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Managing the Development of the Sales Team
INDUCTION
Introduction
Situatio
nal
Lead
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The basic concept
The Situational Leadership method from
Kenneth Blanchard and Paul Hersey holds that
managers must use different leadership styles
depending on the situation. The model allows
you to analyze the needs of the situation you’re
in and then use the most appropriate leadership
style. Depending on employees’ competences in
their task areas, and commitment to their tasks,
your leadership style should vary from one
person to another. You may even lead the same
person one way sometimes and another way at
other times.
Situational Leadership is a model
covering two key interaction
The application of this model will
increase the effectiveness of both on-
the-job training and formal training
conducted by subordinate’s manager
concepts being;
•. The competency level in a particular
task of an employee, and
•The management style, relevant to the
employee’s competency level, to be
used during the training
Supporting
S3
Low task
(high competence)
High relationship
Coaching
S2
High Task
(some competence)
High relationship
Delegation
S4
Low task
(high competence)
Low relationship
Direction
S1
High task
(low competence)
Low relationship High Moderate Low
M4 M3 M2 M1
The attempts in the model below are to portray:
•the relationship between task-relevant maturity; and
•appropriate leadership styles to be used as followers move from
immaturity to maturity
Leadership styles
Lead
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styles
Leadership styles
Each of the four leadership styles:
•Telling
•Selling
•Participation
•Delegating
Task and relationship behaviour
Task behaviour is the extent to which a leader provides direction for people,
telling them:
•what to do
•when to do it
•where to do it, and
•how to do it
It is setting goals for them and defining their roles.
Relationship behaviour is the extent to which a leader engages in two way
communication with people.
•Providing support
•Encouragement
•“Psychological strokes” and
•Facilitating behaviour
It means actively listening to people and supporting their efforts.
Maturity
The maturity of followers is a question of
degree. As can be seen in the figure some
benchmarks of maturity are provided for
determining appropriate leadership style by
dividing the maturity continuum into four
models.
Maturity levels M
aturity le
vels
MATURITY LEVEL APPROPRIATE STYLE
M1 Low maturity
Unable and unwilling or insecure
S1 Telling
High task and low relationship behaviour
M2 Low to moderate maturity
Unable but willing or confident
S2 Selling
High task and high emotional behaviour
M3 Moderate to high maturity
Able but unwilling or insecure
S3 Participating
High relationship and low task behaviour
M4 High maturity
Abele/competent and Willing/competent
S4 Delegating
Low relationship and low task behaviour
Maturity levels M
aturity le
vels
Low
M1 Telling is for low maturity
Low to moderate
M2 Selling is for low to moderate maturity
Moderate to high
M3 Participating is for moderate to high maturity
High
M4 Delegating is for high maturity
Maturity clarified
Matu
rity clarifie
d
Maturity clarified
S1 - Telling/Directing
•High task focus, low relationship focus - leaders define the roles and
tasks of the 'follower’ and supervise them closely. Decisions are made
by the leader and announced so communication is largely one-way.
People who lack competence but are enthusiastic and committed need
direction and supervision to get them started.
S2 - Selling/Coaching
•High task focus, high-relationship focus - leaders still define roles and
tasks but seek ideas and suggestions from the follower. Decisions
remain the leader's prerogative but communication is more two-way.
People who have some competence but lack commitment. need
direction and supervision because they are still relatively
inexperienced. They also need support and praise to build their self-
esteem and involvement in decision-making to restore their
commitment.
S3 - Participating/Supporting
•Low task focus, high-relationship focus - leaders pass day-to-day
decisions, such as task allocation and processes, to the follower. The
leader facilitates and takes part in decisions but control is with the
follower. People who have competence but lack confidence or
motivation do not need much direction because of their skills, but
support is necessary to bolster their confidence and motivation.
S4 – Delegating
•Low task focus, low relationship focus - leaders are still involved in
decisions and problem-solving but control is with the follower. The
follower decides when and how the leader will be involved. People who
have both competence and commitment are able and willing to work on a project by themselves with little supervision or support.
Application of Situational leadership
Situatio
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Lead
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Application of Situational Leadership
•The key to using Situational Leadership is to assess the maturity level of the followers and to
behave as the model prescribes.
•Implicit in Situational Leadership is the idea that a leader should help followers grow in maturity
as far as they are able and willing to go.
•The development of followers should be done by adjusting the leadership behaviour through the
four styles along with stages given in the above figure.
•Situational Leadership contends that strong direction (task behaviour) with immature followers is
appropriate if they are to become productive.
•Similarly, it suggests that an increase in maturity on the part of the people who are somewhat
immature should be rewarded with increased positive reinforcement.
•As followers reach high levels of maturity, the leader should respond not only continuing to
decrease control over their activities but also continuing to decrease relationship behaviour as well.
Appropriate Style and Maturity
Ap
pro
priate
Style
Subordinate Manager
M1
Low maturity
Unable and unwilling or
insecure
S1
High task and
low relationship behaviour
Job Functions
•Diagnosing the vehicle
•Repairing the vehicle
•Servicing the vehicle
•Writing the work done on the job
card
M1: Subordinate
Low maturity (competency)
S1: Manager
Leadership style (Coaching model)
To determine what leadership style you should use with a person in a given situation you must do several things:
•You must decide what areas of an individual or group you want to influence. •In terms of work those areas would vary according to a person’s responsibility.
Example: A Technician might have responsibilities in diagnosing the vehicle, doing the repair, servicing the vehicle
and doing administration (job card). Therefore before the Manager can begin to determine the appropriate leadership style to use with the individual, he must decide which aspect of that person’s job he wants to influence.
The next step is to determine the ability and motivation (maturity kevel)
of the individual or group in each of the selected areas.
•The final step is to decide which of the four leadership styles would be
appropriate to the individual in each of these areas. Example: Should the Manager have determined that a subordinate’s
maturity level (competency) in terms of diagnosing is low (M1), the Manager should use the directive of “telling” (S1) style.
NOTE: In this example, low relationship
behaviour does not mean that the
Manager is unfriendly to the subordinate.
It is merely suggested that the Manager, in supervising the subordinate’s
diagnosing skills, should spend more
time directing the person in what to do,
how and when and where to do it.
Increased relationship should occur only
when the subordinate begins to
demonstrate the ability to handle the job
card properly. At this point a movement from “telling” to “selling” would be
appropriate.
Components of Maturity
Co
mp
on
ents o
f M
aturity
Components of Maturity
It has been stated that the key to effective leadership is to identify the maturity level of the individual or group
you are attempting to influence and then bring to bear the appropriate leadership style.
Job maturity
•Job maturity is related to the ability to do
so something.
•It has to do with knowledge and skill.
•Individuals who have HIGH job maturity in
a particular area have the knowledge, ability
and experience to perform the task without
direction from others.
•I can work on my own in that area without
much help from my boss.
The concept of maturity consists of two dimensions being:
•Job maturity = Ability
•Psychological maturity = Willingness
Psychological maturity
•Psychological maturity is related to the willingness or motivation to do something.
•Individuals who have HIGH psychological maturity in an area of responsibility:
•Think that responsibility is important.
•Have self confidence, and
•Good feelings about themselves in that aspect of the job. •They do not need extensive encouragement to get them to do things in that area.
How do you learn?
Ho
w d
o yo
u
learn
?
Introduction While Situational Leadership defines the employee’s competency level and style to be used by the
manager during the training interaction, ‘how people learn’ is the employees learning preference.
Matching the two concepts provides an integrated model that can be used to increase the effectiveness
of the training and thus the employee competency level
How do you learn?
•Do you ever wonder why some people are
known as "straight 'A' students" while other
people struggle at school - even though
they're smart?
•Do you know people who didn't finish high
school yet have achieved great success in
their careers?
•People learn in different ways and no one
person has a better learning style than
another.
