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Notes ................................................................117
Wedding Checklist .........................................118
Destination Wedding Checklist ....................119
Budget Breakdown .........................................120
Budget ..............................................................121
Eventful Dates ................................................122
Attendants ......................................................124
Special Assistant's List ...................................125
Guest List – Hers .............................................126
Guest List – His ................................................127
Eventful Dates ................................................128
Rental Checklist .............................................129
Reception Site .................................................130
Ceremony Site ................................................132
Choosing Your Wedding Planner ..................134
Planning Your Décor ......................................135
Choosing Your Dress ......................................136
Getting Your Dress Made ...............................137
Bridesmaids Attire ..........................................138
Grooms Attire .................................................139
Groomsmen Attire..........................................140
Bridal Party Attire ...........................................141
Invitations .......................................................142
Creating Your Invitations ..............................143
Invitation Timeline .........................................144
Transportation ................................................145
Caterer .............................................................146
Florist ...............................................................148
Photographer ..................................................150
Videographer...................................................152
Cake .................................................................153
Disc-Jockey ......................................................154
Musicians ........................................................155
Wedding Day Schedule – Hers .......................156
Wedding Day Schedule – His .........................157
Wedding Gifts .................................................158
Vendor Contacts .............................................159
Notes ................................................................162
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Wedding Checklist
12 OR MORE MONTHS BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Determine potential dates and times for your wedding Decide on the size, formality and setting for your wedding Create a wedding and engagement budget Reserve the locations of your wedding and receptionMeet with and book the officiating clergyChoose your wedding party and participantsChoose your wedding ringsDraw up your initial guest listOrganize your engagement partyDecide if you are having a Stag & Doe partyOther _______________________________________________________
9–12 MONTHS BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Order your wedding dress and attendants’ attireBook your photographer/videographerReserve a catererArrange for décor, chair covers and linensBook your live entertainment or DJReserve your floristOrder your wedding cakeReserve any rental items from the rental companyRegister your gift choices at your favourite storeResearch accommodation for out-of-town guestsPlan your honeymoonMail out ‘Save the Date’ CardsOther _______________________________________________________
6–9 MONTHS BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Decide on your menuReserve the musicians and soloist for your ceremonyReserve your limousine serviceOrder your invitations and any other stationeryOrder bombonieres for your guestsMother’s outfits are chosenCheck marriage licence requirementsDecide on a Stag & Doe VenueOther _______________________________________________________
3–6 MONTHS BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Finalize your guest listChoose the reader for your ceremonyFinalize your order with the floristReserve the men’s wedding attireMake an appointment with your hairdresserMake appointments for nails and makeupOther _______________________________________________________
2 MONTHS BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Mail the invitationsDecide on your wedding vows or compose your ownFinalize the reception menusConfirm the wedding details with the musicians and clergyHave the programs printedPurchase gifts for parents and attendantsSchedule final dress fitting for bride and attendantsOther _______________________________________________________
1 MONTH BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Apply for a marriage licencePlan the rehearsal dinnerMeet with photographer and videographerOther _______________________________________________________
2 WEEKS BEFORE TO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Have the attendant’s partiesDraft the speechesFinalize reception detailsCall any guests who have not repliedConfirm details with your hairdresser and make–up artistDeliver song lists to musicians or play lists to DJConfirm honeymoon reservationsOther _______________________________________________________
1 WEEK BEFORETO BE COMPLETED BY _________________________________________
Finalize seating planDetermine the order for the processionHave your rehearsalConfirm accommodation reservationsPick up the attire for the groomsmenConfirm the final numbers with the catererConfirm details with limousine companyDeliver your marriage licence to the officiantCreate a seating arrangement for the reception and write out
place cardsChoose someone to hand out the favoursChoose someone to return any rented items after the weddingWrite any cheques required for the wedding dayPack for your honeymoonOther _______________________________________________________
ON THE DAYGive the wedding bands to the best manGive the best man any cheques that will need to be given outPresent the attendants and parents with their giftsRelax and enjoy your special day!Other _______________________________________________________
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Destination Wedding Checklist
CHOOSE YOUR DESTINATION & SELECT A WEDDING DATEWhen selecting your destination, consider the following:
Decide what time of year you would like to get married and
select a preferred
Determine the style of wedding you would like to have –
traditional, informal etc.
Choose the setting you would like for your wedding – historic,
exotic, seaside, countryside etc.
Consider he cultural experience you would like you and your
guests to have – a holiday in the sun, a trek through the jungle,
gourmet delight etc.
Choose the climate you would like for your wedding day
Determine the time of year you would like your wedding to
take place in – what will the weather conditions be like at that
time of year?
What is the average cost to get married in a particular country
If you would like to have a large or small wedding – how far your
guests will have to travel will affect how many people will be
able to attend
How easy it is to plan a wedding in a particular country – could
you plan your own wedding, would you have to use a Tour
Operator or Wedding Planner?
The legal and residential requirements for getting married in a
particular countryOther _______________________________________________________
LEGAL REQUIREMENTS Contact the Foreign Embassy or Consulate to confirm the legal
and residential requirements to get married in the country of
your choice.
Understand the time frame and the steps that must be
completed to ensure your marriage can take place.
Other _______________________________________________________
COMPILE GUEST LIST Think about who you would like to spend your wedding day with
and compile a guest list.
Speak to guests as early as possible in order to estimate the
numbers that may attend. This will help when speaking to
Wedding Planners, Tour Operators, Suppliers and choosing your
wedding venues.
Other _______________________________________________________
PLAN YOUR WEDDING ABROADDetermine how much you would like to spend on your wedding
Determine the style of wedding you would like to have and how
much involvement you would like to have in its planning.
Decide if you would like to use a Wedding Planner, a Tour
Operator or plan your wedding yourself.
EXTRA ACTIVITIES When getting married abroad most couples hold extra
activities and celebrations.
Decide if you will have a rehearsal or pre-wedding day dinner
Decide if you will have a post wedding day breakfast or lunch.
If you are holding extra celebrations investigate and book
appropriate venues.
Decide if you will organise group sightseeing activities.
Investigate possible activities.
Decide if you will have a party upon your return home. If yes,
add this to your budget, compile a guest list and investigate and
book venue.
Other _______________________________________________________
ACCOMMODATION OPTIONS FOR GUESTSInvestigate and select a range of suitable accommodation for
your guests. Ensure you find accommodation that caters for all
budgets.
Ask hotels if they will offer a special rate for your guests.
Confirm what date your guests must book by to secure
accommodation.
Determine if a deposit must be paid. Will this deposit be
refundable if a guest does not use the accommodation?
