Level II Counselling Skills Session Five
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Refraining and Attending
Session 5
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Reflective Journal
Progress Report
Introduction
Skills Assessm
ent
The Helping
Role
rapport building
Attending and
Refraining
Paraphrasing
Reflecting
Feelings
The Change Model
Questioning Skills
Bringing it all
together&
Final Assessm
ent
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Session Aims
Introduce learners to the principles and practice of refraining and attending and explore the importance of self awareness when using listening skills.
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Learning Outcomes
By the end of this session you will be able to:
1. Describe what is meant by refraining and
attending
2. Demonstrate the ability to refrain and attend
3. Reflect on your learning in small groups
4. Identify reasons for developing self-awareness.
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Last Session
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Contents of this Session
Ice-breaker: Draw to WinRefraining and Attending: Definitions
and PractiseBringing it TogetherTriads with Feedback SheetsImportance of Self-awareness when
Listening
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Refraining and Attending
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Refraining
Putting on hold the urge to interrupt with your opinions and advice. Resisting the desire to “fix” problems or ask questions.
Attending
Focusing all of your attention on the speaker: what they say, how they say it and what they do not say.
The aim is to remain within your client’s frame of reference
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Refraining and Attending Exercise 20 Minutes
Find a partner you haven’t worked with much
Take turns - you have 10 minutes each to talk about:
“What I have enjoyed and what I have found challenging about my first few weeks on this course”
Notice what it feels like to refrain and attend to the speaker.
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Feedback
What was rapport like?
How easy or how difficult was refraining and attending?
In what ways (if any) did you sabotage the exercise?
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Unfamiliar and Different?
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Bringing it Together
EnvironmentRapportContractRefrainingAttending
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Feedback Sheets
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TriadsObser
ver
Listener
Speaker
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Comfort Break
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Bringing it Together Exercise
Using the skills you have learnt over the last few
weeks.
Get into Triads
Share out the time
Identify a small problem or dilemma in your life that
you can comfortably talk about
Take turns as the speaker, listener and observer
The observers role is to manage time and provide
written feedback to the listener
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Self-Awareness
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Ernest Hemingway (1899 – 1961)
“When people talk, listen completely. Most people never listen”.
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Conclusions
You are now able to:
1. Describe what is meant by refraining and
attending
2. Demonstrate the ability to refrain and attend
3. Reflect on your learning in small groups
4. Identify reasons for developing self-awareness.
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Next Week
Please bring your reflective journals to class for peer feedback
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Thank You Everybody!