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PERSONALITY PERSONALITY ASSESSMENTASSESSMENT
An approach to enhance effective An approach to enhance effective personalitypersonalityDr Leow Chee SengDr Leow Chee Seng
Yale Consultancy Sdn BhdYale Consultancy Sdn Bhdwww.yaleconsultant.com
[email protected]@yaleconsultant.comM.D(UKM), MBA(UPM), CIA, PhD(USM)M.D(UKM), MBA(UPM), CIA, PhD(USM)
PERSONALITY PROFILEPERSONALITY PROFILE
A Quick Method of A Quick Method of
Self-ExaminationSelf-Examination
QuestionnaireQuestionnaire
After completing personality After completing personality scoring sheet, now we are scoring sheet, now we are
analyzing personal personality.analyzing personal personality.
There’s Only One There’s Only One
Accept the factAccept the fact
No Two AlikeNo Two Alike
It’s what underneath It’s what underneath That CountsThat Counts
Each One of Us Is Each One of Us Is UniqueUnique
PERSONALITY POTENTIALPERSONALITY POTENTIAL
A Look at Our Individual AssetsA Look at Our Individual Assets
Type of PersonalityType of Personality
Popular sanguinePopular sanguine
Powerful CholericPowerful Choleric
Perfect MelancholyPerfect Melancholy
Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic
Popular SanguinePopular Sanguine
Popular SanguinePopular Sanguine How this world needs Popular SanguineHow this world needs Popular Sanguine The lift of joy in times of troubleThe lift of joy in times of trouble The touch of innocence in a jaded eraThe touch of innocence in a jaded era The word of wit when we’re weighted downThe word of wit when we’re weighted down The lift of humor when we’re heavyheartedThe lift of humor when we’re heavyhearted The ray of hope to blow away our black cloudsThe ray of hope to blow away our black clouds The enthusiasm and energy to start over and over The enthusiasm and energy to start over and over
againagain The creativity and charm to color a drab day.The creativity and charm to color a drab day. The simplicity of a child in complex situations.The simplicity of a child in complex situations.
Personality of SanguinePersonality of Sanguine
Popular sanguine ChildrenPopular sanguine Children
Appealing PersonalityAppealing Personality
Talkative, storytellerTalkative, storyteller
Life of the PartyLife of the Party
Personality of SanguinePersonality of Sanguine
Memory for colorMemory for color
Hold on to the listenerHold on to the listener
Good on stageGood on stage
Wide-Eyed and Wide-Eyed and InnocentInnocent
Personality of SanguinePersonality of Sanguine
Enthusiastic and ExpressiveEnthusiastic and Expressive
CuriousCurious
Always a childAlways a child
Volunteers for JobsVolunteers for Jobs
Personality of SanguinePersonality of Sanguine
Creative and ColorfulCreative and Colorful
Inspires and Charms OthersInspires and Charms Others
Seems interestingSeems interesting
Makes friends easilyMakes friends easily
Being cheerful keeps you healthyBeing cheerful keeps you healthy
Perfect MelancholyPerfect Melancholy
Perfect MelancholyPerfect Melancholy
How the world needs perfect Melancholy How the world needs perfect Melancholy The depth to see into the heart and soul of lifeThe depth to see into the heart and soul of life The artistic nature to appreciate the beauty of the The artistic nature to appreciate the beauty of the
worldworld The talent to create a masterpiece where nothing The talent to create a masterpiece where nothing
existed beforeexisted before The ability to analyze and arrive at the proper The ability to analyze and arrive at the proper
solutionsolution The eye for detail while others do shoddy workThe eye for detail while others do shoddy work The aim to finish what they startThe aim to finish what they start The pledge, “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing The pledge, “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing
right”right” The desire to “do all things decently and in order”The desire to “do all things decently and in order”
Personality of Perfect MelancholyPersonality of Perfect Melancholy
Deep, Thoughtful, AnalyticalDeep, Thoughtful, Analytical
Serious and PurposefulSerious and Purposeful
Genius – IntellectGenius – Intellect
Talent and Creative Talent and Creative
Personality of Perfect MelancholyPersonality of Perfect Melancholy
Likes Lists, Charts, Likes Lists, Charts, Graphs, and FiguresGraphs, and Figures
Detail ConsciousDetail Conscious
Orderly and OrganizedOrderly and Organized
Neat and TidyNeat and Tidy
Personality of Perfect MelancholyPersonality of Perfect Melancholy Perfectionist – High StandardsPerfectionist – High Standards
EconomicalEconomical
Seeks Ideal MateSeeks Ideal Mate
Deep Concern and CompassionDeep Concern and Compassion
A sensible man watches for problems ahead and A sensible man watches for problems ahead and prepares to meet them. The simpleton never prepares to meet them. The simpleton never looks, and suffer the consequences. looks, and suffer the consequences.
