PERSONAL PERSONAL DEVLOPMENTDEVLOPMENT

UNIT 2UNIT 2

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Terms DefinedTerms Defined

1.1. Adolescence Adolescence - The stage of growth - The stage of growth between childhood and adulthood.between childhood and adulthood.

2.2. Consequences Consequences - results of a choice - results of a choice made or action taken.made or action taken.

3.3. DecisionDecision – the act of making a – the act of making a choice or coming to a solutionchoice or coming to a solution

4.4. EtiquetteEtiquette – manners, accepted – manners, accepted rules of behavior.rules of behavior.

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5.5. GoalsGoals – something a person wants to do, to – something a person wants to do, to have or to achieve, and is willing to work have or to achieve, and is willing to work for it.for it.

6.6. ImpressionImpression – effect produced on the mind – effect produced on the mind or emotions.or emotions.

7.7. Needs Needs – something that you have to have – something that you have to have in order to live.in order to live.

8.8. PrioritiesPriorities – items that rank high in order of – items that rank high in order of importance to an individual.importance to an individual.

9.9. RespectRespect – consideration, showing regard – consideration, showing regard for the worth of someone or something.for the worth of someone or something.

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10.10. ResponsibilityResponsibility – an obligation or duty – an obligation or duty for which a person is held accountable.for which a person is held accountable.

11.11. RightsRights – special privilege, benefit, or – special privilege, benefit, or personal favor to which one is entitled.personal favor to which one is entitled.

12.12. Self-ConceptSelf-Concept – the mental picture – the mental picture people have of themselves; their people have of themselves; their opinion about themselves.opinion about themselves.

13.13. Self-EsteemSelf-Esteem – the sense of worth a – the sense of worth a person attaches to oneself.person attaches to oneself.

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14.14. Self-RespectSelf-Respect – the ability to hold – the ability to hold oneself in high esteem.oneself in high esteem.

15.15. ValuesValues – ideas about right & – ideas about right & wrong and what is important in your wrong and what is important in your life.life.

16.16. WantsWants – Things that you would like – Things that you would like to have but are not necessary for to have but are not necessary for survival.survival.

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4 Types of Growth and 4 Types of Growth and DevelopmentDevelopment

Physical- has to do with body Physical- has to do with body changeschanges

Social- the way you behave and actSocial- the way you behave and act Emotional- the way you express your Emotional- the way you express your

feelings.feelings. Intellectual- developing the ability to Intellectual- developing the ability to

think.think.

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CHANGES DURING CHANGES DURING ADOLESCENCEADOLESCENCE

PUBERTY-CHANGES IN BODY TO PUBERTY-CHANGES IN BODY TO BECOME THAT OF AN ADULT.BECOME THAT OF AN ADULT.

DEALING WITH HORMONESDEALING WITH HORMONES FEELINGS OF EMOTIONAL ROLLER FEELINGS OF EMOTIONAL ROLLER

COASTERCOASTER ABILITY TO SOLVE MORE COMPLEX ABILITY TO SOLVE MORE COMPLEX

PROBLEMSPROBLEMS

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NEEDS VS. WANTSNEEDS VS. WANTS

NEEDS ARE THE NEEDS ARE THE THINGS ESSENTIAL THINGS ESSENTIAL FOR LIFE SUCH AS FOR LIFE SUCH AS CLOTHING, FOOD, CLOTHING, FOOD, AND SHELTER.AND SHELTER.

WANTS ARE THE WANTS ARE THE THINGS THAT YOU THINGS THAT YOU DESIRE BUT DON’T DESIRE BUT DON’T NEED TO SURVIVE.NEED TO SURVIVE.

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VALUESVALUES

HONESTYHONESTY TRUSTTRUST DEPENDABLEDEPENDABLE FAMILYFAMILY MONEY MONEY

MANAGEMENTMANAGEMENT KINDNESSKINDNESS MANNERSMANNERS

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DECISION MAKING PROCESSDECISION MAKING PROCESS

1. ID the decision to 1. ID the decision to be made.be made.

2. List your resources 2. List your resources and alternativesand alternatives

3. Analyze and study 3. Analyze and study your alternatives.your alternatives.

4. Make your decision.4. Make your decision. 5. Act on your 5. Act on your

decision.decision. 6. Analyze your 6. Analyze your

decision.decision.

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Setting GoalsSetting Goals

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Importance of GoalsImportance of Goals

Goal Goal – something you plan to do, be, or – something you plan to do, be, or have & something you are willing to work have & something you are willing to work for.for.

