Overcome your fear of public speaking in 5 simple steps

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Are you afraid of Public Speaking? Well here in the first of my QUE-Tips Series, I show you how to overcome your fear of public speaking in 5 SIMPLE steps. The tips are Quick, Useful and Easy in other words - QUE-Tips! Do enjoy them and put them into practice and watch you self-confidence grow!

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Overcome Your Fear of Public Speaking in 5 Simple Steps

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By Lorna Barrow

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Would you rather be the corpse at a funeral than deliver the eulogy?

Do you develop mysterious “unavailability” when your leadership role requires you to address an audience?

Does the thought of speaking before an audience make you so frighten that you would prefer to walk blindfolded backwards down Ontario’s Highway 401?

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Follow these 5 simple steps to overcome your fear…

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Then...

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Step #1 – Write down your real fears

Failing – if I get up and speak and I fail, I will be so embarrassed! Being judge – If I speak in public, will people think I am stupid, will they think I am uneducated? Expressing my true feelings – If I say how I really will they still like me afterwards?

Etc, etc, etc

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What I’m really afraid of is…

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Step # 2 – Write down your limiting beliefs

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Limiting beliefs wipe out your positive feeling

Positive Feelings... Limiting Beliefs

I have a great voice! Yes…But: People won’t listen to me

I can make a presentation that can win me the contract!

Yes…But: I don’t have a College Degree

I have great information to share!

Yes…But: I can’t dress to suit that crowd

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Step # 3 - Work on removing the limiting beliefs

Begin the process by taking your limiting beliefs and examining them. Try to answer questions such as:

–Why do I believe these things? –What might happen if I didn’t believe

them? –Has any of it ever been true? –Has it ever been different? –What is really holding me back?

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Step # 4 – Find positive beliefs to replace the limiting ones

1. Use affirmations

2. Meditate

3. Read books that can help you

4. Use Good old-fashioned prayers

5. Do anything else that works for you

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Step # 5 - Practice your public speaking

3. Use this feedback to grow!

1. Give short speeches to “friendly” audiences

2. Listen to the feedback from these audiences

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Remember the 5 simple steps to overcome your fear…

1. Write down your fears

2. Write down your limiting beliefs

3. Work on removing your limiting beliefs

4. Find positive beliefs to replace the limiting beliefs

5. Practice your Public Speaking

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Credits…

These QUE-Tips were created by:

Lorna Barrow of

Impact Training & Development Services 18, 10th Avenue Newton Terrace

Christ Church Barbados

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