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Membership Magic
NYS AAUWSummer Leadership
Conference
Hartwick CollegeOneonta, NY
July 12, 2009
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Once Upon a Time…
A time that never was but always is!
Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes“Women Who Run With the Wolves”
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Your Fairy Godmother
Joan [email protected]
Cultural Interests Director
Director of Whimsy(Unofficial)
Fairy Tale Specialist
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Most Popular Fairy Tale
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My Personal Favorites
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OVERVIEW
Fairy Tale:
Accessories
Friends
Destinations
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FAIRY TALE ACCESSORIES
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Time/The Witching Hour• The time is now!
If not now – when?
• It’s all in the timing.
• Respect time at meetings.
• It’s time to connect with your branch & your community.
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The Magic Wand • The earliest record for
a stick with magic powers comes from the 15th century.
• It can be used to invoke the powers of the unseen world.
• Can be used for crowd control or casting spells.
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Tiara/Crown – Symbol of Royalty• In Greco-Roman
culture, a gracious host would provide each guest with a crown.
• Every guest should be treated like royalty.
• All our members want to be treated like royalty.
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Ruby SlippersThese are the
“power pumps” of fairyland!
Believe you have the power!
Click your heels 3Xand say:
There’s no place like AAUW….
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A Message from Cinderella
“One shoe can change your life.”
But always remember…
“Glass slippers can hurt your feet.”
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The Poison Apple• What membership
poisons are present in your branch?
• Are there cliques or hidden agendas at work?
• Is your branch inclusive or exclusive?
• Is there an antidote?
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FAIRY TALE FRIENDS
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The Fairy Godmother• Triple Archetype –
fairy/god/mother
• Her role is to give you what you need Not what you want
• Who are they in your branch?
• Create a “fairy godmother” training program.
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Tinker Bell
• Clap your hands if you believe in fairies!
• What do you believe in? Yourself/Branch/Mission?
• BELIEVE!
• One fairy can make a difference!
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Sleeping Beauty• Sleeping Beauty needs
a wake-up call!
• An overlooked element in the story is timing.
• Realize the gifts & talents in your branch
• You have the power to rescue your branch
Princes need not apply!
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Rapunzel• Remember bad hair
days are inevitable.
• Does Rapunzel/your branch need a new do?
• Or does she need to let her hair down?
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Rumpelstiltskin
• Gestalt – naming the problem.
• Can you name the biggest problem in your branch?
• Naming the problem is the first step infinding a solution.
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Beauty & the Beast• In the fairy tale tarot,
B & the B is the strength card.
• We must claim the beauty as well as tame the beast.
• Look for the beauty in your members & in all you do!
• Use your collective strengths to solve problems.
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Diamonds & Toads A Tale of Kind & Unkind Daughters
• Which sister are you?
• What comes out of your mouth? Diamonds or toads?
• Honor the wise woman.
• Watch your words carefully. You can never get them back.
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The Frog Prince• Don’t be afraid of new
ideas.
• Try new things or do tried & true with a new twist.
• Promises are important!
• Sometimes you’re the prince & sometimes you’re the frog!
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FAIRY TALE DESTINATIONS
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Fairy Tale Destinations
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The Gingerbread House• The Gingerbread
House is one of the sweetest dreams of childhood.
• It is a symbol of abundance.
• When things go well – how sweet it is!
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LIFE LESSONS
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Life Lessons from the Boy Who Wouldn’t Grow Up
• I gotta crow!
• Think happy thoughts!
• Take flight!
• Believe…
• To __ is an awfully big adventure!
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Classic Ending• Increasing membership
is no fairy tale.
• Happily ever after is about empowerment NOT entitlement.
• Branches that grow & learn are smarter than they were before and empowered to live…
Happily Ever After!
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Each of the classic fairy tales has been honed & polished,
perfected by the minds & spirits, needs & wisdom of millions of
people across hundreds, perhaps thousands of years. The richness of the human
journey is here. Listen. Pass it on.
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So that there will not passfrom our future the
enchantment that begins with the honored words“Once upon a time,
long ago and far away: in a deep forest
there lived a child –much like you.” Robert Fulghum