Determine if a hotel will be willing to put information in your
guests’ rooms (example welcome letters and gifts.)
Decide if you will book accommodation on your guests’ behalf or
ask your guests to book their own accommodation.
If your guests are going to book their own accommodation,
compile a list of recommended hotels to go in their information
pack. Be sure to mention any special rates and booking reference
codes.
Ask the hotel if they provide airport transfers. Provide your
guests with this information in their information pack.
Determine where you guests are staying and when they arrive
and depart
Other _______________________________________________________
GUEST INFORMATIONCompile information pack or set up a wedding website. This
information should be given to guests with their invitations.
Write a wedding welcome letter to put in your guests’ hotel
rooms. This is a nice surprise for your guests and a good way of
re-iterating the itinerary for your celebrations.
Other _______________________________________________________
In addition to the standard Wedding Planning Checklist, consider the following items when planning a Destination wedding.
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Budget Breakdown
EXPENSES TRADITIONAL YOUR ESTIMATE ACTUAL BREAKDOWN BREAKDOWN
CEREMONY Location fee, officiant fee, marriage license,
musician’s fees, ring pillows, rentals 6 – 10% _________ ________ _________
RECEPTION Reception site, food, drinks, rentals, cake,
favours 35 – 55% _________ ________ _________
ATTIRE Dress, headpiece/veil, undergarments and
hosiery, shoes, accessories, jewellery, hair
and makeup, groom’s tuxedo or suit, shoes,
bow tie, cuff links, studs, suspenders 5 – 12% _________ ________ _________
RINGS His and her rings, engraving 3 – 12% _________ ________ _________
FLOWERS Ceremony, bride’s bouquet, maid-of-honour
and bridesmaid bouquets, boutonnieres and
corsages, centerpieces, flower-girl basket 5 – 15% _________ ________ _________
MUSIC Ceremony Musicians, Band and/or DJ,
cocktail hour musicians, sound system rental 3 – 10% _________ ________ _________
PHOTOGRAPHY Photographer and Videographer’s fees,
albums, additional prints, disposable
cameras for candids 7 – 13% _________ ________ _________
TRANSPORTATION Transportation for wedding party,
guest shuttle and/or parking attendants 2% _________ ________ _________
STATIONERY Invitations, response cards, thank you notes,
postage, calligraphy, guest book 2 – 5% _________ ________ _________
GIFTS Bridesmaid and groomsmen, parents,
welcome baskets for out-of-town guests. 3% _________ ________ _________
MISCELLANEOUS Some unexpected expense or a bit of
wiggle room in your budget 5 – 12% _________ ________ _________
Here is a breakdown of the expenses that you can use as a guide. This takes an average of many wedding budgets and what percentage is typically spent on each category of product or service. To estimate how your costs might average out in this way, take your total dollar amount and multiply it by the percentage you are allotting to that item (5% is .05). This will give you a dollar amount to start with.
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Budget
DESCRIPTION ESTIMATE DEPOSIT PAYMENTS BALANCE ACTUAL
CEREMONY
Décor:
Location Fee:
Officiant Fee:
Marriage License:
Musicians Fees:
Ring Pillows:
Rentals:
Other:
RECEPTION
Décor:
Location Fee:
Food:
Drinks:
Rentals:
Cake:
Favours:
Other:
ATTIRE
Bridal Dress:
Headpiece / Veil:
Undergarments /Hosiery:
Shoes:
Accessories:
Jewellery:
Bridal Makeup:
Bridal Nails:
Bridal Hair:
Groom’s Tuxedo /Suit:
Groom’s Shoes:
Bow Tie/ Cuff Links / Accessories:
Other:
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Budget
DESCRIPTION ESTIMATE DEPOSIT PAYMENTS BALANCE ACTUAL
RINGS
Bride’s Wedding Ring:
Groom’s Wedding Ring:
Engraving:
FLOWERS
Brides Bouquet:
Bridesmaids Bouquets:
Flower Girl Petals:
Grooms Boutonniere:
Groomsmen Boutonnieres:
Ring Bearer Boutonniere
Corsages:
Flower Crowns:
Aisle Petals
Ceremony:
Centrepieces:
Cake / Guest Book / Gift Tables:
Throw-Away Bouquet:
Other:
PHOTOGRAPHY
Photographer:
Videographer:
Albums:
Engagement Photos:
Additional Prints:
Disposable Cameras:
Other:
TRANSPORTATION
Transportation for Wedding Party:
Guest Shuttle:
Parking Attendant:
Other:
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Budget
DESCRIPTION ESTIMATE DEPOSIT PAYMENTS BALANCE ACTUAL
STATIONERY
Save-The-Dates:
Invitations:
Response Cards:
Map / Direction Cards:
Outer & Inner Envelopes:
Postage:
Programs:
Menus:
Place / Escort Cards:
Table Numbers:
Guest Book:
Thank-you Cards:
Other:
MUSIC
Ceremony Musicians:
Wedding Band or DJ:
Cocktail Hour Musicians:
Sound System Rental:
Other:
GIFTS
Bridesmaids:
Groomsmen:
Parents:
Out of Town Guests:
Other:
MISCELLANEOUS
Honeymoon:
Rehearsal Dinner:
Stag & Doe:
Wedding Planner:
Other:
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Attendants
MAID OF HONOURName: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
BRIDESMAIDSName: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
FLOWER GIRLSName: ________________________________________
Parents: _______________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Parents: _______________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
BEST MANName: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
GROOMSMENName: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
RING BEARERName: ________________________________________
Parents: _______________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
Name: ________________________________________
Parents: _______________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________
E-mail: ________________________________________
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Assigning others to perform duties below, will help you alleviate the stress of the day.
