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The Insider files PUA Guide to Hired Guns How to become an Insider with waitresses, bartenders, and bouncers By Superfrk

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The Ins ider f i les

P U A G u id e t o H i r ed Gu ns

How to become an Insider with waitresses,

bartenders, and bouncers

By

S u pe r f r k

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Copyright 2006 by Superfrk

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or

transmitted in any form or by any means without permission by the

author.

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Table of Contents

Introduction.................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................1 So What the Fuck is a hired Gun Anyways 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Become an Insider....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................5 Bouncers and the Red Rope...........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................9 Bartenders, waitress, ect... Now for the babes.................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................13 The Chapter to rule them all The after location..................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................17 Working the 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Drugs and club 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I n t r o d u c t i o n

Ok so everyone as of late has been making a big issue

of hired guns as mentioned in the book The Game, and from

Mystery Methods newest work shop. Well while I respect their

knowledge and methods I really do not understand what the

big mystery is. While the term may be somewhat new the ideal

is old school. Drug dealers know about it, the hardcore party

goers have known about it, bartenders, waitresses, strippers,

and restaurant managers know it and, even undercover cops

know about it. Very soon you will also know the secrets to

being an Insider. The reason I call it being an insider is be-

cause they are actually your ins, they are the gate keepers.

They hold the key to a new and exciting world of pick ups and

of social dynamics. So enough of this literary foreplay lets get

down to business and give you what you paid for.

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S o W h a t t h e F u c k i s a h i r e d G u n

A n y w a y s

Hired Guns by definition (according to Mystery) are Ex-

otic dancers, hostess, bartenders, waitress, etc. Women hired

by the managers for looks. Now for my definition of what I

consider to be a hired gun. A hired gun is anyone that can get

you into the inside click of any club or establishment that you

wish to run game in. This includes Exotic dancers, hostess,

bartenders, waitress, bouncers, managers, owners, and even

friends, boyfriends, girlfriends of someone that works there.

Now let me explain a little why it is not so important that they

are not the hot chicks that work there. It is because each club,

bar, ect... is like a family. They all know each other; they all

deal with the same environment everyday. So they tend to

bond. Plus on the best party nights they have to work so some

of them do not have that active of a social life and even tend to

date hang out with each other outside of work.

If they see you always talking to the bouncer, or the manager,

or even one of their friends then they will be more comfortable

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and open to getting to know you. Your goal should not be to

get in good with just one person, but to get to know as many of

the staff as possible. All you need to do is to get an in. Once

you have that in you are no longer just a face in the crowd you

start to become somebody to the people that work the club.

This will open up a whole new world of possibilities. There are

clubs that I can go to where I never pay a cover, get free

drinks, and because the staff all knows me I get the VIP

treatment from the time I step in the door, this allows me to

have instant social status. Its all about becoming an Insider.

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B e c o m e a n I n s i d e r

To really become an insider does not really take that

much total time, but a lot of it is spaced over a period of

weeks. You can become a regular or insider in as little as 5-8

hours total, but you have to spread that time over many visits

to the club. For example say you visit the club 5 weeks in a

row. Spending an hour spaced out through the night interact-

ing with the staff. By the end of that time you can get a good

foot in the door and become an insider. I will discuss some

quicker and better methods further on in the book

In one night, you can learn enough about the people who

work at a club to start to pass yourself off as an “insider” to

anyone in the club. The key is how to use that information. For

example when you are talking to the bartender bring up a

subject of interest that one of the bouncers or waitresses had

mentioned. For example one of the bouncers at a club in

Tampa, Florida that I used to hang at actually was a part time

ringer for WCW wrestling. Basically one of the locals that go in

and get beat up by the name brand Stars. So while I am

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talking up the bartender I make a point of mentioning it to her.

Now it does not matter if she knew that or not as she will most

likely ask him about it if she did not know anyways. The point

is you are playing it off that you and the bouncer talk a lot. This

makes you an insider and she will now view you as such. I will

go into more details about how and why to open certain people

in the club later on. The main point I am trying to get across is

to make a connection and then use it as a bridge to the other

staff members.

