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    Pursuing Happiness 4 all

    Awake your own happiness and help to heal the worldthrough happiness

    Preface:

    Why?

    I am writing this book and creating what I need to create,because we now need to do what we as human beings areready for on a conscious level simply to change theworld into a better place to be for us, our kids andgrandkids, the nature, the animals, and our humanfollowers in next lives.

    As Einstein said: You can not change problems from thesame level of consciousness you created them on

    Already so many fantastic people have written books,singing songs, teaches, educates, coach, and comment on

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    the change and our consciousness readiness - and I myself have read so many books, done so much in my old life,

    gone to so many retreats, have meet so many guides thatsometimes its all very confusing and just recently Ifound out why that is I was simply not using it all tomake a real difference in the world so now its enough Istop reading all the books, go to the seminars searchingetc and start executing pursuing happiness for all .

    And for all of you that feel the same way this is exactlywhat this book is about namely how you and your fellowhuman beings can find your and theirs true self andbecome human doings that actually change the world bigscale in to something that we all want deep in our hearts namely to find, give and share happiness for the

    sustainability of Our Purpose, People, Planet and Profit inthat priority i.e, and that in a totally different way thananyone of us people or perhaps only a few of us are doingtoday.

    How is that going to happen well just try to follow myguidance.

    I have a happiness mission:

    Happiness 4 all

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    (too simple why?)

    is that not what we are supposed to feel today and everyday what else should we be here for well when yoursoul decided to come here wasnt that to be fulfilled andfeel happiness and have the human experiences that youare supposed to have to be ready for next incarnation sothat you eventually can come home to God (or whatever

    you believe in) and come back for more great stuff inanother life.

    So lets try again

    Happiness 4 all

    isnt that the least life should bring, if not so then whynot? Dig deep in your heart and ask yourself why not? and you have already taken your first step towards this

    new perception of your life.

    And I assure you it is needed if we want to see another

    way of living than todays troubled world. We need toheal ourselves to heal our world inside out and notcontinuing to try to solve problems from the same

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    consciousness level as they are created through the last5000 years.

    Yes I mean it we humans have been fighting each othersfor so long everyone can remember for land, power,money, religion, beliefs, love, sex, more money, biggerhouses, bigger cars, more sex, higher salaries and bonuses,to be popular, for bosses and their spouses, for our ownspouses, for our childrens wellbeing and the list goes on

    but it has never been as bad as in the last 200 yearswhere more people have died due to our technicalabilities.

    So let us decide to make this decade the tippingpoint for humanity and the universe starting

    now.

    As Kierkegaard wrote to change the worldstart with your self. and even if you dont getfurther than changing yourself thats a majorachievement.

    Who the f is this guy telling me we have tochange the world/me?

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    How is he going to make me reach the STARS ina balanced way and be able to be consciouslyhappy everyday?

    I recently read a wonderful book by Wayne Muller, "Sabbath: Restoring the Sacred Rhythm of Rest."(Bantam Books, April 1999) The following passage points to this important step to happiness:

    "The noise of our lives made us deaf, unable to hear when we are called, or from which direction.

    Henri (a friend of Muller's and a priest) said our lives have become absurd -- because in the wordabsurd we find the Latin word absurdus, which means 'deaf.' In our spiritual life we need to listen toGod who constantly speaks but whom we seldom hear in our hurried defense.

    On the other hand, Henri was fond of reminding me that the word obedient comes from the Latin wordaudire, which means 'to listen.' Henri believed that a spiritual life was a pilgrimage from absurdity toobedience -- from deafness to listening."

    If you're living a loud life of absurdity, it's important to add in moments of peaceful rest and solitude soyou can listen and hear life call to you.

    Introduction

    What is this book actually about?

    Its about how you can create a happy private life and a successful career - not either or but both and.

    And when you're talking life, it is about the challenges you all review and happens to us. As an experiencedbusiness man with the wisdom from a long life, it provides help to raise awareness and create opportunity from adifferent angle, so that you by taking good care can avoid falling into the worst traps that life offers.

    The book is intended as a working tool that you can look up in when you need it, depending on the situations youhave come in by themselves or through others, and gives you instructions to minimize unnecessary stress andillness, and create a good life with a healthy lifestyle that gives you the basis for also creating a good career where you have yourself the whole way and you want go all the way in a good way. The book gives you thesense of things is to know in a simple and workable way.

    It's about getting to the core, you all have - where you are unique, find what you have to offer and what you haveto give, but also very much what you have to be able to get the most out of it in a way you can afford to.

