Nervy Sex Appeal
Transcript of Nervy Sex Appeal
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Nervy Sex Appeal“67-year-old dissatisfi ed fl âneur picking my toothless way through the urban sprawl, self-destructive, sliding towards pathos, jacked up on Viagra and on the lookout for a contortionist who plays the trumpet.”
No surprises there. Romantic hopefuls in the London Review of Books per-sonals drolly dis themselves routinely, boasting that they are, among other things, older than 100, infertile, fl atulent, “big-boned” and look like “Hervé Villechaize and carry an odour of wheat.” David Rose of the London Review collected gems such as the one above in They Call Me Naughty Lola (Scribner, 2006).
Such humble notices starkly contrast the superhero-like self-portraits in on-line dating venues, where every woman seems to be attractive, fi t and 29 and each man is wealthy, tall and toned. But all lovelorn writers share a goal: telegraphing their worth (whether by self-abasement or by self-promotion) to potential part-ners. In his article “The Truth about Online Dating,” psychologist Robert Epstein takes a look at what modern courting reveals about us. Turn to page 28.
Delving deeper into the mysteries of our unconscious longings, neuroscientist R. Douglas Fields writes of a little-known cranial nerve that may provide a sig-naling link for subliminal sexual attraction. In “Sex and the Secret Nerve,” starting on page 20, he reveals the intriguing fi ndings about cranial nerve zero.
Most people would say that fi nding love is a key to greater happiness, along with achievements like a bigger home, a better car, more money and fame. But research suggests none of these things is likely to increase bliss signifi cantly. “Why It’s So Hard to Be Happy,” by psychologist Michael Wiederman, tells how ancient humans’ perpetual search for a better life—historically, a survival ad-vantage—can now leave us dissatisfi ed despite the comforts of today’s world. Learn more beginning on page 36. One lesson is that “happy people tend to en-gage in activities that are challenging and absorbing”—such as reading articles in Scientifi c American Mind. Okay, I slipped in that last part. Happy now?
Mariette DiChristina Executive Editor