Also anther great trick is to go to a bar or club when it is slow

so that the staff are actually a little bored. Then all you have to

do is open them like any other set. Anything you do be it cocky

and funny, or tell an exciting story, that helps pass their time

and makes their slow night fun will help to get you the in you

are looking for. Now if it is a Friday night and the place is

slamming you have to do something fun and out there to get

there attention in a good way. What I will do is Step out of the

club to get some air and a smoke and chat up the bouncer a

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little. Then I will mention that I am hungry as hell and proceed

to ask what kind of pizza do you like? He will say what or tell

you. Ether way tell him you are ordering some pizza and ask if

he wants some. Order a couple of large pizzas. Here is the

reasoning not many people ever do this and also it is late and

if there is nothing around the club still open, you just got your

opener for the night. Get the pizza offer him a couple of pieces

then find a table, order a drink and start chowing down. You

will be amazed at how many people open you after the smell

of that pizza starts to spread around the club.

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B o u n c e r s a n d t h e R e d R o p e

The rules of the Red Rope are very important as you

have to get in the club before you can get to know the staff.

Make sure you dress like young money, what I mean by that is

to dress as upscale and trendy as possible. Make sure that

anyone rolling with you is also dressed to the part. Remind

them to be on their best behavior because it really sucks to

wait in line then get bounced because one of your group wears

the wrong thing or pisses off the bouncer. One thing you may

want to try if your with a large group is to split up and try

gaming some women as couples tend to get in much faster.

Getting bounced just means you get kicked out of line or you

are not allowed into the club. Red rope bouncers tend to be

just like any normal guy with the exception that they hold the

key to you getting into the club. Never complain in line about

the wait or you will find yourself waiting and never getting in. If

all else fails just walk up to the bouncer calmly and ask about

the wait, put your hand out to shake and slip him some green.

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Make sure you are covert about it and chances are depending

on what you slipped him you will get in pretty quick. As a game

note smile and ask it you can pull a girl in and most cases he

will let you. So just grab that HB and head on in. Make sure

that you do not try to act cooler than the bouncer. Another tip

is to make sure that you are in the proper line some clubs will

have a VIP line and a regular line. While in line, chat and

mingle with women in line. Don't be sleazy and act like you're

picking them up, just be friendly with them. Your goal: to blend

yourselves in with the hot girls in line so that you get in as a

unit.

Now Bouncers and doormen will usually take a little bit of

time to warm up to you. If they see you come around

often and you do not cause them any issues they will

start to warm up to you. One important thing is to try and

get them on the subject of what they do other than

bouncing. Some are going to school, musicians, wanabe

actors, or they just work there for the pussy. Take some

time to find out who they are as a person. For some

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bouncers standing outside the door starts to really suck

as the night progresses so got out for air or a smoke and

just chat them up. This will help break up their night.

Just remember to stay on their good side and in no time

flat they will be happy to see you walking up to the door.

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B a r t e n d e r s , w a i t r e s s , e c t . . . N o w f o r t h e

b a b e s

Ok, ok, I get it you want to know how to game the girls

that work in the club. First of all they are still girls so it is not

really as hard as everyone makes it out to be. In some ways it

is even easier as there are fewer steps. Lets look at gaming a

regular girl first so that you can appreciate the main differ-

ences. When gaming a regular girl it would go something like

this. First you will open her this should be done in the first 3 –

30 seconds. Then you must get her attracted with in the first 3

mins. After that you will go into building on attraction or into

the next phase which is comfort building. After that you would

then seduce her. Now with hired guns it takes more time as

they are working, they have to be making money and taking

care of their customers. Also since they are already there to

work and are in the service industry there is no need to open

them at all. In fact guys with good and bad game have been

doing this all night long. So someone that takes a little bit of a

different path will be remembered. So you want to start to

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build attraction with her. The bad thing is she does not have

the time to sit with you while you do this so you will need to run

more of a faster paced game on her and spread it out over the

night or even many nights. One of the best methods for this is

cocky/funny that David Deangelo teaches. If you have not

seen his books or do not know some of his methods I would

highly recommend them for dealing with hired guns hired guns.

