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MOTEL DAD
Kari René Hall was working for the Los Angeles Times
when she began investigating photo projects to pursue.
On her first visit to the roach-infested Ha’ Penny Inn, the
photographer was seeking a methamphetamine addict for a
possible story. She found something quite different.
“As I was leaving, a little girl named Cailee, dressed in
pink, dashes through the motel parking lot yelling ‘Daddy!
Daddy!’ A scraggly, tattooed little man, Henry Guiliante,
wearing a greasy mechanic’s uniform, kneels down to kiss
her. This moment seemed out of place in such a harsh
environment,” says Hall. “I didn’t know it at the time, but
the photo was the beginning of a five-year documentary
project.”
The original subject of Hall’s project was to become
Michelle Harig, the mother of the little girl in pink. Because
editors at the Times weren’t interested in pursuing the story,
Hall began visiting the Guiliante family at the motel after her
shift ended. The photographer anticipated that through Michelle and her family, the pictures
would tell the story of the ongoing struggles of a mother who had become pregnant as a
teenager. A 26-year-old former heroin addict, Michelle had given birth to the first of her four
children at 16.
“I wanted to build a relationship, for them to trust me and to allow me into their life,”
Hall told Photo District News (May 2001). “I didn’t come in with cameras blazing.” Hall told
the family she didn’t want any posing, just life as normal. Michelle, Henry, and the kids dis-
cussed it and agreed.
All went smoothly until Michelle was convicted of welfare fraud and sent to jail. Henry
already had fathered six other children with three other women and abandoned them all.
This time, Henry himself had been abandoned with children needing care. At first Hall
thought her story was gone. After all, Michelle was gone, and Henry was likely to leave, as
he always had. Or would he somehow become a responsible father?
Michelle Harig first
became pregnant at 16.
Ten years later, in 1996,
she shares a soda with
Cailee, the youngest of her
four children. In the door-
way is the children’s
father, Henry Guiliante, a
mechanic who works only
sporadically.
Though Henry is sweet
with his children, Michelle
is the one who handles all
the family responsibilities,
including looking after the
children, preparing them
for school, cooking, and
cleaning the one room they
all share at the roach-
infested Ha’ Penny Inn as
they struggle to get by on
welfare and food stamps.
Henry, who has aban-
doned three other women
and six other children,
thinks of child care and
housework as woman’s
work. These four children
know he has left the others
and fear he will leave
them, too.
f Charged with welfare fraud for not disclosing that
Henry lives with her, Michelle pleads “no contest”
in hopes that she will get little or no jail time.
Instead, the judge sentences her to six months in
jail and orders her to pay $25,000 in restitution. She
must surrender in one week to serve her sentence.
a Without Michelle, Henry manages to feed
his kids and get them off to school, but he is
overwhelmed by all his other parental duties.
How long can a man who had disparaged
“woman’s work” put up with this? Will he
leave these four children as he has left his
six others?
a (BOTH) Michelle and Henry do not allow the children to leave the motel
room without supervision for fear of exposing them to the unsavory lifestyles
at the Ha’ Penny Inn.
a “Are you going home, Mommy?” asks Cailee, seated in her father’s lap. Michelle answers,
“No. No, sweetie.” After Michelle’s release, the children’s mother returns briefly but then
leaves for good.
STRUGGLINGWELFAREFAMILYPhotos by
Kari René Hall, Los Angeles
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To Hall’s surprise, the ex-biker, former addict,
ex-con, stayed on.
“That’s the difficulty and joy of documentary
work,” Hall says. “You have no idea what’s going to
happen. You just hold on for the ride.”
Hall’s story is a good example of a true narrative.
Starting out, the photographer did not know which
way the story would evolve. When the lives of her
subjects shifted, with mom going to jail, Hall shifted,
too, to a story about the dad. She searched through
earlier negatives to find pictures of Henry, who often
had been in the background of pictures tracking the
mom’s life. Hall stayed the course, and over five years
recorded the fateful changes in the life of one family.
As the story evolves, it is evident that life as a sin-
gle dad isn’t easy for Henry. “I want to spend prime
time with the kids,” he laments. “But I can’t do that
’cause I gotta be mom and dad. If I’m not givin’ ’em
a bath, I’m washin’ clothes. If I ain’t washin’ clothes,
I’m cookin’ dinner. If I ain’t cookin’ dinner, I’m
cleanin’ house. When you’re doing it completely on
your own, it’s really, really hard. No matter how
many times I clean it, it never stays clean. But I’ll
eventually figure that one out.”
Another twist occurs when Michelle is released
from jail, and she, not Henry, abandons her family.
