Our Lady of Grace Roman Catholic Church

November 3, 2019

31st Sunday in Ordinary Time

Our Mission: We change lives through the Risen Christ

By Prayer We pray every day for the success of our parish’s mission as well as for our own intentions.

By Presence We join our communion of faith for

Mass every Sunday for mutual support and for the grace God offers us.

By Witness We love God and

neighbor each day.

By Support We share our gifts and we

encourage one another.

We Celebrate the Eucharist

Vigil of Sunday: 5:00pm Saturday Evening Sunday: 8:00am, 10:00am (Children’s Liturgy of the Word), And12:00 Noon (Choir)

Weekdays: Monday – Friday 8:00am and 9:00am · Saturday 8:00amHoly Days: See inside

666 Albin Avenue, West Babylon, New York 11704Parish Office (631) 587-5185 Fax (631) 587-1427

Faith Formation Office (631) 661-9353 Parish Social Ministry Office (631) 661-9354

Day Care Office (631) 422-4681www.ourladyofgrace.net parish@ourladyofgrace.net

Baptism

Call the Parish Office for more information or to schedule an appointment for a Baptism interview.

This should be done as soon as practicable.

Matrimony Arrangements for marriage should be made as soon as

possible, but not less than 18 months prior to the intended wedding date.

Anointing of the Sick Celebrated each Saturday during the 8:00am Mass for those fac‐ing surgery or those with major disorders. Call the Parish Office

for other arrangements.

Parish Office Hours:

Monday and Tuesday: 9am – 9pm

Wednesday – Friday: 9am – 5pm

Saturday: 3‐6pm and Sunday: 9am – 12pm

Initiation as a Catholic Any adult, teen, or child older than age seven who is interest‐ed in becoming a Catholic or in completing the Sacraments ofInitiation as a Catholic (Baptism, Confirmation, Communion),

is invited to contact the Parish Office.

Regular Devotions: Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament:

Mondays from 2pm to 9pm except holidays or

when noted.

Miraculous Medal Novena with Rosary:

Mondays following the 8am and 9am Masses.

Holy Face of Jesus:

Hour of Reparation First Friday after 9am Mass.

Padre Pio Prayer Group:

Second Tuesday of each month at 7:30pm.

Scripture Sharing:

Every Tuesday at 9:30am (except during July & August.)

Worship This Week

Worship for Sunday, November 10, 2019 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time -

2 Mc 7:1-2,9-14 / 2 Thes 2:16-3:5 / Lk 20:27-38

Mon. St. Charles Borromeo

Nov. 4 Rom 11:29-36 / Lk 14:12-14 8:00 For the souls in Purgatory

9:00 For the souls in Purgatory

Tues. Weekday

Nov. 5 Rom 12:5-16 / Lk 14:15-24

8:00 For the souls in Purgatory

9:00 Margaret Ann Jenkins

Wed. Weekday

Nov. 6 Rom 13:8-10 / Lk 14:25-33

8:00 For the souls in Purgatory

9:00 For the souls in Purgatory

Thurs. Weekday

Nov. 7 Rom 14:7-12 / Lk 15:1-10

8:00 For the souls in Purgatory

9:00 Walter Barra

Fri. Weekday

Nov. 8 Rom 15:14-21 / Lk 16:1-8

8:00 Paola Dora Minardi

9:00 Roberto Mascio

Sat. The Dedication of the Lateran Basilica

Nov. 9 Ez 47:1-2,8-9,12/1Cor3:9-11,16-17/Jn2:13-22

8:00 Leona Caracappa

Presider We Pray Especially For

5:00pm Fr. Joe Josephine Russo

8:00am Fr. Joe Giovanni Iemma, Alice Besemer, Juanita Lugo

10:00am Fr. Martin People of the Parish

12:00pm Fr. Gabriel Joseph Fontana

Reconciliation Held every Saturday at 4‐4:45pm in the Church

or call for an appointment.