BEFORE THE WEDDING
Pick up bridal gown __________________________________________
Pick up bridesmaids' gown ___________________________________
Pick up tuxedos / suits _______________________________________
Wash and decorate cars _____________________________________
Pick up rental items _________________________________________
Set-up and decorate ceremony site ___________________________
Set-up and decorate reception site____________________________
Place seating chart, place cards, favours ______________________
Deliver cake to hall __________________________________________
Deliver flowers to bride ______________________________________
Deliver flowers to groom _____________________________________
Deliver corsages and boutonnieres ___________________________
Drive bride to hair appointment ______________________________
Drive bridemaids to hair appointment ________________________
Co-ordinate food for dressing locations _______________________
Carry bride's emergency kit __________________________________
Drive bride and bridesmaids to ceremony site _________________
Drive groom and groomsmen to ceremony site ________________
Someone to tuck away gifts during ceremony and reception
periodically _________________________________________________
SHORTLY BEFORE OR DURING CEREMONY
Lighting candelabras before or during ceremony ______________
Laying the aisle runner ______________________________________
Place and light votive candle on the candle table and place long
matches for the lighting of the candles _______________________
Distribute ceremony programs _______________________________
Remove decorations from ceremony site and take to hall ______
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Pay the officiant / others ______________________________________
RECEPTION
Liase with the venue manager and the MC – handle any
emergencies and final details ________________________________
Remove envelopes to a discreet location after all guests have
arrived ______________________________________________________
Transfer gifts at the end of the evening _______________________
Pay the venue manager ______________________________________
Remove decorations from hall and clean up ___________________
Drive the wedding couple to their night's accommodation or
airport ______________________________________________________
AFTER THE WEDDING
Return any rental items ______________________________________
Return cake stand rentals ____________________________________
Return tuxedos ______________________________________________
Take the wedding dress to the cleaner ________________________
Drive couple to airport _______________________________________
Mail announcements ________________________________________
Take disposable cameras to be developed _____________________
Pick up couple from the airport after honeymoon _____________
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ADDITIONAL TASKS
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Special Assistant's List
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Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Guest List – HisPhotocopy this list or go online to www.theweddingtrends.com to fill in online and print off or save.
INVITE RSVP MEAL SELECTION ALCOHOL
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Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Name: ____________________________________ (+1) _____________________________
Address: __________________________________ Postal Code: ______________________
Relationship to Couple: ____________________ E-mail: ___________________________
Guest List – HersPhotocopy this list or go online to www.theweddingtrends.com to fill in online and print off or save.
INVITE RSVP MEAL SELECTION ALCOHOL
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Eventful Dates
BRIDAL SHOWERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
BRIDAL SHOWERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
BRIDAL SHOWERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
ENGAGEMENT PARTYDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
CEREMONY REHEARSALDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
REHEARSAL DINNERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
CEREMONY RECEPTIONDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
Date & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
OTHERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
OTHERDate & Time:
Location:
Contact:
Telephone:
E-mail:
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Rental Checklist
RENTAL DETAILS
Company: ____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Telephone: ____________________________________________________
Email: ________________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Date & Time of Pick-up/ Delivery: ______________________________
Date & Time of Return: ________________________________________
Cost /Deposit: _________________________________________________
Name of Person Picking Up: ____________________________________
TENTS
Tents Qty __________ $ __________
Chairs Qty __________ $ __________
Dance Floor Qty __________ $ __________
_____________________________ Qty __________ $ __________
_____________________________ Qty __________ $ __________
DINNERWARE
Flatware Qty __________ $ __________
Dinner Plates Qty __________ $ __________
Bread/Butter Plates Qty __________ $ __________
Dessert Plates Qty __________ $ __________
Cups/Saucers Qty __________ $ __________
Gravy Boats Qty __________ $ __________
Meat Platters Qty __________ $ __________
Serving Bowls Qty __________ $ __________
Coffee Percolator Qty __________ $ __________
TABLEWARE
Linen Tablecloths Qty __________ $ __________
Linen Napkins Qty __________ $ __________
Table Overlay Qty __________ $ __________
Table Skirting Qty __________ $ __________
Tables Qty __________ $ __________
Round Qty __________ $ __________
½ Round Qty __________ $ __________
Rectangle Qty __________ $ __________
High Chair/Booster Seat Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
BAR
Portable Bar Qty __________ $ __________
Highball Glasses Qty __________ $ __________
Wine Glasses Qty __________ $ __________
Punch Bowl Qty __________ $ __________
Champagne Glasses Qty __________ $ __________
Champagne Fountain Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
DECORATIONS
Candles Qty __________ $ __________
Candelabras Qty __________ $ __________
Flower Arrangements (Silk) Qty __________ $ __________
Aisle Markers Qty __________ $ __________
Ivy Garland (Head Table) Qty __________ $ __________
Mini Lights Qty __________ $ __________
Tulle Qty __________ $ __________
Head Table Backdrop Qty __________ $ __________
Podium Qty __________ $ __________
Centrepieces Qty __________ $ __________
Envelope Drop Qty __________ $ __________
Archways Qty __________ $ __________
Easels Qty __________ $ __________
Ceiling Décor Qty __________ $ __________
Chair Covers Qty __________ $ __________
Pillars Qty __________ $ __________
Silk Trees Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other _______________________ Qty __________ $ __________
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Reception Site
COSTS
What is the facility rental fee? __________________________________
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What is the cost for food? ______________________________________
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What is the cost for beverages? _________________________________
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If you can hold your ceremony on site, what is the fee?
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What is the staffing fee? (including bartenders, waiters etc.)
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What is the overtime fee? _____________________________________
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Is there a fee for parking or valets? _____________________________
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Is there a cake plating fee? _____________________________________
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Is the bar cost per person/open bar? ____________________________
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Can we have a signature drink? Cost? ___________________________
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If I supply my own wine is there a corkage fee? _________________
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Other ________________________________________________________
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PACKAGES
What is included in the wedding package? ______________________
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Facility rental? __________________________________________________
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Food and beverages? ____________________________________________
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Ceremony on site? ____________________________________________
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Set up and break down? _______________________________________
Staffing? _____________________________________________________
Cake? _____________________________________________________
Flowers? _____________________________________________________
Linens? _____________________________________________________
SERVICES
Is there an in-house caterer or a list of preferred caterers? If so,
are they the exclusive caterers, or can you provide your own?
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Are there on-site kitchen facilities? ____________________________
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Does the reception site have a list of recommended vendors?
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Does the reception site provide staff such as an on-site
coordinator, waiters and bartenders? _________________________
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Does the reception site provide items such as tables, chairs, chair
covers, plates and glasses? ______________________________________
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Does the reception site provide adequate parking space or valets?
What are the costs involved? ___________________________________
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Will I need to arrange for valet or off-site parking & shuttle? _____
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AMENITIES
When can I start setting up? ___________________________________
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Are there changing rooms for the bridal party? _________________
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Does the facility provide guest accommodations or are their
convenient locations nearby? _______________________________
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Are there picturesque locations for photo opportunities? Both
inside and out? _________________________________________
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Is there a dance floor? _____________________________________
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Are there sufficient restroom facilities? _________________________
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Is there, or can you set up, a coat room? ________________________
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Is there a stage for the head table? ______________________________
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Is there a podium/microphone? ________________________________
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TERMS
Are there any rules or restrictions I should know about? _________
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What is the length of the facility rental? Is there an overtime fee
if your wedding reception lasts longer? _________________________
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Do you have use of the entire reception site? If not, what areas can
your party use? ________________________________________________
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What is the deposit and when is the remainder due? ____________
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What is the cancellation policy? ________________________________
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Are there restrictions on food or drinks in any areas? ____________
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Are candles or open flames allowed? ___________________________
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Does the site have any music or noise restrictions? ______________
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Are there any decorating restrictions? __________________________
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Will there be another party during, before or after yours? If so,
how will this affect your event? ________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a payment schedule? What kind of deposits are required?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
SITE
Site: __________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Date & Time: __________________________________________________
Style of Site: ___________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Notes: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Ceremony Site
COSTS
What is the facility rental fee? __________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a ceremony fee? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the set-up/break-down fee? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the staffing fee?