To reach goals make sure they are:To reach goals make sure they are: Stated in your own wordsStated in your own words PositivePositive RealisticRealistic Something you really desireSomething you really desire

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GoalsGoals

A. Personal GoalsA. Personal Goals1. Short-term Goals 1. Short-term Goals – goals that can be – goals that can be accomplished in the accomplished in the near future.near future.a. finishing a a. finishing a homework homework assignmentassignmentb. applying for a b. applying for a part time jobpart time job

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GoalsGoals

2. Long-term Goals – 2. Long-term Goals – more far reaching more far reaching and take longer to and take longer to achieveachieve

a. graduating a. graduating from collegefrom college

b. starting b. starting your own businessyour own business

c. getting c. getting marriedmarried

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GoalsGoals

B. Group GoalsB. Group Goals – – sharing sharing goals putting aside your goals putting aside your goals for a while to work goals for a while to work togethertogether

1. Family goals1. Family goals

a. repainting a housea. repainting a house

b. planning holiday activitiesb. planning holiday activities

2. Community or youth 2. Community or youth group goalsgroup goals

a. help a family whose home a. help a family whose home has burnedhas burned

b. raise moneyb. raise money

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Achieving Your GoalsAchieving Your Goals

A. A. Keep your goals Keep your goals in mindin mind1.Create a mental 1.Create a mental picture of your picture of your goalgoal2. Write it down & 2. Write it down & review it oftenreview it often

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Reaching your GoalsReaching your Goals

B. B. Stay active with Stay active with your goalyour goal

1. Go to class1. Go to class

2. Study2. Study

C. C. Be DeterminedBe Determined

1. Don’t let 1. Don’t let stumbling blocks stumbling blocks get you downget you down

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Human ResourcesHuman Resources

Resource – Resource – anything you anything you use to help use to help

accomplish your goal.accomplish your goal. 1. 1. Human ResourcesHuman Resources – –

have to do with people.have to do with people.a. family, teachers, friends, a. family, teachers, friends, neighbors, employers, neighbors, employers, people in the people in the community.community.

b. YOU – your health, b. YOU – your health, interests, skills, knowledge, interests, skills, knowledge,

abilities, and attitudes.abilities, and attitudes.

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Nonhuman ResourcesNonhuman Resources

Material ResourcesMaterial Resources – money, property, – money, property,

supplies, time, and supplies, time, and tools.tools.a. community a. community resourcesresources

1. libraries1. libraries2. schools2. schools3. churches3. churches4. hospitals4. hospitals5. parks5. parks

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Steps Toward MaturitySteps Toward Maturity

IndependenceIndependenceDealing with EmotionsDealing with EmotionsDependabilityDependabilityWillingnessWillingness to work hard to work hard

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Physical TraitsPhysical Traits

Are the Are the distinguishing distinguishing characteristics of characteristics of your body. People your body. People can see these. Ex. can see these. Ex. Hair, eyes, skin, Hair, eyes, skin, nose, height, and nose, height, and weight.weight.

Some are inherited Some are inherited from your parentsfrom your parents

Lifestyle can affect Lifestyle can affect physical traitsphysical traits

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Self-conceptSelf-concept

The way you The way you see yourselfsee yourself

Self-esteem is Self-esteem is the way you the way you feel about your feel about your self concept.self concept.

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PersonalityPersonality

The way you think and act that The way you think and act that makes you unique.makes you unique.

Two factors affect personality-Two factors affect personality-physical traits and environmentphysical traits and environment

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I.I. Making the Most of YourselfMaking the Most of Yourself

A.A. Every day you make choices about Every day you make choices about what you will be.what you will be.

1. learning a skill1. learning a skill

2. staying drug-free2. staying drug-free

3. making new friends3. making new friends

B. Being successful at something you B. Being successful at something you work for feels good. It helps you feel work for feels good. It helps you feel more confident & willing to take on more confident & willing to take on other challengesother challenges

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MAKING THE MOST OF MAKING THE MOST OF YOURSELFYOURSELF

CC. . Success and self-confidence go hand in hand. Success and self-confidence go hand in hand.

1.1.Self-confidenceSelf-confidence means people are means people are

confident in their abilities.confident in their abilities.

2.With self-confidence people feel 2.With self-confidence people feel

good about themselves & their good about themselves & their

accomplishments.accomplishments.

3.Even small successes help you learn3.Even small successes help you learn

to believe in yourselfto believe in yourself

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II.II. What’s Your Potential?What’s Your Potential?

PotentialPotential –The possibility of becoming –The possibility of becoming more than you are right now. Being more than you are right now. Being all you can be.all you can be.

A. A. Ways to reach your potentialWays to reach your potential1. Check out your interests and abilities1. Check out your interests and abilities

a. Make a list of each one, (ask people a. Make a list of each one, (ask people

who know you their opinion)who know you their opinion)

b. Match your interests and abilities.b. Match your interests and abilities.