Powerful CholericPowerful Choleric
Powerful CholericPowerful Choleric
How this world needs powerful cholericHow this world needs powerful choleric The firm control when other are losing theirThe firm control when other are losing their The cut of decision for foggy mindsThe cut of decision for foggy minds The grip of leadership to take a chance in doubtful The grip of leadership to take a chance in doubtful
situationsituation The confidence to hold true in the face of ridicule.The confidence to hold true in the face of ridicule. The independence to stand alone and be countedThe independence to stand alone and be counted The road map to life when we’ve gone astray.The road map to life when we’ve gone astray. To urge to “take arms against a sea of troubles To urge to “take arms against a sea of troubles
and by opposing, end them.” and by opposing, end them.”
Personality of Powerful CholericPersonality of Powerful Choleric
Born LeaderBorn Leader
Compulsive Need for ChangeCompulsive Need for Change
Strong- Willed and DecisiveStrong- Willed and Decisive
Can Run EverythingCan Run Everything
Personality of Powerful CholericPersonality of Powerful Choleric
Goal OrientedGoal Oriented
Organizes wellOrganizes well
Delegates worksDelegates works
Thrives on OppositionThrives on Opposition
Personality of Powerful CholericPersonality of Powerful Choleric
Has little needs for friendsHas little needs for friends
Is usually rightIs usually right
Excels in EmergenciesExcels in Emergencies
Without wise leadership, a notion is in trouble, Without wise leadership, a notion is in trouble, but with good counselor there is safety.but with good counselor there is safety.
Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic
Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic How the world needs Peaceful PhlegmaticHow the world needs Peaceful Phlegmatic The stability to stay straight on courseThe stability to stay straight on course The patience to put up with provokers.The patience to put up with provokers. The ability to listen, while others have their sayThe ability to listen, while others have their say The gift of mediation, uniting opposite forces.The gift of mediation, uniting opposite forces. The purpose of peace at almost any priceThe purpose of peace at almost any price The compassion to comfort those hurtingThe compassion to comfort those hurting The determination to keep your head, while all The determination to keep your head, while all
around are losing theirs.around are losing theirs. The will to live in such a way that even your The will to live in such a way that even your
enemies can’t find anything bad to say about you. enemies can’t find anything bad to say about you.
Personality of Peaceful PhlegmaticPersonality of Peaceful Phlegmatic
All purposeAll purpose
Low-key PersonalityLow-key Personality
EasygoingEasygoing
Calm, Cool, CollectedCalm, Cool, Collected
Personality of Peaceful PhlegmaticPersonality of Peaceful Phlegmatic
Patient – well BalancedPatient – well Balanced
Happily Reconciled to LifeHappily Reconciled to Life
Has Administrative AbilityHas Administrative Ability
Mediates ProblemsMediates Problems
Personality of Peaceful PhlegmaticPersonality of Peaceful Phlegmatic
Easy to Get Along WithEasy to Get Along With
Has Many FriendsHas Many Friends
Is a Good ListenerIs a Good Listener
Gentle words cause life and health; griping Gentle words cause life and health; griping brings discouragementbrings discouragement
PERSONALITY PLANPERSONALITY PLAN
A Way to Overcome Our Personal A Way to Overcome Our Personal WeaknessWeakness
Popular SanguinePopular Sanguine
Popular SanguinePopular Sanguine
You have to accept their personality and…..You have to accept their personality and…..