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    "People are the key. Humans are meant to grow. That leadership is also about quality of life and health. To work,leadership, performance and cooperation are linked. In many books on management and HR, man is aninstrument - an instrument, something that can be pushed, pulled, threatened and motivated - a resource, ahuman capital - something that can be purchased on labor markets and provided with incentive programs, fringe

    benefits, talent management and many other different such inventions to get it to move in an inevitable direction."And then he writes further:" It may be good enough. But where is the respect for the individual and its corethroughout the mountain of literature, which regards people as little machines? All people have a positive core,consisting of human qualities and potential. The kernel is the original and deepest in man and when man is intouch with its core it is in contact with all the vivid and natural in themselves. In essence lies all human resourcesand qualities - both those individuals know, and those who still only have the germ and could develop if given theright conditions. "

    What this book and the underlying process is about helping you to find the germs and everything else that canbe developed - and then give you the tools to create the conditions that you can develop it, alone or with othersso that you can have a completely different role in your life and the lives of others and the labor market, you wantto go out and make a difference in.

    In short: It's about You - your awareness and how you are re-creating yourself.

    Preword

    The purpose of this book is to give students and other good people some of the things they lack or have beensaved for them through their study - namely the ability to distinguish between what is appropriate and notappropriate in life and in the job.

    Through your higher education you will learn many things and related to the development of your mentalintelligence (IQ) but not much about life as a nutshell, interaction with others (emotional intelligence EQ) and itsrelationship to the society and the world you live in. It often means that when the students get into jobs so theymust first enter an adjustment process which can be extremely painful and often destructive, especially since

    some are not really aware of the needs, talents, passion and conscience, he or she has or will develop, andtherefore tries to align themselves with the already established systems where they do not fit.

    Through my work as a manager and management consultant in my country and abroad, I have seen the samepattern of power struggles, competition, fights, insensitivity, lack of willingness to cooperate and objectives to bepursued without regard to costs on the individual's mind, body and soul, and I have therefore developed andimplemented a 3-month program for students which allows them to see through relationships and patterns, andtheir own situation in a way as to prevent the landing of those things - unless they choose it. This program I'verecorded on CD, which then have been merged and spiced with a little more of my own experiences andexamples.

    Many have asked me why I do what I do and I think I can best respond to relate myself to the root causes of myprogram, developed for some time and through some processes and development activities with me, some of

    which are used in business within the last 15 years.

    In short this book is about you yourconsciousness, and how to recreate yourself .

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    About The Author and what he believes in andstand for

    I started writing this in order to create an artwork that combines what I know about consciousness evolvingactivities at the correct balance for the individual allowing for a higher spirituality and higher consciousness - andhappiness.

    But why is it important we can start by asking ourselves - it is because the problems we have created a level of consciousness can not be corrected with the same level of consciousness - we must therefore constantly ensureour ability and desire to move - evolution -- if we must correct our ways and be and act on.

    There is of course the higher purpose of ensuring that we - the human race - to move forward from the problemswe have created at the existing level - climate, war, incest, pedophilia, trigger-happy youth, extreme religionsand terrorism on a large degree.

    Don Beck and Graves - have researched our evolutionary process and perceives that we are in a spiral-likedevelopment with 9 levels - where we have to go through all levels, ie to say that we must constantly ensure thatthe spiral is intact - and just support the process to move as quickly as possible through them so we can get tothe higher layers Tier 2 - based on the unity thinking and compassion instead of Tier 1 is based on fear.

    Ken Wilber also uses this model to describe its model of holistic thinking in his AQUAL model. I, WE, IT, ITS -and compares Beck / Graves 9 spiral levels Enneagram 9 levels of development.

    Overall, everything I've read focused on us to develop ourselves through 9 levels to reach the spirituality whichensures that we achieve unity thinking and balance - and make sure we are in the moment, acting in the momentand making the future possibilities for action in moment v means of targeting and planning.

    And not forgetting the joy of efficiency in getting our highest wish to come true and get done what we should -Swallow the Frog by Brian Tracy gather this up quite well.

