Positive attitude
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ATTITUDE
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Your Attitude
Determines
Your
Altitude
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“ A young lady was waiting her flight in the boarding room of a big airport.
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As she would wait for many hours, she decided to buy a book to spend her time. She also bought a packet of cookies.
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She sat down on a airmchair, in the VIP room of the airport, to rest and read in peace.
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Beside the airmchair there was the packet of cookies, a man sat down, opened his magazine and started reading.
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When she cought the first cookie, the man
cought one also. She felt herself
infuriate but didn’t say anything. She just
thought: “What a nerve! If I was
in the mood I would punch his eye not to
forget this daring!”
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To each cokkie she cought, the man cought one either.
That was letting her infuriated but she couldn’t react.
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When remained only one cookie, she thought: “ah... What this abused man will do now?”
Then, the man, divided the last cookie in the middle, giving her the half.
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Ah! That was too much!
She was too much angry!
Then, she caught her book, caught her things and headed to the boarding place.
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When she sat down in an armchair, inside the plane, she looked into her purse to catch her eyeglasses, and, to her surprise, her packet of cookies was there, untouched, closed!
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She felt so much
ashamed!! She realized that she was
the wrong one...
She had forgotten that her cookies
were kept into her purse.
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The man divided his cookies with her, wihtout feeling infuriated, nervous or mad...
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...while she was been very mad,
thinking that he was dividing her
cookies with him.
but there was no more time to
explain herself... Nor to
apologizes!”
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There are 4 things that u can’t recover...
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The stone...
...after shot!
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The word... ...
...after pronounced!
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The occasion...
... after lost!
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The time...
...after gone!
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THE FOUR CANDLES
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THE FOUR CANDLES BURN SLOWLY.
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THE AMBIANCE WAS SO SOFT YOU
COULD HEAR THEM TALKING.
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THE FIRST ONE SAID:
”I AM PEACE !
HOWEVER, NOBODY CAN KEEP ME LIT .
I BELIEVE I WILL GO OUT."
It’s flame rapidly diminishes and goes out completely.
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THE SECOND ONE SAYS:
”I AM FAITH !
MOST OF ALL, I AM NO LONGER INDISPENSABLE ,SO IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY
SENSE THAT I STAY LIT ANY LONGER ."
When it finished talking, a breeze softly blew on it putting it out.
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SADLY, THE THIRD CANDLE SPOKE IN ITS TURN:
”I AM LOVE !
I HAVEN’T GOT THE STRENGTH TO STAY LIT. PEOPLE PUT ME ASIDE
AND DON’T UNDERSTAND MY IMPORTANCE. THEY EVEN
FORGET TO LOVE THOSE WHO ARE NEAREST TO THEM ."
And waiting no longer it goes out.
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SUDDENLY...
A CHILD ENTERS THE ROOM AND SEES THREE CANDLES NOT BURNING.
”WHY ARE YOU NOT BURNING? YOU ARE
SUPPOSED TO STAY LIT TILL THE END."
Saying this, the child begins to cry.
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THEN THE FOURTH CANDLE SAID:
”DON’T BE AFRAID, WHILE I AM STILL BURNING WE CAN
RE-LIGHT THE OTHER CANDLES,
I AM
HOPE !"
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WITH SHINING EYES, THE CHILDTOOK THE CANDLE OF HOPE
AND LIT THE OTHER CANDLES.
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The flame of Hope should never go out
from your life
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…and that each of us can maintain
Hope, Faith, Peace and Love !!!!
POSITIVE ATTITUDE
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Have a nice day...Have a nice day...
PEACE
FAITH
LOVE
HOPE
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Attitude Is The Way You Communicate Your MoodTo Others. It Is The Way You Look At ThingsMentally.
Attitude Is The Readiness To Act.Your Feelings ,Desires, Fears, Convictions, StateOf Readiness, External Environment All CombineTogether To Form Your Attitude.
85 % Of Interpersonal Problems Are Caused DueTo Negative Attitude Or Biased Attitude TowardsOthers, Whether At Home Or At Work.
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• Mental Postures
• Guide to Conduct
• Feelings and Fear
• Frame of Reference
• Predisposition of Behaviour
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As far as 5000 years back, Kunti, while blessing her eldest son, Yudhishtira,
gave the message
“ If you want to rule the state, you must develop a new attitude. Let your heart be big.
