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 National Police Domestic Abuse Foundation 1629 K Street Suite 300  Washington DC 20006 1-800-723-2829 www.npdaf.org National Police Domestic  Abuse Foundati on NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF  DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ON CHILDREN When children are exposed to domestic violence,  parents are not prepared to meet the psy chological needs of their children as a result of dealing with the trauma, fear and stress the  parent is dealing with.  Domestic violence is traumatic and has a significant impact on our children and the victim.  STOP THE VIOLENCE! The Silent Victims of Domestic Abuse “Our Children”   Research has shown that the younger the child; the more  pervasive the damages on the child’s development will be. Get help now! To prevent damaging effects to children.  It is vital to treat children who are exposed to domestic violence or abuse as secondary or primary victims; or both.   After a relationship ends, many batterers attempt to establish that they are competent and caring parents and that their ex-partners are not. We observe that  parenting can become an arena through wh ich the batterer attempts to prove to friends and relatives that he was the more psychologically healthy member of the couple, striving thereby to discredit his ex- partner's reports that he was abusive. We have had numerous clients over the years make statements to us to the effect of, "You'll see what happens now that we've broken up, her life is going to fall apart, because I am the one who has been holding her together." One way a batterer can attempt to make this prediction come true is by creating as many difficulties as possible in the  parenting life of his ex-  partner” (Bancroft &  Silverman 2002).  What is Domestic Violence?  According to the USDOJ Office on violence against women “Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone” (USDOJ OVW 2009).  Visitation and custody with the b atterer complicates matters . FRAGILE HANDLE WITH CARE Victoria Hargan  MA Foren sic Psycho logy Executive Director Specializing in Forensic Traumatology

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National Police Domestic Abuse

Foundation

1629 K Street Suite 300

 Washington DC 20006

1-800-723-2829

www.npdaf.org

National Police Domestic

 Abuse Foundation

NEGATIVE EFFECTS

OF 

 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 

ON 

CHILDREN 

When children are exposed 

to domestic violence,

 parents are not prepared to

meet the psychological 

needs of their children as a

result of dealing with the

trauma, fear and stress the

 parent is dealing with.

 Domestic violence is

traumatic and has a

significant impact on

our children and the

victim.

 STOP THE VIOLENCE!

The Silent Victims

of Domestic Abuse

“Our Children”  

 Research has shown

that the younger the

child; the more

 pervasive the damageson the child’s

development will be. Get 

help now! To prevent 

damaging effects to

children.

 It is vital to treat children

who are exposed to

domestic violence or abuse

as secondary or primary

victims; or both.

“  After a relationship ends, many batterers attempt to

establish that they are competent and caring parents

and that their ex-partners are not. We observe that 

 parenting can become an arena through which the

batterer attempts to prove to friends and relativesthat he was the more psychologically healthy

member of the couple, striving thereby to discredit 

his ex- partner's reports that he was abusive. We

have had numerous clients over the years make

statements to us to the effect of, "You'll see what 

happens now that we've broken up, her life is going 

to fall apart, because I am the one who has been

holding her together." One way a batterer can

attempt to make this prediction come true is by

creating as many difficulties as possible in the

 parenting life of his ex- partner” (Bancroft &

 Silverman 2002).

 What is Domestic Violence?

 According to the USDOJ Office on violence

against women “Domestic violence can be

defined as a pattern of abusive behavior in any

relationship that is used by one partner to gainor maintain power and control over another

intimate partner. Domestic violence can be

physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or

psychological actions or threats of actions that

influence another person. This includes any

behaviors that intimidate, manipulate,

humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce,

threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound

someone” (USDOJ OVW 2009).

 Visitation and custody with the batterer

complicates matters.

FRAGILE HANDLE WITH CARE 

Victoria Hargan

 MA Forensic Psychology

Executive Director 

Specializing in Forensic

Traumatology

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