    Based on the questions that are asked, this is my reply:

    - Is there an ulterior motive to it from your page?--- Yes it is quite clear. We all talk about stress and how hard it is to get family and professional life back together,and while looks are plenty of statistics about leadership levels of stress, that stress is now an epidemic and thateven very young people coming straight from training, being placed in an unfair stressful situation because weare in business fail to ensure proper coherence between needs, expectations and outcomes at all levels. Theresults are not that we become happier as people, and that we create a world in which your children can beproud of rather the opposite. It seems that it clearly other forces driving the evolution (your evolution) - and seesystems theory is I think we are in chaos which in turn must come order. My ulterior motive is simply to ensure

    that we as individuals find ourselves and strengthens our inner core, making it easier for ourselves (the newleaders) and with others to create the new order - in a way we will all be more happy and satisfied. I focused onyoung people is so with that I believe in you to create a new way must not allow ourselves to prevent the existingsystems and cultures, but be it as in a molecule affects the molecule and get to develop positively. If it then inturn can reduce both sick leave and sick presence - and make us happier as people in a global village, then am Ihappy to have contributed anything to it.

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    - Why is it important to you?--- I have now reached an age (call it wisdom, not age) and has achieved the objects and goals which I set beforeI was 50, and through my own ongoing learning, I would now like to give something of the energy back to the

    community / universe, as it has given me - and this is my passion, which is to grow people - be it as leader,father, grandfather, or citizenship. I have always been and continues to develop business, and it can only bedone in a way - namely through people, but it must be in the right way.

    - Why is it important for young people to participate in this kind?--- As a young man to standing facing a lot of choices and it is important that it not be elected to govern you, butyou govern elections. It is therefore crucial to find himself at an early age, decide where to go and how, and howyou can get it done the right way without destroying too many others (or yourself) on the road. Unfortunately, Ipierced my career nationally and internationally seen too many examples and destinies that suggest theopposite, and sometimes with an output which I am sure that the people did not want - but they did not knowbetter. My background, age and experience and my continuing knowledge collection about the latest discoveriesabout man's continued evolution within the body, mind, emotions and your spirituality that affects yourself, your community and society / universe - gives me a unique opportunity to transfer knowledge to and inspire youngpeople so that their choices and what they create for themselves and others will be as appropriate as possible.

    - Why do you think interest among young people is so great?

    Look at society and feel what you see - are you satisfied? I think that young people want something different,they have seen their parents get divorced, have a chronic psychosomatic illness, dying prematurely, or have no

    joined life - there is another way - and I hope and believe that I can be with a small corner of it as needed to theyoung people can change the development for themselves and for society.

    - Have professionals a duty to do something like what you do here?--- It must of course be up to the individual, but I think it becomes more and more individuals are profits to helpothers and not focus only on its own needs. You can all do something and many already do around the world,the art is to find your talent and then think about it in a larger societal context. There are lots of idealists intoday's society, as if it was only for money had never been elected to the job. But we are all in our own uniqueway - find the talent and use it in the right way and not only for the benefit of shareholders, stock markets etc.

    - Do you see a connection between this and CSR?--Yes I do, but I would like to expand the concept. Corporate Social Responsibility - should be expanded with

    Corporate Human Responsibility, Corporate Planet Responsibility, Corporate Profit Responsibility - and all thingsshould be based on one thing and it's sustainability (sustainability). And as a company in the global village, Ibelieve it is crucial that you make all things equal concern and work in a holistic sense perception, thinking andaction which not only covers CPR - Profit share, which unfortunately is still in most cases stands as the onlydecisive. Fortunately, we are on track, but there is a long way, and I will spend the rest of my life to create further inspiration and commitment around.

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    My intention

    I have always known that there was a new crusade to be on. But I needed to

    decide which one would fulfil the body mind and spirit in others and myself.

    Perhaps this story will be one of the most important stories for others who are

    on a similar crusade as I. These are the people who want to assist in helpingother people to find their true purpose for the benefit of mankind. They want

    to create a way to help all of us have a life filled with happiness, relaxation

    and meaning.

    Others on a similar crusade have become obsolete business models. Their era

    has not brought us fulfilment, freedom, peace harmony or acceptance of

    diversityat best, their era brought about a more stressful life for others.

    And I have to admit I was one of them.

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    I want to explore ways to find the Happiness Angel inside me and help others

    do the same. But, you may ask, What is a Happiness Angel?

    The Happiness Angel

    I Sense that each and one of us have the ability to make a uniquedifference in today's troubled world, and by making that difference

    you can help yourself as well as others to create more happiness.

    I envisage you raising your sights above your own ego, so that everything you do is for the best for yourself, your relations and ultimately all of us.

    I envisage that you are able to find your true purpose and by doing sohelp other find theirs too, just by being yourself. To make this

    possible I believe you have to give without expectations, to lovewithout conditions, and to honour every human being and everything in the world and the universe at its own right.

    I feel we all have to become more spiritual purpose- and valueoriented and work for the higher good.