No Follow throughNo Follow through
No-Fault PeopleNo-Fault People
Problem One : Talk Too MuchProblem One : Talk Too Much
Talk Half as Much as BeforeTalk Half as Much as Before
Watch for Sighs of BoredomWatch for Sighs of Boredom
Condense Your CommentsCondense Your Comments
Stop ExaggeratingStop Exaggerating
Remember: Colorful carried to extremes becomes Remember: Colorful carried to extremes becomes lyinglying
Problem 2: Self-CenteredProblem 2: Self-Centered
Be sensitive to Other People’s InterestsBe sensitive to Other People’s Interests
Learn to ListenLearn to Listen
Remember: Be sensitive to others’ needs and Remember: Be sensitive to others’ needs and listen to what they have to saylisten to what they have to say
Problem 3: Uncultivated MemoriesProblem 3: Uncultivated Memories
Pay attention to NamesPay attention to Names
Write Things DownWrite Things Down
Don’t forget the ChildrenDon’t forget the Children
Remember: Even though you can rationalize why Remember: Even though you can rationalize why you have a bad memory, no one wants to hear you have a bad memory, no one wants to hear about it. Pay attention to people’s name, write about it. Pay attention to people’s name, write things down and try to take note of where you left things down and try to take note of where you left your car and your child.your car and your child.
Problem 4: Fickle and Forgetful Problem 4: Fickle and Forgetful friendsfriends
Read the Friendship factorsRead the Friendship factors
Put others’ Needs FirstPut others’ Needs First
Remember: Popular sanguine, it’s not easy to Remember: Popular sanguine, it’s not easy to be a “good friend” but it’s more than worth be a “good friend” but it’s more than worth the effort. Don’t settle for an audience, the effort. Don’t settle for an audience, become a friend.become a friend.
Problem 5: Interrupt and Answer for Problem 5: Interrupt and Answer for OthersOthers
Don't think you Must Fill All the GapsDon't think you Must Fill All the Gaps
Remember: One who interrupts and answers Remember: One who interrupts and answers for other is rude and inconsiderate, and after for other is rude and inconsiderate, and after a while, unwelcomea while, unwelcome
Problem 6: Disorganized and Problem 6: Disorganized and ImmatureImmature
Pull Your Life TogetherPull Your Life Together
Grow UpGrow Up
Remember for sanguineRemember for sanguine
To Popular Sanguine needs a Savior.To Popular Sanguine needs a Savior.Without divine help how can he;Without divine help how can he;
Curb his tongue,Curb his tongue,Control his ego.Control his ego.
Not think too highly of himself.Not think too highly of himself.Cultivate his memory.Cultivate his memory.
(The Holy Spirit gives remembrance.)(The Holy Spirit gives remembrance.)Concern himself with others.Concern himself with others.
Look out for others and not for himselfLook out for others and not for himselfCount the costCount the cost
Perfect MelancholyPerfect Melancholy
Perfect MelancholyPerfect Melancholy
Accept them as:Accept them as:
One of a Kind?One of a Kind?
Problem 1: Easily DepressProblem 1: Easily Depress Realize No One Likes Gloomy PeopleRealize No One Likes Gloomy People
Don’t Look for TroubleDon’t Look for Trouble
Don’t get hurt So EasilyDon’t get hurt So Easily
Look for the positivesLook for the positives
Read Blow Away the Black CloudsRead Blow Away the Black Clouds
Remember: Accentuate the positives, Eliminate the Remember: Accentuate the positives, Eliminate the negativesnegatives
Problem 3: Have Low Self-ImagesProblem 3: Have Low Self-Images
Search Put the Source of Your InsecuritiesSearch Put the Source of Your Insecurities
Listen to Evidence of “False Humility”Listen to Evidence of “False Humility”
Remember: Perfect Melancholies have the Remember: Perfect Melancholies have the greatest potential for success. Don’t be your greatest potential for success. Don’t be your own worst enemy. own worst enemy.
Problem 3: ProcrastinateProblem 3: Procrastinate
Get the “Right Things” Before StartingGet the “Right Things” Before Starting
Don’t spend So Much Time Planning.Don’t spend So Much Time Planning.
Remember: If Perfect Melancholies didn’t Remember: If Perfect Melancholies didn’t spend so much time in planning, they spend so much time in planning, they wouldn’t force the rest of us incompetents to wouldn’t force the rest of us incompetents to go ahead without preparation and botch up go ahead without preparation and botch up intricate work! intricate work!
Problem 4: Put Unrealistic Demands Problem 4: Put Unrealistic Demands on Otherson Others
Relax your StandardsRelax your Standards
Grateful You Understand Your Grateful You Understand Your TemperamentTemperament
Remember: Not everything in life can be Remember: Not everything in life can be perfect, so relax.perfect, so relax.