A little heart can’t run a great state”
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CHANGING ATTITUDES
• Can be changed by Education • Can be changed by Training The following factors play important roles in inducing
change • The Credibility of person trying to induce change • The age of the person who's attitude is to be changed • The cultural context in which the change is being induced
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POSITIVE ATTITUDE
{ Life is "now"
{ Time to do what you want to do is now
{ Desire to achieve
{ Committment to achieve
{ Capacity to get along with others
{ Clarity in target/goals
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Dynamics Of Positive AttitudeDynamics Of Positive Attitude
Attitude Activator PersonalityAttitude In Action
Result
• Anticipation• Expectation• Hope• Confidence• Faith• Patience• Humility• Love• Belief
• Enthusiastic• Courageous• Optimistic• Cheerful• Sincere• Warm• Relaxed
• Success• Recognition• Happiness• Growth• Admiration• Friends
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Dynamics Of Negative Attitude
Attitude Activator PersonalityAttitude In Action
Result
• Fear• Doubt• Envy• Anger• Conceit• Self Pity• Suspicion• Indecision• Criticism
• Inconsiderate• Pessimistic• Weak• Cold• Sour• Irritable
• Worry• Tension
• Frustration• Failure• Sickness• No Friends
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Building Positive Attitude
•Look for goodness in people
•Build a positive Self Esteem
•Avoid Negative Influences•Work on Continuous Self Development
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If you want and if you can’t - you haven’t tried.
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A Winning Attitude
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If it is to be … it is up to me.
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ATTITUDEIs a little thing that makes a BIG
difference.
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ATTITUDEKeep your face to the sunshine and
you cannot see the shadows.
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ATTITUDEAttack every problem with enthusiasm…
as if your survival depended upon it.
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ATTITUDEAttitudes are contagious… Is yours worth catching ?
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CHANGEIf you are not riding the wave of change… you will find yourself beneath it.
CHANGEA bend in the road is not the end
of the road… unless you fail to make the turn.
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SUCCESSSuccess is a journey, not a destination.
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SUCCESSSome people dream of success ….
While others wake up and work hard at it.
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CHALLENGESAnyone can hold the
helm when the sea is calm
OPPORTUNITYThere is an island of opportunity inthe middle of every difficulty.
RISKYou cannot discover new oceans unless
you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
MOMENTUMA little push in the right direction
can make a big difference.
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INSTRUCTIONS FOR YOUR LIFE:
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Give people more than what they want, and do it with all your heart.
Memorize your favorite poem.
Do not believe everything you hear, do not spend all you have, and do not sleep for as long as you wish.
Whenever you say “I love You”, mean it.
Whenever you say “I’m sorry”, look the person right in the eyes.
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• Never ignore someone’s dreams.
Love deeply and passionately, you may get hurt, but this is the only way to live life completely.
Tackle any disagreements in a clean manner, do not offend.
Never judge a person based on their relatives.
Speak slowly, but think fast.
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Whenever someone asks you something you don’t want to answer, smile and ask “why do you want to know”?
Remember that the deepest love and the greatest achievements are the ones bearing the most risk.
Call your mother. If you can’t, at least think of her.
Say “Bless you” whenever someone sneezes.
If you happen to loose, do not miss the lesson.
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Remember the 3 R’s: Respect yourself,Respect everyone elseResponsible for all of your actions. Do not allow a little dispute to put an end to a
great friendship. Whenever you notice you’ve made a mistake, do
all what is necessary to fix it immediately. Smile whenever you pick up the phone, for the
caller will be able to notice it. Marry to a person that likes to chat, for when your old age comes, chatting will be one
of the best qualities you can find in someone.
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Spend sometime alone.
Embrace changes, but do not repudiate your own values.
Remember that sometimes silence is the best answer.
Read more books and watch less TV.
Lead a good and honest life. Like this, when you are old and remember the past, you will see how you can enjoy it all once again.
Trust GOD, but lock your car well.
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A good atmosphere in your home is important.
Do whatever is possible to keep your home peaceful and harmonious.
If you have a quarrel with someone close to you, try to solve only the present issue.
Do not revolve the past.
Read inbetween the lines.
Share your knowledge. It’s a way of achieving immortality.
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Be gentle towards our Planet....
Do not block mother nature.
Keep yourself busy only with your own matters.
At least once a year, visit somewhere you have never been to.
If you make lots of money, do some charity while alive. That’s the best reward fortune can provide you with.
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Remember that sometimes an under-achievement is good luck.
Learn well all the rules, so as to know how to break them in the proper manner.
Remember: the best relationship is the one where the love of one for another matters more than the need to be with each other.
Judge your level of success from what you have had to renounce to achieve it.
Face Love and cooking with absolute commitment, not expecting too much in return.