Some experts say there are as many as seven
different learning styles but it's easier to narrow it
down to three types of learning . . . we'll call them:
•Listening learners.
•Seeing learners.
•Touch/experience learners.
It's simple really. Think about one of life's earliest lessons - often taught by our mothers: ‘The Stove
Can Burn You’. •Listening learners heard their mother, believed the
information and never touched a stove.
•Seeing learners watched their brother touch the
stove and never touched it themselves.
•Feeling/Experience learners touched the stove but only once!
Introduction
Styles o
f Le
arnin
g
Problem #1:
You need to paint a room.
How much paint and what supplies do you need?
Listening Learners might: Call a painter, a friend, or paint store and ask them for instructions before starting. Might attend a course on painting at the paint store.
Seeing Learners might:
Look online for answers, read several websites. Go to a bookstore and find books/magazines about home improvement and painting. Go to the paint store and read the back of paint cans. Watch a course at the paint store.
Experience Learners might: Go and buy a can of paint and brush and start painting. If there's not enough paint or you have the wrong brush you just buy more. Eventually you learn how much paint and what supplies are required.
Problem #2:
Your boss wants you to plan a
summer barbecue for 25 co-workers
and their spouses/partners.
You've never planned anything
before. How would you learn what to
do?
Listening Learners might: Call a friend who throws great parties, and cry “HELP”! Attend an upcoming party and ask the host lots of questions. Call a party planner in the phone book and try to squeeze some tips out of them. Attend a class on event planning.
Seeing Learners might:
Search for "party planning tips" through Internet search engines. Look for books about catering, event planning and party games at the library.
Experience Learners might:
Dive right in - walk around to co-workers' desks to ask them how many people are coming. Find a place to hold the event, buy lots of food at the local deli and determine in your head if it's enough. Hire the band you heard at the bar last week and learn by experience that alcohol melts through paper cups!
Most people combine the styles of learning
Here are some everyday problems you might want to learn about. How would you learn more? Think about
them - no way of learning is better than another. Remember, the way you learn is perfect for you.
What are the types of learning styles?
Type
s of
learn
ing style
s
Listening Learners:
Learn through listening...
They learn best through verbal lectures, discussions, talking things through and
listening to what others have to say. Auditory learners interpret the underlying
meanings of speech through listening to tone of voice, pitch, speed and other
nuances. Written information may have little meaning until it is heard. These
learners often benefit from reading text aloud and using a tape recorder.
Seeing Learners:
Learn through seeing...
These learners need to see the teacher's body language and facial expression to fully
understand the content of a lesson. They tend to prefer sitting at the front of the classroom to avoid visual obstructions (e.g. people's heads). They may think in pictures and learn best from
visual displays including: diagrams, illustrated text books, overhead transparencies, videos, flipcharts and hand-outs. During a lecture or classroom discussion, visual learners often prefer
to take detailed notes to absorb the information.
Feel/experience Learners:
Learn through moving, doing
and touching...
Feel/experience - people learn best through a hands-on approach, actively exploring the physical world
around them. They may find it hard to sit still for long periods and may become distracted by their need for activity and exploration.
Recognising learner types Le
arne
r type
s
Statement Listening Seeing Feeling
Do you see where this is leading
Are you in tune with the concept?
Can you grasp the significance of this?
How do you feel about the proposal?
Can you see what I mean?
Can’t you see my point of view?
Listed below are a number of statements used during the different learning styles. Indicate the learning style that relates to the statement. Review and think of your own style of learning.
Clues in Recognising Learner
type
Just as most of us prefer to write
with one hand rather than the other,
we also prefer to use some of our
senses more than others. Luckily,
you can usually tell what another person’s preferred sense is by the
words they use. For instance:
Feeling/Experience Learners
•It feels like you are in touch today.
•Do you grasp how I feel?
•I feel a little under pressure at the moment.
•Oh yes, II understand how you feel. •Let’s grab the chance while it’s there.
Seeing people
•You look bright today. •Look at the view, isn’t it colourful?
•I see myself as a bit dull at the moment.
•Oh yes, I see what you mean. •Lets look at it this way.
Listening Learners
•You sound well today.
•Listen to the wind, isn’t it loud.
•Do I sound a bit out of harmony at the
moment.
•Oh yes, I hear what you say. •Let’s try saying it this way.
Learner types Le
arne
r type
s
It is expected that, some of the time, feeling and
seeing people use are chosen because they fit a
particular situation but, most of the time, they will
indicate a listening, seeing and feeling preference.
Listening people predominantly think, store and retrieve information as sounds
Seeing people predominantly think, store and retrieve information as pictures
Feeling people predominantly think, store and retrieve information as feelings
Listening people Seeing people Feeling people
Are inclined to keep eyes level Are inclined to look upward Are inclined to look downward
Establishing peoples preference through eye movement
The sense that people prefer to use will indicate how they are processing information into
their brain.
Learning tips for listening learners Le
arnin
g tips
Learning Tips for Listening Learners
Individuals who are listening learners may be able to benefit from the following study
strategies
•Utilize audiotapes for learning.
•Read information aloud when studying.
•Ask questions.
•Watch videos.
•Use word association techniques to remember facts.
•Participate in class discussions.
•Record directions and notes.
•Listen to taped notes.
•Avoid auditory distractions.
•Participate in a study group or study with a study partner.
•Make up songs or rhymes to go along with the pertinent material.
•Use rhymes to recall dates, names, facts, etc.
•Write of steps in sentence form and then read them out loud.
Best test style for listening learner-oral exam, writing responses to lectures.
Worst test style for listening learner-reading comprehension.
Learning tips for seeing learners Le
arnin
g tips Learning Tips for Seeing Learners
In order to maximize your learning style, concentrate on these tips:
•Ask for written directions.
•Utilize diagrams and flow charts for note taking.
•Colour code notes.
•Visualize spelling of words or facts that must be memorized.
•Write down key points.
•Copy what is on the board.
•Sit near the front of the classroom.
•Watch videos.
•Use highlighters to mark important points in notes.
•Use graph paper in order to make diagrams and charts for key points.
•Utilize illustrations to remember important material.
•Utilize visual metaphors to associate relevant content.
•Write down explanations for points that are difficult.
Preferred test styles for visual learners are essays, maps and diagramming.
Worst test type for visual learners-listen and respond style.
Learning tips for feeling/experimenting learners Le
arnin
g tips
Learning Tips for Feeling/experimenting Learners
Feeling/Experience learners are often able to maximize their
study sessions through these techniques:
•Practicing a technique.
•Demonstrating a principle.
•Creating a model.
•Engaging in a hands-on activity.
•Studying in a position that is comfortable, even if it is not a
tradition - desk/table or chair setup.
•Taking a field trip.
•Working on drills or memory exercises while walking or
exercising.
•Miming or acting out key points for memory reinforcement.
•Rather than placing your book on a table when reading, try
holding it in your hands instead.
•When giving an explanation of something, try standing up.
•Jot down notes while you are reading.
•Use beats or rhythm to explain information or memorize
information.
•Sit near the front of the classroom in order to avoid becoming
distracted during lectures.
•Make models that demonstrate the primary concept of the
material you are studying in order to reinforce the material.
•Record class lectures and then listen to them while you are
working out or walking.
Best test type for kinaesthetic learners-fill in the blank and multiple
choices.
Worst test type for kinaesthetic learners-long essay tests.
Coaching and counselling
Co
achin
g and
co
un
sellin
g
•Objectives of Coaching
•To provide a non-threatening environment in which the subordinate can freely
express opinions;
•To develop the subordinate’s understanding of his or her strengths and
weaknesses;
•To increase the subordinate’s personal and interpersonal effectiveness and
efficiency (productivity);
•To review the subordinate’s achievement of objectives;
•To identify any obstacles that are hindering progress;
•To assist in generating alternatives and action plans for dealing with identified
problems;
•To encourage the subordinate to set goals for further improvement;
•To contract to provide whatever support the subordinate needs; and
To help the subordinate realise his or her potential.