Powerful CholericPowerful Choleric
Powerful CholericPowerful Choleric
We got to accept the fact that, they areWe got to accept the fact that, they are
Mr. No-FaultMr. No-Fault
Problem 1: Compulsive WorkersProblem 1: Compulsive Workers
Learn to relaxLearn to relax
Read when I relax I feel GuiltyRead when I relax I feel Guilty
Take the Pressure off OthersTake the Pressure off Others
Plan Leisure ActivityPlan Leisure Activity
Remember: You can relax and not feel guiltyRemember: You can relax and not feel guilty
Problem 2: Must be in ControlProblem 2: Must be in Control
Respond to other LeadershipRespond to other Leadership
Don’t look Down of “The Dummies”Don’t look Down of “The Dummies”
Stop ManipulatingStop Manipulating
Remember: Stop manipulating others and Remember: Stop manipulating others and looking down on “the dummies”looking down on “the dummies”
Problem 3: Don’t know how to Problem 3: Don’t know how to Handle peopleHandle people
Practice PatiencePractice Patience
Keep Advice Until AskedKeep Advice Until Asked
Tone Down Your ApproachTone Down Your Approach
Stop Arguing and Causing TroubleStop Arguing and Causing Trouble
Remember: No one likes an impatient, bossy Remember: No one likes an impatient, bossy troublemakertroublemaker
Problem 4: Right but UnpopularProblem 4: Right but Unpopular
Let Someone Else Be RightLet Someone Else Be Right
Learn to ApologizeLearn to Apologize
Admit You have Some FaultsAdmit You have Some Faults
Remembers: If only the Powerful Choleric would Remembers: If only the Powerful Choleric would open his mind to examine his weakness and admit open his mind to examine his weakness and admit he had a few , he could become the prefect he had a few , he could become the prefect person he thinks he is.person he thinks he is.
Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic
Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic
Let’s advice and understand,Let’s advice and understand,
They always use the principle: Calm and They always use the principle: Calm and steady win the race.steady win the race.
Problem 1: Not excitingProblem 1: Not exciting
Try to get EnthusedTry to get Enthused
Remember: Get enthused. Start with once a Remember: Get enthused. Start with once a month and work up from there.month and work up from there.
Problem 2: Resist ChangeProblem 2: Resist Change
Try something NewTry something New
Remember: Try your best to think of Remember: Try your best to think of something new at least once a week. Your something new at least once a week. Your partner deserves a change.partner deserves a change.
Problem 3: Seem LazyProblem 3: Seem Lazy
Learn to Accept Responsibility for Your LifeLearn to Accept Responsibility for Your Life
Don’t put Off Until TomorrowDon’t put Off Until Tomorrow
Motivate YourselvesMotivate Yourselves
Remember: You Peaceful phlegmatic deserve to be Remember: You Peaceful phlegmatic deserve to be henpecked if you can’t motivate yourselves to henpecked if you can’t motivate yourselves to responsible action. responsible action.
Problem 4: Have a Quiet Will of IronProblem 4: Have a Quiet Will of Iron
Learn to Communicate Your Feelings.Learn to Communicate Your Feelings.
Remember: Open up before it’s too late. Don’t Remember: Open up before it’s too late. Don’t hide your light under a bushel.hide your light under a bushel.
Problem 5: Appear Wishy-WashyProblem 5: Appear Wishy-Washy
Practice Making DecisionsPractice Making Decisions
Learn to Say NoLearn to Say No
Remember: Learn to say no and Practice Remember: Learn to say no and Practice making decisions. Start with chocolate and making decisions. Start with chocolate and vanilla if all thirty-one flavors are just too vanilla if all thirty-one flavors are just too much to cope with at once!much to cope with at once!
How to Get Along with OthersHow to Get Along with Others
The popular Sanguine The popular Sanguine PersonalityPersonality
How do we deal with popular How do we deal with popular sanguine ?sanguine ?
Recognize their difficulty in Accomplishing Recognize their difficulty in Accomplishing TasksTasks
Realize they talk without thinking firstRealize they talk without thinking first Help them to keep from accepting more than Help them to keep from accepting more than
they can do.they can do. Don’t expect them to remember Don’t expect them to remember
appointments or be on time.appointments or be on time.
