New Worlds of Adoption: Growing Up in Complex Families
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Department of Psychology
Harold D. Grotevant, Ph.D. Rudd Family Foundation Chair in
PsychologyUniversity of Massachusetts
Amherst USA
New Worlds of Adoption:Growing Up in Complex
Families
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Thanks to SRHD for the Invitation!
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Adoption Touches Many Lives
More than 5 million adopted persons in U.S.
1.5 million children currently live in adoptive families
Over 1.6 million women have taken concrete steps toward adoption at some point
As many as 60% of Americans have a direct personal to adoption
Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Inst, U.S. Census 2000
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Adoption as a Diverse Family Form
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Varies by adopting parent(s)
• single or two-parent• same-sex or straight• same or different race from
child• same or different nationality
from child• both parents unrelated to child
vs. one related (stepparent)
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Varies by characteristics of the adopted child
placed as infant or at older age
placed in good health or with special needs
adopted alone or with siblings
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Varies by intermediaryprivate adoption agency public child welfare system
independent adoption
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Varies by circumstances leading to adoption
birth parents wanted a better life for the child than they could provide
not emotionally ready to parent unwilling to parent following rape or
incest child removed by courts (abuse,
neglect, chemical dependency)
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4 Distinct Worlds of Adoption in U.S. Adoption of children from child
welfare system (~51,000 / yr) International adoptions (~17,200 /
yr) Infant adoptions – children
voluntarily placed by birthparents (~14,000 / yr)
Kinship adoptions, incl. by stepparents (~53,000 / yr)
[data from U.S. DHHS / CWIG ; Dept of Homeland Security - orphan visas]
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Each "world" differs in terms of Characteristics of adopters -
motivations, demographics The children - physical &
mental health, histories, risks Population dynamics & trends Family & community challenges Laws and policies that pertain
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Expanding Conceptualizations of Adoption
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Currently in USA...Adoption is a legal process:
Parenting rights and responsibilities are legally transferred from birth to adoptive parent(s).
Child is “subtracted” from one nuclear family and “added” to another.
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Toward a New Conceptualization...Instead, adoption creates a new “adoptive kinship network” that permanently links the families of birth and of rearing together, through the child, who is shared by both.
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Movement toward Openness in Adoption Started in private adoption agency
placements in late 1970s - early 1980s
Contributing dynamics:• Fewer babies to place, yet high demand• Evolving view that contact may be in the best interests of the child
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Typical features of open adoption in domestic infant placementsBirth parent(s) chooses the adoptive family
Direct contact between birth family and adoptive family members
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Nevertheless, adoptive parents are the legal parents and have all legal parenting rights and responsibilities.
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Contact may include meetings, phone calls, exchange of pictures, gifts, letters, e-mails, Skype, etc.
Contact may involve different people
Frequency varies widely
Agreements may be verbal or written
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What Have We Learned??
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Collaborative TeamHal Grotevant, UMass AmherstRuth McRoy, U of TX, Boston CollegeGretchen Wrobel, Bethel UnivMartha Rueter, Univ of MinnesotaSusan Ayers-Lopez, U of TXLynn Von Korff, U of MinnMany talented graduate and
undergrad students and volunteers
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Sincere Thanks to our Funding Partners
National Institute of Child Health and Human Development
National Science Foundation William T. Grant Foundation Rudd Family Foundation Chair
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Overarching Research Questions
Are there links between openness (structure and process) and psychosocial outcomes for adopted persons, adoptive parents, & birth parents?
How are relationships managed within adoptive kinship networks? (e.g., emotional distance regulation)
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Participants: Wave 1 (1987-92)
190 adoptive families: parents mostly white, middle to upper middle
class; mean age 40 yrs; adopted because of infertility
children: ages 4 – 12 (M=7.8 yrs); infant placements; no transracial, international, or special needs placements
169 birthmothers: mostly white, ages 14-36 at placement (M=19.3
yrs); voluntary placements – wanted a better future for her child
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Participants: Wave 2 (1996-2000)approx 8 years after Wave 1
At least one member in 177 of 190 original families – seen in their homes across the U.S.
