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CONTENTSCOOKIES CANDIES AND CRAFTS Spend creative, quality time with your children this holiday season as you work together to create memorable items and moments for your children’s friends, teachers, classmates and family.

TREE LIGHTING CEREMONIES IN SAN JOAQUINTree lighting ceremonies offer holiday cheer so heart-warming, not even Scrooge can resist. These ceremonies are a great way to get into the spirit and bring the family out to celebrate.

AN ALL-NATURAL WAY TOFEEL BETTER IN 30 SECONDSKaliana Schmidt, phyto-aromatologist and owner of Kaliana Emotional Care for Kids, perfected the art of emotional healing with her blend of all-natural ingredients to turn on positive emotions and feel better in 30 seconds.

BEAT FLU SEASONLast year, California experienced a usually high flu season, peaking between December and February. Learn what to look for and how to react!

A BRIGHTER CHRISTMASAT EAGAL LAKESShow your holiday spirit at this year’s Eagal Lakes Christmas 5K trail run/walk, along the beautiful San Joaquin River, and help support a Brighter Christmas of Tracy. Continue on to make a SPLASH! in 2015 with the New Years Polar Run and Optional Polar Dunk!

THE MINIMALIST FAMILY LIFESTYLE Minimalism is a lifestyle that helps people question what things add value to their lives. By clearing the clutter from life’s path, we can all make room for the most important aspects of life.

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HOLIDAY TRADITIONS The holiday season is a time to build lifelong memories with your family. Explore options for food-focused, neighborhood and community, volunteer and gifting and traditions to inspire your very own family holiday memories.

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Santa is not the only one with a list! Spend creative, quality time with your children this holiday season as you work together to create memorable items and moments for your children’s friends, teachers, classmates and

family. Demonstrating a giving, grateful, attitude will surely influence your children to nurture a kind and giving heart.

Getting crafty is a great way to keep the costs down, allowing you and your child to give great gifts to everyone.

Gingerbread Cookiesfor Everyone!If you spend a few minutes and dollars crafting super cute bags and ties to hold your cookies,

it will add an extra special touch. Make a few dozen ginger bread men, decorate them with icing and

sweets, and wrap them up with holiday themed bags, ties and little cards labeled with each person’s name.

Homemade Christmas Ornaments You can choose many different designs like snowflakes, Santas, penguins or whatever you and your child desire! Create stencils from thick paper, and cut each ornament from the stencil. You can then deck them out in sparkles, jewels and other little details. Use a hole punch and ribbon for tree hangings.

Candy Apples These delicious treats aren’t just for Halloween. The use of holiday-colored sprinkles add an extra wintery feel to a candy-covered apple. Grab a bag of apples, coat them in anything from white chocolate to caramel and roll them in red and green sprinkles!

Use these ideas as inspiration, and ask your child what he or she thinks their friends and

classmates would like as a gift. Teaching your children to be thoughtful and considerate of others are characteristics that last far beyond the holidays! Enjoy!

Tree Lighting Ceremonies

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Tree lighting ceremonies offer holiday cheer so heart-warming, not even Scrooge can resist. These ceremonies are a great way to get into the spirit and bring the family out to celebrate. The Hospice of San Joaquin not only offers the county a luminous spectacle with thousands of lights at several San Joaquin locations throughout the Central Valley, but an opportunity to remember loved ones with a tribute on each city’s tree of lights. Each tree has an important purpose – to remember and cherish lost loved ones, or those currently sick, during the holiday season by donating a light on the tree to them. Here is a list of the local tree lighting ceremonies in the region:

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Kaliana Schmidt, phyto-aromatologist and owner of Kaliana Emotional Care for Kids, perfected the art of emotional healing with her blend of all-natural ingredients to turn on positive emotions and feel better in 30 seconds. Her vegan, gluten free and hand-blended batches of all natural formulas help kids ‘turn on their happy’ by triggering confidence and better moods while decreasing stress and anxiety. Her products are all

