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Review of Father's Day by Philip Miller (The Ledge Press, 1995)
Every son carries on a love/hate relationship with his father. This fact first hit home with
me when I was four or five, learning from my father how to play checkers and realizing he wasn't
ever going to let me win. After I lost about two hundred games in a row, the image I had of my
father changed: he no longer was simply my supporter and defender, he was also my principal
rival in life.
Such push-pull occurs in the happiest of families, but its effects are especially pronounced
in dysfunctional families. In his excellent chapbook Father's Day, Philip Miller recounts his
relationship with his father, a troubled alcoholic and family tyrant. Through these poems Miller
grapples with the distance between father and son which inevitably resulted.
Enormous wanting underlies every poem in this collection. Growing up the author
desperately wanted, but never was able to receive, attention and approval from his father. In
"Other People's Fathers," the author as a young boy wanders away from his drunk father to other
yards seeking a proper father-like presence: "in sore need of some strong-armed/paternity . . . I
would wander up to one/clipping hedges or staking his tomatoes,/and loll around, asking too
many questions,/a sure sign I needed something" (p. 7). Here is a kid who understood early in life
his father was emotionally A.W.O.L., leaving him to his own devices to fill the void.
What little emotion the author's father did manage to display seemed less than genuine,
because he could only truly let himself go while drunk. In "It's in the Blood" (pp. 27-28), the
author is embarrassed by his father's habit of kissing him, a sign of affection to be sure, but one
that strikes a false note due to his father's intoxication. Likewise, the few joyful moments his
father experienced were artificial, for they were motivated by alcohol: "Sometimes father sang a
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tune/or two after short swigs/of Fleischmann's gin/when he was in between/sober and mean
drunk,/something he called 'only tipsy.'" Such joy was always short-lived, however, lasting only
until the "mean drunk" emerged. Miller says his father's singing was "bluesy and off key/enough to
make us laugh/a second, lose track of where/the evening surely headed,/when he'd sing a different
tune/and let us have it/with both barrels." ("His Old Tune," pp. 25-26).
Despite our best efforts, we often become what we swore we wouldn't. As an adult, the
author wonders whether he is passing along his father's emotionally crippled legacy: "What the
son forgets/won't be forgiven;/it feeds his blood,/darkens his eye:/poor father that he will
be,/unforgiving in his bones and blood/sharing with his sons/the knowledge of this
growing/animal, watching as they grow/silent, too, and stare at the ground/tracking" ("Written in
the Stars," p.13). The author returns several times to the theme of forgetting and forgiving. He
believes forgetting is a function of the head, forgiving a function of the heart. Reconciling the two
becomes the key to breaking out of the cycle of damage wrought by one's emotionally dead, and
alcohol-deadened, forebears.
Miller is at his best when such glimpses of understanding inform his poems. I can't say
enough good things about this chapbook. The author movingly depicts the universal dilemma with
which all fathers and sons are familiar. It's the same drama cast in infinitely different ways -- in my
case illustrated by a father who I knew was proud of me but who could never bring himself to tell
me so.
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