173 adoptive mothers & 163 adoptive fathers
156 adolescents (M=15.6 yrs) 127 birthmothers
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Participants: Wave 3 (2005-2008)approx 9 years after Wave 2 169 young adult adoptees(ages 21-30; M=25.0 yrs) 103 close relationship partners 151 adoptive mothers 134 adoptive fathers
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Methodological Approach Multiple respondents• adopted child, both adoptive parents, agency staff, birth
mother (W1&2), relationship partner (W3)
Multiple types of measures• extensive personal interviews, standardized questionnaires,
family interaction task (W2), school records (elem school into college)
Quantitative and qualitative
Use of technology• web-administered measures & online interactive interview
(chat) at W3 for young adults
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Child / Adolescent / Young Adult Outcomes Adoption Adjustment
--adoptive identity, curiosity, information seeking
Family Dynamics in Kinship Network --emotional distance regulation Mental health
--internalizing, externalizing, adaptive functioning, school performance
Close relationships outside the family--relationships with peers, intimacy
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Identity involves integration of different elements
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Things that are chosen:
career path values religious & political
commitments views of self-in-relationships
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And things that do not involve choice – but must be integrated:
gender race / ethnicity sexual orientation being adopted
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Adoption Adds Complexity to Identity Development – there may be... lack of information about history,
family, and culture need to integrate difficult information need to understand self where people
don’t look like you BUT adoptive identity is not just the
sum of "facts"
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Adoptive Identity - Measurement Narrative approach has guided our interest in
both process and structure of identity.
Key variables are coded from lengthy interviews about adoption with adolescents and emerging adults.
Latent Profile Analysis revealed unitary adoptive identity construct composed of• Adoptive Identity Exploration• Internal Consistency• Flexibility
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Linking Parental Facilitation of Birth Family Contact With Adoptive Identity Development(Von Korff, 2008) Are there age and gender differences?
How stable is adoptive identity from adolescence to emerging adulthood?
Is parental facilitation of contact with birth relatives associated with adoptive identity during adolescence?
Does this effect continue into emerging adulthood?
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Are there age and gender differences?
AT ADOLESCENCE (ages 12 - 20, M = 15.6 yrs)• age: β = .31, t=4.67• gender: β = .21 (females), t = 2.71
AT EMERGING ADULTHOOD (ages 21-30, M=25.0 yrs)• age: β = .02, ns• gender: β = .09, ns
How stable is adoptive identity from adolescence to emerging adulthood?• β = .53, t=7.05
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Is parental facilitation of contact with birth relatives associated with adoptive identity during adolescence, controlling for age & gender?• β = .29, t=3.89• R2 = .21
Does this effect continue into emerging adulthood?• indirect effect through adolescent
identity: β = .15, t=2.99• R2 = .28
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“I think that I am who I am not just because of my family who raised me, or because of the two people that made me. I think it’s a combination of all that. Being able to know all of them has really helped me to become who I am.” (female, age 18)
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“As soon as I met my birthfather, I knew who I was. I don’t know why that had anything to do with it, but I was more focused on me. I didn’t actually feel a part of the [adoptive] family until I met my biological parents….I could become “me” after meeting someone else.”
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Older Literature on "Searching"
Argued that adoptees searched for birth relatives because they had poor relationships with their adoptive parents or because they were emotionally troubled
But many of these studies are from clinic populations or from groups of adoptees organized to help each other search.
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New Distinctions Emerged from MTARP Curiosity Information-seeking Searching
Wrobel, Grotevant, & McRoy (2004)Wrobel, Grotevant, Von Korff, McRoy, Ayers-Lopez (2004)Wrobel, Von Korff, Grotevant (2006)Wrobel, Grotevant, Von Korff (2008)Skinner-Drawz, Wrobel, Grotevant, Von Korff (in press)Wrobel & Dillon (2009)Wrobel, Grotevant, Von Korff (2009)
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Adoption Curiosity Pathway Model (Wrobel & Dillon, 2009)
Curiosity
Info Seeking
Searching?