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how you feel. “My natural emotional care products are blended to be effective for all ages - adults, teens and children. They can help you feel better in about 30 seconds - literally. The shift you feel in minutes is tangible.” She explains that her products have versatile uses, dependent on your specific lifestyle. “You can use them at home first thing in the morning or last thing at night. Others use them in the car, at school, right before presentations, at home […] or even at the office to make it a kinder space to work in." Schmidt was motivated to create her line of products in 1995 after a moment of

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She adds, each product that she offers came about as a result of a request. “I’ve never created something just because it was a good idea; it has always been in response to a need.” Though her business has grown since the moment of inspiration nearly 20 years ago, Kaliana remains very hands-on and specially formulates all blends herself. Kaliana Emotional Care products are designed with the intention to give you power to create a more peaceful, calm, joyful and harmonious relationship and life. “It’s not about removing problems because [problems] are going to be a part of life. It’s about making life overall easier to handle, and thereby making it more fun.

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Last year, California experienced an unsually high flu season, peaking between December and February. The flu is a contagious respiratory illness caused by the influenza virus. More than 60 million Americans each year get the virus, and approximately 200,000 are hospitalized due to flu complications. It’s spread through contact with surfaces or people with the flu, coughing, sneezing or even talking. For this reason, it’s important for both children and adults to take steps to prevent catching or spreading the virus.

• According to the Center for Disease Control (CDC), the best way to avoid catching the virus is by getting a flu vaccination which treats up to four different strains. In correlation with state and government agencies, including the California Department of Public Health, the most apparent strains are included in the immunization, allowing effective vaccines. Contrary to popular belief, the flu vaccine cannot give you the flu, or treat the flu once you have it. It takes roughly two weeks for the antibodies to kick in, so get vaccinated early. Studies show that the vaccine given to pregnant women is more than 90% more effective in preventing the hospitalization of infants. Children over two weeks old can receive anti-viral medication, and everyone over 6 months is recommended to get an annual shot. The CDC recommends nasal sprays (LAIV) for kids 2-8. There are other options available for those who cannot receive the flu shot.

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Deck the Halls Holidays are the perfect opportunity for quality family time. Everyone seems even merrier when our homes are decked with seasonal cheer. Decorating for the holidays can seem a bit costly and overwhelming on your own, but when you turn the experience into a holiday tradition everyone looks forward too, it cuts costs and creates memories. Ditch the expensive holiday décor and craft some hangings on your own. Each year, make a little something new, until you have enough decorations to fill the entire house. Adding to last year’s hand-made

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MosaicOrnaments(For the younger kids)Supplies: CDs or DVDs that are no longer used, clear glass ornaments, scissors, glue gun, thick satin ribbon. Gather some old CDs or DVDs that are scratched or no longer used. Carefully cut the discs into small pieces with scissors. Shapes do not need to match, but should all be close in size. Once you have your discs cut up, take the clear glass ornaments and use the glue gun to cover the ornament with the disc

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In our fast-paced, technology-obsessed and career-driven society, it is becoming increasingly difficult to balance our time between all the important areas of our life. However, it doesn’t necessarily have to be hard-if we are willing to shift our focus. Minimalism is a lifestyle that helps people question what things add value to their lives. By clearing the clutter from life’s path, we can all make room for the most important aspects of life: health, relationships, passion, growth, and contribution. Even though everyone embraces minimalism differently, each path leads to the same place: a life with more time, more money, and more freedom to live a more meaningful life. Many parents falsely believe that minimalism is a lifestyle simply out of reach because they have children-as if the two are somehow incompatible. The principles of minimalism are completely within reach no matter how many children you have or where you live. And not only is minimalism completely possible with children, it is a lifestyle filled with benefits for them! Minimalism starts in your heart and mind. Once you change your mind and thinking, the changes in your surroundings can

happen much easier. The first thing you should do is really figure out the simple life that you want. What does it look like? What does it include? How will it benefit you? Then, talk to your kids about your new family lifestyle, their roles, and what changes you are hoping for-for your entire family. Begin minimizing your possessions first. Reduce your personal belongings and de-clutter. Once you have all personally downsized, move on to your shared family belongings. Remove the items they do not use, first. Minimalism is about paring down to only the essentials. It is about removing the things in our life we don’t need so we can focus on the things that we do. And while most homes are filled with things that are not needed, they are also filled with things that are not even used. Start by removing the clothes they no longer wear, the toys they no longer they play with, etc. Focus on the positives. Does their room appear tidier? Do they spend less time cleaning? Is it easier to find things? Can you notice less stress or less distraction? Are you more relaxed as a parent? Encourage each other with the positive benefits that you all notice.

