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Mentoring 101

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Mentoring 101

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What is a Mentor?

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What is a Mentor?

How do you define “mentor”?

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What Does a Mentor Do?

• Guides a person by building trust and providing a positive role model.

• Understands the role and goals of the mentoring relationship.

• Is dependable, engaged and authentic.

• Focuses on the development of the mentee.

• Supports the mentee emotionally.

• Observes and advises.

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What Does a Mentor Do?

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Mentoring Matters

Studies Have Shown that Mentoring:

Decreases risks of school dropout, incarceration,

becoming a human trafficking victim and unsafe sexual

behavior.

Increases positive academic, social and economic

outcomes.

Improves physical and mental health, including

reducing depression.

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Mentoring Matters

In One Study, Youth Who Had a Mentor Were:

55% more likely to enroll in Post Secondary Education

52% less likely to skip school and 37% less likely to

skip a class.

46% less likely to start using illegal drugs.

27% less likely to start drinking.

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Who Needs A Mentor?

Everyone.

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You Probably Had A Mentor.

Think Back:

Who Was A Mentor in Your Life?

What If They Had Not Been in Your Life?

What Influence Did They Have In Your Life?

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How to be a Mentor

Build A Mentor Activity

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Keys to MentoringThe #1 key to being a mentor is being there.

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Self Advocacy

Self Advocacy is a learned

skill.

Self Advocacy is the ability

to speak up for what you

need.

Self Advocacy fosters

independence.

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Self Advocacy

Keys to Self Advocacy:

Knowledge.

Support and

Encouragement.

Confidence.

Tools.

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Active listening.

Adapting to the audience.

Reading non-verbal clues.

Seeing their perspective.

Tips for Effective Communication

Master the art of timing.

Give and engage.

Be aware of emotions and ego.

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Tips for Effective Communication

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Avoiding Mentoring

Pitfalls

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Mentoring Don’ts

Over Promise

Break Trust

Judge

Overstep Boundaries

Make It About You

Demand

Command

Try to Be the Hero

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Boundaries

Boundaries are essential for healthy and productive

relationships, including mentor-mentee relationships.

People create physical, emotional and mental boundaries

to protect themselves, a way to control their world.

Boundaries are guidelines, rules and limits that define

appropriate and inappropriate behavior.

Boundaries are influenced by upbringing, culture and

social expectations.

Boundaries are based on trust and respect.

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Boundaries and Children in Foster Care

Children learn boundaries from the adults around them. Parents teach

appropriate and inappropriate boundaries through instruction and

modeling.

Many youth in foster care come from families with poor or

inappropriate boundaries or no boundaries. This can cause them to

misinterpret behavior or lack appropriate boundaries in personal

relationships.

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Boundaries and Children in Foster Care

Trauma affects a person’s personal

boundaries.

Any type of abuse - physical, emotional, or

sexual - is a boundary invasion. It is a loss of

control.

The way a person responds to trauma is

individualized.

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Tips to Create Boundaries

Model appropriate boundaries.

Involve and listen to youth.

When inappropriate boundaries are

displayed, communicate with youth

Be up front and set appropriate boundaries.

Demonstrate respect and trust.

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What Would You Do?

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Questions

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