Coaching is an integral part of any manager’s function and
is the next step after having identified maturity – leadership
styles as well as learning styles .
Results orientated coaching can be provided by
anyone who is in a senior position or who is an
expert on a certain subject with the view to
increase a subordinate or trainee’s competency.
Coaching and counselling
Co
achin
g and
co
un
sellin
g
Lack of knowledge about job responsibilities Performance, skill or attitude problem Coach
Personal problem of Employee Performance or attitude
problem Counselling
Coaching and Counselling share many of the same
skills and, at times they may seem to overlap.
When they do, remember the following diagrams.
The diagrams (below) will help you differentiate the
two processes.
5 benefits of Coaching and Counselling
5 B
en
efits o
f C
oach
ing an
d
Co
un
sellin
g COACHING COUNSELLING
Makes your job easier when employees build their skill levels.
Improves performance of individuals when they feel listened to and supported.
Enables greater “hands off” so you have more time to truly consult/manage versus “do for”.
Reduces unresolved conflicts when individuals feel they can vent their thoughts and feelings and deal with problems openly and constructively.
Builds your reputation as a people developer. Makes your job easier by giving you warning of resistance or problems that may occur following changes.
Increases productivity when employees know what the goals are and how to achieve them.
Shows your people orientation when you understand and deal with the motives and needs of each individual and how he or she will react to organisational events
Develops sharing of facilitator responsibilities. Dealing with problems reduces possibility of their impact on performance.
Positive recognition and feedback increases employee motivation and initiative.
Helps you solve problems before they occur.
Increases likelihood of tasks being completed in a quality way.
Improves your decision making when everyone’s ideas have been heard and individuals’ strengths and abilities are complemented.
Avoids surprises and defensiveness in performance evaluation.
Builds your reputation when you are known as a facilitator who can motivate people and build constructive working relationships.
Increases creativity and innovation of unit as people feel safe to take risks.
Increases self-knowledge and personal satisfaction in your job
Increases team cohesiveness due to clarified goals and roles.
Improves your self-confidence.
Reasons why you may avoid Coaching
Re
ason
s wh
y yo
u m
ay avoid
co
achin
g
REASON
I do not have time.
Fear of failure.
I do not want to scare or overwhelm a new person.
Coaching feels awkward.
Nobody coached me; I have no role model.
I have too many people to coach.
I do not set initial goals with those people.
They will not listen.
They should be able to figure things out on their own.
They will think something is seriously wrong.
They do not ask for help.
Performance is “almost” acceptable.
I will feel threatened.
They are motivated and do not need feedback.
They may get defensive.
It is not my job.
I may get defensive.
My standards are obvious; they should know what to do.
I do not want to.
I do not care whether they grow or not.
Reasons why you may avoid Counselling
Re
ason
s wh
y yo
u m
ay avoid
co
un
sellin
g
REASON
I do not have time.
Feelings are personal and not my business.
Counselling is for psychologists and psychiatrists.
Counselling feels awkward.
They will not listen to me.
I think feelings about organisational changes are a waste of time and I just want to get the job
done.
Feelings and concerns will go away by themselves.
I fear my own feelings.
I am afraid to say the wrong thing and be blamed for it.
Problems are personal.
I fear uncovering frustration, complaints and dissatisfaction.
I feel responsible for solving the problems of others when I have enough problems of my own.
I lack self-confidence and know-how.
The person may become dependent on me for empathy and advice.
Performance problems will resolve themselves.
I do not know how to explore or manage my own feelings let alone those of others.
I feel a loss of control when people cry or get angry.
I don’t have any solutions for the problems.
I over-identify with their feelings or situations and cannot be objective.
I do not have faith in them.
How do I view your self as a Coach?
Ho
w d
o yo
u
view
you
rself as
a coach
As a Coach, I: Seldom Sometimes Almost Always
Capitalise on people’s strengths
Give individuals visibility
Provide them with freedom to achieve goals
Set performance standards
Orient people to organisational values and business strategy
Hold people accountable for their performance
Provide people with information on the resources available for
growth
Encourage people when they are discouraged or about to
undertake new of difficult tasks
Prove information about the organisation and the individual’s
role in the attainment of organisational goals
Make performance expectations and priorities clear
Take time to build trust
Provide appropriate training and support when needed
Solicit and listen to ideas
View people as partners and critical to the success of the unit
Serve as a role model
Won’t let employees give up
Don’t divulge confidences
Explain reasons for decisions and procedures and give
advance notice of changes whenever possible
Provide people with regular feedback about their performance
Give people credit when they deserve it
How do I view your self as a Counsellor?
Ho
w d
o yo
u
view
you
as a co
un
sello
r
As a Counsellor, I: Seldom Sometimes Almost Always
Treat people’s feelings as important
Keep confidences
Facilitate discussions
Build people’s self-esteem
Reassure people who are insecure
Support people taking risks
Solicit people’s feelings, ideas and solutions
Let people make their own decisions
Care about people
Am empathetic about people’s feelings
Help people work out tough priorities
Am patient
Give full attention to discussions and am not distracted
Make people feel confident about their ability to solve problems
Allow people to vent dissatisfaction or concern with their
functions without victimising them
Consider people’s interests, skills and values
Consider people’s goals when discussing career opportunities
Allow people to grieve over a loss, personal/professional
Avoid acting like the expert on solving personal problems
Have a sense of humour about organisational life
Scoring of Questionnaires on Effective Coaching and Counselling
Scorin
g
Total each of the three columns and record the values on the ‘Scoring Key’ diagram above. Both A and B totals
must be inserted on the diagram
Add up all the values you have marked in each column to get to the grand total. The answers will give you an
idea on how they perceive your Coaching and Counselling abilities.
Measure the A and B independently from each other against the ratings below.
Scoring: A total of: 60 and above = Excellent
40 – 59 = Fair to Good
Below 40 = Needs Improvement
Once all the questionnaires are done and you have scored them, you will have the following sets of information
or “pictures” about yourself on Coaching and on Counselling.
Scoring of Questionnaires on Effective Coaching and Counselling
Scorin
g
1
Seldom
2
Sometimes
3
Almost always
A. How I rate myself
Coaching
Counselling
Total
B. How others rate me
Coaching
Counselling
Total
Answer the following questions in your own mind:
•Are the pictures similar or different?
•If they differ, why?
It might help you to look at the reasons you marked
for why you might avoid coaching and counselling.
Establish When to Coach or Counsel
Wh
en
to co
ach
or co
un
sel Knowing when to coach or counsel is an important skill. It is the first step in the Coaching and
Counselling Process. When you can identify situations that need your expertise in a timely manner, you
are on your way to becoming a more effective Facilitator.
Below is a list of work situations that may require Coaching or Counselling. Mark those that you have
already encountered. Feel free to add any other situations you think may require Coaching.
SITUATIONS THAT MAY REQUIRE COACHING Training of new Facilitators Developing Facilitator Skills Need to explain standards of Facilitator Need to explain cultural norms and political realities of the organisation Simple corrections to performance are required Goals or business conditions change New technology (e.g. AGN) introduced in the workplace Person needs help to set priorities Follow up to training session Person displays low or moderate performance Person wants to become a peak performer Formal or informal performance reviews Person needs preparation to meet his/her future goals Person needs preparation for more challenging function, role When power or control battles are affecting team cohesiveness
SITUATIONS THAT MAY REQUIRE COUNSELLING
Redefinition of role
Person unhappy with you as a Facilitator
Person unhappy about his/her role
Person who has conflict with a peer
Person that feels stressed or burned out
Person who feels insecure about skills or ability to perform the role Person whose personal problems are affecting his/her own performance and/or the performance of others
Performance problems that persist
Person who is disappointed in new role
Identification of problems
Ide
ntificatio
n o
f p
rob
lem
s To help you to identify when to Coach or Counsel, checklists are provided to assist you in future. Usually
one would Coach a person with performance problems and Counsel a person with attitude problems
Below is a list of signs that can help
you to identify performance problems.