Choose your purchases carefully going forward. You are absolutely still going to buy things going forward… you are just going to put more thought into your purchases than you did in the past. Replace “Do I want this?” with “Do I need this?” And help your children ask the same question. It’s one of the most important lessons they will ever learn. Treat them to fun experiences. One benefit of minimalism is that you spend less and have more time on your hands. Use it to create fun, family experiences. Minimalism is not the goal. Minimalism is, after all, less about the things you remove and more about the things you add. The potential of minimalism lies in what you choose to pursue with your life in place of material possessions. Choose contentment and contribution. Invest in relationships. Grow spiritually and find purpose. Your life is far too valuable to waste chasing possessions and overscheduling, and your family will discover this life-giving truth as soon as you stop.

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from Europe to South America. Although he did not start attending classes until he was six years old, Zachary showed his interest in the sport at a young age. At home, he watched shows like Power Rangers, and acted out the moves. His father, Ray Gaona, would share his love of Martial Art movies such as Shogun Assassin, Drunken Masters, and anything with Bruce Lee. “[Zachary] always loved Karate movies,” says Ray. One day, Ray decided to cut a broom in half, and handed it to three-year-old Zachary. He would swing the wooden stick around and ask Zachary if he could do it – and he did. “It never dawned on us to put him in Karate,” says Ray. When his son reached six years old, a family friend offered to take Zachary to his first Karate class. “Next thing you know,” adds Ray, “The instructor called and asked where Zachary had been trained.” Within a few days, his son learned the techniques it took others weeks to master, impressing everyone. It was then that Zachary began learning demonstrations in class, and competing on the open circuit in both sport and traditional Karate such as Tae Kwon Do, using weapons, fighting and traditional forms. Until the age of 10, Zachary spent three to four hours a day training in the garage where his father set up a place for him to practice. “He pushes himself,” says Ray, “he is committed.” When he competes, he thrives. Ray says he is still a kid, “you’d never know he is a Karate champion because he’s very social and can be very silly. There is a good balance. For us, he found something fun that he is good at. When we see this, we want him to reach his full potential.” The Gaona family continues to support his dreams, driving him to Los Angeles every weekend for training at Nihon Karate Do in Fullerton with his Senseis Chad Eagan and Bruce Nguyen. Zachary’s drive stems from his own desires of being the very best in anything he sets his mind to; something his family hopes will motivate others his son’s age. “School is still number one,” adds Ray, “On the road, he does his homework and studies Japanese.” The focus and determination he channels in Karate help Zachary in school. He has made it a personal goal to learn the language. “[The sport] is not just about the moves, it becomes part of you, and your lifestyle. It’s about the mind, body and spirit.” After

winning all of his competitions in the open circuit and earning his black belt in Tae Kwon Do, Zachary decided he wanted to try something new. Now, at the age of 13, he has committed to Karate. While he continues to dabble in other forms of mixed martial arts, he focuses on earning his junior black belt in Karate. His current training includes swimming, cross-fit and tumbling, and many hours of Karate training with his Sensei Chad Eagan. His goal is to make the US Team next year, and represent the country not only in the Jr. Pan American Championships again, but more importantly, in the World Championships. This is a really big deal for a couple of reasons, says Ray. “Karate is to other countries as Football is to the U.S.,”

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The holiday season is a time to build lifelong memories with your family. The giving and the gathering, the rituals that connect us to one another and the past…Traditions help you bond and reconnect with loved ones, friends, and neighbors. Through the generations, these Holiday rituals can be refreshed, reinvented, or created new. With the holidays upon us, we have a complete list of traditions to inspire your own holiday memories and make the season a little brighter!

