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Man in the Mirror
By Bryan Ngonzi2/12/11
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ORIGIN OF MIRRORS
One day Narcissus saw his reflection in the water and fell in love with it, that was the first mirror.Men then made mirrors to get a close up look at themselves.Mirrors work by reflection and People are like mirrors they only reflect back to us what we show them.
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Mirror Mirror on the wall what do you see?
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The Most written and spoken about topics have at their center, a mirror
• Leadership • Success
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The Highest Common Multiple• So what is the common factor of
leaders and the ultra successful people?
• Confidence
• It is all in the Mirror. • What do you see in yourself
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• If you don’t see success no one will see it in you
• If you don’t see Leadership, no one will see it in you.
• Remember people will only reflect to us what we show them.
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Confidence is the Key
• For anyone to achieve anything of significant magnitude in their career, personal life or their finances, they must believe unequivocally that they have got what it takes to achieve that goal plan or dream.
• Every leader and successful person exudes Confidence.
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Elements of confidence
Self Confidence
Self Esteem
Self Belief
Self Perception
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Self Perception
Perception is the spectacles with which you see yourself .
In essence you will project onto others what you see in yourself,
If you see yourself as a failure, so will others
If you see yourself as a nobody so will others.
On the other hand if you see a Leader, a success, a good friend, a dependable person only then will other people see these qualities in you.
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SELF ESTEEMYOUR INSULATION FROM A HARD WORLD
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Self Esteem
• Is feeling good about yourself, believing that you are awesome.
• Its about loving yourself and holding yourself in high regard.
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Fall in love with yourself because;1. you are perfect the way you are
2. only you will be with you to the end, you might want to enjoy your company.
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The Second Commandment
• Love your neighbor as you love yourself.
• You cant give what you don’t have
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SELF BELIEF Confidence is nothing more than believing that you’ve got what it takes
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DREAM BIG AND BELIEVE
• Confident people tend to exhibit a Big Dreamers Complex
• They dream so big and believe in their dreams so much they act as though it has already happened.
• Lets dream now…..
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Your Big Hairy Audacious Goal
• Use the piece of paper given to you to dream a dream so big that it could scare you.
• Imagine;• - money is not a problem• - time is not a problem• Write it down
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• Be not afraid only believe. Mark 5:36
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• There is no substitute to self belief in the building of confidence and ultimately in the achievement of significance in life.
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Where does your self belief come from
• Your Experiences• What people say about you (
outside programming)• What you say about yourself
(Internal programming
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YOUR EXPERIENCES• Every experience you have been
through in life has been deposited forever in your subconscious mind.
• If you’ve failed in the past you could adopt a belief that you are a failure
• However those who live to their potential have learned to turn every negative experience into learning points
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• If you want to increase your chances of success, double your rates of failure
Thomas Watson founder of IBM
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WHAT PEOPLE SAY
we really can’t decide what people will say about us, but we can decide if we will believe it or not.
What people say about us is their opinion of us not the Truth of who we are
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What you say about yourself
• From the Fullness of a mans heart the mouth speaks
• As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. Jesus
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HOW TO PROJECT CONFIDENCE1. How you greet people2. Your voice3. Your posture4. Your facial expressions5. Your wrapping
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summery• Confidence is the common
denominator between leadership and success the things we all want to achieve.
• People want to be with and work with confident people because confidence rubs on.
• Confident people never have to belittle others to feel better about themselves.