People think about you
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People think about youAll the Time!
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How do you feel when…. Someone yells during the movie you are
watching?
Someone throws a tantrum in the middle of a store you are in?
A student gets really upset over a small problem, such as breaking a pencil?
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How do you feel when…..
Someone says “good job” to you?
Someone sits calmly and quietly next to you on the van?
A student gives you a compliment?
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How do these behaviors make people feel?
Expected behaviors- following the rules of a situation
Unexpected behaviors- don’t follow the rules of a situation
Ex. sitting quietly in a movie theater
Ex. yelling to your friend in the middle of the movie
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Expected vs. Unexpected
Clip-Boy Meets World Pilot 2:24- 4:46
Classroom Behavior
Expected Behaviors Unexpected Behaviors
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Pick any social situation
Expected Behaviors Unexpected Behaviors
http://safeshare.tv/w/GfQERGtjQd
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Good thoughts/ Weird thoughtsPeople are constantly having thoughts about
you- When you are sitting quietly- When you are eating your lunch- When you are talking
• Each of us can make people have good or weird thoughts about us by how we behave
• Complete worksheet
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Review Worksheet and Clip
Review, from worksheet, things that make you have good thoughts about people
Watch clip- Elf http://safeshare.tv/w/hjgKfZYugt
Fill out thought bubble for what the person is thinking about the other person’s behavior
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Why is it important to know that people think about you?Have good or weird thoughtsMight give you a reputation for doing or not
doing somethingMight affect if they want to be around you
How we react to problems affects how people think about us and act towards us
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For example….
If people think we are over-react and act unexpectedly,
others feel ____________________
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For example…..
If people think we act expected and have calm reactions,Others feel ___________________________
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Size of the problemLevel 1 and 2- small problems- Things that make you uncomfortable (ex.
bumping into a person)
Level 3- more serious problem- A small injury, losing a cell phone
Level 4 and 5- problem that upsets a lot of people and causes physical pain or money problems
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How do we react? It’s important to figure out how big a
problem is because if you over-react, others feel awkward, uncomfortable, or annoyed
How much emotion should we let out when you are upset and how much much is supposed to stay in?
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What are you thinking about this person?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0g-d0f6i3KE (4.52- 7:54- Boy meets world pilot)
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What’s the size of the problem? Corey- not being able to go to the baseball
game on Friday
What are we thinking about him?
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Let’s come up with 1-5 Scale Problems
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Now let’s role-play reactions to these problems
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Let’s role-play reactions
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1-5 Scale Continued….New Project- Make a poster labeling level 1 to 5 problems- Glue picture next to the level of the problem
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Come up with your own 1-5 Scale
List one problem at each level
Complete worksheet
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Reactions- Does it match the size of the problem?
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Reactions- Does it match the size of the problem?
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Classroom 1 to 5 scaleReview of level of the problem
How big Appropriate
of a problem? Reaction
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1-5 Scale
• Read comic:
- What’s the level of the problem?
- How big is her reaction?
- What could she have done instead?
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Over-reactionsAnswer first 2 questions on worksheet
Watch clip and complete worksheet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bJT_ddJEUQ&feature=relmfu
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Review Over-reactions WorksheetWhat over-reactions did you see to small
problems?
What over-reactions did you see to things that made someone happy or excited?
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1-5 Scale ProblemsWatch clip and identify problems that “The
Extremes” over-react to
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03Nh7Rq96aY
On your worksheet,1. Write in problems we identified on the board2. Then complete the level of the problem and
one appropriate reaction for each problem
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Let’s see what you have learnedComplete Problem Rating Scale
independently
Turn into Caitlin