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PRISONERS OF A VERY PRIVATE WAR Living Domestic Violence

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PRISONERS OF A VERY PRIVATE WAR

Living Domestic Violence

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Domestic Violence Pattern of

multiple coercive behaviors

Used by one person to gain power and control over another in an intimate relationship

May include: • Verbal abuse• Emotional control• Medical neglect• Economic control• Legal intimidation• Psychological

intimidation• Stalking/monitoring/

isolation• Sexual assault• Physical violence *(See “Shades of Gray” handout)

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Domestic Violence is not…

• Resistance Violence

• Pre-emptive Violence

• Situational Violence

• Pathological Violence

• Mutually Toxic

BY DEFINITION, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CANNOT BE MUTUAL!

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“But if my partner hit me, I wouldn’t take it…I’d leave!”

Assumes: Only physical violence is

abuse Lack of connection to the

abuser The victim’s community

supports separation The victim has all

necessary resources for safety/independence

Ignores: Conditioning from non-

physical forms of abuse Social conditioning to “fix”

relationships “Prison guard” vested in

victim’s imprisonment and: Social allies Institutional allies

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ONE IMPORTANT DIFFERENCE

Prisoners of War know the potential risks of

going to war…

Victims of Intimate Partner Violence DO NOT!

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If you put a frog in boiling water, it is

going to jump out…

The Kiss of the Frog Prince

IT WILL BOIL TO DEATH!(No frogs were harmed in the making of this slide.)

If you put the frog in a pot of water, then slowly bring the water up to boil…

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The Abuser is particularly expert at:

1)Ignoring the victim’s personal boundaries

2) Ignoring the victim’s personal feelings

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Calm Phase Tension-Building Phase

Contrition Phase Explosion Phase

Cycle of Violence

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Domestic Violence

Co-occurring Issues

Child Abuse

Mental Illness

Substance Abuse

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Power and Control

Making the break…

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Courts: The Final Barrier,The Ultimate Authority

RIGHT TO

ACCESS

RIGHTTO

PROTECT

VS

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“You Can’t Legislate Emotional Abuse!”

The Geneva Convention set up to protect POW’s:– RIGHTS

– PROHIBITIONS

– Including protections against forms of emotional abuse…

PROTECTIONS THAT WOULD BE USEFUL FOR VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND THEIR CHILDREN!!


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