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Ready to Rise! The Keys to Unleashing Your Power and Rising to the
Next Level of your Calling and Career
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A r e y o u a c t u a l l y s u r p r i s e d a t h o w m u c h y o u ’ v e a c h i e v e d a n d h o w f a r y o u ’ v e c o m e ?
D o y o u fe e l t h e r e a r e a l a c k o f o p p o r t u n i ti e s f o r c a r e e r a d v a n c e m e n t ?
D o y o u fi n d y o u r s e l f d w e l l i n g o n p e r c e i v e d “ f a i l u r e s ” m o r e t h a n y o u c e l e b ra t e y o u r s u c c e s s e s ?
D o y o u o v e r - p r e p a r e f o r m e e ti n g s o r t e n d t o w a r d s p e r fe c ti o n i s m ?
D o y o u fe e l u n d e ra p p r e c i a t e d ?
D o y o u t h i n k y o u r w o r k s h o u l d s p e a k f o r i t s e l f a n d p r e fe r n o t t o h a v e t o t a l k a b o u t y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s ?
A r e y o u m u c h h a r d e r o n y o u r s e l f t h a n y o u w o u l d e v e r b e t o a f r i e n d ?
C h e c k i n g i n
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1950s 1960s 1970s 1980s 1990s 2000s 2010s 2020s
From Shelley J. Correll Director of Stanford’s Clayman Institute for Gender
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The Athena Doctrine Study
Charts by John Gerzema, BAV Consulting
F e m i n i n e S t r e n g t h s : T h e N e w C o m p e ti ti v e A d v a n t a g e
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C h a n g e s n e e d e d o n t h e O U T S I D E
F l e x i b i l i t y o f w o r k fl o w
S u r f a c e a n d a d d r e s s u n c o n s c i o u s b i a s
R e - e n g i n e e r s y s t e m s a n d s t r u c t u r e s t o r e c o g n i z e a n d r e w a r d w o m e n ’s s t r e n g t h s a n d c o n t r i b u ti o n s
I n c r e a s e s p o n s o r s h i p a n d m e n t o r s
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H o s p i t a b l e c u l t u r e s ( c r e a t e s a f e s e tti n g s — c o a c h i n g r e l a ti o n s h i p s , w o m e n ’s l e a d e r s h i p p r o g r a m s , a s u p p o r t g r o u p o f p e e r s . )
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A m a s s y o u r k u d o s fi l e
Kn o w h o w t o a r ti c u l a te y o u r va l u e
N e t w o r k o n a w e e k l y b a s i s
D o t h e j o b y o u w a n t to h av e
R i s e = R a i s e
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C h a n g e s n e e d e d o n t h e I N S I D E
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P re e m p ti ve l y d i s q u a l i f y i n g o u rs e l v e s
Ta k i n g t h i n g s p e rs o n a l l y
N o t a s k i n g fo r w h a t w e w a n t
H o l d i n g o n t o fl a w s a n d fa i l u re s
N o t i n t e r n a l i z i n g t h e s u c c e s s w e ’ve a l re a d y
a c h i e v e d
W h a t s t o p s u s f r o m R I S I N G ?
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D o w e f e a r t h a t w e w i l l h a v e t o S A C R I F I C E O U R S E LV E S t o p l a y a b i g g e r g a m e ?
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HORIZONTAL Realm
Good grades
Diploma
Good job
Life partner
Nice house
Accolades
Acquisitions
Achievements
Approval
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HORIZONTAL Re a l m ( m a s c u l i n e )
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V I P
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Not thriving.
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H o w c a n y o u t e l l t h e
d i ff e r e n c e b e t w e e n y o u r
F A L S E S E L F a n d T R U E S E L F ?
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Hurries you
Attacks you
Misleads you
Doubts you
Commands you
Criticizes you
Agitates you
Quiets you
Uplifts you
Guides you
Encourages you
Invites you
Assures you
Soothes you
Five Co-Creative Powers F A L S E S E L F / e g o T R U E S E L F / e v o
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F a l s e S e l f T r u e S e l f
W h a t e n c o u r a g e m e n t o r w i s d o m d o e s s h e h a v e f o r y o u ?
W h a t d o e s t h a t “ S H O U L D ” v o i c e s a y t o y o u ?
W h a t d o e s y o u r F a l s e S e l f t e l l y o u t h a t k e e p s y o u s t u c k ?
15W h a t ’s t h e n e x t R I G H T t h i n g f o r y o u ?
W h a t w o u l d y o u r Tr u e S e l f s a y a r e t w o o f y o u r m o s t s t a n d - o u t q u a l i ti e s / s t r e n g t h s ?
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I n t e g ra ti o n
Re n e w a l & Re i nv e n ti o n
L i fe i s o n y o u r s i d e
Ev o l v i n g t o a u t h e n ti c s e l f
T h e S P I R A L U P p a t h :
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W h at i s t h e s i n g l e fa c t o r p e o p l e m o st c o r re l a t e d w i t h 2 1 s t c e n t u r y l e a d e rs h i p ?
B e i n g a u t h e n ti c a l l y ex p r e s s i v e . H av i n g t h e c o u ra g e t o p u t y o u rs e l f a n d y o u r i d e a s o u t t h e re .
M o d e r n L e a d e r s h i p
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a u t h e n ti c i t y
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C re a ti v i t y t r i p l e s
I n t e l l i g e n c e r i s e s
P ro d u c ti v i t y i m p r o v e s b y 3 1 %
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W h e n y o u ’ r e a u t h e n ti c , y o u ’ r e H A P P Y
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T h e 5 C o - C r e a ti v e P o w e r s t h a t P r o p e l W o m e n t o R i s e
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C a l m D o w n t o P o w e r U p !
S t o p b e l i e v i n g n e g a ti v e t h o u g h t s a n d f o c u s o n t h e m i r a c l e s .
S a v o r y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s t o i n t e r n a l i z e s u c c e s s .
L e t g o o f p a s t “ f a i l u r e s .” M o v e o n .
S p e a k f r o m t h e v o i c e o f y o u r c o u r a g e o u s Tr u e S e l f .
S t o p d o i n g e v e r y t h i n g . J u s t d o t h e n e x t R I G H T t h i n g .
Ta k e o n e s m a l l r i s k a d a y.
C o - C r e a ti v e P O W E R M O V E S
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Te x t t h e w o r d s p i r a l u p t o 6 6 8 6 6 t o r e c e i v e y o u r “ R e a d y t o R i s e ” s e l f - a s s e s s m e n t , f r e e c h a p t e r o f
S p i r a l i n g U p w a r d , a n d n e w s a b o u t m y l a t e s t o ff e r i n g s .
F o r r e l e v a n t a n d i n f o r m a ti v e t w e e t s f o l l o w m e o n t w i tt e r @ W e n d y W a l l b r i d g e
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