Some of these signs will be quite
obvious, others will not.
While you are going through the list,
mark those that you can identify with.
You may also have some signs of your
own to add to the list.
SIGNS OF DECLINING PERFORMANCE
Decreased involvement in growth process
Poor quality participation
Avoiding dealing with team problems
Disorganised
Leaning on others for direction
Lack of involvement in team learning
No voluntary feedback given on progress
Below is a list of signs that can help you to identify poor attitude problems. While you are going through the list, mark those
that you can identify with
SIGNS OF ATTITUDE PROBLEMS
Withdrawn
Disinterested in function as well as the organisation
Increased complaining
Uncooperative
Blaming failure on others
Defensive
Avoids contact with others on team
Lacking enthusiasm for role
Irritability
Depression
Little or not initiative
Causes of performance and attitude problems
Cau
ses o
f p
erfro
man
ce People can give thousands of reasons why they do not perform as Facilitators.
All these reasons can be related to the following three reasons:
They do not know how.
•Lack of instruction, orientation or training.
•Lack of feedback on performance.
Something or someone keeps them from it.
•A physical or psychological problem.
•Not enough time.
•Lacks materials.
They do not want to.
•Previous good work unrecognised.
•Burn out.
•Unhappy with role.
•Disinterested.
A part of a Coach or Counsellor’s task is to:
•Find out why people are experiencing performance or attitude problems.
•To discuss it with the person.
•To come to an agreement on how both of you are going to work on it.
Coaching or Counselling checklist
Co
achin
g or
cou
nse
lling
che
cklist
Before conducting either type of session, answer all of the
questions below about the person and the situation. Doing so
will help you focus on whether you need to Coach or Counsel.
QUESTIONS TO ANSWER YES NO
1. Does the person know what is supposed to be done and when?
2. Have I defined the role and skills required?
3. Does the person have the skills required?
4. Has the person bought into the concept of Facilitator?
5. Do I have the time it will take to sufficiently train and orient this person?
6. Have I adequately defined the ongoing performance expectations for the person?
7. Are these expectations realistic?
8. If “no”, can I revise the standards?
9. What is the specific difference between the present performance level and the desired
performance level?
10. Is the difference important?
11. Define the impact the performance problem has on:
You:
Person:
The unit:
The team:
The Organisation:
12. Does the person want to be Coached/Counselled?
13. Does the person have adequate resources to do so? If “no”, what specifically does the
person need?
14. Are obstacles beyond the person’s control affecting performance?
If “yes”, what specific obstacles?
Can these obstacles be removed
If “yes”, what does the employee need from me during this time to help meet adequate
performance standards?
Evaluate performance
Evaluate
P
erfo
rman
ce
By now you should know what Coaching and
Counselling involves and when to use each.
You are now going to learn the most important
skill to become an effective Coach or
Counsellor:
How to evaluate performance and give
constructive feedback.
Whether you recognise it or not, you are
constantly providing feedback. How you
provide that feedback will often spell the
difference between success and failure.
Give constructive feedback
Co
nstru
ctive fe
ed
back
TYPE DEFINITION PURPOSE IMPACT
Silence
No response provided.
Example: Ignore behaviour;
good/bad
Maintains the status
quo
o Decreases confidence
(long-term)
o Reduces performance
(long-term)
o Creates surprises
during performance
evaluation
o Can create paranoia
Criticism
Identifies behaviours or results
that were undesirable, not up to
standard
Example: “You did a poor job
running that meeting this
morning”.
Stop undesirable
behaviour / results
o Generates excuses and
blaming of others
o Decreases confidence
o Leads to escape and
avoidance
o Hurts relationships
Advice
Identifies behaviour or results that
are highly regarded and often
specifies how to incorporate them
in the future.
Example: “Remember to talk to
Ann and include her ideas in the
final report, so the report is
comprehensive and up to date”.
Shape or changes
behaviour/results to
increase performance
o Improves confidence
o Can improve
relationships
o Increases performance
Reinforcement
(Positive)
Identifies behaviour or results that
were desired; up to or exceeding
standards
Example: “The format of this
report will make my job a lot
easier. Thank you for taking the
time to structure it this way”.
Increases desired
performance/results
o Increases confidence
o Increases performance
o Increases motivation
How do you use feedback?
Ho
w d
o yo
u u
se
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db
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I use this type of feedback: Almost Always Frequently Occasionally Never
Silence
Criticism (negative)
Reinforcement (positive)
Advice
Barriers to giving constructive feedback.
Before we discuss the potential problems in offering
feedback, let us examine your attitude towards giving
feedback to others and some of the pitfalls you may
encounter along the way.
How do you use feedback?
Think about the type of feedback you use in managing
your employees then do the following quiz.
ATTITUDES
If I wait long enough, the situation will probably resolve itself so I do not have to get involved.
Since I do not like to receive feedback, I cannot imagine anyone else would. Therefore, I choose to ignore the problem.
I give feedback indirectly by using sarcasm or jokes. There never seems to be a “right” time to give feedback. I keep putting off giving feedback.
It takes so much time to give feedback effectively; I would rather pick up the slack than take the time to correct another’s behaviour. I am unsure of how the other person is going to respond to my feedback, therefore, I avoid giving it at all.
I am not perfect, so who am I to judge anyone else’s behaviour?
If I give a senior person negative feedback, it may be used against me at my next performance appraisal.
I let the situation go on for too long now, and I am so angry that I am going to blow up and mishandle the situation.
Feedback Pitfalls
Mark the attitudes that you carry into a situation where you need feedback to others:
Giving feedback is important in terms of
increasing the subordinate’s self-
awareness, particularly with regard to
strengths and weaknesses. If properly
given, feedback results in greater rapport
between the supervisor and the
subordinate.
Guidelines for giving feedback
Gu
ide
lines fo
r givin
g fee
db
ack
Open feedback can relieve stress and improve interpersonal relationships - honesty promotes trust and paves the way to
intimacy.
Feedback, correctly given, provides information that can improve job performance and promote continuing professional and
personal development.
Feedback is effective when the manager ensures that it:
•is descriptive rather than evaluative
•is focused on the subordinate’s behaviour rather than the
subordinate as a person
•concerns behaviour that is modifiable
•is specific and data based rather than general and based on
impressions;
•reinforces positive new behaviour and what the
•subordinate has done
•suggests rather than prescribes avenues for improvement;
•is based on need and is elicited by the subordinate;
•satisfies the needs of both the manager and the subordinate is
well timed
The Feedback Process
Fee
db
ack p
roce
ss
Step 1:Set Realistic Goals and Expectations
The first and most basic step we must take before we can give feedback is to let the
other person know our expectations of him or her. If we have never shared our
expectations, we have no basis on which to base our evaluation or feedback. A
question every manager must ask them-self is, “Did I set up realistic expectations on
which to base by evaluation?”
The following are characteristics of good goals, they must be:
•Specific
•Realistic
•Measurable
•Value anchored
•Written
•And must include Deadlines
If you establish and agree to realistic goals with another person, you will find that,
when you do give feedback to that person, he or she will be more likely to respond to
the feedback and act upon it. It is also less likely that the person will take the
feedback personally. Both parties must be committed to cooperation and a positive
outcome.
The Feedback Process
Fee
db
ack p
roce
ss
Step 2: Be immediate
Once you have mutually agreed upon
expectations, you need to observe the other
person’s behaviour and be prepared to give
positive or negative feedback, depending on the
outcome of his or her actions. If someone has
done a good job, do not just keep quiet: praise
that person for it!
•Feedback can be positive as well as negative and the former can help us tolerate doses of the latter.
•Give feedback as close to the actual event as possible.
•Be short and specific. Select a good time but do not save up your comments until you have a 15-minute litany to
discharge.