From The Pastor

On Oct. 15, 2019, the U.S. Supreme Court declined to review the case of Caleigh Wood, a Maryland pub-lic high school student who, despite threats of receiving a failing grade, refused to deny her Christian faith by making a written profession of the Muslim conversion prayer known the “Shahada”: “There is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.” She was also forced to watch pro-Islamic PowerPoint slides. The presentation included the statements: “Most Muslim’s faith is stronger than the average Christian. Men are the manag-ers of the affairs of women. Righteous women are therefore obedient.” The school’s content specialist testified that use of such materials was inappropriate, and he would have advised the teacher not to use it. Yet the 4th Circuit Court of Appeals ruled the teaching did not violate the Establishment Clause. Richard Thompson of The Thomas More Law Center represented Caleigh in the federal lawsuit against LaPlata High School and commented on the Supreme Court’s refusal to hear the case: “I’m not aware of any public school which has forced Muslim students to write the Lord’s Prayer or John 3:16: ‘For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believe in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.’ Yet, under the pretext of teaching history or social studies, public schools across America are promoting Islam in ways that would never be tolerated for Christianity or any other religion. It’s disappointing that the Supreme Court did not clarify the test which courts should use when ruling on free speech challenges to public school classes on religion.” The legal question was whether La Plata High School violated the First Amendment’s Establishment and Free Speech Clauses when it gave Caleigh an assignment she was unable to complete without violating her reli-gious conscience. She believes it is a sin to profess the existence of any other god but the Christian God. School officials refused her father’s request that she be allowed to opt-out or be given an alternative assignment. She stood firm in her beliefs and refused to complete her anti-Christian assignment and received a failing grade. Thompson said, “Teaching Islam in schools has gone far beyond a history lesson. Prompted by zealous Islamic activism and emboldened by confusing court decisions, schools are bending over backwards to promote Islam while at the same time denigrating Christianity. Although the Supreme Court passed an opportunity to provide clearer guidance on this im-portant issue, there will be other chances as this issue isn’t going away.” In New Jersey, Chatham Middle School 7th graders were taught “Islam is the true faith.” They were re-quired to memorize the Muslim creed, learn the “5 Pillars of Islam” and watch videos to convert them. Globally, according to the organization “Open Doors”, Christians are the most persecuted religious group. From Nov. 1, 2017 to Oct. 31, 2018, over 245 million Christians live in places where they experience high levels of persecution; 4,305 Christians were killed for their faith; 1,847 churches and Christian buildings were attacked; and 3,150 Christians were detained without trial, arrested, sentenced or imprisoned. In the face of this great suffering, we must pray for persecuted Christians here and worldwide remem-bering the words of James 1:2-4, “Consider it all joy, my brothers, when you encounter various trials, for you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. And let perseverance be perfect, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” Despite persecution, God always cares for His people, and He will never leave or forsake Christians who suffer because of their faith in Christ.

Respect Life: “Miracle “Micro-Preemie” Born at 24 Weeks Goes Home”

Chris & Jessica Hill brought their “micro-preemie” son Finn home after more than 3 months in neona-tal intensive care at Nemours Children’s Hospital in Orlando. A “micro-preemie” is a baby born weighing less than 1 lb., 12 oz., or before 26 weeks’ gestation. Baby Finn was born at 24 weeks and weighed only 1 lb., 2 oz. After her water broke unexpectedly, Jessica was rushed to the hospital and gave birth to Finn via emer-gency C-section. At Finn’s gestational age of 24 weeks, 66% - 80% of the babies born survive. He needed a special breathing machine. Jessica said, “His entire hand fit around my fingernail. We hold life so precious and to watch a premature baby fight for their life is extremely inspiring. We’re extremely blessed he survived.” Finn weighed 5 lb., 7 oz. when he came home. (LifeSiteNews.com; Sept. 24, 2019)

This week:

Monday, November 4: Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament 2–9pm (Church)

Tuesday, November 5: Youth Ministry 7:30-9pm (Room 212-214)

Wednesday, November 6: Adult Confirmation 7‐8:45pm (Room 109) RCIA 7‐9pm (Room 106)

Our Clergy

Rev. Joseph Davanzo, Pastor Rev. Gabriel Miah, Associate Rev. Martin Adu Gyamfi, Associate Deacon Ricardo Garcia Deacon Brian Miller Deacon Irwin Saffran

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Our Pastoral Staff

Jeanmarie Florio, Day Care Director Peggy Harnisch, Faith Formation Director Ann Kristoffersen, Parish Social MinistryJames Pisano, Facilities Manager Terence Purtell, Director of Music Doreen Scalise, Kids of the Kingdom /Summer Fun Coordinator Tischa Stanley, Angel Care Coordinator

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Our Pastoral Council

Lee Abseck Ralph Fiorillo Mary Ellen McEntee James Nevins Maria Russello-Chetti Lucy Sanchez Kathleen Scheid Concetta Whelan

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Our Finance Council

Richard Korcz (Trustee) Leonardo LoCricchio Debra Nicosia Joseph Salzone Robert Scharf (Trustee) Thomas Villella

Memorials for the Week of: November 3, 2019

Sanctuary Lamp

In memory of Anthony Martorella

Bread and Wine

Our Parish Communion

Banns of Marriage

Second Banns: Kathryn Panarese and

Scott Matthew Christensen

(St. Peter the Apostle, Parsippany, NJ)

Third Banns: Alissa Fajek and Ryan Reeves

Alyssa Makely and Jason Pollock

Faith Formation

Faith Formation Hours: Monday to Friday: 9:00AM - 4:00PM. Also open on Saturdays while class is in session.

Evening and weekend appointments available; please call.

