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AKAD NIKAHMARRIAGE CONTRACT)

A Malay wedding proper begins withthe akad nikah(marriage contract)

ceremony. The groom signs the

marriage contract and agrees to

provide the bride with a mas

kahwin(mahar,literally 'marriage gold'

in form of money or goods or anything

as requested by the bride).It is

opposite to dowry where the mas

khawin is paid by the bride to the

groom.

The mas khawinis a symbol to show

that the men is willing and are

prepared to build a family with the ladyhe chose to get married to. The

contract signing is done before a

religious official and is accompanied

by prayer.

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BERIN I BES RHENNA-ING)

If the bersandingis to

take place the next day,

the couple's hands are

dyed with henna duringthe berinai besar(great

henna-ing) ceremony.

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BERS NDINGENTHRONEMENT)

The actual wedding day is theBersanding. This literally means the

"sitting together of the bride and

bridegroom on the bridal couch".

The bersanding(enthronement)

ceremony begins with the groom's

procession with friends, relatives,musicians and people waving bunga

manggar(palm blossom) to meet the

bride. Often various good-humoured

attempts are made to waylay or stop the

groom from getting to the bride.

The main part of the bersandinginvolves

the seating of the bridal couple on a daisand sprinkling them with yellow rice and

scented water by family members,

relatives and guests as a sign of blessing.

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A silat is performed to show respect tothe wedded couple

A kompang performance is made to

escort the couple

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ENTHRONEMENT CEREMONY

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TABOOS IN MALAY WEDDING

Do not go out with your couple for 40 days, before Ijab Kabul

to avoid the imputation of society.

Do not go out freely

Do not eat rice with stew several months before going to bed

to avoid a distended stomach.

Avoid eating smelly food such as petai.

Avoid bath at night because it is not good for the body.

Avoid eating too much seafood as it contains many toxic.

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Practice eating chicken eggs two times a week for added

energy.

Get enough sleep (8hours)

Avoid drinking alcohol and smoking.

Avoid contact with sunlight as the feared black and shining on

the day of marriage.

Avoid drinking cold water and soy because it is not good for

the body. Do not do hard work.

Do not meet up personally with other men/women.

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AKAD NIKAH CEREMONY

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REFLECTION

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Culture and learning subject gives a lot of exposure about

races in Malaysia especially Malay.

Increase awareness regarding the issue of racial diversity and

knowledge about Malay customs and traditions.

Realise that some of the culture has changed and vanished.

Have deeper understanding about Malay wedding rituals.

Learn to respect the differences and appreciate similarities

between the different ethnicity.