•When giving feedback, you should not ask for a complete character change. It is far more effective to address
one trait or performance issue at a time.
•Do not expect changes overnight. You need to be realistic about your expectations. That is why it is so important
to set up mutual goals and be as immediate as possible.
If we wait to give feedback, hoping that someone will change on his or her own, we will probably be disappointed.
When someone does not change, we tend to lash out at the person in frustration, simply because the wish for it
has been on our minds so long. Be aware of the “mind reader’s syndrome”.
The Feedback Process
Fee
db
ack p
roce
ss
Step 3: Be Specific
The Describe, Acknowledge, Specify, Reaffirm (DASR)
concept, or using “I” messages, is one of the best
techniques in giving feedback.
Normally, people have a tendency to use, “you blaming”
statements, such as “You never turn in your monthly
status report on time” or “Why are you always late at our
staff meetings?”
In contrast to “you blaming” statements, we need to take
responsibility to express our feelings and let the person
we are giving feedback to know the effect of his or her
behaviour on us.
An effective formula for giving feedback is the DASR
concept. What we often omit in this formula is the
action-oriented specify step. A part of us
really wants an apology or some kind of
guilt-ridden response from the other
person after we tell him or her how we
feel.
One of the most important steps in
giving feedback is to specify a corrective
action. This allows the person to do
something about the feedback rather
than just defensively reacting to our
expression of negative feeling.
The Feedback Process
Fee
db
ack p
roce
ss
This is how it works:
•Describe: (the exact behaviour you find bothersome) “When you…”
•Acknowledge: (what you really feel about the other’s behaviour or situation) “I feel…”
•Specify: (ask explicitly for a different, specified behaviour) “What I would prefer…”
•Reaffirm: (their worth or ability to correct their behaviour) “I have confidence that
you can do the job correctly”.
Poor Version Better Version
Describe
“You never get the data to me on time”.
“When you turn in the weekly figures on Monday afternoon…”
Acknowledge
“You make me so angry I could scream”.
“I feel frustrated and rushed…”
Specify
“Can’t you get the figures to me on time for once?”
“What I would prefer is that you get the data to me by noon on Mondays so that it can be sent off to Head Office that same day”
Reaffirm
“I appreciate your consistent attention to details and look forward to seeing your figures next Monday by noon. Thanks”
Rules when using DASR
Ru
les w
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g DA
SR Do Don’t
Describe o Describe the other person’s behaviour objectively.
o Use concrete terms. o Describe a specified time, place and
action. o Describe the action not the “motive”.
o Describe your emotional reaction to it o Use abstract, vague terms. o Generalise for all time. o Guess motives or goals.
Acknowledge o Acknowledge your feelings. o Express them calmly. o State feelings positively as related to the
goal. o Direct yourself to the specific problem
behaviour
o Deny your feelings. o Unleash emotional outbursts, o State feelings negatively, making put-
down remarks or attack. o Attack the entire character of the
person.
Specify o Ask for a change in behaviour. o Request a small change. o Specify the concrete actions you want
stopped or performed. o Specify (if appropriate) what behaviour
you are willing to change to make the agreement.
o Merely imply you would like a change. o Ask for too large or too many changes. o Ask for changes in traits or qualities. o Consider that only the other must
change.
Reaffirm o Reaffirm the other’s ability to make the change.
o End on a positive note.
o Tell them your doubts as to their ability to change.
o Send them away concentrating on how you handled the feedback versus what they did wrong.
Suggested Plan of Action P
lan o
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n
1 Describe the situation and goals/expectations involved
Person……………………………………………………………………
Situational Experience/goals…………………………………………………………
What really happened…………………………………............................................
2 Acknowledge your negative feelings. List what feelings you have about the situation – see
‘vocabulary of negative feelings below’
3 Practise. Write out the feedback and practice saying the actual words you plan to use with a friend
and get his/her feedback.
4 Be immediate. Do not save feedback for a “rainy day”. Once you have been through the through a
situation and the words you plan to use, pick a time and place to delivery the feedback.
When……………………………………….. Where ……………………………………….
5 Be specific. “I” messages – using the DASR concept, outline possible words you can do.
Describe. “When you…I…”
Acknowledge (express). “I feel…”
Specify. “What I would prefer…”
Reaffirm. “
6 Implement your plan.
7. The result: Improved relationships. Remember, when giving feedback in personal relationships,
there is never a single winner in an honest, intimate fight. Both either win more intimacy or lose it.
Guidelines Coaching
Gu
ide
lines
Co
achin
g As a Coach you must prepare for a coaching session by:
Yes No
Reviewing the goals and performance of the person. Arranging an appointment Allotting a minimum of 30 minutes for the session
Removing all distractions (phone, visitors, etc.) from the meeting place
Removing physical barriers between myself and the person (e.g. Not behind a desk)
Preparing what I plan to say and rehearse it. Keep to an agenda.
Preparing specific examples with respect to feedback
If facilitating of learning is required during the coaching session I prepare by: Arranging for all necessary resources to be available. Familiarising myself with what needs to be prepared with respect to the material to be
used. Familiarising myself with the content of the training material.
Finding specific interventions. Preparing documentation with respect to compiling a development plan
Guidelines Coaching
Gu
ide
lines
Co
achin
g
Vocabulary of Negative Feelings
afraid devastated hurt offended
agitated discredited indignant perturbed
annoyed disgusted inferior put down
anxious dismayed insignificant put off apprehensive distressed intimidated puzzled
ashamed down inadequate neglected
belittled embarrassed irked rejected
bewildered enraged irritated resentful bitter exasperated left out seething
bothered exploited let down troubled
burned up furious lonely turned off confused helpless mad uptight disappointed hostile outraged unsure
discouraged humiliated overlooked upset
Below is a list of words that indicate negative feelings.
Guidelines Coaching
Gu
ide
lines
Co
achin
g As a Coach you must do the following during a Coaching session:
Yes No
Put the person at ease by being warm and friendly, using positive body language, lots of eye contact and physically facing the person.
Define the reason for the discussion. Express my concern about the area of performance I feel needs to be improved.
Describe the performance problem or area that needs improvement and define its impact on the person, the unit, the organisation and myself
Acknowledge and listen to person’s feelings. Provide person with information on the necessary growth resources.
Seek the person’s opinion on ways to improve performance. Ask open-ended questions to encourage person’s analysis and draw out specific suggestions.
Make performance expectations and priorities clear. Let the person know that I respect his/her ability to solve problems and develop solutions.
Offer suggestions when appropriate, but build on person’s ideas when possible.
Agree upon appropriate actions (to include in the person’s development plan, if necessary).
Schedule a follow-up meeting to ensure accountability and provide feedback on progress (within ten days). Promise to provide feedback on progress. Give the employee feedback on what he/she has done well (if appropriate)
If facilitation of learning is needed: Explain the relevant training material to the person and answer any questions the person may have on the material.
Make notes to document the session, and develop a record of the corrective action plans and performance improvements.
Guidelines Counselling
Gu
ide
lines
Co
un
sellin
g
As a Counsellor I prepare for a counselling session
by:
Yes No
Reviewing the work goals and performance of the person.
Arranging an appointment Allotting a minimum of 30 minutes for the session
Removing all distractions (phone, visitors, etc.) from the meeting place
Removing physical barriers between myself and the person (e.g. Not behind a desk!) Preparing what I plan to say and rehearse it. Keep to an agenda.
Preparing specific examples with respect to feedback
As a Counsellor I prepare for a counselling session by:
Guidelines Counselling
Gu
ide
lines
Co
un
sellin
g
As a Counsellor I do the following during a
Counselling session:
Yes No
Put the person at ease by being warm and friendly, using positive body language, lots of eye contact and physically facing the person. Define the reason for the discussion if I called the session, or encourage the person to define its purpose. Avoid judgmental words like should, must or ought. Ask open-ended questions about the person’s feelings and thoughts. Summarise the content and reflect the feelings of the person’s message. Summarise key points at the end of a discussion to clarify and seek understanding.