_______________________________________________________________
What is the overtime fee?
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a fee for security personnel? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Other ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
SERVICES
Does the site provide staff such as an on-site coordinator? _______
_______________________________________________________________
Does the site provide items such as tables, chairs, chair covers?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Does the ceremony site provide adequate parking space or valets?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What are the costs involved? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Does the site provide on-site security. What are the costs involved?
_______________________________________________________________
Does the site have a liquor licence? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
AMENITIES
Are there changing rooms for the bridal party? _________________
Is there a bar area or can one be set up? ______________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there picturesque locations for photo opportunities? Both
inside and out? _______________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there sufficient restroom facilities? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there, or can you set up, a coat room? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is the facility in a desirable location? Consider the view and any
potential noise interruptions. Is it easy to get to? Is it close to any
nearby attractions? ____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there sufficient restroom facilities? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there, or can you set up, a coat room? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a podium/microphone? ________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is a sound system required? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
TERMS
What is the length of the facility rental? Is there an overtime fee if
your ceremony lasts longer? ___________________________________
Will you allow photographs and video during the ceremony?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have use of the entire site? If not– what areas can your
party use? _____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What is the deposit and when is the remainder due? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the cancellation policy? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there restrictions on food or drinks in any areas? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are candles or open flames allowed? ___________________________
Does the site have any music or noise restrictions? ______________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there any decorating restrictions? (example hanging items
from the ceiling / walls) _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will there be another ceremony during, before or after yours? If so,
how will this affect your event? ________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
If an outdoor location, are there backup plans for rain or inclement
weather? ______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a place to put up a tent? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there enough chairs for the ceremony or will you need to rent
additional seating? ____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
OTHER
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
SITE OPTION 1
Site: __________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Date & Time: __________________________________________________
Style of Site: ___________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Notes: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
SITE OPTION 2
Site: __________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Date & Time: __________________________________________________
Style of Site: ___________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Notes: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
SITE OPTION 3
Site: __________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Date & Time: __________________________________________________
Style of Site: ___________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Notes: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Choosing Your Wedding Planner
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PLANNER
Are you available for our date? ________________________________
Do you offer free consultations? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How long have you been in business? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What services do you offer? ____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How do you keep in touch with clients? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Who are your preferred vendors? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you help us stay within budget? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What’s the average size of the weddings you plan? ______________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you be with us on the big day? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you work alone or as a team? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the cost of your services? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you coordinate delivery, arrival, and set-up times with
vendors? ______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you be at our rehearsal and is there an extra charge for this?
_______________________________________________________________
Will you read through vendor contracts for me? What are things
to look out for? ________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you coordinate payments to vendors? ______________________
Can you provide references? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many weddings have you done? ___________________________
How many do you do in a year? A month? A day? _______________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you do this full-time? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have any training or certifications? ______________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you insured? ______________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is your cancellation policy? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
WEDDING PLANNER
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Website: ______________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Notes: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Planning Your Décor
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR DECORATOR
Are you available for our date? ________________________________
Do you offer free consultations? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How long have you been in business? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have a portfolio I can see? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are all the pictures on your website and in the portfolio your own?
_______________________________________________________________
What does pricing include? ____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you provide examples at different price points? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you provide references? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many weddings have you done? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many do you do in a year? A month? A day? _______________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you do this full-time? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have any training or certifications? ______________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you insured? ______________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is your cancellation policy? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
DECORATOR
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Décor included: _______________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
BRIDE & GROOM WISH LIST
Favours ______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Guestbook ____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Placecards ____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Seating Chart _________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Welcome Bags _________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Centrepieces __________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Aisle Runner __________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Garland _______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Wedding Card Box _____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Wedding Bubbles, Petals or Confetti ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Other _________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Choosing Your Dress
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR BRIDAL SHOP
What brand and designer lines do you carry? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are any alterations included in the cost of the gown? ___________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I get a price list or estimate for possible alterations? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
After my gown is ordered, how long will it take for it to come in?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you store the gown until the wedding day if necessary? _____
_______________________________________________________________
Will the gown be steamed/pressed when I pick it up? ___________
_______________________________________________________________
What are your deposit and payment policies? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How long have you been in business? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer a discount if my bridesmaid dresses are also ordered
from you? ____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What trends are you seeing this year? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What styles are best for my body type? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Does the dress include a bustle? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will I need to purchase special undergarments? ________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you rent crinoline? _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you make any suggestions for jewellery/veils that
compliment certain dress styles? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What will I need at the first fitting? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
DRESS OPTION 1
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style of Dress: _________________________________________________
Brand of Dress: ________________________________________________
Price: _________________________________________________________
Price for Alterations: ___________________________________________
DRESS OPTION 2
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style of Dress: _________________________________________________
Brand of Dress: ________________________________________________
Price: _________________________________________________________
Price for Alterations: ___________________________________________
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
FITTING DATES & NOTES_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Getting Your Dress Made
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR SEAMSTRESS
How long have you been in business? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you create something if I bring my own sample/inspiration?