Journey

Our Lady of Grace Parish offers Middle School Students in Grades 6, 7, and 8 their very own Youth Ministry Program called “JOURNEY.” The group provides youth the opportunity to deepen their

relationship with Jesus and their faith, while having fun and building friendships. Journey will meet 1-2 Mondays per month between September and May.

Please join us from 7pm-8:30pm in Rooms 210/212 on the following dates: Nov. 4 & 18, Dec. 16, Jan. 13 & 27, Feb. 10 & 24, Mar. 9 & 23, Apr. 6 & 20, May 4 & 28. (Dates are subject to change if needed)

Also, please check out our Facebook Page @ Journey OLOG or email us at: JourneyOLOG@gmail.com.

Diocesan Catechetical Service Awards

This year’s recipients are Nancy Gorman – Levels 1 and 2, Mary Ellen Kunis – heads up our Special Needs program, Donna Backes – Special Needs, Geri Cronin – Level 2, Colleen and Joe Pidel – Level 7 and MS Youth Ministry. Pictured below are Nancy Gorman, Mary Ellen Kunis, Colleen and Joe Pidel (left) and Nancy Gorman, Mary Ellen Kunis, Peggy Harnisch, Collen Pidel, Joe Pidel (right). We cannot thank our Catechists enough for the work they do!

News from the Sewing Group

This year the American Girl Doll will be raffled off after all Masses the weekend of November 23rd and 24th. The money collected will be donated to Parish Outreach. This time of year they do so much for families in need and we can all help. Please stop by to see the doll and her new wardrobe and bedding while purchasing a ticket.

Parish Social Ministry

Pope Francis’ Message for World Food Day 2019

“The yearly celebration of World Food Day makes us hear the dramatic plea of those of our brothers and sisters who suffer from hunger and malnutrition. We are in fact witnessing how food is ceasing to be a means of sub-sistence and turning into an avenue of personal destruction. 820 million of the world’s people suffer from hun-ger, while almost 700 million are overweight. Due to poor nutrition, pathologies arise not only from the imbal-ance caused by “excess”, often resulting in diabetes, cardiovascular diseases and other forms of degenerative diseases but also by “deficiency”; as documented by an increasing number of deaths from anorexia and bulimia.

“This reality calls for a conversion in our way of living and acting, and nutrition represents an important starting point. Nutritional disorders can only be combatted by the cultivation of lifestyles inspired by gratitude for the gifts we have received and the adoption of a spirit of temperance, moderation, abstinence, self-control and soli-darity. These virtues, which have accompanied the history of humanity, summon us to a more simple and sober life, and unfailing concern for the needs of those around us. By adopting such a lifestyle, we will grow in a fra-ternal solidarity that seeks the common good and avoids the individualism and egocentrism that serve only to generate hunger and social inequality.” Suffolk Advocate Schedule for Seniors needing assistance for Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), Medicare Savings Program (MSP) and HEAP.

Rainbow Center Wednesday, Nov. 4 8:30am – 11:00am Tanner Park Nutrition Wednesday, Nov.13 8:30am - 1:00pm Wyandanch Nutrition Wednesday, Nov. 20 9:30am - 1:00pm West Babylon Library Thursday, Nov. 21 10.00am – 12:00pm

SENIORS: Phone Scam Warning

Suffolk seniors are receiving calls supposedly from the Sheriff’s Office stating a warrant can be resolved by making a payment over the phone with gift cards. Neither the Sheriff’s Office nor any government entity will call requesting payment over the phone. For more infor-mation, or if you fallen victim to a scam, call 1-877-FTC-HELP.

Food Pantry - Turkey Time!

As we approach Thanksgiving, you may have the opportunity through work or su-permarket savings to receive a turkey at little or no cost. Our Parish Social Ministry does have a refrigerator and freezer, and turkey donations for those in need are ap-preciated between now and New Year’s. These items need to be brought to our Out-reach office during office hours on Monday – Thursday, 10:00am – 1:30pm.

Each year, we ask members of our parish family to adopt families in need by donat-ing a complete Thanksgiving basket. These turkeys and baskets will be distributed on Sunday, November 24th.

Please contact our office at 631-661-9354 before this date, if you are able to assist.

Parish Memorial Opportunities

We are pleased to offer several ways to remember or honor loved ones through our liturgical memorials:

Sanctuary Lamp: $10 Rose for Life: $10 Bread & Wine: $25 each Prayer Garden Paver: $75

You can also make a donation to our Altar Fund; cards are available in the Parish Office.

Ministries with Children and Families

Advent Wreath Making - All families Invited!!

When: Sunday December 1, 2019, at 11:00am—right after the 10:00 Mass

Advent wreaths are a wonderful way for every family to celebrate the 4 Sundays of this season of Advent in preparation for the birth of Jesus. We’ll have coffee, tea, hot cocoa and snacks! Join us!