Encourage the employee to identify alternatives to solve the problem or resolve the issue.
Seek the person’s feelings and possible consequences of each of the alternatives.
Avoid expressing my views but remain alert to provide information that may help the person make a decision. Demonstrate empathy for the person and show confidence in his/her ability to solve problems.
Provide support and/or resources when appropriate. Refer the person to E.A.P. if the problem is beyond my scope. Schedule a follow-up meeting to check on progress with person.
Forms of Coaching Discussions
Co
achin
g D
iscussio
ns
A manager or mentor can provide coaching at any of various stages in a subordinates or
protégé’s development (for example, soon after a subordinate has been hired, when the
subordinate faces difficulties or problems or for career enhancement
FORMS OF DISCUSSION OUTCOMES OF DISCUSSION
Counselling discussion
Accurate description of problems and their causes;
Release of strong emotions;
Changes in points of view;
Commitment to self-sufficiency; and
Personal insight about one’s feelings and behaviour.
Mentoring discussion
Development of political savvy;
Sensitivity to the organisations culture;
Increased pro-activity in managing one’s own career;
Commitment to organisational goals; and
Sensitivity to senior management’s likes and dislikes.
Tutoring discussion
Increased technical competence;
Increased technical understanding;
Movement to expert status;
Increased pace of learning; and
Commitment to continued learning.
Confronting discussion
Clarification of performance expectations;
Identification of performance deficiencies;
Acceptance of more difficult tasks;
Strategies to improve performance tasks; and
Commitment to continued improvement.
Phases of Coaching
Ph
ases o
f co
achin
g
One of the goals of coaching is to help the subordinate to grow and develop in the organisation.
Every manager coaches subordinates, either knowingly or unknowingly, in the course of the day-
to-day work.
An effective manager, in a coaching capacity, helps subordinates to become more aware of their
strengths and weaknesses, to improve on their strengths, and to overcome their weaknesses.
By establishing mutuality and providing support as well as the proper emotional climate, a
manager helps subordinates to develop. Mutuality involves working with each individual
subordinate acceptance of each subordinate as a total person – including both strengths and
weaknesses – and encouraging that subordinate with warmth.
Coaching and Discussion Skills
Rapport building R
app
ort B
uild
ing
In the rapport building phase the manager attempts to
establish a climate of acceptance, warmth, support,
openness and mutuality. This is done by adopting the
subordinate’s frame of reference, by listening and
becoming attuned to the subordinate’s problems and
feelings, by communicating understanding to the
subordinate and by expressing empathy for and
genuine interest in the subordinate.
The manager should strive to foster the subordinate’s
confidence so that he or she opens up and frankly
shares perceptions, problems, concerns, feelings, and
so forth. Four basic managerial activities are involved
in this phase: attending, listening, accepting and
exploring
In the opening rituals for a coaching session,
the manager should convey that he or she is
attending to the subordinate and considers
the session important. Generally a coaching
session is held in the manager’s office,
where the manager can engage in certain
behaviours to set the stage properly: offering
the subordinate a chair, closing the door to
ensure privacy, and asking the secretary not
to allow phone calls or other disturbances.
All such rituals must come out of the
manager’s genuine concern for the
subordinate and for the objectives of the
session; most subordinates can tell when
the manager is merely playing the part of
concerned coach.
•Attending
Listening involves paying careful attention to the messages
sent by another person. Consequently, the coaching session
should, if at all possible, take place in an environment that is
free from interruptions so that the manager can concentrate
totally on the situation at hand. The manager must listen for
all messages, what is actually spoken, what is emotionally
given away, what is said between the lines, etc.
The subordinate needs to know that the manager is actively
listening. The manager can demonstrate that he is listening
by:
leaning forward; and
maintaining eye contact
When the subordinate has completed a message, the
manager should paraphrase, mirror, or reflect what was said.
•Listening
Rapport building R
app
ort B
uild
ing
Establishing a climate of acceptance is a necessary part of establishing rapport. The
subordinate must feel that he or she is wanted, that expressing differences in opinion is
acceptable, and that the manager is interested in understanding him or her as a person rather
than simply as a role incumbent. The manager helps the subordinate to develop these feelings
by listening and by paraphrasing, mirroring, or reflecting the subordinate’s message; this
approach makes the subordinate feel understood and valued and assists in building a climate of
acceptance, thereby facilitating the coaching process.
In the exploring phase the manager attempts to help the subordinate better
understand him or her and the performance problem at hand. The subordinate’s
situation, strengths, weaknesses, difficulties and needs are all dealt with. This
phase requires great skill on the part of the manager. During a coaching session
the manager typically asks a number of questions for various purposes:
Obtaining information;
Establishing rapport;
Clarifying; and
Stimulating thinking
•Exploring
•Accepting
Different type of questions
Diffe
ren
t type
of
qu
estio
ns Positive type questions
Positive questions can help rather than hinder in developing a healthy relationship between the
manager and the subordinate and in increasing the subordinate’s effectiveness.
Questions conveying trust
Questions that elicit the subordinate’s help or suggestions can indicate that the manger has faith in the
subordinate.
“How do you think I should deal with this problem?”
Clarifying questions
Clarifying questions are those asked for the purpose of obtaining useful information about performance
issues and problems. This kind of question is frequently asked in connection with paraphrasing,
mirroring, or reflecting what the subordinate has said:
“You’re worried about your lack of knowledge of the new system. Is that so?”
Empathic questions
Empathic questions are those that deal with the other person’s feelings; they are asked for the purpose
of expressing concern rather than finding solutions to problems.
“How did you feel when the shipping department sent the wrong order to the customer?”
Open questions
The most useful questions are those that have no implicit answers; instead, they stimulate reflection
and thinking on the part of the subordinate. Open questions invite the subordinate to be creative in
exploring the various possible dimensions of an issue and to share these ideas with the manager.
Different type of questions
Diffe
ren
t type
of
qu
estio
ns
Investigating
The manager helps the subordinate to investigate various
dimensions of the problem. To discover any related but
previously unidentified issues, and to surface any concerns.
This is done by asking open questions and encouraging the
subordinate to talk more about any issue that he or she
mentions.
Identifying the problem
After investigating, the manager should ask questions designed
to help the subordinate to focus on the specific problem
involved. These questions should both narrow the problem and
generate information about it.
Diagnosing
Investigating and identifying the problem should lead to
diagnosing it. Without diagnosis there is no basis for solving
any problem. Again, open questions are useful:
“Why do you think people are put off when you talk to them?”
“Can you recall occasions when you received full co-operation?
What might account for the co-operation you received on those
occasions?”
“What personal limitations of yours especially bother you?”
Action Planning A
ction
Plan
nin
g
The main function of the manager during searching is to help the subordinate think of
alternative ways to deal with the problem. A number of alternatives may be discussed,
such as training, job rotation, increased responsibility, and role clarification. Generating
alternatives should offer suggestions only after the subordinate seems to have run out of
ideas.
After alternatives have been generated, the manager helps the subordinate to
assess the advantages and disadvantages of each alternative, to raise questions
about the feasibility of the various alternatives, to choose the best alternative, and to
finalise a step-by-step action plan. Both parties should be aware that the action
plan might need to be revised after implementation has begun, depending on
various contingencies that might arise.
The final and crucial stage of coaching is to communicate the intention to provide specific support
to the subordinate in implementing the agreed-on action plan. After considerable discussion the
manager and the subordinate should create a detailed outline of the support to be provided as well
as the system to be used for monitoring the implementation and following it up. After the contract
has been created, the coaching session may be brought to a close
Action Planning
In the action-planning phase the manager and the subordinate jointly plan specific action steps designed to
solve the performance problem and to further the subordinate’s development. Three activities are involved in
the action-planning phase:
•Searching
•Decision-making
•Supporting
•Decision-making
•Searching
•Supporting
Helping and Coaching
He
lpin
g and
C
oach
ing
Coaching entails receiving help as well as giving it.