How do we deal with popular How do we deal with popular sanguine sanguine
Praise them for everything they accomplishPraise them for everything they accomplish Remember they are circumstantial people.Remember they are circumstantial people. Bring them present: They Like New ToysBring them present: They Like New Toys Accept that they make fun out of what would Accept that they make fun out of what would
be embarrassing others. be embarrassing others. Realize they mean wellRealize they mean well
Perfect Melancholy Perfect Melancholy PersonalityPersonality
How do we deal withHow do we deal with perfect melancholy perfect melancholy
Know That They Are Very Sensitive and Get Hurt Know That They Are Very Sensitive and Get Hurt Easily.Easily.
Realize they Are Programmed with a Pessimistic Realize they Are Programmed with a Pessimistic Attitude.Attitude.
Learn to Deal With Depression.Learn to Deal With Depression.
Compliment Them Compliment Them
How do we deal withHow do we deal with perfect melancholy perfect melancholy
Accept that they like it quiet sometimes.Accept that they like it quiet sometimes.
Enjoy Quite?Enjoy Quite?
Try to keep a reasonable scheduleTry to keep a reasonable schedule
Realize that neatness is a necessityRealize that neatness is a necessity
How do we deal withHow do we deal with perfect melancholy perfect melancholy
Help them Not to Become Slave to the Help them Not to Become Slave to the Family.Family.
(a special note for men with Perfect (a special note for men with Perfect Melancholy wives!)Melancholy wives!)
How do we deal with How do we deal with powerful choleric powerful choleric
Recognize they are born leadersRecognize they are born leaders
Insist on Two-Way CommunicationInsist on Two-Way Communication
Know They Don’t Mean to HurtKnow They Don’t Mean to Hurt
Don't Push Your LuckDon't Push Your Luck
How do we deal with How do we deal with powerful cholericpowerful choleric
Try to Divide Areas of ResponsibilityTry to Divide Areas of Responsibility
Realize they are not Compassionate Realize they are not Compassionate
Know they are always rightKnow they are always right
How do we deal with How do we deal with Peaceful Phlegmatic Peaceful Phlegmatic
Realize they need direct motivationRealize they need direct motivation
Help them set goals and make rewardsHelp them set goals and make rewards
Don’t Expect EnthusiasmDon’t Expect Enthusiasm
Realize that Putting Things Off Is their Form Realize that Putting Things Off Is their Form of Quiet Control of Quiet Control
How do we deal with How do we deal with Peaceful PhlegmaticPeaceful Phlegmatic
Force them to make decisions.Force them to make decisions.
Don’t Heap All the Blame on ThemDon’t Heap All the Blame on Them
Encourage them to accept responsibilitiesEncourage them to accept responsibilities
Each Person Is a Each Person Is a Unique BlendUnique Blend
LeadLead
POPULAR POPULAR SANGUINESANGUINE
Witty EasygoingWitty Easygoing
LeadLead
POWERFUL POWERFUL CHOLERICCHOLERIC
Decisive Decisive OrganizedOrganized
PEACEFUL PEACEFUL PHLEGMATICPHLEGMATIC
Unemotional Unemotional Strong-WilledStrong-Willed
AnalyzeAnalyze
PERFECT PERFECT MELANCHOLYMELANCHOLY
Artistic EmotionalArtistic Emotional
AnalyzeAnalyze
Natural Blends – Outgoing, Optimistic, Outspoken
Natural Blends – Pessimistic, Soft-spoken, Introverted
COMPLEMENTARY BLENDS
COMPLEMENTARY BLENDS
RELATIONSHIP ORIENTED
TASK ORIENTED
Personality PrinciplesPersonality Principles
A Path to Improved Relationship A Path to Improved Relationship with Otherswith Others
We don’t like to be fenced In We don’t like to be fenced In
Boxes From the Beginning
When we community members
When We Marry
Understanding Our Basic Understanding Our Basic TemperamentTemperament
Method to improve yourselvesMethod to improve yourselves
Doesn’t Fence us inDoesn’t Fence us in
Admit Your WeaknessAdmit Your Weakness
Let’s Make a Personal PlanLet’s Make a Personal Plan
Assess Your StrengthsAssess Your Strengths
Method to improve yourselvesMethod to improve yourselves
Evaluate Your WeaknessEvaluate Your Weakness
Seek Other OpinionSeek Other Opinion
Plan Your Step for Personal ImprovementPlan Your Step for Personal Improvement
Ask Your Family for HelpAsk Your Family for Help
Encourage Honest OpinionEncourage Honest Opinion