Now while you are doing this here are the basics you want to

speak clearly to her while delivering your lines and you want to

also never wait for her to reply, this looks needy. Just go back

to your conversation. This works great when she brings the

drinks to you pop off a cocky/funny comment then go back to

your conversation. The reason is you have not paid her yet so

she has to stand there for your attention because she needs to

be paid. So start back into your conversation then if she has

not said anything yet as this should be done kind of on the

quick, turn back and say you still here. Her: yea I need paid for

the drink, Oh yea ect.. then use this for anther cocky/funny

comment. Then back to your buddies. She will start to warm

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up to you as the night goes on and more importantly she will

remember you. Another thing to do is go when the club or bar

is slow. This will give you more of a chance to build some

comfort with her. Just make sure to never get sexual or to be

pushy or needy with them and they will grow to love seeing

you show up at the bar and yes you will be able to take them

home. The best way to do that though is to invite them to a

place outside of the bar or club. Now this should be a public

place where you can build comfort with them. In the next

chapter I will explain places to take them after they get off, or

even to meet them in the first place. This way you will have an

in to the club before you even step in the door.

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T h e C h a p t e r t o r u l e t h e m a l l T h e a f t e r

l o c a t i o n

Find the After Hours Location

One good way to further endear your self to hired guns is to

find the After Club hang out. I discovered this little gem in my

days as a drug dealer.

Invariably, once 2:30 rolled around and the club was

closing, the girls would be ready to leave. This means they are

ready to get the hell out of the bar and club and either go

home or they are not ready for that and are looking to hang out

or to go party. Now this is true of strippers, party girls, and yes

hired guns of all types. This is the best location for meeting

and seducing these girls. They are no longer working they are

in fun mode. So know we just need to find where the girls will

be going. You can do this once you get in good with the

bouncer or bartender.

Just ask if there is a 24 hour restaurant or another place

to party that stays open late. If for some reason you have not

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hit it off with them yet usually most towns have a 24 hour place

or a couple of BYOB after hours clubs. Just ask around and try

going to these places. Make sure you game up the staff at

these places too. Remember the more in people you know the

better the information you have will be. If it is a 24/7 town like

L.A. , New York, Or Vagas then your best bet is always a close

by restaurant, bar, or casino. Now these girls are looking for

food, fun, booze, or drugs after a long night at work. The main

thing to keep in mind is that they no longer are working though

they are now able to be gamed just like any other HB. One

note of advice those is at a BYOB it is ok to offer the girls a

drink. Some of them have been working so of them have been

working or out parting and did not get a chance to pick some-

thing up on the way. Some of the girls will have there boy-

friends with them so use your best judgment when

approaching them. Some of the guys that will be with the girls

at the food places will just be customers that the girl took with

them to get a free meal. So usually you can still get in good

with her and leave with her # or even better with her in tow.

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Now I hope you can see the value in this as the girl is seeing

you out side the club setting and you are now not just a cus-

tomer but a living breathing man. If you get in good with the

girl at the after location her whole social circle at the club or

bar will open up to you.

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W o r k i n g t h e C l u b s

The best method I’ve found to become an insider has to

be either working at a club, or being close friends with some-

one who works at a club.

Well, when you work a club or you’re friends with someone

who works there, that INSTANTLY separates you from the

customers. You have a reason to be there other than being a

lonely, horny loser who likes to ogle the girls and get drunk.

You’ve got a job to do.

I’ve also talked about how women at clubs have very little

social life outside the club. When you work at the club, you

become part of the small social life they DO have. This gives

you many opportunities that the average chump going into a

club doesn’t have, and makes picking them up much easier.

That being said, working at a club is not exactly the most

desirable profession one could want.

Sure, it can be fun and exciting at first. But it soon turns into a

job. You show up at the club early and have to help clean it up.

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You have to deal with all the problems the girls bring with them

to the club and all the petty drama there is. You have to handle

rude and sometimes violent customers. You have to deal with

drugs anddrunks, and sometimes the authorities. You have to

put up with crooked management sometimes. You have to

break up fights, either between the staff or the customers. You

have to work late into the night and suffer from a great deal of

the social shortcomings most of the club workers do. You also

don’t make very much money unless you’re working at a really

large and popular club or you are bartending.

But in exchange for all that, you get laid.

So you have to weigh the pros and cons of working at a club

and decide if that’s something you really want to do. clubs are

one of the few workplaces where you don’t have to worry

about “sexual harassment” or any other crap like that. But what

you have to deal with sometimes can be much worse.

There are different types of jobs you can get at clubs. There

are jobs in management, in being a bouncer or a doorman, or

in being a DJ or even tending the bar.