    I know that each one of us, have to take our own untraveled road to find ourselves through good and bad times both equally important, from unconscious egos to conscious wholeness and to travel the spiral of evolution from the level of fear to the level of compassion.

    I envisage the results are that each one of us in work and life, takeour responsibility for the world in which we operate and from whichwe create our wealth and happiness.

    I see myself becoming one of those happiness angels in my ownunique way, that contribute for the sustainability of Our Purpose,

    Planet, People and Profit in that priority. Jan B. Frederiksen

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    Im sure you, as the reader, have a lot of questions. Let me begin to answer

    them by telling you a little about myself and how I have come to be where I

    am now.

    My History in Brief

    I am a 55-year-old man, husband and father from Denmark who has learned

    to be proud of my heritage and the small country I call home. People from the

    cold, northern part of Europe can influence the world in ways both good and

    bad. I come from a hard-working family. My father died when I was fourat

    least thats what I was told. He was a forest-worker in Sweden, and as I got

    older, my mother looked at me and said I looked more and more like my

    father. But she didnt tell me I was a love-child, a fact that would have spared

    me a lot of pain and suffering. My mother was a strong woman with good

    values who always took care of me.

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    I had a school teacher that became a father-figure to me. I finished school at

    age 16 and had no other opportunity available to me other than entering the

    workforceso thats what I did. It was not until much later in life that I

    began to really learn and study.

    I met my first wife at the age of 16 and had two sons by the time I was 24-

    years-old. We divorced later because I spent too much time building my first

    company of Information Technology consultants. By the time I was 36, I was

    remarried with two more sons.

    I have always tried to live my life in the order of these standards: Be happy,

    have fun, make a difference, be profitable. But somehow these standards

    started to turn upside down, until profitability was my only focus and inner

    happiness moved to the back burner. I still lived a good life and worked hard.

    There was love, happiness, and materialism. Then, in 2002, it all crashed, and

    I became very depressed.

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    I have been a leader for many years in different companies. My most recent

    position was as a global partner and consultant in Deloitte. I worked with

    national and international companies. From time to time, I felt ill-at-ease in

    many of the situations I found myself. I was often uncertain of whether or not

    I was in the right place at the right time. In most cases, I learned to accept

    things as they were. But other times, I could not accept them. I sometimes

    tried different routessome where successful and others werentand I

    learned from these experiences.

    One of these different routes took place in 2002 after a toughand fun

    period of time when I worked for one of five large international management

    consulting businesses. There were lots of downs and only a few ups.

    As a result, I broke off and began my own company that would train other

    leaders to use the seven habits described in Steven R. Coveys book The

    Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. I brought the franchise to the

    Nordic marketbut I soon felt restricted by the concept. Then everything

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    crashed again, and events in my own life forced me to look deep into myself.

    I practically had to re-invent myself and my roles as a father, husband and

    business man. It took the help of doctors, psychologists, spiritual guides,

    hypnosis guides, chiropractors, body therapists, old friends and others. It was

    a trying period for my wife and sons and I thank them a lot for their patience.

    As the saying goes, If you want to change the world, start with yourself.

    And thats what I did. And now I feel more at ease and more alive than I ever

    have before. I can actually feel the energy level in my body for the first time

    in 20 years.

    After 5 years of learning and reading, a lot of pain and suffering as that is the

    messages from the soul, I know I am ready for a big jumpand a new

    missionthe mission of nowa result of my inner wake up call.

    I have worked in many different settings with different angles. Just recently

    an epiphany came to me based on an inspirational article from Danah Zohar.

    I realized we all should aim for a new role model in the world, one that is

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    similar to the old world with all the glamour that came with it. In other

    words, we should all aim to be Happiness Angels. In my world of words, this

    is the best metaphor to express a win-win mindset and synergistic thinking

    and doing.

    I am ready for the power of now; are you?

    How to find and become a Happiness Angel

    The Happiness Angel concept is a new way for me to give back all of the

    good things I have received from others in my life. I have been privileged

    enough to get what I ask for, even though it was hard at times. I believe that

    you can achieve what you want. I also believe if you dont die you will be

    strengthenedaccording to evolutionary theory. As Monty Python would

    say, Life is a bitch and then you die.

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    I believe I am on a new crusade, and I want to invite others to join me. We

    can allow our ambitions to come from within, leave our egos at the door and

    set out to conquer the world as a part of the new global world of Happiness

    Angels. I urge you to join us in creating a movement of networks and

    organizations that will find, train, measure and celebrate these Happiness

    Angels as a method of achieving a new life and work environment that

    focuses on sustaining ourselves, others as well as our world.