Henry seeks and receives custody of his four chil-
dren. He continues to work occasionally on cars in
the motel parking lot, but the family just scrapes by
on Aid to Families with Dependent Children and food
stamps. Henry tries to help the children with their
homework, but he is a high-school dropout himself.
He tries to guide his teenage daughter away from the
path her mother had taken.
f At 12, Cassie is a straight-A student
but wants to wear a clingy dress with
spaghetti straps that her aunt gave her
for her birthday. Henry disapproves. He
worries about his girls.
“I don’t want them to end up at 16,
pregnant, like their mother, and rely-
ing on a man. If they stay in school,
get a good education, they’re not
going to end up like that.”
MOTEL DAD
a After a week, Henry realizes he’s going to have to deal with the
family’s filthy quarters. He begins to take charge. In the past, he had
left all house-cleaning and parental responsibilities to Michelle.
“When Michelle was here,” he admits, “when I came home, the
house was clean.”
a To save money, Henry cuts
the children’s hair as well as his
own. Cailee wanted her head
shaved, too.
a With her mother in jail and the housework piling up,
Cailee, the youngest, pitches in to wash dishes.
ABANDONED DAD & KIDS
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Henry even organizes his
motel neighbors to protest
their living conditions and
to take the owners to
court. He buys an $11 pin-
stripe suit to go to court.
Though the group loses the court case, Henry
and his kids stay together as they move from
that motel to another.
With his kids in school, Henry’s next priority
becomes finding a decent job. He joins a job
program. He prepares a résumés, performs an
Internet job search.
“God’s gave me a second chance,” he says.
“He’s gave me a second chance with a family.
He taught me how to love and be loved.”
With any great movie or book, the viewer or
reader does not know the outcome at the begin-
ning. The complication in Henry’s story
occurred when, alone, he faced whether or not
to take responsibility for his family. In this type
of saga, the photographer must keep shooting
while waiting and seeing what develops.
For the reader, the story lasts beyond the
final picture. The story is gripping, its final out-
come unknown. The story’s theme is about tak-
ing advantage of a second chance in life.
As Hall says, “This is a story of somebody
realizing what it means to be a father. It is a story
of somebody finding a purpose in life and possi-
ble redemption through being needed.”
Hall shot the story on her own time, after
work, and on weekends, often sitting in a corner
waiting and watching the lives of the family
unfold. She processed more than 350 rolls of
film and made 4"x6" prints at her local grocery
store for editing. She paid for everything out of
her own pocket.
Henry’s story went on to win the Canon
Photo Essay award in the Pictures of the Year
Contest, as well as to appear on MSNBC.com,
www.msnbc.com/modules/ps/henry/splash.asp.
The Los Angeles Times Magazine also
published it.
Following the publication of Henry’s story on
the Web and in the Los Angeles Times
Magazine, estranged family members, including
his brother, two of his older sons, and his first
wife, contacted him. Strangers have donated
money, gift certificates, mechanics’ tools,
clothes, and food. A reader paid Henry’s driver’s
license fees. Credit bureaus cleared his record.
Job offers rolled in.
“I now have a fresh start at life,” he says.n
d (TOP) Henry decides to take on poor living condi-
tions at the motel. He gathers other Ha’ Penny resi-
dents to discuss their rights as outlined in sections
in the Landlord’s and Tenant’s Rights Book. He also
calls authorities to inspect the motel, which is cited
with more than 300 infractions.
d (BOTTOM) The management responds with eviction
notices, which spurs Henry to paint placards and
lead a protest.
a After years of only sporadic work as a part-time mechanic,
Henry begins to search for employment that will adequately sup-
port his children. “If I don’t find a job today, I’ll find one tomor-
row, but I will succeed. Because I’ve got four little ones depend-
ing on me.”
a On the day Henry and the children must move, Henry puts on his suit and a clean
white shirt, packs a change of clothes in a plastic bag, and heads out to search
for a new home for his family. The move is a setback not a failure.
MOTEL DAD
FATHER IN MORETHANNAME
d Henry challenges the evictions in court, but loses the case when the management claims the evictions are necessary to
renovate the building into a tourist motel. He and the children must leave the the Ha’ Penny Inn, where they have lived for
five years. Cailee tries to cheer up her dad by playing the saxophone when she catches him looking sad.
a Seeing the misery of his four children when their mother left
makes Henry realize how much his six others had suffered. “I
seen the abandonment they felt. I’ve left my wives with the
children, and I never got to see that part of it. . . . It’s really
nice to be able to feel your child cuddling up to you and know
that they feel safe in your arms. And if my drinking and my
rowdiness kept on or I would’ve blew my brains out, I never
would’ve got to know these feelings or these emotions. I would
never have got to hear a child saying, “I love you, Daddy.”
Here, he comforts Cailee, sick with a fever.
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