Unless the mutuality of the helping relationship is
established during the coaching session so that both
parties feel free to ask for and provide help, coaching
cannot be effective. Mutuality is based on trust and the
genuine perception that each party has something
important to contribute. Although the manager is in a
superior position, he or she must demonstrate willingness
to learn and to receive help from the subordinate.
•Establishing Mutuality
The ultimate purpose of coaching is the
systematic and specific identification of a
subordinate’s developmental needs. Once
these needs have been identified, plans can be
made regarding ways to fulfil them.
•Identifying Developmental Needs
•Expressing Concern and Empathy
Helping and Coaching
In a broad sense the entire spectrum of performance
coaching can be seen as helping. However, the
specific task of helping during a coaching session
involves particular activities.
Without demonstrating genuine concern for the
subordinate, the manager cannot provide effective helping
during a coaching session. The manager must be able to
empathise with the subordinate and to reflect this empathy
in the tone of the conversation and the kinds of questions
asked. In the absence of real concern, a coaching
session can degenerate into an empty ritual.
Phases of a coaching discussion
Ph
ases o
f a co
achin
g d
iscussio
n
Phases Rapport Building Counter Productive Behaviours
Rapport Building
Attending
o Observing rituals o Conversing about personal matters o Smiling
- Discussing behaviour immediately
Listening to feelings, concerns, problems
o Indicating physical attention (posture) o Maintaining eye contact o Responding (verbally and non verbally) o Eliminating or excluding telephone calls, noise and
disturbances
- Indicating distraction (paying attention to other things, such as telephone calls) signing letters, talking to others during conversation
Accepting
o Communicating feelings and concerns o Paraphrasing feelings o Sharing own experience
- Failing to respond - Listening passively for a long period
Exploring
Investigating
o Mirroring or paraphrasing o Asking open questions o Encouraging subordinate to explore
- Criticising - Avoiding or hedging
Identifying the problem
o Asking questions to focus on the specific problem o Encouraging the subordinate to explore
- Suggesting what the problem is
Diagnosing
o Asking exploratory questions o Generating several possible causes
- Suggesting the cause
Action Planning
Searching
o Generating alternative solutions o Asking questions about possible solutions
- Advising
Decision making
o Asking questions about feasibility priority, pros and cons o Discussing solutions and jointly choosing one o Discussing an action plan o Establishing a contingency plan
- Directing - Devising an inflexible plan and holding the subordinate to it
Supporting
o Identifying specific help that will be needed o Monitoring o Creating a contract to provide specific support to monitor
- Promising general help
Tips for effective coaching
Tips fo
r effe
ctive
coach
ing
The following are useful tips for effective coaching
On some occasions a subordinate does not ask for
performance coaching, but is, in effect, forced into it.
When coaching is provided without having been
sought, it may be of limited value and frustrating to the
manager as well as the subordinate. In such a situation
the manager would do well to forget about performance
coaching and instead talk to the subordinate about his
or her interest or lack of interest in growth. If the
manager establishes the proper climate, such a
discussion can lead to openness on the part of the
subordinate. However, if the subordinate has serious
difficulty in dealing with the manager, a problem-solving
session should be the first step.
Make sure that the subordinate is willing to learn
from and through coaching
Sometimes subordinates are so loyal and their
manager so protective that they become totally
dependent on the manager. From time to time
every manager should reflect on whether he or
she is unintentionally fostering this kind of
relationship. It is important to allow subordinates
to make their own decisions and thereby increase
their autonomy. The same principle holds true in a
coaching situation: the subordinate should bear
the main responsibility for determining what action
to take.
Encourage the subordinate to function
independently
Tips for effective coaching
Tips fo
r effe
ctive
coach
ing
If the subordinate does not understand the purpose
nor has unrealistic expectations, he or she may not
receive the manager’s message in the proper
perspective. If it is obvious that the subordinate has
some misunderstandings, it is a good idea to spend
the first session addressing them; then another
session can be scheduled for the actual coaching
effort
Make sure that the subordinate understands
the purpose of the coaching
One argument is sufficient to make
both the manager and the subordinate
defensive. The manager should try to
accept everything the subordinate
says and build on it. Acceptance is
the best way of helping the
subordinate to achieve self-
realisation.
Minimise arguments
Good coaching sessions will ultimately fail to produce effective results if follow- up is inadequate. When the
manager follow up through informal exchanges, this approach goes a long way toward communicating interest in
the subordinate. When the manager fails to follow up, the subordinate may feel that the coaching was artificial and,
consequently, may lose interest in improving the performance at issue.
Ensure adequate follow-up
Coaching Planner
Co
achin
g P
lann
er
COACHING PLANNER FOR:…………………………………………………..
NAME:…………………………………….. DATE:………………………………………..
DESCRIBE CURRENT BEHAVIOUR
Describe the behaviour that you would like to address.
IDENTIFY ALTERNATIVE BEHAVIOUR
Describe the behaviour that you would like to see, being
as objective as possible.
IDENTIFY THE SITUATION
Identify and describe the situation(s) under which the
behaviour you would like to address occurred.
DESCRIBE IMPACT AND CONSEQUENCES
Describe the impact of the current behaviour. List possible
consequences.
For each quadrant certain conditions apply. They are:
DESCRIBE CURRENT BEHAVIOUR
Be specific;
Be descriptive;
Be brief;
Be open;
Be patient;
Be prompt; and
Be sensitive to time and place.
IDENTIFY ALTERNATIVE BEHAVIOUR
Be encouraging;
Offer ideas;
Be creative;
Be part of the plan; and
Be optimistic.
IDENTIFY THE SITUATION
Be factual; and
Provide examples.
DESCRIBE IMPACT AND CONSEQUENCES
Be precise;
Be objective; and
Be supportive
Mentoring M
en
torin
g
Mentorship has been described by many
as the ultimate state of contribution to
the growth and development of others.
Within the working environment,
mentorship is the process whereby a
person directs and develops another
person called the protégé. Mentorship
can be defined as:
A Mentor is a person who oversees the career and
development of another person, usually a junior,
through teaching, counselling, providing
psychological support, protecting and at times
promoting or sponsoring.
A structure and series of processes designed to create an effective mentoring
relationship, guide the desired behaviour change of those involved, and evaluate
the results for the protégé’s the mentors, and the organisation with the primary
purpose of systematically developing the skills and abilities of the less-
experienced members of an organisation
OR
Tri-Mutual Benefit Paradigm
Situatio
nal
Lead
ersh
ip MENTORSHIP PARADIGM
Reasons why you believe a mentorship program is important to your
organisation are:
•The need to legitimise the South African workforce in terms of reflecting the
demographics of South African society at all levels within the organisation;
•The requirements of the Employment Equity Act which places pressure on
organisations of all sizes to eradicate all forms of unfair discrimination and to provide
for the accelerated training and promotion of individuals from historically
disadvantaged groups;
•The impact employment equity has on the organisation’s strategic plan;
•The need for leadership;
•Awareness of the needs of an increasingly diverse workforce; and
•The need for succession planning and management development.
Why is Mentorship important?
Wh
y is m
en
torsh
ip
imp
ortan
g
Mentors perform the following functions and roles:
•act as a source of information on the mission and goals of the organisation;
•provide insight into the organisation’s philosophy of human resource development;
•teach specific skills, effective behaviour and how to function in the organisation;
•provide feedback on observed behaviour;
•coach activities that will add to experience and skill development;
•serve as a confidante in times of personal crisis and problems; and
•assist the protégé
•provide insight into the organisation’s philosophy of human resource development;
•teach specific skills, effective behaviour and how to function in the organisation;
•provide feedback on observed behaviour;
•coach activities that will add to experience and skill development;
•serve as a confidante in times of personal crisis and problems; and
•Assist the protégé in plotting a career path.