    I encourage you to accept this invitation to participate in the first inspirational

    workshop where we will works to establish a Global Impact Day that will

    take place each year. This is a day where everyone will serve as a happiness

    angel in the area of their choice and help us all to create a better world both

    for businesses and communities.

    Jan B Frederiksen

    I am the one who always has gone up on the barricades, fought for my team and fought for myself. Andsometimes I've had with heart - therefore Teddy bear. Other times I just pulled people down. It seems you alsohave to get some knowledge about: Who are you that type? Has anything been consulted about theEnneagram? .... (Jan tells what the Enneagram is). And I have found out that I have an 8's. And 8s have someweaknesses - namely, that sometimes you so busy with tons Derudaf so you pass everything else. I have thenfound out later in life, it was perhaps not so appropriate. But sometimes you only find out, when you are made

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    aware of it. So is the first step in your process that I just found out: Who am I and type? And how is it I must beobs? I said from the outset here that it had something to do with consciousness. Consciousness is a pretty gooditem to start doing something about. If you are constantly running on the unconscious and think: I can not bechanged or who am I? So is there really something. Awareness component is an extremely important part of ithere.

    (Jan tells more about her career life: Consultant throughout his life - IT, strategy, people, leaving Deloitte, a localshipping company, Business Development, business development, international + national leadership in 25years. Deloitte in 4 years.)

    It was f ... fun but also hard. So if you want it, you just know what you're getting into. And so it is with everything.Sometimes it takes you some choices and then you find out - unfortunately too late sometimes - what theconsequences are. So it is with every election. You may not always know in advance what you enter in.Sometimes you just take it step - have the courage to do it and then see what happens. Not? Come on. It is notharder than that you can always come back. Or is it? .... Do you want to resign, if you first come up? ... So whatis it you have to do? You have to be sure that you have alone with the whole way. You have to be sure that youdare to go the whole hog. I have also been trained to take your first step A, then you also take the step B. Andunfortunately there are some people where it goes really wrong for them. It is obviously true regret and feel sorryfor them. Luckily I have not been there. But I've also been in stressful situations, I've also been in depressivesituations, so I've been all along. And that is what I hope.

    My motto is about being happy, having fun, making a difference, be profitable in several dimensions, not just thebusiness part of it. And be myself. And unfortunately, I must say I was in a moment and be very focused on thehere and unfortunately missed some of the other things. It creates a depression. Because when you find out thatyou actually sit the wrong place and doing the wrong things. Then you have to find out what you can do to makeit better. And life is not always just a road. Sometimes there is such a bib number into the middle, which just tellsone: Hey, there was something here you lost en route. Or: How do you regain it again now. And there's aChinese proverb that says if you are busy and very busy all the time, so it may well be that you just must stop toget to the soul. I must admit. I'd forgotten at least for a time in my life. I hope that this is some of what you'll learnhere: Oops, stop straight up and then see what happens.

    I bring wisdom, inspiration, fun and joy with this workshop. The reason for my writing this is that it's not enoughto get. It is also important to give. So - just a little when you multiply your team, so I come to tell you a little aboutwhat you bring to this workshop. It is not just a question and give from me. It is also a question of giving thegroup ....

    Jan "s mission, values and objectives - updated in La Gomera 07-April 2008.

    Life Purpose:

    Create happiness and consciousness in the world through Love, Courage, Being, Inspiring --Healing between people (Love)Be a role model (Courage)Show the Way (Being)

    Grow people (INSPIRE)

    Values:

    Be happy by having fun and love and be profitable in Life through:Emotions (Love and Compassion), Spirit (abundance, honesty and vulnerable), Contribution (giving), Money(active and passive income) and Being true to myself (curious, open-minded).

    Objectives:

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    IQ: Personal development / training awareness week

    SQ: Ro / balance using the meditation (confidence), unconditional giving (joy), Bevidshedsudv. (Love)

    PQ: economic independence and freedom, Great health / vitality (Feel healthy every day)

    EQ: Fun to / from all (be a gift), Respect for the individual (openness), Life Partner (love)

    Goals:

    1. Write bestselling book of business and people (get ready to live the life you want two live)

    2. Happiness Academy (HQ Center) established and successfulA. HA in AfricaB. "D-Inside / Out and Get More Success in Work and Life" Student training - how to become a peak performer happy - dailyC.Establishment Phase - Engage others, lectures, sponsors,Profiling Phase --Growth Phase - grow in other countries using the Angels / Knights, GNP, etc.