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Getting a job as a manager in a club can be tough if you don’t

have experience. Also, depending on the club, you have to

deal with various degrees of unsavory elements, like bad

employees, crazy customers, drug dealers, organized crime,

the authorities, and all sorts of other headaches. That being

said, management definitely gets the most out of the girl in

terms of sexual escapades, because every girl is looking to get

favors from the boss.

Being a bouncer or a doorman is not a very rewarding job

either. Though you don’t have the same kind of burdens

management does, you still have to deal with a lot of the same

problems. The pay isn’t all that great either. Sure, you can

make a living doing it, but depending on the club, it might not

be a very good one. So if you get a job in a big club in Las

Vegas, it’s possible to make some good money, especially if

you help hook-up customers and accept tips from them. If

you’re going to college or just out of high school, this might be

a good job to start out

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Just be sure you know how to defend yourself and that you

can take a punch, because at some point you will have to get

rough with someone (that is part of your job, after all).

Being a DJ in a club is probably the best way for an average

guy to get involved in the scene. It takes very little skill to

perform the duties of a DJ in a club. The schedule is really

flexible, and the perks can be amazing, because EVERYONE

wants to be the DJ’s friend. You also meet a lot of customers

who are big businessmen around town, and can make a lot of

hook-ups for special treatment at their businesses.

And the thing about being a DJ is that it doesn’t require any

prior experience. You just show up and say “I’m a DJ!” and

BOOM, there you are. And since all the clubs have their own

equipment, you don’t have to spend any money buying DJ

gear. Occasionally you might want to have a laptop with a

couple thousand MP3s on it that you can plug into the system

at the club and run your own selections, but for the most part

this isn’t necessary.

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Now I am not going to go into bartending too much as there

are schools and plenty of books on the subject and these jobs

are not usually as easy to come by as being a bouncer or a

DJ.

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D r u g s a n d c l u b g i r l s

The topic of drugs and clubs almost go hand-in-hand,

So this is a subject that must unfortunately be covered.

There are a lot of guys out there who think that enticing

club girls with drugs will help them to pull the girls from the

clubs. I wish I could say this wasn’t true, but it is. Of course,

this depends on the type of girl, but it can work. I, however, do

not recommend this approach. I will admit I tried using this

approach in the past, which is why I can recommend not doing

it. When you tempt a woman with drugs, you’re going to get a

drug addict. .

You’re never going to know if the woman is with you

because she likes you or because she likes the drugs, and not

only that, but girls who are heavy drug users also tend to be

prone to more sexually transmitted diseases, so you’re putting

yourself at risk. And most of all, you’re contributing to the

destruction of another human being through substance abuse,

which I personally don’t find cool.

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Cocaine and Meth are the club girls drugs of choice. I

learned this when I tried to tempt a club waitress I was at-

tracted to into coming back to my place after the club by telling

her that I had some weed. She looked at me as if I had ran

over her pet dog. She said “Oh my god , I don’t smoke pot.”

Feeling like an ass and like I was about to get lectured on why

I shouldn’t be doing drugs, the girl suddenly pipes up “I only do

cocaine.”

At first I thought she was joking, but she wasn’t. Many

club girls I know do cocaine. It’s the “party drug” that is most

prevalent in clubs. There’s also a great deal of ecstasy that

works its way through clubs, and pot is pretty common too. To

a certain degree, there are some girls who are involved with

heroine and crack too, though it’s not usually done in the club.

When I was working at strip clubs, I’d often see drug

dealers who would come in and hang out, offering to hook the

girls up in exchange for coming home with them. A lot of these

drug dealers would eventually recruit the girls and pimp them

out outside the club. You also have to take into account police

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involvement when dealing with drugs. Too often, there are

undercover cops who hang out in clubs to try and observe

illegal activity. They have also been known to stake out the

parking lots of clubs as well and follow suspected offenders to

their home in order to make a bust.

Drugs are just too much trouble to really consider using

them as a method of pick-up. They will get you the type of girl

who will cause you trouble in the long run, and possibly attract

attention from unsavory elements in society or the authorities.

At the very least, it may get you banned from the club.

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T h e E n d

Ok look, I could go on forever telling you stories of

things that I have learned in the clubs, But to be honest I want

this book to be a no fluff, no Bullshit guide so that you can get

the fuck out there and start using it. I hope you have enjoyed

this book and found the knowledge contained to be helpful.

Now go out and put it to use and create your own stories.

Superfrk