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have a portfolio? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I get references from past clients? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you charge by the hour or by the job? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are any alterations included in the cost of the gown? ___________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I get a price list or estimate for possible alterations? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
When will the dress be ready? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many fittings are required? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do the fittings cost extra? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you create a custom design or work from a pattern? __________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What trends are you seeing this year? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What styles are best for my body type? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What fabrics would you suggest? _______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I supply my own fabric? How much less will it cost? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What do you expect me to supply? (example notions, ribbon) _____
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you store the gown until the wedding day if necessary? _____
_______________________________________________________________
Will the gown be steamed/pressed when I pick it up? ___________
What are your deposit and payment policies? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
OPTION 1Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style of Dress: _________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Price: _________________________________________________________
Price for Alterations: ___________________________________________
OPTION 2
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style of Dress: _________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Price: _________________________________________________________
Price for Alterations: ___________________________________________
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
FITTING DATES & NOTES
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Bridesmaids Attire
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR BRIDAL SHOP
How long have you been in business? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What brand and designer lines do you carry? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What fabric / colours are available? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you rent the dresses? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are any alterations included in the cost of the dresses? __________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I get a price list or estimate for possible alterations? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
After the dresses are ordered, how long will they take to come in?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you store the dresses until the wedding day if necessary?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will the gowns be steamed / pressed when they are picked up?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have other locations for bridesmaids that are out of town?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What are your deposit and payment policies? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
OPTION 1 _________________________________________________
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Designer: ______________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 2 _________________________________________________
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Designer: ______________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
FINAL DRESS & ACCESSORY OVERVIEWStore: _________________________________________________________
Designer Name: _______________________________________________
Style Number: ________________________________________________
Colour: _______________________________________________________
Dress Style Options: ___________________________________________
Cost: _________________________________________________________
Alteration Cost: _______________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Dyeable:__________________________Height of Heel ______________
Store Where Available: ________________________________________
Cost: _________________________________________________________
Hair Accessory: _______________________________________________
Necklace: _____________________________________________________
Earrings: ______________________________________________________
Other Jewellery: _______________________________________________
Nail Polish Colour: ____________________________________________
Other: ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Grooms Attire
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR TUXEDO OR SUIT RENTAL SHOP
What sizes and styles are available? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is included in my tuxedo rental? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What colour selection do you have? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are the tuxedos in the store or have to be shipped in? ___________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there an additional fee for alterations? _______________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the total rental price with everything included? _________
_______________________________________________________________
Is the groom's tuxedo rental free if we order all the groomsmen's
as well? ______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many dressing rooms are available? _______________________
_______________________________________________________________
How far in advance should I reserve my tuxedo? ________________
_______________________________________________________________
How do I handle measurements and pick-ups for my out-of-town
attendants? ___________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
When should the measurements be in? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
When can the tuxedos be picked up? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
When do they need to be returned?_____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a late returning fee? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What if I need the tuxedo for an extended period of time? _______
_______________________________________________________________
Should accessory colours match the ladies' dresses? _____________
_______________________________________________________________
Does the number of jacket buttons matter? _____________________
_______________________________________________________________
What happens if the tuxedo does not fit at pick-up time? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you rent shoes? ____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What extras do you rent? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
OPTION 1
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Vest: __________________________________________________________
Accessories: ___________________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 2
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Vest: __________________________________________________________
Accessories: ___________________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
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Groomsmen Attire
OPTION 1
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Vest: __________________________________________________________
Accessories: ___________________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 2
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Vest: __________________________________________________________
Accessories: ___________________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 3
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Sales Consultant: ______________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Vest: __________________________________________________________
Accessories: ___________________________________________________
Shoes: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
TUXEDO TIPS
\ Black, gray or white tuxedos are appropriate for any wedding.
If you are buying your tuxedo, you may want to go with black
since it can be worn to any black tie affair; while gray and white
should be strictly reserved for weddings only.
\ Instead of a coloured vest, a more elegant look would be to
choose black, silver, or white as the colour of your vest and
use the boutonnière as a way to tie the wedding colours into
your tux.
\ Whether you choose a bow tie or a long tie, be sure to match
it to your vest. The difference in the two is that the bow tie is
a classic and is worn mostly by grooms. The tie is a refreshing
change, but it is still an elegant choice because it reflects a more
modern and sleek look.
\ A classic white collared shirt looks great with both type of
ties and may already be a staple of any well-dressed man's
wardrobe.
\ Suits are also elegant, but you should stick to the same
suggestion of colours. If you are planning on wearing a suit, be
sure that it is well tailored. A suit that has a great fit will shine
next to any bride.
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
NOTES
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Bridal Party Attire
BRIDAL PARTYName:
Designer:
Style Number:
Colour:
Measurements:
Ordered:
First Fitting:
Second Fitting:
Cost:
Alterations:
Shoes:
Accessories:
Other:
BRIDAL PARTYName:
Designer:
Style Number:
Colour:
Measurements:
Ordered:
First Fitting:
Second Fitting:
Cost:
Alterations:
Shoes:
Accessories:
Other:
BRIDAL PARTYName:
Designer:
Style Number:
Colour:
Measurements:
Ordered:
First Fitting:
Second Fitting:
Cost:
Alterations:
Shoes:
Accessories:
Other:
BRIDAL PARTYName:
Designer:
Style Number:
Colour:
Measurements:
Ordered:
First Fitting:
Second Fitting:
Cost:
Alterations:
Shoes:
Accessories:
Other:
NOTES
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Invitations
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PRINTER
How long have you been in business? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is your design background? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have samples? _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What types of printing processes do you offer and which do you
specialize in? __________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Which do you recommend for my budget and style? _____________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer custom invitations as well as templated styles? _____
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a fee if I want to order a sample of either an existing
invitation style or custom design? If so, how much? _____________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
If I choose a custom wedding invitation, what are my options for
colour, paper type, ink and fonts? What is the word limit for the
text? __________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I order my table numbers, place cards, ceremony programs,
menus, thank-you cards etc. from you? If so, what is the extra cost?
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer a package or a discount price if I order all of the
invitation components at the same time? ______________________
_______________________________________________________________
If I want to include a picture or graphic on my cards can you
accommodate that? If so, does the image need to be saved in a
specific format? _______________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there and new styles, trends and colour combinations you would
recommend? __________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How much will it cost to mail? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you assemble the invitations? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you willing to print on kit invitations? ______________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How long will they take? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer any calligraphy style or specialty printing? _________
_______________________________________________________________
OPTION 1
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 2
Store: _________________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Style: _________________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
NOTES
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_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Creating Your Invitations
DO IT YOURSELF CHECKLIST
Invitation kit or individual pieces: ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Kit name: _____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Store where available: _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Cost per box: __________________________________________________
Cost of extra paper: ____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Colours: _______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Embellishments: ______________________________________________
Ribbon: _______________________________________________________
How much will it cost to mail? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How much will it cost to print? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Approximate time per invitation: _______________________________
Wording for invitation: _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Cost for matching table numbers, place cards, ceremony programs,
menus, thank-you cards etc: ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Extras: _________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
TIPS FOR CREATING YOUR OWN INVITATIONS
\ When buying paper for your wedding invitations choose
papers that match or compliment each other. Make sure
to choose a decorative paper with a pattern that is not so
bold that it overpowers the text you print onto it. Many
scrapbooking papers come in wedding themed patterns and soft
floral patterns. Vellum us also a good choice but you may have
to print onto it yourself as some copy shops may refuse to send
it through their machines.
\ Scrapbooking background papers are great for making
handmade cards and invitations. You can find them at any arts
and crafts supply store in the scrapbooking aisle.
\ Using a copy shop can be a quick and easy alternative to
printing them yourself at home. It is quick, and cheaper
than you would expect. Plus you will save your printer's ink
cartridges.
