Part 1 the problem of fatherlessness
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Transcript of Part 1 the problem of fatherlessness
THE PROBLEM?
It is Not an Event…
It is a state of Life!
The Welfare System Has not created the “Great Society”
What are the effects?
Many different factors contribute … Here are several : Employment issues Dysfunctional relationship with the child’s mother Addiction Welfare policies No commitment to marriage Life frustration Generational patterns (my dad left me, so I left my
children) Selfishness Divorce … and the list goes on (Strong 2012).
The Cycle Perpetuates Itself
Males express: Frustration Feeling Powerless Being Moneyless
Children express: Emptiness Loss “father hunger”
Western “Ideal” vs. Black Culture
Western “Ideal” Father Black Culture / Reality
1. Provider / Material Sustenance
1. Quality Time with Children
2. Legal and Genetic Endowment 2. Giving Emotional Support
3. Protection, Concern for Well-being of children
3. Providing Discipline
4. Formation to child’s character and personality
4. Role Model for Work Ethic, Respect
5. Caregiving (in a Paternal manner) 5. Teach: Boys -> Men Teach: Girls -> Ladies
6. Encourage Economic Support (usually provided by others)
Solutions FocusEmpowerment Strategies - Enable Black Fathers to perceive themselves as: Competent Valuable and Valued Worthwhile members of group
Programs that increase: Power Self-sufficiency Unity
To BREAK the cycle of absentee and uninvolved
Compelling the Christian to Act…
http://youtu.be/v4X4OfU2eds
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