Mentor Relationship Levels
Me
nto
r R
elatio
nsh
ip
Leve
ls
It is possible to categorise
mentorship into three pillars,
each pillar consisting of four
levels.
MENTORSHIP RELATIONSHIPS
Level Mentoring Activity Benefit for Protégé Mentor Investment
1 Teaching Critical Skills Time
2 Personal support Support Emotional
3 Organisation Intervention
Protects protégé Relationships
4 Sponsoring Supports promotion Own reputation
Level I – The Teaching Functions
Me
nto
rship
Le
vel 1
Teaching the job
The mentor imSales a feel for the job,
knowledge of the skills needed to perform it,
and information on trends in the field. The
mentor also shows the protégé the best
methods for managing people in the
organisation and the importance of support
from below.
The mentor transfers information about non-skill
aspects of organisational life: politics, the
personalities of corporate managers, and the
correct presentation of self. In general, the
mentor transfers “state secrets” to the protégé –
information about corporate finances and other
classified data
Drawing the organisation
The mentor provides the protégé with a picture of the career paths
available inside and outside the corporation. This often involves
redirecting the protégé from his chosen path especially into a field
more suited to the protégé’s skills.
Career Guidance
Level II – The Personal Support Function
Me
nto
rship
Le
vel II
Mentor helps protégé overcome pressures and
strains accompanying transition to positions of
greater responsibility. Accentuates positive factors of
new position. ImSales a sense of perspective.
Psychological Support
Through various attitudinal and behavioural mechanisms, mentor builds protégé’s sense
of confidence. If in a position to do so, allows protégé to assume greater responsibility.
Confidence Building
Mentor helps protégé deal with family pressures,
personal dilemmas, and conflicts that interfere
with job performance
Assistance with personal life
Level III – Organisational Intervention
Me
nto
rship
Le
vel III
Mentor provides support environment around protégé by
intervening in conflicts and situations that endanger
protégé’s organisational advancement. Protégé’s
careers are often negatively affected by weak or
threatened supervisors, requiring mentor intervention.
Mentor can also mitigate negative career effects of
merger, reorganisations.
Protection
Mentor advertises protégé’s good qualities to senior
management. Helps protégé gain visibility at in house
interfaces and outside meetings. Protégé does not seem
self-aggrandising or self-promoting.
Marketing the Candidate
Mentor utilises his position to make available to protégé
money, resources, and supply and communication lines that
would ordinarily be unavailable to a junior member.
Access to Resources
Level IV – Promotion techniques
Me
nto
rship
Le
vel V
o Increase of title.
o Expansion of function.
o Manipulation of political factors
Direct
o Getting protégé admission into in-house training programs
o Helping protégé gain admission into key management programs.
o Helping protégé obtain prestige appointments on trade periodicals,
professional journals.
Indirect
Mentorship Process
Me
nto
rship
P
roce
ss
IDENTIFY
MENTORS
IDENTIFY
PROTEGÉ
Right
Mentor
Right
Mentor
MATCH
MENTORS &
PROTEGÉ
TRAIN
MENTORS
& PROTEGÉ
DEVELOPMENT PLANS
ARE DISCUSSED &
FORMULATED
REGULAR
FEEDBACK
DISCUSSIONS
ARE
CONDUCTED
Mentorship Process
The mentoring process is based on the
elements of the training and development
strategy of the organisation. There are
four phases in implementing a mentoring
program.
Phase 1: Identification of Mentors and Protégés
Ph
ase 1
: Id
en
tification
STEP ACTION DETAIL
Step 1
Mentor candidates identified
The goal is to have an adequate pool of mentors to make appropriate matches with protégés. Alternatively, mentors may be nominated by protégés. Voluntarism indicates interest in the program and a willingness to act as a committed mentor.
Step 2
Mentor candidates screened
Mentor candidates should be screened using a combination of interviews and assessments. Each potential mentor is interviewed to determine commitment to the process and identify specific behavioural skills required for his/her role. Mentors require specific attributes and skills to carry out their role effectively: strong interpersonal skills; good organisational knowledge; excellent leadership skills; technical competence; willingness to be responsible for the growth of a colleague; ability to share credit; and patience and risk taking
Step 3
Protégé candidates
identified
The program should ultimately be open to all staff members. Protégés can either volunteer to participate in the Mentorship process, or line management can nominate the. Typical requirements of a protégé include: a willingness to assume responsibility for his/her growth and development; a protégé should be goal oriented; actively seek challenging assignments and greater responsibility; and Protégés need to be receptive to feedback and coaching.
Step 4 Protégé candidates screened
A similar process of screening to that of the mentor should be considered. The protégés are interviewed to determine commitment to the process as well as being assessed.
Phase 2: Matching Mentors and Protégés
Ph
ase 2
: M
atchin
g
Phase 2: Matching Mentors and Protégés
The primary objective of this phase is to match every protégé with his/her first or
second choice of mentor. The matching process involves considering the following
steps:
•The specific area in which the protégé wants to be developed. A matrix is compiled
to determine skills that can be matched to mentors.
•However, the most important matching criteria would obviously be compatibility
between the protégés development goals and the mentor’s knowledge, skills and
experience in the requisite area
Phase 3: Training of Mentors and Protégés
Ph
ase 3
: Train
ing
Training Focus Points
Mentor Skills
Active listening
Role clarity/expectations
Interpersonal negotiations
Leadership/delegating
Conflict resolution
Teaching
Giving feedback
Coaching/counselling
Role modelling
Successor ship planning
Motivating others
Fostering creativity
Training Focus Points
Protégé skills
Active listening
Role clarity/expectations
Interpersonal negotiations
Conflict resolution
Effective learning
Receiving feedback
Self-appraisal
Communications
Leadership/influence
Assertiveness
Independence
Phase 4: Development Contracts
Ph
ase 4
: D
eve
lop
me
nt STEP ACTION DETAIL
Step 1
Agreement negotiated
A clear agreement is an essential foundation of a good
mentor/protégé relationship. The agreement should include:
confidentiality requirements;
the duration of the relationship;
he frequency of meetings;
the time to be invested in mentoring activities by each
party;
the specific role of the mentor; and
the skill/learning requirements of the protégé
Step 2
Development plan executed
The protégé and mentor then work through their
development plan as negotiated in their agreement. This step
is the core of the mentoring process and continues as long
as the protégé requires assistance
Step 3
Periodic meetings/ intervention
Programs
Most mentor and protégés meet for performance planning,
coaching and feedback sessions. The frequency of these
meetings depends on the nature of the relationship. Six
monthly intervention programs to assess relationships
between the three parties are recommended in order to
ensure that areas of concern are constructively managed
and that learning about the process is ongoing.
Factors to Consider when Implementing a Mentoring Programme
Factors to
co
nsid
er
•Senior management support. This is most actively
demonstrated where senior management actually takes on
protégés, thus acknowledging the importance of the mentorship
intervention.
•Implement mentoring as part of the human resource strategy
rather than in isolation.
•Voluntary participation of mentors and protégés is critical and
assists in ensuring commitment.
•Ensure that mentors have the expertise, power and resources
(especially time!) to assist protégés to develop.
•Train the mentor in appropriate knowledge and skills; make
sure the mentor understands his/her role.
•Ensure that the mentor and protégé spend sufficient time
together. Make mentoring part of their job, rather than an
addition to it.
•Monitor and evaluate the program on a continual basis and be
prepared to intervene in relationships that are deteriorating.
•Recognise and reward the contributions of a mentor.
•Vow for flexibility within the program.
•Respect the natural dynamics in the relationship and allow
them time to mature.
•Ensure that the protégés receive training on mentoring skills
and establish realistic expectations for the program.
End En
d
This concludes the e-learning module for developing the Sales Team
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