\ Decorative papers do not always come in the standard sizes
(8½ x 11 inch). Especially if you choose a scrapbooking paper
which a lot of the time comes in 12 x 12 inch or smaller. If the
paper is too big you can have it cut to size for you before the
text is copied onto it. Choose a copy shop with paper cutting
services.
NOTES
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Invitation Timeline
CHECKLISTPRE-WEDDING:
Save the Date Cards Qty __________ $ __________Wedding Announcement Qty __________ $ __________
WEDDING INVITATION COMPONENTS:
Outer Envelope Qty __________ $ __________Optional Inner Envelope Qty __________ $ __________Invitation Qty __________ $ __________Reception Card Qty __________ $ __________Directions / Map Card Qty __________ $ __________Response Card Qty __________ $ __________Save-The-Date Cards Qty __________ $ __________Wedding Announcement Qty __________ $ __________
THANK-YOU CARDS
Shower Thank-You Cards Qty __________ $ __________Wedding Thank-You Cards Qty __________ $ __________Response Card Qty __________ $ __________
9 MONTHS –1 YEAR
\ Begin working on your guest list so you will know how many wedding invites (and maybe save the dates) to eventually order (one per single adult, couple or family invited).
\ Start your wedding invitation shopping so you can narrow your choices down to only your favourites. Be sure to order samples, which are usually blank, so you can personally see the paper and design.
\ If you are planning to mail out save the date cards to guests, begin searching for your preferred design of them as well.
7 –8 MONTHS
\ Review sample wedding invitation verses and give some thought as to how your wording will read.
\ If sending save the dates, prepare and mail them.
6 MONTHS
\ Select your wedding invitation design and gather all the details that will be printed on them such as date, times, name and address of location(s), etc.
\ Determine what invitation enclosures or extras you will also be ordering – reception cards, response cards, pre-printed return address on envelopes, direction/map cards, decorative envelope seals, coloured lining for inner envelopes, matching thank-you cards or informal notes, etc. You may also be able to order matching menu, table and place cards for your design.
\ If you are including response cards, check with your dinner location to see how far in advance they need your final guest count so you can select the RSVP date that will be printed on them (typically 2 –3 weeks before wedding).
\ It's a good idea to send yourself one to see how they hold up through the mail.
4–5 MONTHS
\ Finalize your wording and place your wedding invitation order. Remember to order some extras now so you won’t run out if there are last-minute guests to invite and so you also have a few as keepsakes. If the option is available, order some extra envelopes just to be safe.
\ Review your guest list to make sure you have current addresses for everyone.
\ Consider custom wedding stamps for mailing your wedding invites. Some retailers give you the option of choosing from pre-designed wedding postage or simply uploading a photo to create your own stamp design. Have one of your ready-to-mail invitations weighed at a Post Office before you purchase any postage stamps to make sure you are using the correct amount.
\ Another option for postage is vintage stamps, which you can find on different websites. Remember that you’ll need a lot of them to add up to the 63 cents that most wedding invites cost to mail. If you’re using a calligrapher, perhaps consider telling them that you’ll need extra space along the top of your envelope to accommodate a whole row of stamps. And while you’re collecting them, remember to get as many high value stamps as possible. Most vintage stamps are in the 3 – 8 cent range and if you do the math, you need a lot of those little ones to add up to the correct postage.
3 –4 MONTHS
\ Fold and/or assemble your wedding invitations, if necessary.
\ Hand address mailing envelopes and write guest names on inside envelopes, if they are included.
\ Purchase and apply postage stamps to the response card envelopes or response postcards, if they will be included.
\ Assemble all wedding invitation pieces and insert them into already addressed envelopes.
\ Take one fully assembled invitation to the Post Office to have it weighed to determine the correct amount of postage needed.
\ Purchase your stamps or order custom wedding stamps with appropriate postage amount required for mailing.
6–8 WEEKS
\ Seal the envelopes, apply postage stamps and mail them all at the same time directly at a Post Office location.
3–4 WEEKS
\ Prepare and mail any other wedding-related invitations, rehearsal dinner, post-wedding brunch, etc.
\ Keep track of the response cards as they are returned by checking off their names from your guest list.
2–3 WEEKS
\ Contact any guests who didn’t mail back their response cards.
\ Provide final guest count to reception/dinner location.
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Transportation
QUESTIONS TO ASK
When should we book? ________________________________________
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How do we book the vehicles that we want? _____________________
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What type of vehicles do you carry? ____________________________
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What wedding packages are available and what do they include?
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Do you give a discount if we book more than one vehicle? _______
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How many people does each vehicle accommodate? _____________
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How much is the deposit? ______________________________________
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When is the balance payable? __________________________________
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What is the overtime rate if the wedding goes longer than expected?
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What happens if a breakdown occurs? __________________________
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Are decorations and ribbons allowed on the vehicle? Who supplies
them? ________________________________________________________
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What type of media does the vehicle supply? (CD player, MP3 player
hook-up, TV etc.) ______________________________________________
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When should we book? ________________________________________
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Are the vehicles used for other weddings on the same day, or only
one wedding? _________________________________________________
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Are food and beverages allowed in the vehicle? __________________
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Is there a limit on how many stops we can make? _______________
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How many staff / chauffeurs are provided with the vehicle? ______
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Do the chauffeurs carry umbrellas? ____________________________
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Are there any cancellation fees? ________________________________
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Can you provide references? ___________________________________
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OPTION 1
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Telephone / E-mail: ____________________________________________
Website: ______________________________________________________
Vehicle: _______________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
OPTION 2
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Telephone / E-mail: ____________________________________________
Website: ______________________________________________________
Vehicle: _______________________________________________________
Colour:________________________________________________________
Extras: ________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
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Caterer
QUESTIONS TO ASK
Can you supply examples of suggested menus along with prices?
_______________________________________________________________
Have you worked at our reception venue previously? ____________
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Are there any kitchen requirements? ___________________________
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What do you charge? Are you willing to work with my budget? ___
_______________________________________________________________
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What suggestions do you have given my needs and budget? _____
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Are taxes and gratuities extra? _________________________________
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Does the cost cover set-up and cleanup? ________________________
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Is there a minimum charge? If so, how much? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
What are the deposit and cancellation policies? _________________
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How long are the staff available for? ____________________________
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Do you include a cake stand and knife if required? ______________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you cut the cake and supply plates, forks and knife? If so, is
there an extra fee for this? _____________________________________
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Do you supply and serve tea and coffee? Is there an extra fee for
this? __________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is the deadline for notification regarding menu selection?
_______________________________________________________________
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What is the deadline for notification regarding final guest count?
