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PERMISSION TO FAIL AND NECESSARY ENDINGS

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P E R M I S S I O N T O FA I LA N D N E C E S S A R Y E N D I N G S

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Our changing world

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B E C O M I N G E X P L O R E R S & I N N O VAT O R S

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Failure is not the opposite of success, it is part of it

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1 0 , 0 0 0 P R O T O T Y P E S

H O W T O G I V E & R E C E I V E P E R M I S S I O N

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P L AY I N G I T S A F E L E A D S T O E X T I N C T I O N

H O W T O G I V E & R E C E I V E P E R M I S S I O N

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T H E E X T R AVA G A N T S O W E R

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I S R I G H T N O W T H E R I G H T T I M E F O R T H I S I D E A ?

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A N D W H AT S H O U L D B E E N D E D ?

W H AT I S W O R T H F I X I N G ,

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E C C L E S I A S T E S 3 : 1 - 8

For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest. A time to kill and a time to heal. A time to tear down and a time to build up. A time to cry and a time to laugh. A time to grieve and a time to dance. A time to scatter stones and a time to gather stones. A time to embrace and a time to turn away. A time to search and a time to quit searching. A time to keep and a time to throw away. A time to tear and a time to mend. A time to be quiet and a time to speak. A time to love and a time to hate. A time for war and a time for peace.

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A N D W H AT S H O U L D B E E N D E D ?W H AT I S W O R T H F I X I N G ,

• We are not sure if an ending is necessary, or if the situation is fixable instead

• We are afraid of the unknown, and afraid of confrontation

• We worry about hurting someone • We do not possess the skills to bring about a good

ending • We do not learn from them, so we repeat them again

and again

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A N D W H AT S H O U L D B E E N D E D ?

W H AT I S W O R T H F I X I N G ,

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• G R O W I N G , B U T N O T T H E B E S T

• S I C K , A N D N O T G E T T I N G B E T T E R

• D E A D , A N D TA K I N G U P S PA C E

W H AT T O P R U N E

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A N D W H AT S H O U L D B E E N D E D ?W H AT I S W O R T H F I X I N G ,

• What has been the history and performance so far?

• Is there anything in place that might make a difference?

• What is changing that I can believe in?

• Is there energy for change?

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H O W T O G O A G A I N

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– J O N S I N C L A I R

“Failure is a bruise not a tatoo”Often the greatest work that God does is not through us, but in us

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H O W T O G O A G A I N

• Stop doubting ourselves

• Stop negative self-talk

• Stop negative thinking

• Stop people pleasing

• Stop criticising ourselves and others

• Stop procrastinating

• Stop fearing failure

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‘For a star to be born, there is one thing that must happen: a gaseous nebula must collapse. So collapse.

Crumble. This is not your destruction. This is your birth.’