Barriers Facilitators
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Curiosity - What are adolescents most curious about?
1. Why was I placed for adoption?2. Are my birth parents raising other
children - do I have brothers or sisters I don't know about?
3. What do my birth parents look like?4. How are they doing?
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What Have We Found?
Information seeking is NOT related to:
adolescents' attachment to their adoptive parents
adolescent adjustment
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Information seeking IS related to: positive expectations of relationship with
birth parents higher levels of adoptive mothers'
communicative openness about adoption lower levels of independence-granting by
adoptive mothers (i.e., more maternal control)
lower levels of perceived barriers higher levels of perceived facilitatorsNote: some of the barriers and facilitators are
policies about access to information.
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Evidence-based guidance for professional practice and for families:
Curiosity is normal part of development Information seeking is about identity and
not necessarily about developing a relationship with birth relatives
Parental control stimulates information seeking
Barriers & facilitators influence information seeking
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Family Dynamics in Adoptive Kinship Networks Fear of Reclaiming
Emotional Distance Regulation - Management of Relationships
What Does it Take to Make Contact Work?
Special Considerations in Adoptions from Child Welfare System and International Adoptions
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Comfort Zone of Interaction
Individuals have "range of tolerance for separation and connection - a comfort zone" (Farley)
When forming the adoptive kinship network, differences must be contended with in a dynamic process involving connection and separation over time
Adoption often pulls adults out of their comfort zones
Ideal situation - mutually agreeable fit Reality - like all families--Grotevant (2009)
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“We used to write daily and call each other weekly, I mean in the beginning. When the children were real little, it was tremendous intensity. And I think as our birthmother became more secure in herself and went on to finish college, her need to have to see them once a week or once a month became less and less. And you know, she feels more comfortable with us, we feel more comfortable with her, and we just know that we always have access... You just take it one day at a time. If you want it to work, you’ll work at it. We feel it’s healthy and want it to work because of our children.” (adoptive mother)
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Emotional Distance Regulation Begins Prior to Placement
Participants bring • Developmental histories• Expectations about relationships &
adoption• Relationship skills
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"Typical" Changes over the Life Course of the AKN
Contrasting desires for contact by APs and BPs at the beginning, and diverging changes over time
Increasing role of the child in contact decisions
Birthmother’s "watchful anticipation" of 18th birthday
… but "teenage things take over"
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Non-normative Changes Require Continued Distance Regulation: "Life Happens"
Entrances and exits of AKN members• Adoption and birth of additional
children• Adoptive parent divorces and deaths• Birthmother marriages and births
Geographical moves
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Mis-steps in the Dance Provide Opportunities for Growth
Paradoxical relationship Boundary violations Inappropriate familiarity
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What does it take to make contact work? Shift in thinking from nuclear family
to adoptive kinship network Valuing of child’s dual connection to
birth and adoptive parents Flexibility in day-to-day logistics Excellent communication skills Commitment to the relationship – in
the best interest of the child
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Contact Involves Special Challenges When the Child Had Been Removed from the Family
Questions about regulating the contact: who? when? where?
Protecting the child against recurrence of trauma
Developing empathic understanding of birth parents’ situation
Consideration of extended family and sibling contact
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Contact Issues in International Adoptions
• Cultural issues (stigma, shame)
• Cultural understandings about
permanence
• Language barriers
• Economic disparities
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Conclusions
Adoption is changing to meet the needs of children and families.
Because the concept of family is culturally and historically bound, adoption will continue to change and adapt.
However, we know much about the developmental needs of children – and we need to make sure that new forms of adoption meet those fundamental needs.
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It’s All About the Kids ...