
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Power Negotiations – An Art FormThree Stages of Every Negotiation:
2. Gather information about the other side
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Power Negotiations – An Art Form Three Stages of Every Negotiation:
3. Reach for the compromise and find the win-win
situation
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Requirements of a Good Negotiator:
• Know that negotiation requires interaction
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Requirements of a Good Negotiator:
• Desire to acquire negotiating skills
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Requirements of a Good Negotiator:
• Understand principles and gambits
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Requirements of a Good Negotiator:
• Practice
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Requirements of a Good Negotiator:
• Desire to create win-win outcomes
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• Power
• Information
• Time
Critical Elements of Negotiating
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1st critical element = Power
• Possibly the most important element
• In any negotiation:
• One is controlling (has power)
• One is being controlled (no power)
• Eight types of power
Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
1. Legitimate Power
2. Reward Power
3. Punishment Power
4. Reverent Power
5. Charismatic Power
6. Expertise Power
7. Situation Power
8. Information Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
1. Legitimate Power
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Eight Types of Power
2. Reward Power
Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
3. Punishment Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
4. Reverent Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
5. Charismatic Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
6. Expertise Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
7. Situation Power
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Power: Understanding It and Gaining It
Eight Types of Power
8. Information Power
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2nd critical element = Information• More information = more power• Gathering information:
• Ask open-ended questions
• Keep repeating a question
• Question other people
• Bring in an expert
• Carefully select the negotiation location
• Shop around
Managing Information
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3rd critical element = Time
• Flexibility and concessions come with pressure and
time
• Higher pressure = worse outcome in negotiations
• 80 percent of concessions occur in the last 20
percent of negotiation time
Managing Time
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To be a successful negotiator:
• Understand personality types/styles
• Adapt negotiation tactics to personality types/styles
Negotiating and Personality Types/Styles
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• Negotiating types / styles based on personality:
• “D” – Pragmatic
• “I” – Extrovert
• “S” – Amiable
• “C” – Analytical
Negotiating and Personality – D I S C
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• Street fighters
• Go for what they want
• Certain that there are “winners”
and “losers”
• Want to be “winners”
• Fight hard and see little need for concessions
• Negotiation challenge: Hold a fixed position
Pragmatic – “D”
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• Enthusiastic, often overly so
• Lose sight that others are not
as enthusiastic
• Negotiation challenge:
• Often ignore feelings of others
in a negotiation
Extrovert – “I”
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• Pacifiers
• Goal: Make everyone happy, not
necessarily win the negotiation
• Dread high pressure encounters
• Long for a solution, even if it doesn’t meet their
requirements
• Negotiation challenge: Easily swayed
Amiable – “S”
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• An executive by nature
• Rigid in negotiation
• Reluctant to be flexible
• Precise on the details
• Concerned with underlying principle of any issue
• Negotiation challenge: Inflexibility
Analytical – “C”
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• What are the tactics and countertactics of
negotiating?
• There are many; we will review the tactics and how to
counter them next.
• Why are they important for me to understand?
• Know when to use them and how to respond when
they are being used on you.
Tactics and Countertactics
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Will I use all of these?
• Probably not. Use what is appropriate based on the
situation and the personality type of the other
players.
Tactics and Countertactics
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• Nibbling
• Hot Potato
• Higher Authority
• Set-aside Gambit
• Mediator
• Never Take the First Offer
Tactics and Countertactics
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• Good Guy/Bad Guy
• Feel, Felt, Found
• Smart/Dumb
• Service Value
• Walk Away
• Flinching
Tactics and Countertactics
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• Trade-off Principle
• Vise Technique
• Power of the Printed Word
• Withdraw Offer Principle
• Easy Acceptance
• Funny Money
Tactics and Countertactics
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• Decoy Technique
• Red Herring
• Puppy Dog Close
• Reluctant Buyer
• Want-It-All Philosophy
• Splitting the Difference
Tactics and Countertactics
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Tactics – Nibbling
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Tactics – Hot Potato
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Tactics – Higher Authority
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Tactics – Set-aside Gambit
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Tactics – Mediator
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Tactics – Never Take the First Offer
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Tactics – Good Guy/Bad Guy
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Tactics – Feel, Felt, Found
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Tactics – Smart/Dumb
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Tactics – Service Value
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Tactics – Walk Away
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Tactics – Flinching
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Tactics – Trade-off Principle
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Tactics – Vise Technique
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Tactics – Power of the Printed Word
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Tactics – Withdraw Offer Principle
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Tactics – Easy Acceptance
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Tactics – Funny Money
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Tactics – Decoy Technique
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Tactics – Red Herring
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Tactics – Puppy Dog Close
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Tactics – Reluctant Buyer
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Tactics – Want-It-All Philosophy
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Tactics – Splitting the Difference
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• Always maintain perspective when negotiating
• Don’t lose sight of key issues
Remember
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• Study the personality styles / types
• During your next negotiation, track the tactics and
counter tactics used
• Practice negotiating with a partner to learn what
works best for you
Ideas into Action
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