THE BOOK OF PROVERBS

Pride Goes Before Destruction

Various Proverbs

Pride Goes Before Destruction [The LORD] mocks proud mockers but

gives grace to the humble. (3:34) There are six things the LORD hates,

seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers. (6:16-19)

Pride Goes Before Destruction [Lady Wisdom speaking] I hate pride and

arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech. (8:13)

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. (11:2)

Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice. (13:10)

The LORD tears down the proud man's house but he keeps the widow's boundaries intact. (15:25)

Pride Goes Before Destruction The fear of the LORD teaches a man wisdom,

and humility comes before honor. (15:33) The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be

sure of this: They will not go unpunished. (16:5)

Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud. (16:18-19)

Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children. (17:6)

Pride Goes Before Destruction Before his downfall a man's heart is

proud, but humility comes before honor. (18:12)

Haughty eyes and a proud heart, the lamp of the wicked, are sin! (21:4)

The proud and arrogant man--"Mocker" is his name; he behaves with overweening pride. (21:24)

Humility and the fear of the LORD bring wealth and honor and life. (22:4)

Pride Goes Before Destruction Do not exalt yourself in the king's presence,

and do not claim a place among great men; it is better for him to say to you, “Come up here,” than for him to humiliate you before a nobleman. (25:6-7)

A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor. (29:23)

There are … those who are pure in their own eyes and yet are not cleansed of their filth; those whose eyes are ever so haughty, whose glances are so disdainful. (30:12-13)

Pride Goes Before Destruction

Pride is perhaps the chief of all vices. There is no sin that you can commit that does not involve pride.

C. S. Lewis said this about pride: “There is no fault which makes a man more unpopular, and no fault which we are more unconscious of in ourselves. And the more we have it in ourselves, the more we dislike it in others.” (Mere Christianity, p.109)

Pride Goes Before Destruction

Today we will look at: What Pride Is Not What Pride Is What Pride Will Do to You What You Need to Do About Pride

What Pride Is Not We must be careful not to confuse

pride with confidence. Pride can result in overconfidence,

but someone can be confident without being sinfully proud.

What Pride Is Not For example, when Saul questioned whether

David was fit to battle Goliath, David said: "Your servant has been keeping his father's sheep.

When a lion or a bear came and carried off a sheep from the flock, I went after it, struck it and rescued the sheep from its mouth. When it turned on me, I seized it by its hair, struck it and killed it. Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, because he has defied the armies of the living God. The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine." Saul said to David, "Go, and the LORD be with you." (1Sam 17:34-37)

What Pride Is Not The Bible sometimes uses the word

“pride” to describe a warm hearted admiration that someone feels toward another person. Children's children are a crown to the aged,

and parents are the pride of their children. (17:6)

I [Paul] have great confidence in you [Corinthians]; I take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds (2Cor 7:4)

Such an admiration is normally not sinful, but virtuous.

What Pride Is Not But even this kind of pride (i.e.

warmhearted admiration) can be misapplied and therefore become sinful: A man has his father's wife. And you are

proud! Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief and have put out of your fellowship the man who did this? (1Cor 5:1-2)

What Pride Is Pride is the need to feel better than

or superior to other people Pride is being your own supreme

being Pride is being morbidly self

absorbed

What Pride Is

Pride is the need to feel superior to other people Pride causes you to look down on other

people in order to feel better about yourself. There are … those who are pure in their own eyes

and yet are not cleansed of their filth; those whose eyes are ever so haughty, whose glances are so disdainful. (30:12-13)

Therefore pride drives you to put down other people or do better than others in order to elevate yourself in your own eyes or in the eyes of others.

What Pride IsPride is the need to feel superior to other people Pride gets no pleasure out of having

something, only having more of it than the next guy.