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you provide linens? If so what options and how much? _______
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you supply the dishes / cutlery? Are there different options for
these? ________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Will you set up the room? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you do the wedding cake? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there different options for serving the food? (plated, family
style or buffet) ________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you allow substitutions? ____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you able to handle special requests? (allergies, menu for kids
etc.) __________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How many dinner options are available? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer seasonal or local food? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Will you provide a late night buffet? If yes, how much extra does it
cost and what are the menu options? ___________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What other services do you offer? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you provide wait staff? _____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer rentals? __________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will there be a representative available on-site during the meal
time? _________________________________________________________
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Can you provide references? ___________________________________
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OPTION 1
Company: _____________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Cost Per Person: _______________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
MENU
Soup / Salad: ___________________________________________________
Appetizer: _____________________________________________________
Main (1) : ______________________________________________________
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Main (2): ______________________________________________________
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Main (3): ______________________________________________________
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Main (4): ______________________________________________________
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Dessert: _______________________________________________________
Coffee / Late Night Buffet: ______________________________________
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OPTION 2
Company: _____________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Cost Per Person: _______________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
MENU
Soup / Salad: __________________________________________________
Appetizer: _____________________________________________________
Main (1) : ______________________________________________________
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Main (2): ______________________________________________________
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Main (3): ______________________________________________________
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Main (4): ______________________________________________________
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Dessert: _______________________________________________________
Coffee / Late Night Buffet: ______________________________________
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OPTION 3
Company: _____________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Cost Per Person: _______________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
MENU
Soup / Salad: ___________________________________________________
Appetizer: _____________________________________________________
Main (1) : ______________________________________________________
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Main (2): ______________________________________________________
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Main (3): ______________________________________________________
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Main (4): ______________________________________________________
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Dessert: _______________________________________________________
Coffee / Late Night Buffet: ______________________________________
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NOTES
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Florist
CHECKLIST
Brides Bouquet $ __________
Throwaway Bouquet $ __________
Groom Boutonniere $ __________
Bridesmaids Bouquets Qty __________ $ __________
Groomsmen Boutonnieres Qty __________ $ __________
Corsages Qty __________ $ __________
Flower Crowns Qty __________ $ __________
Aisleways Qty __________ $ __________
Ceremony Alter / Arch Qty __________ $ __________
Centerpieces Qty __________ $ __________
Guest Book Table/Gift Table Qty __________ $ __________
Cake / Cake Table Qty __________ $ __________
Other________________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other________________________ Qty __________ $ __________
Other________________________ Qty __________ $ __________
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR FLORIST
What is your signature style and does it match mine? Romantic,
modern, natural, or classic? ____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you familiar with my ceremony and reception location? _____
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have photographs or samples of your work? _____________
_______________________________________________________________
How many weddings do you do in a day? _______________________
_______________________________________________________________
What flowers will be in season for my wedding? _________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you offer flowers that are off season as well? _________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you offer extras such as feathers, candles, gems etc.? ________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you advise me about which colour scheme to choose? _______
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What bouquet shape would you suggest to suit my dress? _______
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you make up a sample arrangement before the wedding? If so,
what is the fee for this? ________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you be designing your flowers or will it be one of your team?
_______________________________________________________________
Is working within my budget feasible? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you charge by a flat fee or per item? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a delivery fee? _________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you require a deposit? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is your contract policy? __________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are there any taxes, overtime charges, gratuities, or fees that aren’t
included in the contract? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
If picking up the flowers, are there any special travel or storage
instructions I should know about? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What time will you be at my ceremony and reception sites to do
set-up? _______________________________________________________
Can you transport my ceremony flowers to the reception venue?
_______________________________________________________________
How long do you need to decorate the venue? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you take away the arrangements at the end? _______________
_______________________________________________________________
Is there a discount if I supply my own vases? ____________________
_______________________________________________________________
What rental items do you have? How are they priced? ___________
_______________________________________________________________
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What happens if the flowers I pick are not available? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
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_______________________________________________________________
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What is the policy if I want to add extra items such as another
table centrepiece or boutonniere at the last minute? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can you provide flowers for the wedding cake? __________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can we do a walk-through of the venue to plan the set-up? ______
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I attend one of your weddings during set-up for a look at your
designs? ______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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FLORIST OPTION 1
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Flowers: _______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
FLORIST OPTION 2
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Flowers: _______________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
TIPS FOR CHOOSING A FLORIST
\ Knowing flowers is one thing, but knowing how to put them
together for the best artistic outcome is another thing. You
will want to choose a florist who has a creative eye and touch
in putting the right types of blooms together along with the
right colours. This type of creativity witll allow the florist to
present gorgeous arrangements for centerpieces as well as for
decorating the ceremony, which will have your guests in awe.
\ Based on the venue for both the wedding and the reception,
your wedding florist should be able to tell you which selection
of blooms will go best together. Whether you are using church
pews in a small chapel or individual seats for a garden wedding,
the type of flowers chosen will make or break the décor of
the venue. Even if you have ideas in mind of the type of florist
you would love to see, a good florist will be able to tell you if a
particular bloom might be too heavy for certain atmosphere or
too pale based on the backdrop of colours available.
\ Finding the perfect wedding florist also means finding someone
who understands that you actually have a budget working with.
A good florist will be able to extend options to you in various
price ranges that will create the desired effect.
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
NOTES
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Photographer
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER
Are you available for our date? __________________________________
How would you describe your photography style? ________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How would you describe your working style? Do you blend into
the background or take charge and give lots of direction? _________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How many weddings have you shot? ____________________________
________________________________________________________________
Have you shot many weddings that were similar to mine in size
and style? ______________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Can I give you a list of specific shots we would like? ______________
________________________________________________________________
How many pictures will you take? _______________________________
________________________________________________________________
How far in advance do I need to book with you? __________________
________________________________________________________________
How far will you travel to a wedding before charging a travel fee?
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Is the work that I am seeing all yours and only yours or is it a
compilation of work from more than one photographer? __________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Do your packages include one or two photographers and is there
an extra fee for a second photographer? _________________________
________________________________________________________________
How many and what kind of cameras do you use? Do you have
back-up equipment if something breaks? ________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Are you flexible in the timeline? ________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What timeline would you suggest? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you require dinner? ________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How will you and your assistants be dressed? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
If my event lasts longer than expected, will you stay? Is there an
additional charge? _____________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you charge a fee if the wedding and reception are in more than
one location? What if we want to go to a third location for pictures?
Is there a charge for this? _______________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What happens if on the day of the wedding you are unavailable?
