Living Together, Living Apart: Mixed Status Families and US Immigration Policy
Living in families
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LIVING IN FAMILIES
Adapted from Chapter 2“The Developing Child” 7th Edition
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WHAT IS A FAMILY?
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WHAT IS A FAMILY? A group of 2 or more people who care
about each other and are committed to each other
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TYPES OF FAMILIES Nuclear
Extended
Single-Parent
Blended
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NUCLEAR FAMILY A family group with two generations –
mother, father and children – sharing the same household
Some included adopted and foster children Adoption is the legal process in which
people obtain the permanent right to raise a child who is not biologically theirs
Foster children are those whose parents or other close family members are unable to care for him or her
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THE EXTENDED FAMILY A family group that includes relatives
other than parents and children within a single household
Examples include: Grandparents raising grandchildren Grandparents living with children and
grandchildren
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SINGLE – PARENT FAMILY A family group that consists of one
parents and one+ children sharing a household
Single parenting puts great demands on parent unless there is a support system in place
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BLENDED FAMILY A family group that consists of a married
couple and at least one child from a parent’s previous relationship
Also called a “step-family”
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EXAMPLES FROM POP CULTURE Nuclear Blended
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EXAMPLES FROM POP CULTURE Single Parent Extended
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FAMILY LIFE CYCLE A series of stages in a predictable order
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FAMILY LIFE CYCLE Beginning
Stage
Childbearing Stage
Child – Rearing Stage
Launching Stage
Empty – Nest Stage
Retirement Stage
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FAMILY LIFE CYCLE Beginning stage
Couple works to establish a home and marriage
Childbearing stage Prepares and adjusts
to parenthood Child-rearing stage
As children grow, parents work to meet their children’s changing needs and help them develop
Launching stage Children gradually
leave home and support themselves
Empty-nest stage After the last child
leaves home, the couple adjusts to life without rearing children
Retirement stage Couple adjusts to
aging process
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FAMILY LIFE CYCLE Variations
Single adulthoodSingle parenthood DivorceRemarriageCouples without children Adult children who move back in with
parents
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TRENDS AFFECTING FAMILIES Changing Family Roles
Less clearly defined now Increasing numbers of families are headed
by single parents or by two employed parents
Mobile Society Individuals and families move often Causes families to lack close, supportive
connections with friends and relatives Awareness of Family Values
Many believe in government supporting and encouraging families
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STRENGTHENING FAMILIES Commitment
A pledge or promise of loyalty
Time together Doing various
activities Communication
Open communication is essential to a strong family system
Appreciation Affirm each other Each family member is
appreciated for who they are
Shared beliefs Usually based on the
teachings and practice of an organized religion
Coping skills Techniques that help
people solve a problem or adapt to a situation
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WHAT IS A PARENT? Caretaker of the
offspring of their own species. Biological parent: sire
of child; shares DNA Adoptive parent: one
who nurtures and raises the offspring of the biological parents but is not actually biologically related to the child
A parent changes roles throughout the years During childhood, a
parent is the caretaker and supporter of child
During teen/early adulthood, parents become advisers and mentors
During mid adulthood, parents are friends and confidants
During the parents elderly years, they become dependant on their children, and roles are reversed.
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ARE YOU READY TO BE A PARENT? New responsibilities
Life long commitment Will need to manage time, money, energy,
knowledge, and skills Changes in lifestyle
Parents have limited personal freedom Emotional Adjustments
Anxiety Fear Frustration Doubts Financial worry
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ARE YOU READY TO BE A PARENT? Changes in relationships
Take new feelings out on spouse May feel there is less in common with
friendsStrained relationships with extended family
due to “advice” May feel closer to own parents
Emotional maturity Putting baby’s needs above your own
Desire for parenthood Health considerations
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ARE YOU READY TO BE A PARENT? Management skills
What are the family’s needs and wants?What are the family’s goals?
Financial considerationsWhat are the family’s expenses? Can a child be added into the budget?
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WHY PARENT? Unsound reasons
Our marriage is in trouble. A baby will solve our problems
A baby is someone who will love me and belong to me
I feel like I’m nobody. Being a parent will make me feel like somebody
Sound reasons Having children will
add depth to our relationship
I want to give a baby my care and love
I feel good about myself. Parenthood will be a meaningful and rewarding experience
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WHY PARENT? Unsound reasons
I want someone who will take care of me when I am old
Our parents want
grandchildren
Sound reasons I want to
experience the special bond between parent and child that lasts a lifetime
I love children and I want to be a parent
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EXIT SLIP Why is it important to make decisions
about parenthood before pregnancy begins?
What effects do you think an unplanned pregnancy can have on a married couple?