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    Chapter 1

    HOW ARE YOU GOING TO DO THIS?

    Aspire to inspire before you expire

    Ref. to Bruce Liptons perceptions model,1. instinct, 2. subconscious, 3. conscious.

    To change the world we live in we have to change our behaviour

    Any behaviour is possible to change you just have to change your biology (subconscious mind) by changing your perceptions/beliefs

    Bruce LiptonIts of outmost importance to understand that our biology works from only two major things love or fear first one is what we are attracted to second what we protect ourselves from.

    Fear makes us fight or flight which build stress hormones in the body; moves blood from forebrainand other vital parts to arms and legs which gives unintelligent readiness for what we need to do.

    Love makes us open for everything and keeps the forebrain and other vital organs filled with blood

    which creates intelligent behaviour for what we need to do.Fear is not something we should work from constantly, as it was only meant to be in place for when thetiger or lion arrives when hunting, however todays society brings most of us there everyday 7/24/365 due to our perceptions of life and work situations. That means that most of us are in a constantunintelligent subconscious situation , working from our habitual and biological inheritance weare unconscious incompetent.

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    However change dont come easy and many that have tried to change habits know how hard it can be

    until you got it. Let me share a secret with you, the only thing you need iscourage to do what you need to do, then the rest comes by itself to

    really change start moving into another environment i.e. that is if you are adrug addict any great effort you do demands so much more of you in the same environment somove.

    Change can only happen when we are in conscious mind but we cannot function there all the time so the point is tobring forward, what needs changing to the conscious mindand reprogram your perception of it and then ritualize it,so that our subconscious mind can take over again. Andby doing that we can become unconscious competent.

    Happiness and peace academy guides you in this to bringit forward to your conscious mind, help you to ritualize it,and then just wait to see the consequence of it happen

    supporting you when impatience sets in.

    And to day its all about Happiness why?

    Happiness is for me a question of consciously knowing,feeling, and experiencing happiness within yourself andwith others. If its not conscious what happens to you thenyou cannot learn from it if you cannot learn from it, itdoes not grow you and others around you and whetheryou like it or not thats exactly why you are here tomake sure that evolution is happening.

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    Happiness is not always about being joyful, laughing etc.

    its the inner feeling in your heart and rest of your bodythat makes you want to forgive, give without expectations,love without conditions, fill yourself up, do not condemn,be nice to everyone and in all connections to yourself andothers.

    Too much? Maybe, but trying doesnt hurt , and you just

    wait and see what will happen in you.

    Neale Walsch ref.

    Be a gift to everyone you meet and allow them to be a giftto you. (How can I do that? Easy just start smiling andsay hallo to everyone you meet (nothing is coincidence) and everyone you meet 2-3 times is part of your life, sostart knowing them)

    My mission:(So, how am I going to do that well first of all I can donothing alone so I need all your help to make this

    happen.

    My plan is together with interested global and localpartners, and all the rest of you that want to be part of this, to create Happiness and peace Academies all over the

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    world where everyone have a chance to find themselvesand their true purpose through training and sharing and

    paying it forward and the first 100 students are alreadytrained in Denmark.

    Payments for the training/coaching and guidance will beon the basis of perceived value and that you pay what youcan, when you can but always continue to pay thewisdom learned forward to other fellow beings.

    The overall policy for all the Happiness and peace academies will bebased on a sharing non-profit model whether it comes from donationsor valued pricing.

    Our goals are

    A new Happiness and peace academy in each region of the world everyyear, with use of local partners and abundance principles of sharing,based on co-creation, love and compassion for each other and our planet.

    Everyone is welcome, but the focus of our training,coaching and guidance will be on our children and youngpeople from age 4-30 no matter race, gender, situation,religion, poor or rich etc

    (yes I am sorry but too many adults are not to save untiltheir crises hit them which creates consciousness to somebut not all)

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    the age 4-30 are the ones that have the vested interest

    and are our new leaders in this world and the ones thatcan find the consciousness they came in to this life withquickly as they are not too distorted without having togo through all lifes crises before realizing what is neededto do.

    Others have written so fantastic about this before, so

    Reawaken your curiosity

    "What a distressing contrast there is between the radiant intelligence of the child andthe feeble mentality of the average adult."

    -- Sigmund Freud

    Why is this so?

    Young children possess what Zen calls beginners mind. They are awed and fascinated with thewonder of the world, open to discovering and experiencing new things. Anything is possible. Life is a

    great adventure.

