Relationships in the Modern Day
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How Social Networking has changed the daIng game. By Kathryn McKay
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Social Networking has redefined the inherent meaning and nature of relaIonships.
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Altering how relaIonships are formed,
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Experienced,
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And lost.
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There is no longer a romanIcized, unknowing quality of daIng
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But rather, this new form of daIng is situated upon “Facebook stalking”
-‐ Allison McCann, How Facebook Ruined Da8ng (and Breaking Up to)
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With the aim to “reduce some of the uncertainty in relaIonships”
-‐ Allison McCann, How Facebook Ruined Da8ng (and Breaking Up to)
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New, media constructed, relaIonship milestones “represent a new Ier in the relaIonship nupIals”.
-‐ quote from Jesse Fox, republished by Tom Jacobs in “I Now Pronounce You FBO: Facebook Official
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Where the noIon of
going steady is now
represented through a
technological mode
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“For some couples Facebook acts as a tool for relaIonship
maintenance” -‐ quote from Jesse Fox, republished by
Tom Jacobs in “I Now Pronounce You FBO: Facebook Official
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By forcing couples to have honest,
candid conversaIons about what
their relaIonship
is
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Social Networking
has however resulted in one being unable to truly
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Where “remaining Facebook friends with an ex delayed emoIonal recovery and led to greater distress over the breakup, negaIve feelings, sexual desire and longing for the ex-‐partner.” -‐ Allison McCann, “How Facebook Ruined Da8ng (and
Breaking up to)
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RelaIonships are no longer innately personal between two partners
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But rather “shaped by its actual and perceived
audience.” -‐ quote from Jesse Fox, republished by Tom Jacobs in “I Now Pronounce
You FBO: Facebook Official
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The persona created on Social Networking sites has real, inherent implicaIons on ones actual life.
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Where “the informaIon we disclose online mirrors who we are offline”
-‐ From bullying to rela8onships: Mapping our online communica8ons
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and “disclosing more about ourselves online actually lessons inImacy and saIsfacIon among romanIc couples”
-‐ From bullying to rela8onships: Mapping our online communica8ons
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This new technological mode of social interacIons,
has, intrinsically changed the nature of
relaIonships.
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