Holiday FOOD-FOCUSED TraditionsMake traditional dishes for your holiday meals that include foods from your culture or foods you ate growing up. Ask for recipes from relatives to keep your family food traditions alive. Organize a cookie-baking party and ask everyone to bring their favorite holiday cookie recipe. Invite friends and family, or a group of your kids’ friends. Make the same entree for Christmas Eve (such as a gumbo) and Christmas Day (ham or turkey) every year. Or, make it a tradition to cook up something different every year. Make Thanksgiving or Christmas a potluck. Make a feast list, and get sign-ups from family members. Make a gingerbread house with your family. Buy a pre-made set, or start from scratch.

NEIGHBORHOOD and COMMUNITY TRADITIONS Get a handful of friends together and go caroling. You’ll be surprised by how well-received your singing group is, even if you’re out of tune! Take in a local production of ‘The Nutcracker,’ ‘A Christmas Carol,’ or another holiday-themed show. Check out holiday lights in your area. Whip up a batch of hot chocolate, hop in the car, turn on your holiday playlist, and peruse the houses in nearby neighborhoods. Sit on Santa’s lap for a visit- no matter how old the kids are! Go sledding, ice skating, partake in a neighborhood football game, or another outdoor activity. Thanksgiving and Christmas day are perfect for family fun activities- after the gifts are opened, the meal is eaten, and everyone is getting antsy from being inside.

AROUND THE Home Holiday TRADITIONSStart the ‘Elf on a Shelf’ tradition. The kids will love it and it will keep them on their best behavior! Read holiday books before bed each night; ‘The Polar Express’, ‘Santa Mouse’, and ‘How the Grinch Stole Christmas’ are all excellent tales to boost your family’s holiday spirit. Cut down your own Christmas tree at a tree farm. At home, decorate it as a family. Don’t forget the Eggnog, hot chocolate, and treats! Create a holiday playlist that your family listens to in the car or at home every year- add


3 new songs to the end of the list each year for the following year. Make a movie date. Set aside one night each week to watch a holiday classic, such as “Miracle on 34th Street” and “A Charlie Brown Christmas.” Start an ‘I Am Thankful’ list in November. Have every family member add one thing they are thankful for each day. Write your thankful lists on a paper Christmas tree or snowflake and then use them in your home as part of your holiday decor. Have a Christmas tree camp out one night in the family room. Keep the tree lights on, read holiday stories, listen to music, and snack on holiday treats.

GIVING BACKHoliday TraditionsVolunteer your time as a family at a soup kitchen or a food bank. Find a giving tree or organization to sponsor a family in need, or purchase toys for children in need. Let your kids pick out the gifts to give. Each year, donate last year’s winter coat to a local shelter, or coat drive. Hold a book drive. Ask coworkers, friends, neighbors, and family to donate children’s books that you can give to your local library, elementary school, or family shelter. Deliver cookies and treats to your local fire station, police department, and hospital. Don’t forget senior citizens! Volunteer at your local senior citizens center, or see if there is a giving tree specifically for the residents.

Holiday Gift TRADITIONSDraw names in your immediate family and make- not purchase- a gift for that person. It can be as easy as a playlist for an MP3 player or a photobook of your family’s greatest moments of the year. Make a shopping tradition! Spend a day, and possibly a night, in the nearest city with your Mom, sister, or other family members, and do some holiday shopping and bonding. Start a gag gift tradition. Give a funny gift to a family member. Each year, pass the gift on to another unsuspecting family member. Pass on family heirlooms as gifts to children and siblings.

Christmas Eve TRADITIONSOpen one gift on Christmas Eve. Track Santa’s progress across the globe on NORAD every hour. Make reindeer food on Christmas Eve (oats and candy sprinkles) and toss it on the lawn for Santa’s team of reindeer. Read ‘Twas The Night Before Christmas’ at bedtime. Leave a ‘trail’ of gifts from the chimney to the tree to show Santa’s route in the house.

