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Herb Kaighan

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Centering Prayer

Practice

Intentional Consciousness

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Dynamic Process

Action

Experience Information

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“The consciousness that created the

problem cannot be the consciousness that

solves the problem.”

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SET ASIDE PRAYER

God, please set aside everything that I think I know about myself, my brokenness, my spiritual path and You, for an open mind and a new experience with myself, my brokenness, my spiritual path and especially You.

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Reflections

Where is my life not working?

How effective are my efforts?

Do I really want my life to change?

What change(s) would I like?

What is the invitation?

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Today’s Journey

Reality?Prayer?

Meditation?Contemplation?

Centering Prayer?Invitation?

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“Be still and know that I am God.”

Centering Prayer

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Is God Necessary?

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Reality – A Perspective

Who is God?

An infinite immaterial being• Fully present• All knowing• Unconditional love

An uncreated Creative Reality

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Reality – A Perspective

Who am I?

A finite material being• Body – to exist• Mind – to know• Will – to decide

A finite created spirit

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Human Beings – A Model

Mind

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SelfTranscendence

Compassion

Self RealizationConsciousness

Self ActualizationConscience

SocialAcceptance, Affection, Connectivity

PhysicalAir, Water, Food, Sleep

Human Development –

Emotional/PsychologicalSelf Awareness/Esteem, Respect

Organic Process

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BIOLOGYGENETICS

FAMILYCULTURE

EMOTIONSEXPERIENCES

PSYCHOLOGYEDUCATION

SPIRITUALMEANING

Core of Goodness

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BIOLOGYGENETICS

FAMILYCULTURE

EMOTIONSEXPERIENCES

PSYCHOLOGYEDUCATION

SPIRITUALMEANING

Ego Deflation at Depth “My Story”

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Flower Seed

Cat Kitten

DivineImage & Likeness

Human Baby

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Levels of Consciousness

DivinePresence

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Reality – a Model

Transcendent

Spirit Deep Inside

Spirit Everywhere

Immanent

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Prayer

To form a relationship

What is it?Intimate conversation

Why do we do it?

What do you believe about God?Your decision!

OutcomeConscious contact

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Meditation

Biology – physical health

What is it?Thinking

Why do we do it?Listening

Psychology – emotional health

Theology – spiritual health

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Meditation

Intuition

“wee small voice”

Will: Intention Inspiration

InstinctBody: Read

Mind: Attention

How to do it?

Guidance

Listen

Think

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Meditation

Inventory obstacles:Distractions?

Self Others

Improved consciousnessOutcome

Comm-union

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Centering Prayer

A method

Improve relationship with Reality

Mind Attention AcknowledgeWill Intention Consent

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Centering Prayer

Any awareness other than the Presence

Use sacred word

Use breath

Rest in Love

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Centering Prayer

Resist

Retain

React

Return

no thought

no thought

emotionally to no thought

ever-so-gently to the sacred word

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Centering Prayer

Awareness of PresenceHealing of brokenness

Self esteem authenticHarmony within self

Listen to othersCompassion for others

Unity with Reality

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Invitation Spiritual Awakening

Think Feel Behave

Done to me NOT by me

Change

But not without me!

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I am the oneI am waiting for!

Nobody’s Coming!

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“Be still and know that I am.”

Intentional Consciousness

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20 minutes am pmShow up – don’t leave early

A method – not a technique

An action based on faith – not knowledge

An awareness – not a feeling

Responsible for effort – NOT the results

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Consciousness Practice

NOT resultI am responsible for effort

A journey,

BECOMING A LANTERN

A process, NOT a taskAn experience, NOT an event

SELF-ACTUALIZATIONSELF-REALIZATION

NOT a destination

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Compassion Practice

NOT feelingsGuided by organic principles of reality,

Intention to actually help,

TRANSMITTING THE LIGHT

SELF-TRANSCENDENCE

NOT manipulate

Motivated by unconditional love,NOT self-interest

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I am the oneI am waiting for!

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LIGHTING THE PATH

BECOMING A LANTERN

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TRANSFORMATION (St Francis)

Lord, make me a channel of your peace; That where there is hatred, I may bring love; That where there is wrong, I may bring the spirit of forgiveness; That where there is discord, I may bring harmony; That where there is error, I may bring truth; That where there is doubt, I may bring faith; That where there is despair; I may bring hope; That where there are shadows, I may bring light; That where there is sadness, I may bring joy. Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted; To understand, than to be understood; To love, than to be loved. For it is by self-forgetting that one finds; It is by forgiving that one is forgiven;It is by dying that one awakens to eternal life. – Amen

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Herb Kaighan(310) 377-3194www.herbk.com

PO Box 4268Palos Verdes Peninsula, CA 90274