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NAVIGATING “NO MAN’S LAND”
Helping Children Survive Family Separation and Divorce
Tracy Duffy, Family Court Counsellor (M. Ed, CCC)
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BACKGROUND
• Family Justice Services, NL
• Separation and Divorce – context
• Defining Conflict
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• Indicators of High Conflict
• Communication Conflict
PARENT DYNAMICS
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GAMES PARENTS PLAY
Messenger
Spy
Critic
Disneyland
The Pawn
The Set up
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“It is far easier to build strong children than to repair broken adults.”
- Frederick Douglas
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ACTIVITY
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CHILDREN’S REACTIONS- IMPACT OF DIVORCE
• Considerations
• “Normal” grief
Developmental impacts
• Traumatic Adjustment
(No Man’s Land)
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• Play Therapy
• Feelings Jar
• Collage
• Case Examples
INTERVENTIONS WITH CHILDREN
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ROLE OF COUNSELLOR
Considerations
Cautions – Ethics
Who is the client ?
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• Play Therapy
• Separation/Divorce
RESOURCES