Christmas MORNING/DAY TraditionsOpen all the gifts under the tree at 12:01 a.m. on Christmas Day. (This works best with older kids and teens.) Don’t open presents until after religious services or brunch. Designate a family member at random to pass out gifts to everyone each year. Call or have a video chat with loved ones who aren’t able to be with your family. Invite family, friends, and neighbors over Christmas evening for games, dessert, and to decompress from the holiday. Go out for Christmas breakfast in your pajamas!


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LODI PARADEOF LIGHTSTHURSDAY DECEMBER 4The 19th annual Lodi Parade of Lights will commence this year on Thursday night, December 4. The spectacle of lights brings together the community in an impressive display of brightly lit floats, classic cars, trees, carolers, music and plenty of Christmas characters to get you into the holiday mood.

RUN/WALK FORBRIGHTER CHRISTMAS AND KIDS JINGLE JAM AT EAGAL LAKESSATURDAY DECEMBER 6Both parents and kids are invited to enjoy the 5k Christmas trail at Eagal Lakes along the picturesque San Joaquin River. There is also a one-mile jingle jam course for children ages 4-10 where they are able to tie bells around their toes, dress in their pj’s or favorite holiday costumes, and run around the one mile ski lake. Don’t forget to bring your cameras because Santa will make a visit for photo ops. There will also be music, a bon fire, hot chocolate and cookies to share the Christmas Cheer. The event will support Brighter Christmas of Tracy. Eagal Lakes Resort, 12 W. Lorenzen Rd., Tracy. (209) 640-4252. Egallakes.com.

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SNOW ON THE FARMSUNDAY DECEMBER 7 – SUNDAY JANUARY 4Bring your gloves and warm clothes because the weather calls for snow at Dell’Osso Farms this holiday season. During the month of December and into January, the farm will feature its very own Snow Tube Mountain. Here, visitors can purchase a ticket (recommended to purchase in advance) to take a tube ride down the slopes for up to 90 minutes. The will also be an ice skating rink for all ages, and a zip line. Check out Santa’s Village for some great holiday shopping, a photo with Santa, and a chance to pick out your own Christmas Tree! Dell’Osso Farms, 501 S. Manthey Rd., Lathrop. (209) 982-0833. Holidaysonthefarm.com.

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DECEMBER 21This traditional scientific lecture began hundreds of years ago with the Royal Institution of Great Britain’s Christmas Lecture series for children, beginning in the 1820s by Michael Faraday – who is considered one of history’s greatest modern scientists. The lecture, now presented by two University of the Pacific Chemistry Professors at the Alex G. Spanos Center in Stockton, will carry out experiments, making things explode, change color, set on fire and blow up by simply mixing liquids together and explaining how before your eyes. The event is free to guest of all ages, but space is limited so reserve your tickets in advance. Alex G. Spanos Center, 1178 Larry Heller Dr., Stockton. (209) 946-2472. Pacific.edu.

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SUNDAY DECEMBER 21This popular event is back for the second year by popular demand. Kids can apply online in advance to take over different roles for a night at the Arena. Children will get the chance to preform jobs that will include broadcasters, journalists, ushers, emcees and much more! The first 500 visitors will receive a set of Stockton Thunder trading cards. Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton. (209) 373-1400. Stocktonthunder.com.

WINTER JUBILEE THURSDAY DECEMBER 11This holiday fun event for all ages is presented by Wine and Roses Restaurant, Hotel and Spa. The night’s festivities will feature Christmas lights displays and children’s craft stations as well as face painting, games, and story time with Mrs. Claus, a bakeshop including food stations and holiday beverages. In addition, guests can get into the Christmas spirit and enjoy performances by St. Peter’s Lutheran Church Children’s Choir and the Yule Logs – ‘the hardest working band in snow business.’ Wine and Roses Restaurant, Hotel and Spa, 2505 W. Turner Road, Lodi. (209) 334-6988. Winerose.com.