    For almost all of us, the systems that educate us to be adults stifle our natural joy and curiosity. Welose touch with our innate appreciation of life. We forget how to dream.

    The blessing is that with attention, patience and love, we can reawaken our sense of wonder. We canagain dance with life.

    "The mind WILL be free, or it will be dead."-- Grace Llewellyn

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    We guide you from where you are to who youare.

    The basis of the training is to help you see yourself from a position of fear and ego guide you to become your true self and be ready to travelthe below mentioned road for a Happiness Angel.

    I Sense that each and one of us have the ability to make a uniquedifference in today's troubled world, and by making that difference

    you can help yourself as well as others to create more happiness. I envisage you raising your sights above your own ego, so that

    everything you do is for the best for yourself, your relations and ultimately all of us.

    I envisage that you are able to find your true purpose and by doing sohelp other find theirs too, just by being yourself. To make this

    possible I believe you have to give without expectations, to lovewithout conditions, and to honour every human being and everything in the world and the universe at its own right.

    I feel we all have to become more spiritual purpose- and valueoriented and work for the higher good.

    I know that each one of us, have to take our own untraveled road to find ourselves through good and bad times both equally important, from unconscious egos to conscious wholeness and to travel the spiral of evolution from the level of fear to the level of compassion.

    I envisage the results are that each one of us in work and life, takeour responsibility for the world in which we operate and from which

    we create our wealth and happiness. I see myself becoming one of those happiness angels in my ownunique way, that contribute for the sustainability of Our Purpose,

    Planet, People and Profit in that priority. Jan B. Frederiksen

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    Connecting the dots/Overall Purpose of Happiness and Peace Academy

    P TS

    Wholeness

    Just recently I listened to Andrew Cohen and Barbra Max-Hubbardabout Higher we and it just inspired me to be hitting the ground andstart doing what I have been thinking about for many years but reallyseriously almost 24 months now to inspire all of us to create ahappiness planet or planet of happiness. So as Andrew Cohen and

    Barbra Max Hubbard was discussing where and who would take lead onmaking communities related to the conscious evolution happen. WellHappiness and Peace Academy is but one way to EXECUTE.

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    Things will happen to you, whether you like it or not thequestion is whether you want to be in control of it or not

    in this lays your perception of things.

    OK, great but what does it give me- you might ask!

    Shortest answer Happiness from the insidein everything you do gives you everything youneed, as long as you can accept that enough isenough.

    The training itself gives you insight into yourself and tools to make sureyou are able to handle the change process in exactly the time you need todo that.

    We are using an overall process model which we call Quantum LeapHappiness Cycle which in it self gives nothing unless you put a lot of meat on it but when you do that and really work with yourself based

    on the different tools we introduce to you in the processes and modules you will be able to move to where you belong.

    Some of the grounding spiritual principles and understandingunderlying this process I have borrowed with thanks from other great

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    authors like Bill Harris, Deepak Chopra, Ken Wilber, Don Beck,Marianne Williamson and others:

    Letting whatever happens be okay The amount you suffer in life isdirectly related to how much you are resisting the fact that things arethe way they are.

    Threshold You have a personal threshold for what you can handlecoming at you from your environment, based on your personal mapof reality. All dysfunctional feelings and behaviours are really coping

    methods we use in an attempt to deal with being pushed over thisthreshold.

    Chaos and Reorganization Chaos is an essential part of the growth process, and should be welcomed rather than resisted. It representsthe death of the old and birth of the new.

    The Map is Not the Territory There is a tendency to protect our old map of reality when we go into the initial chaos stage of growth,because we mistakenly think we are the map.

    Responsibility as Empowerment You are responsible for every feeling or behaviour you have. You have either consciously chosen it,or you are unconsciously responding based on old, unconscious

    mental programming you did not choose.

    Conscious Change It is not possible to continue a feeling,behaviour, or way of being that does not serve you, or in some way is

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    not resourceful for you, and also do so consciously. Becomeconscious and what does not serve you falls away.

    Witnessing The ability to step aside and watch yourself as you feel and act is an acquired skill that takes time and practice to develop.

    But doing so will profoundly change your life. This skill is theantidote to resistance, which means it is your primary tool to end

    suffering in your life.

    Good and bad Generalizations Since whatever you believe and focus on comes true in reality, you can create whatever life and whatever reality you want once you learn to consciously choose what to focus on.