C.S Lewis points out that, pride is competitive in a way that other vices are not: The sexual impulse may drive two men into

competition if they both want the same girl… But a proud man will take your girl from you, not because he wants her, but just to prove to himself that he is a better man than you. (Mere Christianity, p.110)

What Pride IsPride is being your own supreme

being One is the words used for “pride” in the book

of Proverbs is the Hebrew word GOAN (8:13, 16:18) which is a word that is often used to refer to the Lord’s majesty (Exodus 15:7; Isaiah 2:10; 2:19; 24:14; Micah 5:4)

When we become proud, we in effect become like the King of Babylon who said in his heart: "I will ascend to heaven; I will raise my throne above

the stars of God; I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly, on the utmost heights of the sacred mountain. I will ascend above the tops of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High." (Isaiah 14:13-14)

What Pride IsPride is being your own supreme

being Possible indications that you’ve become your

own supreme being: You value your own opinions above the Word of

God. You no longer check to see if your view of things

squares up with what is written in God’s word – you just go with what makes sense to you

You feel no need to listen to others or get advice. You think you already know all the right answers.

You don’t care what others think of you, not because you value what God thinks more, but because you just don’t care about them.

What Pride IsBeing morbidly self absorbed The proud person is constantly aware of

himself, always thinking about how I’m doing, how I’m being treated, etc.

What we call “low self esteem” is often just another form of pride. Someone with low self esteem is feeling sorry for themselves, but they are still focusing on themselves!

Jonathan Edwards in his book on “Religious Affections” points out that even when they speak highly of God, the focus is on what wonderful things God has done for them. It’s all about them!

What Pride IsBeing morbidly self absorbed

A humorous description of this kind of person is given in a song sung by Toby Keith:

We talk about your work how your boss is a jerk We talk about your church and your head when it hurts We talk about the troubles you've been having with your

brother About your daddy and your mother and your crazy ex-

loverWe talk about your friends and the places that you've

been We talk about your skin and the dimples on your chin 

The polish on your toes and the run in your hose And God knows we're gonna talk about your clothes!

What Pride Will Do to You Pride can often be used to beat down simpler

vices… Many a man has overcome cowardice, or lust, or ill-temper by learning to think that they are beneath his dignity – that is, by Pride. The devil laughs. He is perfectly content to see you become chaste and brave and self-controlled provided, all the time, he is setting up in you the Dictatorship of Pride – just as he would be quite content to see your [minor skin inflammation] cured if he were allowed, in return, to give you cancer. For pride is spiritual cancer. (C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, p.112)

What Pride Will Do to You Pride puts you in direct opposition to

God: [The LORD] mocks proud mockers but gives

grace to the humble. (3:34 cf. Jas 4:16; 1Pet 5:5) There are six things the LORD hates, seven that

are detestable to him: haughty eyes… (6:16-17a)

[Lady Wisdom speaking] I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech. (8:13)

The LORD tears down the proud man's house but he keeps the widow's boundaries intact. (15:25)

What Pride Will Do to You Because proud people have an

exaggerated opinion of themselves they often inappropriately seek honor and admiration from others, but instead end up bringing shame and dishonor on themselves: Do not exalt yourself in the king's presence,

and do not claim a place among great men; it is better for him to say to you, “Come up here,” than for him to humiliate you before a nobleman. (25:6-7 cf. Luke 14:7-11)

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. (11:2)

What Pride Will Do to You Proud people are unable/unwilling to

listen and receive good advice – they only want to argue with you and tell you how wrong you are! Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is

found in those who take advice. (13:10) The “lamp” that guides a proud

person through life is his sinful, misplaced self-confidence! Haughty eyes and a proud heart, the lamp of

the wicked, are sin! (21:4)

What Pride Will Do to You Proud people who look down on

others and exploit them, may seem to “win” in the short term, but in the long run God will judge them: Pride goes before destruction, a haughty

spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud. (16:18-19)

The LORD detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished. (16:5)

What You Need to Do About Pride

Two Part Solution: You’ve got to get the glory that only

comes to the humble You’ve got to use the joy of the gospel

to erode your pride for the rest of your life

What You Need to Do About Pride

Get the glory that only comes to the humble:The fear of the LORD teaches a man

wisdom, and humility comes before honor. (15:33)

Humility and the fear of the LORD bring wealth and honor and life. (22:4)

Paradoxically, the person who is not seeking glory before God is, in the end, crowned with honor and wisdom

What You Need to Do About Pride

Use the joy of the gospel to erode your pride for the rest of your life: [Christ], being in very nature God, did not consider

equality with God something to be grasped, but made Himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled himself and became obedient to death-- even death on a cross! (Phil 2:6-8)

Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. (Phil 2:9-11)