DR RUPA TALUKDAR

Relationship Counselling :

When Relationship Is In Crisis

Irritation, throwing bad words at each other, shouting at

Mal communication Lack of

understanding Too much

relationships between the TWO

Temperament dissimilarity

Feeling of insecurity Strong past

attachment

Signs & Symptoms

Lack of enjoyment of togetherness No charming effect between the two-in-relationship No emotional words in close moments for a long time Irritation, dishonesty at slightest chance Specially no frankness, always speculative No sharing, one partner is always under pressure Intolerance increases day by day, rigid mindset of one

partner No compromise/one sided compromise: deprivation feelings Scarcity of finding alternatives way of solution of any

disagreement

TIME FOR INTERVENTION OF RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR

Sit before her/him Singly first to venting off grudge –both the

partners Finding the cause of intolerances and conflicts Understanding the way out Counseling starts with both the partners

sitting together Counsellor has the role to sort out the

conflicting zones and find the probable way out with both the partners’ agreement

ROLE OF RELATIONSHIP COUNSELLOR

Helping couple in relationship the practical way of living together Finding the cause of conflict Making both the partner to understand “What is reality?” Priority of living together To be respectful to each other Distribution of partnership Advising first helping self which is also helping partner Role of each partner in relationship Need of enjoyment consciously which will enrich

relationship for the future: there is need of having good memory: it will rejuvenate mind for the long run: reflected sweet memory of togetherness is very useful in maintaining relationship

MY OTHER ACTIVITIES AS COUNSELLOR