STOCKTON CIVIC THEATRE PRESENTS “THE SOUNDOF MUSIC”

WEDNESDAY NOVEMBER 19 –DECEMBER 14Bring the entire family and enjoy the world’s most popular and beloved musical of all time at the nation’s third longest running community theatre. The musical, directed by Jim Coleman, is rated G and will feature music by Rodgers and Hammerstein by a live orchestra. This historical, captivating and romantic story depicts a family’s narrow escape from the Nazi-invaded Austria to Switzerland during the eve of WWII. Stockton Civic Theatre, 2312 Rosemarie Ln., Stockton. (209) 473-2424. Sctlivetheatre.com.

POLAR RUN AND DUNK AND FREEKIDS DASH ATEAGAL LAKESJANUARY 1Start a new family tradition and celebrate the fourth annual Polar Run and Dunk at Eagal Lakes this new year’s day. The event is open to children under the age of 10, and free for participants which must register online. Each participant will receive a finishing ribbon and can chose between the stay dry course, or jump in the frigid ski lake (but make sure to bring an extra change of clothes). After the race, visitors can enjoy hot beverages and food, and can keep warm by the bon fire. Those over 21 are welcome to ring in the New Year with a champagne toast. Eagal Lakes Resort, 12 W. Lorenzen Rd., Tracy. (209) 640-4252. Eagallakes.com.


LAST WORD| CHRISTMAS PITFALLS

BY HEATHER REAGAN

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I love Christmas. I love snow-themed everything, the nostalgic feeling the season of Christmas evokes- the smells, the music, the energy. Mostly though, I love getting together with my family- making homemade cookies, sharing memories, gossiping and laughing at each other, playing games, spending time together. I don’t; however, love Christmas shopping, the overconsumption, frenzied malls, consumer debt, environmental waste, wasted time wrapping, and the over-accumulation of needless stuff that comes with Christmas. These pitfalls of Christmas have sadly become our culture.

We focus on buying, not on sharing or giving. Giving is good; somehow though, the required act of giving gifts at Christmas ends up being about buying and not giving. We go out in a mad rush to shop, like ravenous vampires feasting on new blood. We shop for months, and often end up buying a gift that “will do.” Since when does buying translate into giving? We can give by baking cookies, making dinner, washing someone’s car, sharing music, offering babysitting services, walking pets, and making a photo album. And anyway, shouldn’t we be practicing the art of giving throughout the year rather than it being a gesture we have been programmed to do once a year? We waste. The packaging itself for every toy is double the volume of the toy itself. From cardboard to plastic to metal twist-ties, it’s ludicrous. We bring home everything in bags, and then put them in boxes, buy wrapping paper and wrap it all up only for it all to get thrown away on Christmas day. We give into the horrendous, insipid, seizure-inducing advertising. Need I say more? We enter into troubling debt. People spend hundreds and thousands of dollars on gifts and wrapping. Not to mention all the money spent on gas, and fattening food at mall food courts. This goes on credit cards (and around our waistlines), and we must pay for this- with high interest- during the year. Even if we don’t get into debt, is this really how we want to spend money from long hours of hard work- paying for needless stuff? There are STILL hungry people in the world. In the frenzy that is Christmas, we spend ridiculous amounts of money that is pure waste. In other countries, people are struggling just to eat, or get medicine, or find shelter, or get clean drinking water. We spend so much in a show of consumerist greed, when that money could feed a few dozen families. Kids love getting presents (I have six kids- I should know!). Are we to rob them of this? It’s a difficult question, but think for a moment about what we are teaching the kids. They don’t just participate in the opening of presents- they see all the shopping and are affected by the debt. They are being taught to value material goods over anything else. So for the joy of opening presents for a few hours on Christmas day, we’re imparting on them consumerist values that will last them a lifetime. Instead, find hope. Christmas has so much potential to be about so much more than buying- it can, and should be about, a season of hope, renewal, loved ones, inspiration, contemplation. We need to find ways to be hopeful, thankful, and cooperative; being more mindful and engaged instead of worrying about getting presents. We need to teach our children about truly giving to others, about volunteering and helping the less fortunate, about acts of kindness, about the value of spending time with loved ones during the holidays.



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