    Neutral Universe Everything in the universe is neutral. The wordsof Hamlet are true: There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

    Our Ego will fight this anytime and that is exactly our biggest battle and where our consciousness in action is the silver bullit so the best isactually to leave your EGO outside your door before entering into thisJourney (easier said than done I know but try anyway physically likeleaving a shadow or dog outside, when you enter a room or even put upa sign saying

    My EGO, dogs or my shadows stayoutside Here MY SOUL is in action

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    CONSCIOUSNESS in ACTION The GOALfor you .

    INTRODUCING THE PENTAGRAM Reach the STARS

    Find your specific and unique balance between the dots in the star.

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    The

    Your individual balance between these starpoints is the key to higher consciousness and spiritual connection to the higher self.

    The Pentagram and the meaning of it in this setting. 5 edges star with 4

    elements and Happiness Inner Feelings and Spirit on the top.

    I, Sky = Self, inner knowledge and wisdom from ages, always thereunderlying everything that is, unconsciously or consciously

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    Fire = Relations, Spring, Youth, Emotional intelligence, Hearths of theCards

    Air = Learning, Summer, Mental intelligence, Clubs of the cards.

    Water = Action, Autumn, Executing with Physical and Spirituelintelligence, Diamonds in the card deck

    Earth = Wisdom, Winter, Carying the Spiritual intelligence, Spades inthe Card deck

    A nd the below cycle might help bring you there but your believe inyour self is the main factor

    Quantum Leap Happiness Cycle:

    The Modules in the process are:

    1. Discover Find your truth /Who am I? 2. Dream/Design Whats my purpose/Where do I want to go/ and

    with whom? 3. Deliver Execute/How do I get there, and how do I want to

    behave on the way? 4. Learn/re-learn Reflective thinking

    Each Module will also be the following chapters of this book.

    Below you find a short description on the content of the single modules:

    Discover the Truth - Who and where areYou in your life?

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    Understand your expectations, needs/preferences and personalrelations needs for IQ, PQ, EQ, SQ?

    Measure how you fullfill these, and understand the result-gaps?

    Understand your behavior, views, habits, blockings on consciousand unconscious levels?

    Understand your current mission/vision/values, and the currentstrategies.

    Which personal motivations /beliefs/paradigms drive you today? Whats productive and counter productive for your happiness?

    Dream/Design the Purpose/objective - Where do You want togo/ and with whom? Based on your self awareness, needs/preferences, competence, will,

    motivations and paradigms, allow yourself to dream/visualize yourtrue north.

    Set your mission/values and objectives. Explore the potentialstrategies to get there.

    Define your measures on progress and desired results? You can dowhat you want, as long as you are also ready for the consequences.

    Understand your underlying motivations and need of behaviourchanges to achieve your purpose and goals review your values,and understand the consequences.

    Look for your potential relationships and understand how you cansupport and be supported (win/win)?

    Define your journey and goals in detail, however understand thedifferent routes of the uncons/cons rules that work in open humanadaptive systems.

    Understand how to handle flaws in your action as they occur, andlearn to accept both success and failure as learnings on the

    journey.

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    Deliver the Action with focus - How do You get there? Based on your priorities and goals lets explore how to stay focused

    and execute every day. Understand the conflicts with importanceand urgency.

    Understand the power of relations if you nurture them.Understand their needs, and how you can be fullfilling to others.Measure how you fullfill these, and understand the desired result-gaps?

    Plan your own destiny, be focused on the important, and plan andfollow through each week. Accept changes as long as they get youin the right direction, thats part of life.

    Create new habits in body, soul, mind, heart that takes you tothe sweet spot of energy-levels. Blockings on conscious andunconscious levels is mostly derived from our own lack of acceptance!

    Learn to follow the flow in your body and learn what to do instressful situations, before you hit the wall. Create your personalservice book just like in your car.

    Understand your role in the whole game, know who to know,follow also possibilities that comes to you they have a role inyour path. Follow your own intuition train it, love it.

    Use tools for planning and execution whenever you can, they helpyou stay focused on the now.

    Create your life roadmap The life sheet

    Learn from experience Reflective thinking and spiritualconsciousness/awareness training

    Dialogs on open adaptive systems Moral and ethics in life and business Find your daily rhytm and balance your starpoints Prayer and meditation in your unique form

    The grounding principles of the CYCLE are:

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    HER ER NOGET SOM MEST AF ALT ER KRNEINDHOLDET I

    MODELLER OG MODULER SOM INTRODUKTION

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    A Preparation for the big splash

    This is the process handbook for students and other great people that want to create a life withconsciousness and happiness in whatever they choose to do in work, life and service.