Cost: Wreath, Candles greenery: $10.00 Candles and greenery: $5.00, bring your own 10” wreath ring.

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Please return this form and your money by Nov. 16, 2019 in order to ensure that we have enough supplies!

Family last name ___________________________________

Total # attending _______________ #children under 6 __________________

Phone # _____________________ email _________________________________________

We will be able to bring something for the dessert table - Y or N (cookies, brownies etc.)

Please send this part of the form with your $ 10.00 / $ 5.00 in an envelope to the office, or mail to OLOG, 666 Albin Ave. West Babylon, NY 11704 Attn: Faith Formation

Amt. enclosed ___________________ $ 10.00 ____________________ $ 5.00

Please stop in to the Parish Office to arrange a special memorial for your loved one.

For more information, call 631-587-5185.

Support Our Lady of Grace with a Calendar Raffle $25 ticket that lasts 6 months.

Parish News

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Please Pray for Those Who Have Died This Week

Let Us Welcome Our Newly Baptized Into Our Parish Communion

All Parishioners are Invited

To the

Formal Installation

Of

Reverend Joseph V. Davanzo

As Pastor of

Our Lady of Grace Church

West Babylon

When: 12:00PM Mass, Sunday, November 17th, 2019

Reception to follow in Fr. Shanahan Hall

Very Rev. Gerard Gordon will officiate

Lincoln Jerome Siebuhr Abigail Mendez

Angelo V. Minichiello Catherine Mastrosimone

Stewardship in Action 2019 Catholic Ministries Appeal

Goal: 196 Pledges to Date: $44,916.00 Average Pledge: $229.16

OLOG Daycare

Call Jeanmarie Florio at 631-422-4681 or email jflorio@ourladyofgrace.net

More Parish News

Angel Care

Opens at 7:00AM and is $10 daily when used. After care is $13 per day and closes at 6:00PM. Please contact Tischa Stanley at 631-893-6564 or pstanley@ourladyofgrace.net.

Youth Ministry News

Thank you for all who contributed to last week’s ‘Bake Sale.’ We raised over $500 to fund our ministry and help pay for Teen-2-Teen Christmas shopping.

A Rose For Life

A new way to memorialize your loved ones is through ‘A Rose for Life.’ Every week we will have a red rose next to the statue of the Blessed Mother in the daily chapel when someone re-quests it. Anyone wishing to partake in this, feel free to contact the Parish Office at 631-587-5185, and we will assist you. The cost is $10.00 per week.

Save the Date!

Advent Lessons & Carols—December 7th @ 7:00pm

Join us for this seasonal worship in church featuring Fr. Gius and the choir from Sts. Cyril & Methodius.

“Safety in the Sanctuary”

We will be holding a seminar in the church on Tues‐day, Nov. 5th at 7pm entitled “Safety in the Sanctuary” conducted by Officer Lamoure of the SCPD Homeland Division. As you know, places of worship are consid‐ered a ’soft target’ in these unsettling times and it is important for us to be educated and vigilant in our own parish. All staff, volunteers, and parishioners are strongly encouraged to attend.

Multiple Mass Intentions

We offer one multiple Mass Intention for Sundays alternating between the Saturday, 5pm (Vigil) and the Sunday 8am Masses.

More Parish News

Daily Mass Intentions:

Many weekday Mass intentions are still available. Please remem-ber your deceased loved ones or other intentions in a Mass.

Unannounced Masses

We offer unannounced Mass intentions which will be offered almost immediately. These intentions will not be put in the bulletin or announced at any of the Masses. The cost is $20. Please come to, or

call, the Parish Office at 631-587-5185.

Coping With the Holiday Workshops

Free workshop for those who are grieving, offering support, education and strategies to cope with loss of a loved one. When: Thursday, November 7, 2019 – 7:00– 8:30PM Where: Good Shepherd Hospice Administration Building, 110 Bi-County Blvd, Suite 114, Farmingdale Registration Required – Carolyn Lisi Haas @ 631-828-7629

“Beyond the Tears”

Coping with the Holidays after a Loss

When: Thursday, November 14th at 7:30pm Where: St. Mary's Parish in East Islip, NY Guest speaker: Jane Malone, Ph.D Refreshments will be served. Registration required, 631-581-4266 X 101

New Ministry – The Altar Society

Our Lady of Grace has formed a new ministry, The Altar Society. Members take turns caring for the altar linens used at Masses. If you would like to help , please call the Parish Office at 631-587-5185 or email : galetwohig@ourladyofgrace.net.

Low Gluten Hosts

Low gluten hosts are available for those who cannot receive Holy Communion using the usual bread. Please stop in the sacristy before Mass and speak with one of our sacristans, Anthony Colletti or Fran Sarvis. They will be happy to accommodate you.

Mass Intentions