Moving back home for adult children with borderline personality disorder/bipolar/anxiety
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Based on a weekly check that clears $220, you will have:
cell phone $ 20debt $ 100savings $ 60spending $$ $ 40
$20 goes towards your monthly cell phone bill.
When you have paid off your debt and are no longer paying it off, you will have a category called Living Expenses. This will cover your cell phone bill plus room and board. You are not paying anything for this prior to that in order to even things out with Erin.
Rent & security (first month at Iroquis) $ 850Living expenses for May & June $ 1,550June rent $ 600Last utilities & lost key $ 90Cigarettes $ 48
Amount owed to MamaCat:
You will pay $100 per week to pay off this debt.
30.3# of weeks to fully
pay off debt
7.3# of months to fully
pay off debt
You will pay $100 per week to pay off this debt..
30.3# of weeks to fully
pay off debt
7.3# of months to fully
pay off debt
Feb. 19Approx. date your
debt will be paid off
You will pay $100 per week to pay off this debt..
30.3# of weeks to fully
pay off debt
7.3# of months to fully
pay off debt
Feb. 19Approx. date your
debt will be paid off
When the debt is paid off, we will reevaluate these numbers. If all has been going as expected, we will begin discussing the
possibility of driving.
Time you’ve been saving
Amount saved
1 week $ 602 weeks $ 1204 weeks $ 2402 months $ 4804 months $ 9607.3 months $ 2,680
Time you’ve been saving
Amount saved
1 week $ 602 weeks $ 1204 weeks $ 2402 months $ 4804 months $ 9607.3 months $ 2,680
After 7.3 months you will have finished paying off your debt!
Savings will be used when you are ready to move out and live on your own, whenever that is. It will cover as much rent as possible, plus your first month’s rent.
Savings will be used when you are ready to move out and live on your own, whenever that is. It will cover as much rent as possible, plus your first month’s rent.
This money cannot be taken out prior to your move-out date, whether you live here for one year or two years.
The more you work…
• The sooner you pay off your debt• The more you save• You will have more spending money
• If you want to smoke (not while at home), you have to buy your own cigarettes. (I do want you to work towards quitting)
Spending $ tips:
• If you want to smoke (not while at home), you have to buy your own cigarettes. (I do want you to work towards quitting)• If you want to buy a coffee instead of making one at home, you will
have to use this money
Spending $ tips:
• If you want to smoke (not while at home), you have to buy your own cigarettes. (I do want you to work towards quitting)• If you want to buy a coffee instead of making one at home, you will
have to use this money• You can save leftover $ from one week to use the next week
Spending $ tips:
• If you want to smoke (not while at home), you have to buy your own cigarettes. (I do want you to work towards quitting)• If you want to buy a coffee instead of making one at home, you will
have to use this money• You can save leftover $ from one week to use the next week• If you want to purchase an item that is costly, save part of your
weekly spending money until you have enough
Spending $ tips:
• If you want to smoke (not while at home), you have to buy your own cigarettes. (I do want you to work towards quitting)• If you want to buy a coffee instead of making one at home, you will
have to use this money• You can save leftover $ from one week to use the next week• If you want to purchase an item that is costly, save part of your
weekly spending money until you have enough• For example, if you spent only half of your spending $, you would be able to
afford the trip to Florida in approximately November.
Spending $ tips:
REVIEW
Money will be divided into four parts:Cell phonePaying off debtSavingsSpending $$$
When debt is paid off, we will discuss driving.
Smoking
• Buy your own cigarettes with spending $$$.• No smoking in or around the house.• No leaving the house just to smoke.• Make a goal for completely giving up smoking.
Sleeping
• Get a minimum of 6 hours of sleep• After 10 pm you should be in your room. No more use of kitchen.
Going out
• Ask. Mama cat should always know where you are.• Come home at designated time.• Do not get drunk/high.• During the school year, you must be home by 11pm Sun – Thurs.• You must be home by 2pm Fri & Sat.• Sleeping over should not happen frequently, but when it does, make
sure you have arranged for a ride home the next morning at whatever time is designated.
Body modification
• Only one new tattoo per year while living here• Stud in lip, no septum at the house• No additional piercings
Self improvement
• Take medications as prescribed• Attend med check appointments• Attend weekly therapy
Personal goals:• clean up after yourself• quit smoking• accepting no as an answer• emotional control• holding back when feeling impulsive• organization (bedroom and personal belongings)• honesty
Dr. Nancy Rivas
Unacceptable…
• Loss of self control in the form of tantrum, raising voice or swearing• Illegal drugs, drinking• Damaging house or household items• Ignoring rules
Recommended:
• Healthy eating for diabetes• Regular exercise (try to get MamaCat in on this one, please)• Attend church or church group (same as above)• Take up a new hobby, join a group or take a fun class