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Non-Violent Dispute Resolution
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Situational Awareness
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Pay attention to your physical surroundings
• Consider safe parking location - lighting conditions• Look before entering• Know where the exits are located
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Pay attention to people around you
• Loitering• Seasonally inappropriate attire (i.e. coat during warm
weather) • Conversation / Words / Tone • Actions by others
• Clinched fists • Rapid or deep breathing • Excessive sweating • Crying
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Be safety conscious at all times
• Lock car doors• Single lane at a drive-thru (boxed in)• ATM transactions• Buddy system
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Communication Techniques
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Communication Techniques
• Use of effective communication plays a key role in conflict resolution or conflict avoidance. Good verbal and non-verbal communication may help to avoid or diffuse a situation. Being a better communicator may prevent the escalation of conflicts.
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Verbal
• Factors to consider• Audience• Age• Culture• Education / profession
• Choice of words• Jargon• Positive / negative• Offensive
• Tone• Volume
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Non-verbal Communication
• Body language / movements / stance• use appropriate body language for the situation
• Eye contact / lack of eye contact • Personal space (distance between individuals)
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Barriers Affecting Communication
• Environmental factors• Noise (radio, traffic, other conversations)• Time of day (day vs. night)• Location (outside, inside a building etc.)
• Language• Secondary language• Dialect
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Barriers Affecting Communication
• Physical / emotional factors• Hearing• Sight• Prior interaction with the person• Anger• Fear
• Cultural• Direct eye contact is expected or acceptable in some cultures,
while in others is it would be considered a sign of disrespect.• Personal space or proximity varies among different cultures.
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Ego State Theory
Introduced by Eric Berne in the early 1960s
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Parent
• Establishes rules - sets boundaries • Provides training • Directive • Disciplinary • Authoritative
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Child
• Emotional - quick to anger • Follows directions or rebels • Does not filter what he / she says
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Adult
• Does not dictate• Uses good judgment, not emotions, to make decisions• Carefully assesses the situation• Shows respect for others and will compromise when
necessary
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