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Do you offer a website and CD of my images? If so, is this included
in the packages or this is an extra fee? ___________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
If you don’t have a package that works for me, would you be willing
to try and customize one that suits my specific needs and is within
my budget? ____________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Is unlimited coverage included in your packages or is there an
extra fee for all day coverage? ___________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Is the engagement session included? ____________________________
________________________________________________________________
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Are albums or prints included in the package? ___________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Do you offer high-res images or just prints? ______________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Is colour and black and white photography included, or is there an
extra fee for it? _________________________________________________
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Do you provide retouching, colour adjustment or other corrective
services? _______________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What is the copyright for the photos? ____________________________
________________________________________________________________
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Do you offer payment plans and what are the terms? _____________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How long will it take for us to receive our albums after the
wedding? ______________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Am I able to order more photos or albums months after the
wedding? ______________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How long will you keep our photos? _____________________________
________________________________________________________________
Is there a cancellation policy? ___________________________________
________________________________________________________________
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What information do you need from me before the wedding day?
_______________________________________________________________
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NOTES
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TIPS FOR CHOOSING A PHOTOGRAPHER
\ Start searching immediately. Hiring a wedding photographer
is one of the first things you should do, because the best
professional photographers book their schedules a year in
advance. If you want outstanding pictures, start searching for
your photographer when you have decided on the date.
\ Decide what style of wedding photography you prefer. Are you
looking for a traditional approach with mostly posed images?
Or do you prefer lots of candid shots in which the subject may
not even know he or she is being photographed? Do you like the
glamour approach of fashion photography? Would you prefer a
photographer who combines all of these styles?
\ Decide what level of service you want from your wedding
photographer. Perhaps you only need photographs of your
ceremony so having just 1–3 hours of photography may be
enough for you. Other couples may prefer a complete package
that may include pre-wedding engagement sessions, rehearsal
dinner photographs, bridal portraits and newlywed photos.
\ A good wedding photographer should help make your day go
more smoothly and should make things easier for you. They
should be able to adapt and thrive in difficult situations. Find
out more about their abilities and ask about a difficult lighting
scenario, bad weather, or other catastrophes and find out how
they dealt with it in the past.
Attach any pictures you've seen or website URL's of things you like, to serve as inspiration.
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Videographer
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR VIDEOGRAPHER
What is your videography style? Cinematic, documentary or
vintage? Does it match mine? ___________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Have you ever shot a wedding at our ceremony or reception site?
________________________________________________________________
What parts of the wedding day do you film? _____________________
________________________________________________________________
How long have you been in business? ____________________________
________________________________________________________________
How much of a deposit is required to hold the date? When is the
balance due? ___________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What is the cancellation policy? _________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Who owns the copyright to the video? What kind of usage rights do
I have? _________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Will you provide references or a portfolio? _______________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Do you work alone or do you have an assistant? __________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What do you normally wear to weddings?________________________
________________________________________________________________
How do you coordinate with a wedding photographer?____________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What types of cameras, tapes, and microphones will the
videographer use? ______________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Will there be back-up equipment on hand for the event? _________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Do you have lighting available? __________________________________
________________________________________________________________
Can you do multiple camera shots? ______________________________
________________________________________________________________
Will you do interviews? _________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
What is your editing style? ______________________________________
________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How much input can I have in music selection? __________________
________________________________________________________________
When can we expect our video back? ____________________________
________________________________________________________________
Will it be available online? ______________________________________
________________________________________________________________
How do you charge for services? Do you offer packages? __________
________________________________________________________________
TIPS FOR CHOOSING A VIDEOGRAPHER
\ Wedding Videography is the live taping of one’s wedding.
One might ask why you need both photography and
videography but many couples appreciate as many memories
as possible and as many different kind of wedding shots as
possible.
\ In addition to the memories, many bridal couples find that on
the wedding day, they are so nervous and anxious of the day
itself and worry so often about whether anything will go wrong
that they miss most of the day. They do not really hear the
speech that their dear uncle performed, they did not see the
lovely song the little cousins sang and they really might not
remember who was in attendance.
\ One other sad, but real reason for having a video of the
wedding is to have memories of our loved ones once they have
passed on. The video imparts special meaning when we can go
back and actually see our special relatives celebrating with us.
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Cake
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR BAKER
How much experience do you have making wedding cakes, and
will you be the one doing the baking exclusively, or will you have
assistance? ____________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you have a portfolio? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you do cupcakes and other desserts? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Can you provide references? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I schedule a tasting? ______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What flavours/fillings do you offer? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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When are you planning on baking the cake? ____________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you offer artificial/show cakes? _____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you provide sheet cakes? __________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What rentals do you have available? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Am I required to provide a cake stand? _________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Can I bring in my own flowers/cake topper? _____________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you decorate with fresh flowers? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Will you deliver? Set-up? Is there a charge with this? ____________
_______________________________________________________________
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How far ahead do I need to order my cake? _____________________
_______________________________________________________________
What would the total cost of the cake be, and do you charge
additional fees for any decorations? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is your policy on returning extras such as the cake toppers,
and what if something is damaged? ____________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer tastings? Is there a fee for this? ____________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you lend, rent or sell cake knives? __________________________
_______________________________________________________________
How much cake should I order? ________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What is the cost per serving? __________________________________
How much of a deposit do you require? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
When is the balance due? _____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you provide a written contract for me to sign outlining the
costs and details of the cake? __________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
CAKE DETAILS
Company: _____________________________________________________
Address: ______________________________________________________
Contact: ______________________________________________________
Cake Details: __________________________________________________
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Tasting Date & Time: __________________________________________
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Cost: __________________________________________________________
Deposit: _______________________________________________________
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QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR DJ
Are you available for our date? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What services do you offer? ____________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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What do you normally wear to weddings?_______________________
_______________________________________________________________
What is included in your music library? ________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Do you offer an early set-up time? ______________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Will you take song requests? ___________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you offer lights and effects? If so at what cost? _______________
_______________________________________________________________
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How many hours will you play for a specific fee? ________________
_______________________________________________________________
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How far will you travel? ________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Are you familiar with our reception location? ___________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What equipment do you bring? _________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What do you need the facility to provide for you? _______________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
Do you carry insurance? _______________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
What are your rates? __________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
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Can you provide references? ___________________________________
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How long have you been in business? ___________________________
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Do you have a contract? _______________________________________
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How far ahead do you book? ___________________________________
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Do your require a deposit? _____________________________________
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Do you offer payment plans? ___________________________________
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SONG LIST
Ceremony Bride Entrance: _____________________________________
Bridal Party Entrance: __________________________________________
First Dance: ___________________________________________________
Father Daughter Dance: ________________________________________
Mother Son Dance: ____________________________________________
Bouquet Toss: _________________________________________________
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